liveLongNprospa: Lmao I agree with the first 3 paragraphs. You see the last 2 is where I disagree. Na suffer head make some of us dey consider certain things as love.
So you believe say as I dey like this, I get enough money then I go come dey allow my wife enter kitchen for where I fit employ chef ni.
This life big and there are alot of activities you can do with that free time to bond and show why marriage is awesome. Lool..
No matter how rich I am, my wife must cook the food I eat at home or I cook it myself. No third party is coming in as a chef to cook.
See how you paint cooking like it's one big deal. How many hours does it take to cook? If anything takes away the time for proper bonding in marriages, it's kids with their plenty wahala and certainly not cooking.
izzou: [color=royalblue]If you create a thread stating why Men should cook, i will not argue or defend why we shouldn't
I said it before...Everybody should know how to cook.
I served in Kebbi state, and i cooked from my first day after Camp till i left
There was no buka. If anyone did not know how to cook, or try to learn, you will eat bread till you eventually die. This has nothing to do with whether you have money or not
Cooking is necessary, and instead applauding women who can't, encourage them to learn.
I am also happy you are stating your opinion. It is good. But it is not a true reflection of our world.
You can do a survey of married men here that have wives that can't cook, and pay chefs to do the job. Let us see how many they are[/color]
liveLongNprospa: Lmaoooo... So what if it's a case of the woman working and the man not working... Who should be cooking? Or the woman earning way more and the man earning less.. Who should be cooking seeing as the woman handles more responsibilities 😁
This small thing wey you put here is why many Nigerian marriages crash. The man doesn't work or earns little, the woman works and pays the bills, the man sits at home all day long and won't lift a finger. The woman comes back from her daily hustle to start washing and cooking.
Eventually she starts wondering if she even needs a man in her life, attitude kicks in and before you know it, divorce.
I always tell men, if you stay at home and don't work, the least you can do is support with domestic chores. It won't kill you nor take anything away from you.
Having said that, I can't marry a woman who does not know not how to cook. All these employ a cook thing is nonsense and is exactly why a lot of men run from marriages these days.
The argument they make is, If I have to employ a maid to wash, employ a cook to cook and I can get a baby mama, why do I need marriage?
uvie66: eh hen oya elaborate more please on the type of investment that will yield over 10mil per year on an investment capital of 15 million, because I want to come back home.
500 pounds monthly is not 10m per year. Use the 20m example he gave, invest it in a conservative commercial paper at 14% and reinvest your interest.
14% of 20m will give you an interest of 2.8m. If you reinvest , 14% of 2.8m will give you 392k. 14% of 392k will give you 54880. 14% of that will give 7600. 14% of 7600 will give you 1000 .
Add all the earned interests and convert to pounds. It comes to about 350 pounds a month without lifting a finger. Note that I used a very conservative 14% interest rate. I've seen higher interests.
liveLongNprospa: Them mostly not dey reason that way. As far as your wife is looking great it shows that you are responsible for that in one way or the other and that raises your stock 🙏.
If you are a man that shows off how beautiful your wife is or in anyway show how you take care of her.. Women will chase you even more.
It's a very funny thing🤣
My WhatsApp profile picture is always either my wife, kids or both. Never my own picture. Maybe na wetin dem dey see forgetting that the woman works and not entirely dependent on me.
liveLongNprospa: Nah forget.. Nigerian married men have audacity 🤣🤣
Forget, na the women dey encourage us .
For some strange reasons, I have more women(both single and married) hitting on me now that I'm married compared to when I was single. I used to do the chasing, now they do the chasing.
DeadPresidents: Marriage in the West is a two-edged sword. E get why Ibime and Nihilist are married whilst living in Europe. For example, you typically pay lower taxes when you’re married as your wife’s income is part of the tax returns equation.
The flip side of marriage is the one demonstrated with Thierry Henry and Ashley Cole when their wives divorced them.
Omo, this thing na just to find woman with better earning power so if e set, you’re safe financially.
Wetin concern be the point when in the event of divorce, you lose everything you "saved" on tax?
The woman will even be lucky to go to his papa house 🏠 in one piece
Not to talk of having entitlement of what and what not to share
Women dey even get mind to leave? Leave and go where? And all because of what? The man cheated? Many married women know their husbands are cheating. The men don't even hide it and the women have learnt to live with it or also cheat
If you see any group of Naija girls either on twitter or on Instagram threatening to leave a cheating man, just know they are not married.
Peter or was it Paul of P square continously cheated on the wife. She gree leave? Even when they eventually separated, I'm sure the cheating thing was part of why she left and not the main reason.
GloriousGbola: Western women ehn. They will take the house, the kids, half your money, child support, the car and your sanity. Slap you with restraining order on top.
The whole mgtow movement came about because of this. Whatever disparities the system was supposed to address are now being abused by cunny women and their lawyers.
This thing no make any sense sha. I wonder why men over there bother with marriage. God knows I wouldn't.
FineUsername: Thanks guys. @olumzz, itsrm. I didn’t purchase the car today again, noticed that the vehicle was used here but not registered. The available direct 2017 was above my budget.
It may not necessarily be a bad buy depending on when it was cleared and the price. Anyway, it's a popular vehicle. You'll see another that ticks all boxes for you.
FineUsername: I have plans of picking a 2014 Honda Accord 4plus today but I saw a blog where it was listed as one of the worst accord to avoid? Please how true is this?
airmark: If you know you have attacked me for criticizing Sterling's transfer, come and beg for forgiveness before thunder will fire you.
Certainly not me or you can bring out the post. Me wey be number one Sterling hater from day one
Itsrm: No difference. Miss 100, score one. Werner in that team probably has the same number of goals as Sterling. Werner should never have been sold especially when the replacement is Sterling
uridadole: I have this 1997 model of toyota carena e. The dash board is annoyingly chartered. Given that money to change car is not yet at hand, i wish to source for a complete dash board. Any one with idea on how to ho about this can help.
Why not just wrap a leather over it? In my experience, if the dashboard is prone to cracks, the replacement will also crack. It's only a matter of time.
Ibime: The ball was far off from him cos he never made a move toward the ball
There is no way a ball travels straight in the air for 30 yards to the 6 yard box at that speed and it's not keepers ball
That is keepers ball every day and twice on a Sunday
The reason you didn't see Kepa near Vinicius is the same reason rudiger and co were shouting at Kepa here, nigga will not come to claim any aerial ball, it's not his business. It's a short man syndrome
Ibime: First goal, a keeper that commands his area will collect that ball from Vinicius head. That ball travelled 30 yards at slow pace to the edge of 6 yard box. Long ball that lands in 6 yard box is always the keepers ball
2nd goal he got a fingertip to it. If he was 3 inches taller, that ball would be on his palm, not his fingertips
I no want talk because we had other bigger problems today, but he offers us nothing. He is not good enough, simple
This was my initial reaction till I watched the replay. The ball was quite far off from him. I doubt he would have gotten to that ball before Fofana and Vini. It was Kovacic who failed to close down Carvajal on time and Fofana also slept off or was too slow.