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I don't have EX.

but you have a guy na

Mine, though greedy but she was
Intelligent Caring and I loved her romance life.

Hello Nairalander

Would you be nice enough to tell the public 3 things you missed about you ex?
If this is your first relationship, tell us 3 things you like about him/her.


Seun

Lalasticlala

Rocktation

farano

Mynd44

Promises:they make us, Memories: they break us. Many people have been through this relationship road and many has fallen out. To some, it may be easy for them to get back to their feet, while to others, may seems so impossible to arrange their lives maybe due to the constant lovely memories shared by the duo.

In fact, I had a personal experience of breakup and believe you me, I was devastated. She became a tree planted in my heart, a tree I couldn't uproot. But, I think by now, I would have gotten Over it.
Here, I present the 7 Biggest signs To Show That You Are Still In Love With Your Ex

Notes: MY USING OF "HE" REFERS to BOTH GENDER


1. You Compare Every Guy You Meet To Your Ex

It’s hard to get over a guy – but it’s especially hard when in your heart you think he’s the yardstick by which you should measure every other guy you meet.
If you’re consciously or unconsciously measuring every new guy you meet up against your ex-boyfriend, you’re setting yourself up for failure.

Why? Because if that’s the case, what you really want is your ex… not someone new. And since every guy is different and unique, no one is going to give you exactly what your ex gave you – so no guy is going to satisfy what you’re looking for.
When you put every new guy up against the gold standard of your ex – it might be because you’re still in love with him.

2)Things That Remind You Of Your Ex Make You Emotional

Maybe it’s catching a glimpse of him on social media. Or driving past the restaurant you used to go to.
Or maybe it’s something like noticing that it’s his birthday, or hearing a song on the radio that reminds you of him… you get the idea.

Whatever it is, whenever something reminds you of him it sets you off emotionally.
If that’s what’s happening, then your subconscious is trying to tell you that you have lots of unprocessed feelings about him, and they all come bubbling to the surface when you get reminded of him in an unexpected way.
What are those unprocessed feelings? A lot of the time, it’s because you’re still in love.

3. You’re Still Thinking Of Him – Even After A Long Time

Over time, memories of past relationships start to fade, day by day, until one day you realize you didn’t even think about him all day.

Then you go two days. Then three.Until the time comes where you realize that you don’t really think about him anymore.
That’s what happens to everyone when they get over a breakup.
But what happens when it’s been months, or even years – and you’re still thinking about him?
That means you’re not over him – because even after all that time you’re still in love with him.

4. You Can’t Think Of A Single Bad Thing About The Relationship

Love has been described as wearing rose-tinted glasses when you look at another person.
In other words – they can do no wrong in your eyes, because of the strength of your love for them.

After a relationship ends, once both parties gain perspective on it and on what happened they can see where the relationship was good, and where it was bad. Where things worked, and where they didn’t. They can see what eventually led to the downfall of the relationship.
Gaining perspective like that on a relationship is only possible when you’re not still hung up on your ex.

If you can’t see anything wrong with your relationship – if it still feels like you had the most perfect relationship ever even after things ended… much of the time it’s because you’re still in love with your ex, and still looking at him (and at the relationship) with rose-tinted glasses.

5. Whenever Something Happens In Your Life He’s The First Person You Want To Tell

Humans are social creatures. We’re wired to share our thoughts and feelings, successes and failures, and wins and losses with each other.

When something big happens in life, we tend to go to the people who are most important to us first. We tell the people whose praise we most value, and whose opinion we weigh the most strongly.
So if whenever something news-worthy happens in your life, your first instinct is to go to your ex – it’s because you still value his opinion above anyone else’s in your life… because you could be still in love with him.

6. Your Friends Are Sick Of Hearing About Him

Friends are there to pick you up when you’re down. They’re there to help you out when you’re feeling blue, listen to your troubles when you’re having a hard time, and celebrate with you when things are going well.

Still – every person has their limits. No one wants to hear about the same thing over and over again, especially when they’re trying to help their friend move past it.
If your friends are tired of hearing about your ex-boyfriend, it’s probably because they’ve been waiting for you to get over this guy for too long now, and they’ve grown tired of hearing about it.
If it’s taken so long to get over him that your friends don’t even want to hear about him anymore – it’s a sign that you’re still in love with him.

7. You Can’t Stop Checking His Profiles On Social Media

It’s like an addiction. You know it’s going to hurt you, you know it’s not going to make you feel good, you know that nothing good will come of it – and you still check on him on social media.

Obviously, in the first days and weeks after a breakup, it’s nearly impossible to avoid looking at your ex’s social media. It won’t help you, and it will make you feel like crap, but it’s nearly impossible to resist.
That’s totally normal. Where it veers into “maybe you’re still in love with him” territory is when you can’t stop checking his social media… even 6 months or a year or years after you’ve broken up.

At that point, it’s less about the freshness of the breakup, and far more about the fact that you’re still carrying a flame for him, and that your love for him hasn’t ever really gone away.

So if you find yourself nodding along with this sign along with a few of the others, I hate to break it to you but you’re probably still in love with him.

This article showed you the signs you’re still in love with your ex. It only takes strong minds to get away with heart breaks.

Source : http://www.romancegoal.com/2018/03/see-7-signs-to-know-youre-still-in-love.html?m=1

Seun
Mynd44
Lalasticlala
Rocktation
farano

I was strongly in love, I was overwhelmed having someone that was more mature, experienced and has everything I needed in a man.
Tall, dark,handsome with pink lips… oh my! Fast forward to now…well, I love him still, but here is my story.

It happened on the 3rd of December 2012 when I was asked to follow back on Twitter due to my nawti tweets. I did follow back, and from that moment there wasn’t a day without us talking. We shared every secret and family information. We told each other what happened in our daily lives. We cheered each other up during bad and good times. Things became so real, and to think that I hadn’t seen this person before.
My feelings for DONALD grew like wildfire every single day. I was in a bad place in my relationship but it ended not because of him. I ended my relationship on reasons that I wasn’t finding myself in the person I was dating. DONALD had a gf too but I didn’t care; I wanted him for myself. He was the “PERFECT GUY” for me. We had our first fight like a child’s play and we resolved because the feeling was too strong to stay away from each other. Then, we decided to meet!

We met on a Sunday afternoon around 2pm. I was speechless when I finally saw him. He was everything and more. We talked, held each others hands and laughed at things we had said on the phone and in chats; then he planted this kiss on my lips. I remember closing my eyes to imagine being Cinderella who just got her ‘ TRUE LOVE ‘ kiss. After he left, the feelings became crazy as we started loving each other with words and expression (not physically) I wanted to be the best woman for him.

The second meeting took place at my house. He had come around my area for some work and thought to see me before he going back. My brother’s girlfriend was home and she met him. She completely liked him and wanted us to be more. Before he left I kissed him passionately because I wanted to keep a reminder in his head that I wanted to be with him.

We started having issues in February when I wanted time with him. I understood his work schedule and how busy he could be but I needed time with him. Then on March 15th I got a text message from him. I knew the message wasn’t mine when I read it.

Apparently, he wanted to send the message to his girlfriend but it got to me, and at the end of the message it read ‘I LOVE YOU’.
I was in shackles! I felt my world crashing down, I cried and cried, not because he still loved her, but also because the time I craved to share with him was also to be shared with her.

I was in pain and was confused. He called to explain things to me. I believed him but my heart was stabbed. I still wanted him and this time I put so much pressure on him. It was too much for him and he took a decision to end it with both I and his girlfriend. I begged him and wanted to hate him but to no avail. I still love him till date. I wish I could have him back.

I could have done better, I could have reacted better. I could have made better decisions, I know. I wish it was possible to turn back the hands of time. I love him, I miss him, I still want him back. Hopefully, he will return to me someday…soon.


Source: http://www.romancegoal.com/2018/03/he-broke-up-with-me-but-i-still-love-him.html?m=1#more

How terrible is wisdom when it brings no profit to a Man that's wise. R.I.p

NairalandCS:
The doctor told you she was dead and you kept on praying ? For 5 good hours ?

When you tell people to stop reading that story book called the bible now they'll start talking rubbish.

Yes, a word from a a nobody like you. What is your achievement? probably typing from the gutter you called a house. You must be thinking that you're sensible abi?
"Alas, how terrible is wisdom when in brings no profit to a man that's wise."
Infact, l should just liken you to "King Lear" nonsense.

Public or Private company?

sage101:
Teddy issa FOOL. Disgracing himself because of MEAT.




#FeministsRule

Shut it. You are no Feminist.

Nina for the Money. God bless her

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Students of Imo State University has shown love for their own by campaigning for Nina today in love garden. T-shirts where freely shared and prizes where also won.

During the campaign, the campaign officials urges the students to vote Nina as it may be their turn tomorrow. Just two days ago, two massive billboards was erected for Nina.

MrsNwaAmaikpe:


Have you heard of the saying "All die na die"?

It was time for the man to die, so he died. @30 years, he doesnt have his own house, what a wasted life!

Very boring lines.

FanYogo1:
Thank goodness this wasn't the IDP camp in Ebonyi or Abia. Those refugees wey dey run to Lagos are already suffering.

Very boring. Guy, you need to be creative. Very weak lines

Wetin be this na? I been they expect big thing. na wa oh

Bro, sorry for you lose.. Same happened to me when I lost my Mum on the 20th Oct 2016.. I felt like dying with her. Up till now, I can't still forget because, she was the closest person to me. Bro, it really hurts, and it never goes away. You just have to accept such feelings as they are.

See confident breast abeg

Exam Malpractice

You that have not been listening to them, have you become any of them? idiot.

dederocs:
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saaedlee:
him head resemble

like cone heads

dudebuck:
What is the difference between what you typed above and what Nnamdi kanu has been saying?

Be us really confused.

DeadRat:
After I Read Your english All I Felt for You Was Pity

And the one you just typed up there is correct right?

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Just like the book "Other Side of The Mask" by Esiaba Irobi, Jamike had to die for before he was recognized.

Literature truly is the Reflection of Life.

Op, your brain need serious surgery. Why you dey allow woman way done move on control you like toy? And please, respect yourself and stop doing like mugu while chatting with her. I dey shame for you.

And one thing more, I am not voting.

lol

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Very dumb method for a Professor. Besides, this is a fat lie.

Northerner will never use their wit. I Just watched the video and believe you me, I wasn't surprised. imagine hailing people who occasionally slaughter your people like goats. it's such a shame.

According to the fool in Shakespeare's work, king Lear "They are all O without a figure."