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True talk, lol @ possessing your possession

Jerie: But come o, if we calculate am, if pesin carry gal comot buy am isi-ewu and stout lyk 3K come carry d gal bang am for house TDB like 5 rounds no be bad deal. No be say i dey support mumuism, It's notin personal, just bizness..

i understand you but i believe these days that am worth more than that, i don't go after a girl just because of punny but her personality as well .

RedBenson: @ATMC, we never said its wrong to take a girl out. But some habits exhibited by some guys wen going out is d problem here. Why shld a guy buy suya wit his money and eats d onions while d girl eats d main suya? Is dat ok? Another would buy 3 plates of pepper soup 4 a girl, while d girl consumes it, he would sit down and look her like a sick goat and be drinking pure water. If d money cant afford two of u equal decent meal, better dont go out @ all. That is d point.

Btw, wen last did u go out wit a guy and u opted to offset d bill and d guy said "NO"?

i feel you, its lack of maturity on the parts of guys ,who do that and inexperience. I have realized that if a girl likes and wants to be with you , she will . You don't need to buy her or her affections. If she shows those attitudes ,better pick your bags.

ATMC: I tire for you guys. Ok after all these fuss what next? If you take a girl out na and she wan pay for herself you will feel 'inferior' if she leaves d bill for you, you feel being used...wetin sef? You never hear say nature made it like dt to help boost una ego. Abeg make i hear word...after all these noise on top this thread, you go dey sing chop my money...'bishru'

life is in stages and as we pass through those stages we learn and mature . As a male as you go through relationships , you learn to understand the female folk and how to handle them. As i and some us look back with hindsight we may see ,where we entered wrong r/ships or allow somethings in it that we should have stood up against . We accept our mistakes and they make us better for the next r/ship. May have behaved as the character in the op's tale at a point in my life but i can't behave that . Why ? I have learnt from my past r/ships . I don't give people now ,more than they are worth. Have learnt the value of my money,time and emotions and will not waste them any how or allow another do so for me. What most often happens is that because of fear or conginatus , guy over do and became mugu to impress ladies who do not care for them ,just because of the punny.

These girls self, the guy don fall mugu enough and now his pockets dey tell am how far . Whatever he has done for you is just that. You are not his responsibility.

Barca need a coach as soon as possible or they would also exist the champions league.

nicefeeling: Well I sincerely agree with ur objectivity. The Op's story reminds of suituation I found myself in way back, if my bf had meet me in that kind of circumstance, he might just assume that the worst has happened between myself and the other guy, of which nothing happened. Assumption, they say is the mother of all f_ck ups. So the Op should not assume that because his gf came to meet a guy in an hotel means she was hoping to be bleeped. She might just be bored and excitement of meeting new people is her idea of fun!
But wat keeps nagging at me is...why keep a private number?

one of my ex failed such a test, i forgave her, but i knew from that day that i was not going to marry her, found it hard trusting her after that.

ITbomb: Another helpless Nigerian girl looking for a financier with a punny as collateral

priceless B-)

When people become desperate for marriage , when they feel time is against them especially the female , these wouldn't make sense to them. But you are so so on point.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I disagree for no reason[/quote]that must be love.