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raumdeuter:
Also husband and wife matter difficult to chook mouth and given the way Roby was simping all through, if dem give am advise sef, Na wetin he go use gist for his Mayowa to entertain her when she calls

Timi: Guy you sure say this girl wey don dey live with another man, dey say make you sleep for couch, no dey show you any affection, dey talk to you anyhow on chat, really never check out of this marriage wey you dey hang onto

Later than Night

Robby to Mayowa: I get gist for you, Imagine Timi been dey suggest say maybe you no like me again, Dey even talk say maybe you dey nack the guy wey dey live with you, dey talk say maybe you discipling me by telling me to sleep on couch na sign say you no love me, or refusing to kiss or show any affections to me na big deal? Imagine that kain friend, Maybe he is even jealous sef that I was able to marry you

Make dem just help am get gigs and land his feet, Once man get money and sort finances most of his problems don solve

Seeing how he was hurting, the best they could do is to advise him.

No form of intimacy anymore

Which time of way e wan take gist Mayowa on anything? He was basically irritating her.

They tried sha. For the fact say e no use 3rd Mainland bridge, shows they helped him

raumdeuter:
I am more in this school of thought. Friends should tell friends the bitter truth. I am not sure Timi and his other friends will put up with what he did.

They should help him snap to reality quick and help him with connection to get a job/steady gig

Exactly.

With how open he was during the podcast, he would have said so, if they did

GloriousGbola:
You cannot intervene in your guy or gal love matter. You have to let them sort the problem by themselves

I'm not asking for Timi to intervene

I'm saying he never mentioned that Timi, or any of his friends snapped him to reality.

Anytime he's depressed, they come around and cheer him up. If he heard this bitter pill from them, maybe 10 years for no reach

raumdeuter:
If you have been with a woman for 1-2yrs living together doing raw steady, depending only on withdrawal method and you never give am belle once

Either of you might have fertility issues

It's definitely playing penalty to Throw- in

Roland17:
Another important life lesson from the Roby & Mayowa story.:

Men, try get correct friend like Timi Dakolo!

Throughout the interview Roby talked about the role Timi played during his darkest moments.

Timi stood by his guy, supported his guy, traveled with him, borrow am car, ensured he was always good, never judged him..

And nobody hear pim..

Timi u b correct guy

True.

Also, Timi might have been pampering him, rather than giving him the hard truth of letting go.

He never mentioned for once that his friends told him to end it. Dem sef "Pamper" am, in my opinion

raumdeuter:
I gave a detailed response to all of them. All of them without good grades are useless, You can easily find yourself running cybercafe or Computer center teacher too.

Getting into oil companies is very competitive and open to all Engineering fields, In Nigeria I will say less than 2% of all Engineering graduates enter Oil companies, Even if you study Electrical Engineering, you can be hired as a reservoir Engineer and be trained on the job. So what happens to the other 98%. That is what knocks out Petroleum for me unless you are heavily connected

Sorry, my eye been dey turn me. I thought it was you who made the post

Sometimes, firing blanks can be mistaken for a tight withdrawal game too

Just saying

Raumdeuter

Petroleum and Chemical, but he must have his eyes beyond the shores of this country, or at least hit good grades to make the shortlist of the big oil firms

Lest he becomes a Chemistry Teacher

There's no point wasting 4 years on Cyber security. You can get certified online for lesser time

abduleez1:
Him use him own mouth talk am say "him be striker wey bi fit score goal".

All my friends dey call me Number 10
Cuz I dey play like Okocha
Dey score like Ronaldinho

Amigoos1:
Women of nowadays are just more lazy compared to women of the past. Our mothers did all house chores required and still worked at farms. The man can help if he willingly wants to but it's a privilege not a right unless In special circumstances like sickness or pregnancy.

Traditional Edo man

pocohantas:
That message is what should have been the actual dealbreaker because asides the issues on ground, the kinda anger in her words should have told a sane man it is over. But then, couples get angry all the time and some say worse things. They still continue the marriage. Maybe he was banking on such miracle. Or maybe you are right, because the more I see their pictures, the more I notice something was never right.

You no well

semid4lyfe:
He's performed abysmally in terms of worker's welfare.

1. Wage award payment- Six months 35k wage award that FG agreed with organized labour to pay to cushion the effect of subsidy removal has dragged on for over two years, and has not been completed. I think one/two months is still outstanding. The times FG paid was due to threats of strike by unions.

2. Salary delays in MDAs - For us wey dey Federal Tertiary Educational Institutions, its even worse cos we don commot IPPIS. The earliest I have received my salary this year is 6th. Memos start flying around from the Bursary Units of Institutions, and the excuse is always "no cash backing from Accountant General Office" which is in the Ministry of Finance.

3. Promotion without cash backing - Person go get promotion to the next level but na only for paper. The salary adjustment will be delayed, and dem fit no pay the arrears sef.

4. Unpaid allowances boku across MDAs.

5. Non release/lean overhead releases - Many MDAs can't fund routine and basic office operations, especially in their state offices.

6. I hear say hin shine eye for hin ministry, and begin dey put eye for work attendance and staff attitude.

Na wa oh

Abi na dem strike am with illness?

Just saw a video of Ministry workers placing a casket, with Wale Edun's picture, and signing a condolence register, celebrating his sack

Na so him bad reach?

Baba take style market himself sha.

E say the least e dey collect na 2.5 million

If I pay Roby 2.5 million, how much I go pay Bovi or Ebuka of BBN?

Theflint1:
Na health issues, he's been struggling with it for a while now, but as typical Nigerian e no wan comot.

Don hear of this talk of him being replaced and to be replaced by Taiwo Oyedele as far back as February. Guess they got tired of him not electing to leave gracefully.

I doubt that it's just health issues.

Tinubu can compel him to resign and he will. Abi if BAT call am for phone to resign, e go say NO?

Sack is an embarrassing way to treat a man with health issues.

Well, goodluck to him

Asari Dokubo's real name is Melford Goodhead Jnr?

raumdeuter:
Wale Edun has been relieved as Minister of Finance for Taiwo Oyedele

Could this be related to Wale Eduns health?

Dem dey sack person wey get health issues?

Shebi dem go compel am to resign?

BlueRayDick:
Why will Roby who saw the kind of bile and bitterness in tha WhatsApp convo ever agree to any arrangee wedding involving that woman and another man in far away America.

Roby himself didn't call it manipulation but stupidity because that was what it was.

I am not saying he wasn't stewpid. We might just end up roasting Roby, and dismissing the wickedness of Mayowa.

Just like someone who bought a phone in Ikeja packed with fufu.

You can roast him for falling for the scam, but it doesn't change the fact that the crime in itself was by the seller.

raumdeuter:
She was done with the marriage, She was doing everything to further her life, Na Roby dey stuck in his fantasy say he still get marriage

We know.

But what was she using him to further after getting her green card?

You don be citizen, you still dey bill person wey dey earn peanuts for Nigeria.

You bought a house in the US, but still dey pressure person for Lagos to get 100k, 200k.

Any name we call Roby is justified, but make we no just dismiss Mayowa's act like some kind of low key fraud.

If na man do woman this same thing, she fit commit suicide

BlueRayDick:
Roby saw evidence she has checked out since 2017. She showed him different signs by her actions and inactions yet he played dumb further hurting himself.

I don't the lady did much manipulation sef, I think it was Roby's fear that made him captive inside the so-called marriage.

I am really concerned about the kind of friends Roby keeps sha. I believe ideally some of his friends ought to have tried to talk sense into his head if indeed they really love him sha. If they did and he listened, he would've long freed himself of his fears and walk away from the so called marriage. He had a lot of grounds to move on with his life but he just lacked the balls to do so.

As at 2017, she was already texting someone that he irritates her, and she's tired of the marriage.

Yet, she still had the guts to initiate arrangeee marriage...No be manipulation be that?

For someone that disgusts you, he sends money, and you cannot tell him it was over. You cannot even return the bride price and call it off.

I agree that Roby was living in self denial, but she did everything to hurt that guy.

You say you no like am, but you chop him money back to back to back.

raumdeuter:
Pls whats the purpose of the Roy going on the podcast besides going to embarrass himself?

From him, He doesn't have a job, He is likely shooting blanks, He dey talk say he dey nack 1-2 times a week.
You dey cry say woman come back from Yankee, she no hug am, kiss am, She has a male roommate , She dey chase you go living room to sleep

Guy be honest, what is his redeeming factor to a woman? Forget all the things wey we dey talk. Marriage and every relationship is give and take. What is she getting from that relationship and what was he getting to remain in the relationship to be waiting that long

There's no justification to treat a man that way; Heck, a human that way.

Mayowa already checked out of the relationship as at 2017. Why not tell him it was over and move on?

To be honest, I am not against her getting married or all that stories he told. Why manipulate and deceive him until last week?

Yes, Roby sef need a loud resetting slap, but that lady can poison someone if she could.

raumdeuter:
Shebi na Akwa Ibom and Calabar be the same thing.. Forget the state lines wey dem draw, whats the difference?

Honest bunch get celebrities because they are one of the top podcasts which is why celebritis go there

They must be paying some kind of appearance fee.

What this guy shared is too personal for just Celebrities host.

I really feel for the guy sha.

Maybe he was firing blanks

But no human being deserves to be checked out that way.

You kept collecting his money, even up on till 2024. That woman is evil

Abeg, with Roby saying that his wife did "Arrangee marriage" to get green card, will that not land her in trouble?

Roland17:
The entire family is in disarray. So much distrust between siblings. Families usually have issues, siblings quarrel, especially as we get older because we change but this is quite extreme, unfortunate and disappointing.

It is one thing to change last name, it is another to want to change DOB (quite immature, petty and illogical if you ask me), so you have nothing to share with your twin.

Usually, most families have that rallying point, that sibling that keeps everyone together, that keeps it tight, that is respected but e no be like say dem these ones send anybody.

Sadly, the new generation of the family are now drawn into this fight and that is how generational fights continue.

It's pathetic.

For over a decade, these guys have been dragging themselves.

If these ones were poor, dem for don kill themselves

In the voice of Kenny Rogers

You gat to know when to hold
Know when to fold
Know when to walk away
Know when to run

Life gave him enough time to walk away, he refused.

raumdeuter:
That one don pass beef, e don turn mental problem, How o you change your DOB, Will he go to Passport office and invalidate all the previou documents or na just attention seeking?

Initially I thought it was attention seeking but every 3months they release something

Maybe make both of them enter ring and beat themselves. All these Peter do this, paul do this, Jude do this for SM

They should have some shame, they are around 50yrs oh

I no understand this kind hatred.

Na wa

Maybe if they were just average earners, and didn't have this fame, they would be a big happy family

How bad can the beef be between twins, to the extent that one doesn't want his birth date again?

BlueRayDick:
This new movie on Netflix "180" is a good watch and a cautionary tale for people with anger issues.

Personal Opinion : I strongly believe the south African movie industry is miles ahead of Nigerian movie industry/nollywood as far as story telling, cinematography and even continuity is concerned.

I agree with you for some parts.

Cinematography and all those technical parts, they are miles ahead.

But I think our storytelling may be the same or even better. And my opinion is based on a couple of movies, and not just one.

BlueRayDick:
If it's about perception, she could've allowed PR experts help her manage the situation.

A PR person would've advised her to manage the situation differently. For example she could make a video showing the process they use in making the bread, the ingredients which they use (which of course are safe and in line with bread ingredients approved by NAFDAC), and by so doing give her business more visibility.

She messed up big time.... Her brand won't remain the same after listening to lawyers who just want to make money off the case for as long as it lasts. The person she's suing will have enough human rights lawyers to defend her and they will prove the lady didn't defame her brand

Na emotions nau.

The truth is that it is definitely her bread. Make we no pamper the matter

Of all the breads wey dey Lagos, na your own everybody dey call