Lionessza6: 1. Men do the chasing not the other way round, and I doubt a lot if there are any South African men ; whether black or white checking out for Nigerian females; it just wouldn't make any damn sense. And with a growing number of Nigerian females in South Africa, we would be seeing some SA males making a fool of themselves trying to get your attention, but I've never even seen them even trying to have a conversation with your kind.
2. Men are suckers for good looks , charming personalities, and in the case of liberal countries like SA ; women who are not groomed to be only housewives but can carry their own whether married or not. So, why would SA men who are surrounded by millions of women who carry such characteristics go after you ?. Most SA who are in Nigeria are there to look after SA interests ; business and politics, they are not some street hustlers or there to look for wives, so I very much doubt that they care that Nigerian women don't want them when they can import SA women or even SA ho*es to play with with much better looks and physique. Nigerian women aren't exactly the type that make African men lose their senses or any other men for that matter apart from their own( even your own ridicule and see you as liabilities outside of breeding). The dating scene in countries like Canada and USA seems to indicate that you are one of the loneliest groups of if not thee. We hardly hear this from other African women especially Southern Africans and East Africans.
3. LMFAO, Nigerians and their love for white worship.
Most white SA have never left South Africa. And those who leave SA are doing it legally, and they mostly leave for European dominated countries , meaning they will be better recieved and the most preferred immigrants for jobs and other benefits. So it's funny that you compare their status* to that of your men, when the whole world knows that white immigrants followed by East Asians , followed by South Asians & Arabs, followed by maybe Carribeans are way more preferred and better paid than African men.
Why aren't your men more like white men in building a comfortable country for you; hospitals, roads , running water etc. ? White women including the ones here in South Africa aren't being sold as slaves in 5th world countries or risking their lives to run away from underdevelopment. That's because their men slavef away building their countries not running to ready made ones.
So you expect our men to sell their properties ; leave their comfortable lives here to go and slave away in the West like your men? Are you not sick?. The only time a SA man leaves the country is if he has a guaranteed job or leaving for ivy league Universities ,tourism or business not to be a nuisance or slave in foreign lands. We are not confined in South Africa; we are comfortable because we have everything those countries your men run to, so we are not fascinated by anything Westen like you people. We don't see drowning in the Mediterranean sea as an adventure, we see it as embarrassing and moronic behaviour. People whose countries can offer them all they need don't go around paying to be enslaved in foreign lands, know this and know peace.
South African women are trying to copy white people in what exactly?
Oh, so they are disclosing information that they believe might help them get what they want? How bad . But atleast they are not paying traffickers and Madams to traffic them to foreign lands to be ho'es or shyt eaters like we see Nigerian women doing from Europe to even shytholes like Libya and Lebanon for fcks sake.
sharone21: Sincerely, I will like a thread on this, u can bring on all your people here(lol).
A Nigerian woman KNOWS what she wants in a man and would naturally not gravitate towards a BLACK SA man rather a WHITE SA man..... Some of your black guys (not many in Nigeria), want Nigerian ladies but we don't know if they fit in as HUSBANDS and Nigerian women may not be too adventurous on this. We don't just look at handsomeness ( and not all 'fine'). If we must go for black SAfrs, just the ones with value to offer.
Your white guys are more like my people when it comes to travelling out to seek greener pastures eg work unlike the blacks who love their confinements..... However, these days your women are trying to copy the white SAfs.
It is on SA dating forums u hear intro like: I'm 28yrs old female, single, with one/two( or no child), HIV positive/ negative, want men around Jo'burg( lol).....
A thread on this will be fascinating.
I know that you're rattled but could you at least stick to one subject matter at a time.Your comment is all over the place I don't even know what to make of it🤔🤔
KingCold: LOL, imagine if they were fighting for a Nigerian!!!! It would have been see how they prefer us!!? They wanna be loved so bad!! And Its so annoying because someone living in Borno state, who's never even been on a plane parrots this nonsense.
Yohh thank god.The thread would be sitting on 500 pages worth of empty bragging.
They probably hear that lie from Hillbrow "big boys" who are trying to convince themselves and everyone that they are not as worthless as the world say they are.Would you like the people you left in Makoko think that you are as miserable as them even when you spent your last penny on a flight to seek "greener pastures" elsewhere? No! You have to make them believe that you made it and it was worth splashing your last savings on.
Zxcvbnmghtr: I can relate. You are from South Africa. I was only stating the fact. Am sorry if it hurts.
I said post a pic and let's see what you look like .If you are what you say you think you are then I want to know why your men drool over SA women and not you.And also tell me why a South African man would be "all over" what your own men have rejected
KingCold: Lol, when will guys stop forcing this narrative?
The two women are fighting for what is believed to be a South African man - FIGHTING...but some guy tells us they prefer a Nigerian.Can it get any more contradictory than that?
Zxcvbnmghtr: What about their men? There was one that came to Nigeria. He was all over me but not different from the guy hold a wine bottle. Always drunk. Very irresponsible.
A South African man all over you? post a picture of you here and let's see if you're anything that a South African man would want to be "all over"🙄
KingCold: One of my favorite tracks of his is "heaven" from that Big Foot album, where he speaks of what he saw in heaven, learning Kung-Fu from Bruce Lee and getting dreadlock care tips from Bob Marley, captivating stuff! You're right very very creative MC, a rare breed nowadays
I like that one too.That whole album was full of Jewels.
Wasn't he under Dre's label at one point but they never released anything?
"While the ref cleans up the ring 'cause the last fight was so intense, let's do a live interview with the brother named Common Sense..* yeah yeah it's Common Sense the Ice Man tried to freeze me so I took him to Chicago and told him to take it easy* "
Hard to find rappers as creative as Last Emp these days.
Samantha124: You can say that again, sometimes I wonder how their women handle them because they're such spoilt brats... They easily get offended and can nag like bitter women.
Yet they call themselves alpha men..🤣🤣🤣
If a man has to tell you that he's an alpha just know that he's not😂😂 ..same way if someone has to tell you how intelligent they are,or how rich they are.Action and results have to prove it,not gum flapping
KingCold: The funny thing is it's mostly the men that like acting like this, the women tend to be calmer. I guess you'll need to grow a thick skin because it's only just starting, Lol,
Very odd and contradicts the claim of them being the MANLIEST men in Africa LoL.They are usually more dramatic than women.
"I'm not brolic but I bang niggaz,pop collars,grind for the top dollar and fight rottweilers.I put my hand on the bible and tell it to the judge,I'mma lie for my thugs,take it in blood.I'm dot com,I drop bombs kill ya squad"💣
ImpregnaTor: Most Nigerians here sound a bit ignorant
Expecting south Africa to have similar food as our's and even getting surprised they are not eating swallows etc
like come on South Africa and Nigeria are very far from each other, So we really don't have much in common. Most of our tropical crops here too can't be grown in south Africa, there are some difference in our weather, climate and vegetations, hence most crops found here are not common there.
We can only expect some level of similarities in our food with our west African brothers.
Southies are meat, bread and pap people
Someone here inferred we didn't know beef until white people came to SA.Can you imagine somebody fixing their fingers to type some dumb shìt like that?😩
IkeIgboNiile: It seems like black south Africans were feeding on grass before the white man came. How is it that you guys don't have local dishes and not goat this, beef that.
Nigerians in South Africa are really trying because have to spend a lot on foods. All these foods here look like dessert except pap.
No forum on the net can surpass Nairaland when it comes to posting dumb and foolish shìt. I swear 🤞🤞