₦airaland Forum

kollinzgee:
All this guys that like to be misled by their fellow men all in the name of picking up women.before you listen to any guys advice on how to picking up women ask yourself this question is he really successful with women or is he just imposing his untested and unproven strategies on you most pickup artist are just guessing on what to do they are not really good with women.

am very very sure there are thousands of fine boys here that have suffered countless rejection from ladies and hence,they are single from my research both fineboys and ugly guys will get rejected if they are not masculine .i guess the op is an ugly guy who has suffered the same rejection instead of him to improve on his masculinity he blame his looks eeeyahh life is not fair sha.

every guymam who is experienced with women like,me knows women are attracted to your masculinity(guts) and some cash too than any other thing if you dont have a big dick its not your fault use your tongue and bedmatic skills to your advantage.

I wasn't the one that actually wrote that, I copied it

Thats not my point. I've dated guys that are broke and not even goodlooking... My Ex was a University student(Undergraduate) in his final year when I was still doing my Masters, He's broke and not goodlooking. But one thing attracted me to him the most ' he's damn unpredictable. One minute he's giving me love and doing all the lovey dovey, the next he's showing frank face. He put me in my place and does'nt do what all the desperate guys used to do for me, this increases his worth, and made me value him the most. We broke up last year when he went for his youth service, lest I remember he was the one who broke up with me, i still miss him.

1984och:
I disagree with you Op. So guys wey ugly no dey fvck or dem no get babe?

I don't have a fine face. My face strong, ugly and rough sef, but I still approach ladies and they answer.

No be lie, I don fvck 2 nairaland ladies before. One is fine and classy, the other is not.

Thats not my point. I've dated guys that are broke and not even goodlooking... My Ex was a University student(Undergraduate) in his final year when I was still doing my Masters, He's broke and not goodlooking. But one thing attracted me to him the most ' he's damn unpredictable. One minute he's giving me love and doing all the lovey dovey, the next he's showing frank face. He put me in my place and does'nt do what all the desperate guys used to do for me, this increases his worth, and made me value him the most. We broke up last year when he went for his youth service, lest I remember he was the one who broke up with me, i still miss him.

I don't see anything bad here...


Quote me only if you have sense.

Melvix007:
That would obviously defeat the aim of this thread, I’d rather share it here.


Ok, let’s analyze it this way;

Assume the time it takes both X and Y to produce 1000 bolts is k hrs.

Let’s go,

if it takes X 4 hrs to produce 1000 bolts,
then bolts produced in 1 hr = 1000/4 = 250 bolts.

Similarly,
if it takes Y 5 hrs to produce 1000 bolts,
then bolts produced in 1 hr = 1000/5 = 200 bolts.

Now, we know how many bolts each can produce in 1 hr.
It takes both k hrs to produce 1000 bolts.

How many will X and Y produce in k hrs?

In k hrs:
X will produce 250 times k = 250k bolts (if you can consume 2 eggs in 1 hr, in k hrs you will consume 2k eggs �)

Y will produce 200k bolts.

We already know that X and Y will produce 1000 bolts (our very first assumption)

But the sum of the individual works done by X and Y must be equal to the work done by both.

Therefore,
250k + 200k = 1000
450k = 1000
k = 1000/450 = 20/9
k = 2 2/9 hours (approximately 2.22 hours)

So, both can do the work in 2 2/9 hours!

There are other shorter methods but this one gives me more room for explanation.

Many would've jumped at this opportunity, but you miss a good opportunity to chat with a beautiful girl

Seems Nigerian men are starting to think with their brain now. Lols

Thanks though

zidek:
Me i have masters in animal science, i dnt know whether i will be favour, my girl friend dump me last week for another man because i can't meet her necessary needs and I'm already 30years!

Sorry bro, you too find job

Melvix007:
Well, I didn’t meet your requirements though I could try.

DM me. I'll manage.

Please I need someone that can be helping me solve all these past questions online. I'll add the volunteer on whatapp, and we'll be discusingg solving these questions ONLY. Thanks. Anyone interested should DM me.

The person must be a First class Mathematics, engineering or Physics graduate.

If MachineX can produce 1,000 bolts in 4 hours and Machine Y can produce
1,000 bolts in 5 hours, in how many hours can Machines X and Y,working together at these
constant rates, produce 1,000 bolts?

victorian:
I'm not fighting with you either. I just see it irritating when u said I will want a fine guy even though he's a criminal.
And I know, I never typed such.
Who in her right senses, will go for criminals because he's fine? Im not part of that category.

Anyways, Morning.

I'm sorry.

victorian:
Don't you understand simple English?

Do I need to start repeating word for word meaning of every sentences I typed, as if I'm talking to a child?

Go back, read and understand what you have typed and my reply, all over again.
There lies answer to your delusional thoughts.

Have a great day.

aaaaarghhh, we're not fighting babe

Good morning

delugajackson:
It's obvious that sex is the only thing she has to offer. Only a deluded woman would think that her sexy body can be enough to keep a man. Having a banging body is just a plus.

Fact is, men want so many things other than your big ass and breasts. No amount of physical beauty will ever be as valuable as a beautiful heart, a good attitude and a functional brain. You need more than just your physical attributes to keep a man. I would rather die single than share my life and fortune with a beautiful fool. Beauty is dangerous, but intelligence is lethal.

In as musk as I hate to hear, you are still saying the truth. There are still men that need their women, not only as a sex tool or good banging body, but as a support or an adviser in times of adversities

victorian:
I will quote u well!
I cannot and will not marry a criminal, I have a reputation to protect.
Take it or leave it.

What if he's good looking?

Sterope:
She would have told herself that it was a family affair. Evil knows no gender.

Why'd anyone jail a woman. its nonsesne

If the guy is handsome, it is okay. Handsome guys are free to do anything. I cant withstand the ugly boys doing this, he should be jai,led

hisexcellency34:
Is this not the Afonja woman that said her fiancee infected her with HIV?

Na them, we know

victorian:
Only abroad will one sees this type of love.

In Nigeria, no man will even look at her. Even a Nigerian man abroad will not marry her.

May God help us in this country amen

Say someone who care more about handsome face than the man's personality and sincerity. You even said you can marry a criminal so far he has an handsome face..Lol, good luck till reality dawn...I know you'll quote me to say rubbish

Opto1:
Lol. Life, what if you had an Accident and you become dual amputee, won't you wish you had someone to love you?
You be talking as if you know tomorrow. Sometime some shit are better not saudd

First time I'm meeting someone sensible on romance section

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
True love has slowly eroded away in this our country. Almost everyone calculates benefits before going into anything and when those benefits dry up, they japa to d next. The socioeconomic atmosphere ain't helping matters too

Lols. You too have sense dear

Akuruoulo:
. Please Its Too Late To Laugh Oooh

Are You llike pastor too? Well, I cant know

Rubbiish:
U should be to one to shut your trap, ugly b!tch
Your very first comment betrayed u
I already knew you were a female with it, you can't mislead any guy here. Read the title of thread, it is for guys only...senseless thing!

.

Aaaah, this is unfair. what have I done to deserve this now? You can't even be gentleman for once?.... aaarghhh

MissRaine69:
He has been and seen it all for himself so he is speaking from experience!

lol. pastor is a frustrated 2mins man

FhukaFhuka:
....The man in the Picture below will NOT MAKE HEAVEN

Hi dear. Please are you the one in the picture?

romeorailss:
Your mouth na fire o . Chai

why'd you kiss my mouth? are you my boyfriend? mtcchew

9jaRealist:
What track? The one that was ruled did not infringe on anyone else’s intellectual property and is back on YouTube?

And the example that she is showing her kid is that if you work hard and dedicate yourself to your craft you can become successful and be known all over the globe - and of course that women do not shrivel and die without a man in their lives, as well as it’s better to be alone than to be in a bad and unhappy marriage or relationship. Meanwhile, Teebillz and Nigerian men are teaching the kid that you can have several baby mamas and several failed marriages and still have Nigerians (particularly Nigerian men) supporting and applauding you. SMDH
.

You seems to me like an intelligent dude. Your comment on Ayodele Dada bagging knight henessy scholarship endeared me to ur profile,and I wasn't disappointed. Might be good to know you more off here.

Jcole1985:
With that level of Ugliness,you are free to be whatever you like,Fagggot claiming Bullshit we will even welcome you among the male folks cus ladies don't look that ugly

You're such an unfortunate person.Idiot. slowpoke. lowlife.

HARDDON:
How was your relationship prior to that day?
Is she committed?

If she wasn't and was looking for a cheap excuse to ball out, you just played into her hands. In a good way though.

You're right at bolded.That's what I'll do if I wanna send any guy off.

I think this Harddon guy has the real deal. perhaps I should even try and read the whole thread and get more hypocrisy in my wardrobe. .With the way you analyze things,you seems to have monopolized the women's world wisdom.Lol

alert01:
I'm sorry,but I think it is women that should focus and kill themselves to be more beautiful. Correct me guys if I'm wrong.What men are facing daily while trying to make ends meet exceed getting just ordinary handsome face....I'm not really handsome,. If she's not ok with my looks, then I move on, Like seriously.

But if it is getting handsome face men are more obsessed with these days instead of looking for legit ways t0 make it, then I wish them goodluck

shut your dirty mouth. ugly boy

ceeroh:
That's a lie. Most handsome faced guys end up with not too good looking ladies. Argue with your keyboard.

yeah seriously. you're quite right. and I don't know why that tends to follow. perhaps we tend to look for handsome face in 25-30yrs of our age, and later when we get dissapointed with reality, we settle for the available

Goterry0123:
You Don't Have To Be Good Looking But Be Looking Good.

Good look is bae.

Good looks and handsome face are the only calculated antidote to warm a woman's heart,not ,money nor good personality nor intelligence.A handsome dumb guy is charming to women than an intelligent ugly guy. A molester is charming and attractive to women, the same way rape is okay so far the perpetrator has a fine face.



Girls, what is something that is not nearly “attractive” as guys think?

Looks remain the number one thing a woman look for in a guy. If an handsome guy approached girls with all these teachings of Harddon, they'd consder it attractive,But an ugly guy doing same is rude and insulting.She won't even look at his side. I have a friend who told me she don't even respond looking at a guy's face and noticed he's not handsome.....Looks,not money,solves all your problem when dealing with women

I’m a guy and I don’t want to mansplain but I’m gonna answer this anyways because there’s so many misunderstanding on this topic among both men and women, including answers to this question.

As a kid, you probably thought that, because you as a guy were attracted to physically attractive women and other guys could also have attractive and unattractive looks, girls also like guys with good looks. So if you ever were to date a girl like this:

You probably had to look like this:

But then, at some point people told you that women don’t care that much about your looks. What they would care about, varied depending on who you asked. Some tell you that you need to treat them nicely. Others put more emphasis on confidence. Some even went on teaching youall kinds of tricks that would make you an “Alpha” or a ladykiller. And of course, you’d buy them. Because to be fair, you as a young guy just want to get girls and if anyone tells you what to do to get women, you’ll try. Then lastly, there were also guys who tried these things and they didn’t work, and their conclusion was women are attracted to your money, and thus the solution was to become succesful and earn a lot of money. You didn’t want to believe it but somehow didn’t exclude the fact women care about your money either.

These things are, although maybe of some importance, overrated and you’re being lied to by delusional ideologies, from women telling you to “just be nice” to the highly mysoginist “Redpill” that tells you women actually want you to dominate them like a patriarch “Alpha”.

You were right as a kid. Looks are the most important feature in attraction to women like they are to men!!!

But let’s break the lies down.

—————————

Confidence and personality

Both are very important. However, they’re not the only thing that matters. “Confidence” is mainly used to make unattractive men feel like they can fully control their attractiveness. Maybe watch certain episodes of the originally Dutch dating show “Dating in the Dark” in which people have dates in the dark. Often when the personalities click, but the women see the guy’s looks, they’re turned off by them anyways. One time, a woman literally said “I don’t get where he gets the [confident] attitude from because he doesn’t have the looks to back them up.” So yeah, confidence and personality are important to women, like they are to men, but after the woman’s already physically interested in you.

I mean girls, would you date this guy if he had a nice and confident personality?

Many women will actually be repulsed and annoyed when this guy shows confidence and approaches them.

—————————

Money. Despite what some men might tell you, women aren’t golddiggers. If you’re unemployed and live with your parents at age 25, it might be a turnoff to women, but it’s not that an income of 200k is gonna make any difference compared to an income of 100k. A few women are golddiggers and you can get them with money, but in general your level of attraction to women is barely influenced by your net worth. This doesn’t even make any sense biologically; there’s no money in nature and having money doesn’t indicate you’re a good partner or carry healthy or strong genes. The men that tell you this are in denial of their unattractiveness in other fields, and say this to put the blame on women for being golddiggers.

Again girls, is this guy really able to make you Hot and able to make you love them you if he takes his wallet out of his pocket?

Maybe some women will go for a guy based on his money, like some men take a sugar momma, but this isn’t genuine attraction. It’s just biologically false and delusional.

—————————

Being a patriarch alpha This is basically the politically incorrect, mysoginist Redpilled version of personality and confidence. It often means a guy needs to learn PUA “game” and needs to feel like he’s superior to women and treat them like that. Often, men who tell you poo like this believe there’s a huge feminist conspiracy that turned them into “beta males”, unattractive, non-masculine an weak men. But even considering patriarchy is natural, there’s no way guys who are so desperate they end up reading this poo advice would be attractive or dominant “Alpha” males in nature. Being an Alpha male or Alpha female in nature means an individual is the leader of the group and thus able to dominate the group in general, not just the members of the other sex. Some species have Alpha Males, other Alpha Females and others both Alpha Males and Females. As humans are very developed, both genders have a lot of members that would be considered Alpha in nature. Patriarchy is a scam. But even assuming we were to be a patriarchial species, there’s only a few men that would be dominant alpha males and thus get women. As there are at least some guys who have never had any trouble getting at least some girls, there’s no feminist conspiracy keeping you from getting laid or being an alpha male, you’re just not an alpha male.

Believe me, the Redpill only exists to comfort unsuccesful men. On the one hand, it spares their ego by saying it’s not about their looks and they’re destined to be succesful, and on the other hand it tells them it’s not their fault they’re not but it’s the women/feminists who brainwashed them. The Redpill is a disgusting, mysoginist and delusional ideology.

Women, I know you don’t like to be treated like property or like a kid by your partner. But assuming you were to be turned on by it, would you like this guy to be your patriarch husband?

I guess we all know the answer.

The truth, the undeniable truth, is that looks matter as much to women as they matter to men.

This is to say, personality, financial situation, hobbies, confidence etc. might all be factors that contribute to one’s attractiveness… but ONLY after your looks are well enough to even consider giving the other person a chance.

And maybe this sounds shallow, but its not. It’s biological, it’s inclined in our DNA, no matter hoe attractive or unattractive we consider ourselves, we all want to date someone we find physically attractive. And we can’t be blamed for wanting it.

This is not to say it’s over for you if you’re a physically unattractive guy; being physically unattractive means most women will find you unattractive, however there’s always gonna be some who will find you attractive, or at least attractive enough to give you a chance to attract them with those other factors. Actually, I’ve seen ugly guys with way better sex lives than me and many other attractive guys (although in my case it’s because I don’t really care about sex or relationships so I put zero effort in getting it), not because they could compensate for their looks and now most women were magically attracted to them for having a confident and interesting personality, but because this personality and social skills made them able to recognize and take the chances they got. And some of those chances are really hot tho, because everyone has his/her own taste including hot girls. So you shoud always keep hope and try self-improvement (and not Redpilled self-improvement because that’s BS). You can also try to improve your looks for a part, by hitting the gym, taking care of hygiene, finding the right haircut and whether you should have a beard (and if yes how to shave it). Try to maximize your looks at least.

Conclusion/TL;DR

There’s no key to getting way more women being attracted to you. The only thing you can do is take care of your looks, but in the end, your looks determine the initial attraction women feel towards you and not something you can easily learn or adapt. There’s no trick, no behavioral trait or PUA “game” that will make you a ladykiller that makes all of the women go crazy depeding on you doing that. However, you’re not bleeped either and self/improvement is still good. Yes, a majority of women will find you unattractive, but there’s billions of women so even a small minority is enough for you to find someone sooner or later. If you learn social skills and develop a nice personality, you’ll find out you have plenty of options to get women, just like the guys I just used as examples of unattractive men will have plenty of girls within the thousands reading this answer that will disagree with me and indeed be attracted to them. Even if it’s only a small percentage of the women in the world, you’ll be able to take these chances and have a happy and interesting dating life.

Personality and confidence might not be keys to the gates of attractiveness, but they are tools to decorate what’s behind it

ceeroh:
Can't believe I've read the first 45pages of this thread in less than 36hours. This guy called HARDDON has formatted my mentality about women. He practically blew me away.. I'm dusting myself already for this great adventure that lies ahead.
I bless the day I stumbled into this thread.
I've taken screenshots of all the important points to go through them every night before I sleep.

Una go hear am!

Get a handdsome face and your problem is solved. True but hurting

Girls, what is something that is not nearly “attractive” as guys think?

Looks remain the number one thing a woman look for in a guy. If an handsome guy approached girls with all these teachings of Harddon, they'd consder it attractive,But an ugly guy doing same is rude and insulting.She won't even look at his side. I have a friend who told me she don't even respond looking at a guy's face and noticed he's not handsome.....Looks,not money,solves all your problem when dealing with women

I’m a guy and I don’t want to mansplain but I’m gonna answer this anyways because there’s so many misunderstanding on this topic among both men and women, including answers to this question.

As a kid, you probably thought that, because you as a guy were attracted to physically attractive women and other guys could also have attractive and unattractive looks, girls also like guys with good looks. So if you ever were to date a girl like this:

You probably had to look like this:

But then, at some point people told you that women don’t care that much about your looks. What they would care about, varied depending on who you asked. Some tell you that you need to treat them nicely. Others put more emphasis on confidence. Some even went on teaching youall kinds of tricks that would make you an “Alpha” or a ladykiller. And of course, you’d buy them. Because to be fair, you as a young guy just want to get girls and if anyone tells you what to do to get women, you’ll try. Then lastly, there were also guys who tried these things and they didn’t work, and their conclusion was women are attracted to your money, and thus the solution was to become succesful and earn a lot of money. You didn’t want to believe it but somehow didn’t exclude the fact women care about your money either.

These things are, although maybe of some importance, overrated and you’re being lied to by delusional ideologies, from women telling you to “just be nice” to the highly mysoginist “Redpill” that tells you women actually want you to dominate them like a patriarch “Alpha”.

You were right as a kid. Looks are the most important feature in attraction to women like they are to men!!!

But let’s break the lies down.

—————————

Confidence and personality

Both are very important. However, they’re not the only thing that matters. “Confidence” is mainly used to make unattractive men feel like they can fully control their attractiveness. Maybe watch certain episodes of the originally Dutch dating show “Dating in the Dark” in which people have dates in the dark. Often when the personalities click, but the women see the guy’s looks, they’re turned off by them anyways. One time, a woman literally said “I don’t get where he gets the [confident] attitude from because he doesn’t have the looks to back them up.” So yeah, confidence and personality are important to women, like they are to men, but after the woman’s already physically interested in you.

I mean girls, would you date this guy if he had a nice and confident personality?

Many women will actually be repulsed and annoyed when this guy shows confidence and approaches them.

—————————

Money. Despite what some men might tell you, women aren’t golddiggers. If you’re unemployed and live with your parents at age 25, it might be a turnoff to women, but it’s not that an income of 200k is gonna make any difference compared to an income of 100k. A few women are golddiggers and you can get them with money, but in general your level of attraction to women is barely influenced by your net worth. This doesn’t even make any sense biologically; there’s no money in nature and having money doesn’t indicate you’re a good partner or carry healthy or strong genes. The men that tell you this are in denial of their unattractiveness in other fields, and say this to put the blame on women for being golddiggers.

Again girls, is this guy really able to make you Hot and able to make you love them you if he takes his wallet out of his pocket?

Maybe some women will go for a guy based on his money, like some men take a sugar momma, but this isn’t genuine attraction. It’s just biologically false and delusional.

—————————

Being a patriarch alpha This is basically the politically incorrect, mysoginist Redpilled version of personality and confidence. It often means a guy needs to learn PUA “game” and needs to feel like he’s superior to women and treat them like that. Often, men who tell you shit like this believe there’s a huge feminist conspiracy that turned them into “beta males”, unattractive, non-masculine an weak men. But even considering patriarchy is natural, there’s no way guys who are so desperate they end up reading this shit advice would be attractive or dominant “Alpha” males in nature. Being an Alpha male or Alpha female in nature means an individual is the leader of the group and thus able to dominate the group in general, not just the members of the other sex. Some species have Alpha Males, other Alpha Females and others both Alpha Males and Females. As humans are very developed, both genders have a lot of members that would be considered Alpha in nature. Patriarchy is a scam. But even assuming we were to be a patriarchial species, there’s only a few men that would be dominant alpha males and thus get women. As there are at least some guys who have never had any trouble getting at least some girls, there’s no feminist conspiracy keeping you from getting laid or being an alpha male, you’re just not an alpha male.

Believe me, the Redpill only exists to comfort unsuccesful men. On the one hand, it spares their ego by saying it’s not about their looks and they’re destined to be succesful, and on the other hand it tells them it’s not their fault they’re not but it’s the women/feminists who brainwashed them. The Redpill is a disgusting, mysoginist and delusional ideology.

Women, I know you don’t like to be treated like property or like a kid by your partner. But assuming you were to be turned on by it, would you like this guy to be your patriarch husband?

I guess we all know the answer.

The truth, the undeniable truth, is that looks matter as much to women as they matter to men.

This is to say, personality, financial situation, hobbies, confidence etc. might all be factors that contribute to one’s attractiveness… but ONLY after your looks are well enough to even consider giving the other person a chance.

And maybe this sounds shallow, but its not. It’s biological, it’s inclined in our DNA, no matter hoe attractive or unattractive we consider ourselves, we all want to date someone we find physically attractive. And we can’t be blamed for wanting it.

This is not to say it’s over for you if you’re a physically unattractive guy; being physically unattractive means most women will find you unattractive, however there’s always gonna be some who will find you attractive, or at least attractive enough to give you a chance to attract them with those other factors. Actually, I’ve seen ugly guys with way better sex lives than me and many other attractive guys (although in my case it’s because I don’t really care about sex or relationships so I put zero effort in getting it), not because they could compensate for their looks and now most women were magically attracted to them for having a confident and interesting personality, but because this personality and social skills made them able to recognize and take the chances they got. And some of those chances are really hot tho, because everyone has his/her own taste including hot girls. So you shoud always keep hope and try self-improvement (and not Redpilled self-improvement because that’s BS). You can also try to improve your looks for a part, by hitting the gym, taking care of hygiene, finding the right haircut and whether you should have a beard (and if yes how to shave it). Try to maximize your looks at least.

Conclusion/TL;DR

There’s no key to getting way more women being attracted to you. The only thing you can do is take care of your looks, but in the end, your looks determine the initial attraction women feel towards you and not something you can easily learn or adapt. There’s no trick, no behavioral trait or PUA “game” that will make you a ladykiller that makes all of the women go crazy depeding on you doing that. However, you’re not bleeped either and self/improvement is still good. Yes, a majority of women will find you unattractive, but there’s billions of women so even a small minority is enough for you to find someone sooner or later. If you learn social skills and develop a nice personality, you’ll find out you have plenty of options to get women, just like the guys I just used as examples of unattractive men will have plenty of girls within the thousands reading this answer that will disagree with me and indeed be attracted to them. Even if it’s only a small percentage of the women in the world, you’ll be able to take these chances and have a happy and interesting dating life.

Personality and confidence might not be keys to the gates of attractiveness, but they are tools to decorate what’s behind it

enemyofprogress:
just say the three letter words, YES

....