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jesusdiedLOL:
If you dont feel any harmful side effects from masturbation, then keep stroking that meat. Its way better than an STD

If you don't have anything meaningful to achieve in life, then keep stroking that meat. If you do have something worthwhile, then get your hands off your wang and go achieve something.

Aphex:
JacksonD7 I need ur Whatsapp contact pls. Quite urgent.

I'm sorry, but I'm not on WhatsApp. Send me an email instead.

This won't work in Nigeria. All the area boys in Ojueleba would get rich overnight.

mespusinglez:
I Don't understand my girlfriend o,we ve dated for over a month now,and our first sex was head ache to me...6 minutes to it and she pull me off...i ask her why and she said nothing and she wore her dress,this happened four times....the fifth time was when we were about 8 minutes to it and she said she was tired i angrily went off and wore my dress...and she was "baby am sorry that her mind dont give her...and she said i dnt cum quick...and the truth is since the 6 times we had sex i have never cum because she always cut me off...and she was lucky i wasnt rude or else i wont have stop...
so am thinking of breaking up with her because i cant continue with those frustration...

pls help

I'd recommend ditching her, she seems like a baggage of trouble.

bennyann:
Nice points you raise to ponder on

The legal system won't recognize the bolded as married but family and friends will automatically call it marriage and it will be a very wicked thing on the part of one of them to get married to another legally. This is the gimmick many use so as to play around freely all because they believe the legal society they live in see them not as married.

The op does not mean having sex with someone qualifiés you as a married person without endorsing it traditionally or legally but it means you're joined together, knitted together, a part of each other with whoever you have sex with and this union we don't recognize in reality functions equally as the one we recognize. It also doesn't mean it is no longer called fornication or adultery but it was rather educating us on how we become one, joined together with whomever we have sex with.

I believe sex endorses a marriage than the legal document or the dowry. A marriage without sex can't be called a marriage. Sex is what defines marriage the more, it is the key of marriage.

I also believe sex without the first two stages mentioned in the op, that is, leaving your family and be joined to your spouse is the source of rapid decadence in our planet.

If we see sex as marriage, it will reduce the rate of having numerous sex partners.

Nice points too, the leaving your family part is also integral to marriage. I'm well aware of the fact that having sex with someone creates a bond.

But, I can't classify that as marriage. An answer I found online can give more clarification

https://www.gotquestions.org/sex-equal-marriage.html

Because, they're some of the biggest hypocrites on the planet.

# IN THE BOY'S MIND

No be by force...

I don't fully agree with this, if the act of having sex equals marriage. Then why do some portions of the Bible, have harsh passages regarding children born outside wedlock.

You can have sex with someone for 15 years and have three kids, that doesn't mean you're married.

Let's not forget that the Bible says flee from fornication, a.k.a premarital sex. If having sex equals marriage, why would that be a problem?.

Toks2008

Statistically speaking a marriage is more likely to be stable, and last longer when the wife is a virgin.

I never said it was an absolute guarantee.

For clarification

https://www.mercatornet.com/mobile/view/keeping-sex-for-marriage-helps-marriages-last-the-distance

https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability

And you just pointed out some cases where thing didn't work. Some marriages with virgins or non virgins work, some don't.

There's a lot to consider when choosing a partner. So, don't fall under the impression that we're advocating marrying virgins, simply because they're virgins. Making decisions like that is absolute lunacy.

Safiaaa:
You People need to understand that most 'virgins' are not untouched. They're other sexual acts apart from vaginal penetration. But it is well.

I'm aware of that, I mentioned it somewhere in the thread.

ibietela2:
That's a very big lie, because she's a virgin marriage will last

Statistically speaking a marriage is more likely to be stable, and last longer when the wife is a virgin.

I never said it was an absolute guarantee.



For clarification

https://www.mercatornet.com/mobile/view/keeping-sex-for-marriage-helps-marriages-last-the-distance

https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability

Raiyell:
Are you okay? Why are you giving people headache?

What is the meaning of the bolded?

Which expressway do you want to buy, Lagos Ibadan? And you want to buy it for N500. You are very high on something.

If you had paid attention during English class, while they were studying figures of speech. This disaster wouldn't have happened.

mercy0008:
So you fell in love with this lady and she loves you right back, but she is bisexual and has a girlfriend she is seeing once in a while.
She is willing to make efforts towards changing because she loves you, what will you do? Go ahead with the relationship or back out?



You just found out your fiancée of 3 years is attracted to girls and the girl you know as her best friend is actually her lover, your wedding is in 6 months. Are you marrying her or taking a walk?

Not in 600 million years. Having another guy take your girl is one thing, after all competition drives men. But being threatened by a girl. No man should ever go through that.

This is not surprising. Mad people roam the streets of this country everyday.

Wives don't just fall from the sky. And I don't believe in arranged marriages, not in this day and age. Too many bad women running around.

What's courtship other than dating with the aim of getting married.

It's guilt. Every non virgin knows that she's just not as valuable as the lady who's still untouched.

A dual carriage expressway bought for N500 in one afternoon, is not the same as a tear rubber car that took 3 years of dedication to crack.

You're better off finding a virgin for a wife. Statistically speaking a marriage is more likely to be stable, and last longer when the wife is a virgin.

In business terms, would you rather invest in a legitimate business and get your payout in the the long run. Or invest in a Ponzi scheme, make it big in the short term and crash later?.

The choice is yours.

Youngadvocate

QueenSekxy:
terrorists

Nope, the Saudis are the ones terrorizing Yemen. Do you have any idea how many Yemen citizens are dying from the US/Saudi led systematic starvation program.

deeLima86:
It's a blatant lie joor!

Women can be pedophiles too, no lies about that.

Prettythicksmee

bingbagbo:
You just confirmed your lust for genitals

Yea, I love genitals and I'm proud of it. It means I'm a functioning biological male.

Are you an android from the Andromeda galaxy?.

bingbagbo:
For me she is a shameless fraudster defraud immature men with her stewpid genitals. I don't even know what at allll men see in genitals. Genitals used to pee.

Judging from your comment, I'm picturing you as a 12 year old who hasn't hit puberty yet.

iLegendd:
We have 18 downloads so far. The password will be sent to only the first person who request for it here on NL.

It has already been sent to those who requested for it on Wetclef. Here is the link to download it http://www.wetclef.com/topic216.html

I've downloaded it, you can send the password via email if you want to keep it anonymous.

Kindly post the whole thing here. Most people won't click on the link, others will make jokes and drop memes. This blog PR tactic doesn't work.

Briandennis

Seriously?, Nigerians still remember this one.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
LOL. When I was in final year he will enter my class and say he came to browse. He will make us laugh. And another time, he will still come and whip us for making noise and disturbing his lecture going on two halls away.

Funny guy.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I'm telling you. But I don't believe the part that the husband came with gifts for him. The man is just a very funny man

Yeah, I wonder how his "socketing" lectures went.

RING, RING, RING...

Me: Hello, Sango.

Sango: Yes

Me: There is someone misbehaving on nairaland. I want you to bazooka him with thunder.

THUNDER ROLLS...

The lecturer and girl were just deluding themselves. There's more to virginity than an intact hymen.

Virgin = Someone who hasn't had sex

Non virgin = Someone who has had sex

Hymen intact or not, a woman can't have sex for years and still be a virgin.

MISSCONGENIALITY

predmine20:
That's a big lie,how can a girl sleep with 40+ guys and her hymen will still be intact.
If you want to lie,you know who to lie to.

You ever heard of anal sex?. There are many who live an anal only sex life. So, it's possible for a girl to take it from 40+ guys in the rear door, and still have her hymen intact.

There's something like oral and masturbation, which have no business with the hymen. If a girl with an intact hymen gives blowjobs to 12 guys in a day, would you really consider her a virgin?.

9jayes:
Can you get disvirgin by the pen!s being half way in your pvssy? I'm confused

Virgin = Someone who hasn't had sex

Non virgin = Someone who has had sex

You can't have a pen**is halfway into you if you're not having sex. That equals being a non virgin.


There's more to virginity than having an intact hymen.

makydee