skydancer: And you keep reading without understanding and keep asking the wrong questions. If you don't understand that your name is real yet your only evidence to it is a claim, or that you can dream but cannot prove your dream to anyone, what evidence or claim or explanation can you then have about a transcendent being who created the entire universe, it's such a silly ask once you see it.
I have evidence of my name. There's a birth cert issued when i was born. There's witnesses to my naming ceremony. And people call me that name. So provide evidence of your god creating the universe. Also,your claim can be echoed by many religions about their gods creating the universe, yet zero evidence
[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140108409]"Don't sleep with a widow, her late husband's spirit will come after your income” – Pastor claims
A Nigerian pastor has generated reactions online after making controversial remarks about widows, warning men against having intimate relationships with them.
While addressing his congregation during a church service, the cleric claimed that widows remain spiritually connected to their late husbands, insisting that any man who sleeps with a widow could face spiritual consequences.
According to him, no widow is truly alone because the spirit of her deceased husband is still attached to her.
In his words shared on X (formerly Twitter), he said:
“No matter how nice a widow is, don’t ever sleep with her. There is no single widow on earth because every widow is married to the spirit of her late husband.”
The pastor further alleged that any man who becomes sexually involved with a widow risks having his source of income attacked by the spirit of her late husband.
He advised men to avoid such relationships, claiming there are people who can testify to the consequences of ignoring his warning.
“If you sleep with her, that spirit will come after your source of income. You can go and ask people who have been sleeping with widows,” he added.
His comments have since generated mixed reactions online, with many Nigerians debating his claims, while others strongly disagreed with his remarks about widows.
"No matter how nice a widow is, don't ever sleep with her. There is no single widow on earth because every widow is married to the spirit of her late husband. If you sleep with her, that spirit will come after your source of income. You can go and ask people who have been… pic.twitter.com/9qjwKHrRsg
that believes this is seriously out of tune with reality. This is 2026 ffs! Does this 'rule' apply to only Nigerians or globally? White folks marry widows and still get wealthy,so I dont know your point
skydancer: What is your evidence that your name is your name? Because that's what your mama and papa called you abi?
God may go by a thousand names and even those thousand names may not be able to accurately describe Him (and rightly so because if it was possible, then it would not be God, yet there's one name above all names)
You have a way of weaving and dodging when asked a question. Again,what is your evidence your god is real? Using big words or sounding profound wont derail this thread
skydancer: This entire old thread is about cosmic finetuning. Every atheist will die without ever knowing how it came to be and live in denial of the possibility that the beauty of the universe has a transcendent source that could be Jesus and this is completely okay.
And what is your evidence that this source is Jesus?
After 15 years later, June 30th, 2010, I tell you today that my God is faithful. 15 years ago today, my mother had terminal stage four ovarian cancer. It was all over her ovaries.
She had four tumors around her heart that were asleep and one of them overlapped a nerve connected to her lung which shut down the entire diaphragm. My mom was breathing on one lung. But my mother being the determined and stubborn woman that she once was, she said that she had refused, if she was going to go and be with the Lord, that she refused to die with cancer.
And so she agreed to go and have a full hysterectomy where they take everything out. But no doctor here in San Diego, California, wanted to work on my mother because unfortunately when you lay down, you don't realize it, but we're breathing on two lungs. And so no doctor wanted to work on my mother because they knew immediately that she would die on the operating table.
Because unfortunately with a procedure like that for hysterectomy, you have to lay down. And so we came by faith, knowing that God was going to some way somehow make a way through. All God needs from you tonight is faith as tiny, tiny as a mustard seed because the Bible says that we can move mountains.
And luckily a doctor did step forward. There was a doctor who stepped forward and said, I'll do the surgery on you, but I need you to sign liability waivers because you will die on that operating table. And so my family signed waivers that my mother was going to die on the operating table.
And my, we were asking my mom, are you sure? Are you sure? Like, are you sure? Like you can live a little longer if you don't go on the operating table table. Like family members were asking my mom this. At the time I was only 13 years old and help me Lord get through this without crying.
We signed the liability waivers. The day of the surgery came, which was June 30th, 2010. And I remember laying in that hospital bed with my mom waiting, waiting for the time to come this, this peace of God just fell on us like this peace.
So heavenly peace. Like I can't even explain it. Like you would think we would be in that room crying, but we were laughing and we were talking about memories and we were laughing with my mom and it was just so peaceful.
We were just so full of joy when it was basically her last hours and she was dying. She was going to die on that operating table. We were being told that we already signed the paperwork, that we weren't going to sue the hospital, that we weren't going to, you know, so, you know, giving full liability away, like all that stuff.
And then we pray together. And it was such a peace to a point. Even my sister, my sister had just give her life to Jesus.
She had just got baptized, my older sister. And she literally said, mom, I'm going to go home with my baby, with her newborn baby. She's like, I'm just going to go home with my baby.
Mom, just call me when you get out because I know God's got you. And she went to go home and went to go to sleep. She was a new mom.
I pray that the Lord gives you such a peace tonight that even in the midst of storm, and even in the midst of being told that there is death around you, that you get to just have a peace that surpasses all understanding that you get to be how my older sister was, and that you get to just go home and just be like, just call me afterwards. I know you're going to make it. And we both sleep.
Before going to the operating room, I was with my mother. And my mom, they were getting her prepped. They're getting her ready.
The nurses and the doctor was there, the surgeon. And the surgeon was just saying, like, I, my condolences in advance. You're going to die.
Are you sure you want to do this? You're not going to make it. There was multiple specialists all throughout San Diego County of oncologists saying that my mother was going to die, that she wasn't going to make it. But obviously, we don't just listen to a doctor's report, but we listen to the ultimate report.
Man, I remember my mom started praying over the nurses and started praying over their hands. And this is again, this is before I knew Jesus. And during this time, I was very, very shy.
And so, which I know is hard to believe, but God will truly get you out of your shell if you're shy. All the shy people in this room. I remember sitting in that room and watching what was taking place.
And then I remember my mom told the surgeon right in front of me, she said, let me pray for you. And the surgeon rolled her eyes and said, I don't believe in a God. I believe in science.
And my mom said, let me just pray for you. And she kept rolling her eyes. She said, no, I don't believe in this God.
I don't believe in this. And my mom said, if this is truly, truly my last wishes, let me pray for your hands. Let this be my last wishes.
And so, the doctor literally, I was there. She rolled her eyes. She went, here.
And put her hands out. My mother grabbed those hands. And my mother prayed.
My mom said, Lord, show this doctor, the mighty doctor that I serve. Let your hands guide her. Let your hands.
And my mom went on full, full on prayer mode, right? She said, show this doctor. What a mighty God I serve. Show this doctor your signs and wonders.
Show this doctor. Like, my mom went full, full on prayer mode. That's just the mother that I had.
And I pray one day to be half of the woman of God that she was. I remember standing there, not even realizing what I was seeing taking place. And then we had walked my mom out to the surgery.
As far as I could go in that hallway, her hands slowly, you know, separated. And that's when I shouted. And I said, Mommy, even though I didn't have a full-on relationship with God yet.
But I said, Mommy, God is going to heal you. God is going to save you. I just know that I know God's going to save you.
And she shouted across the hallway. And she said, I can't wait to see you after. After my surgery.
I have difficulty having a logical discourse with Christians cos its like that ship sailed a long time ago for them Where is the primary tumor? Heart,uterus or lung? Secondly,no surgeon would offer condolences before a procedure, no matter how dire it is. So I don't even know what you're talking about Yes,sometimes we can give a prognosis for a case which may be wrong,after all we are humans but we still go ahead to manage patients,just like this case. Sometimes we work and overturn our prognosis. The thing is we like being pessimistic, that way we dont give the patient too much hope. And finally, why are you thanking your god,when the job was literally done by science? Your god had to wait for scientific breakthroughs, better medical equipment, more skillful surgeons to function. Also he has to work only if you have enough funds or insurance to handle the procedure. So if you dont have the wherewithal, the procedure wont be done,and your mom may d!e. Would you still praise your god? Also I'm sure if the procedure has failed,you'll blame the doctors, not your god. But when it succeeds,its your god You christians need to think!
ValeeLove: so you have that on every Emperor's tomb in history?
Many emperors tombs have inscriptions, artworks etc which date to their time. And carbon dating also checks out. Also external sources point to such tomb locations
ValeeLove: well if he was just an ordinary man why would Dionysus want Him to be the center of world history. Think man, think. Was Dionysus also sold a bill of goods like "modern day over religious dumb Africans"? I don't think so.
Many folks see people as heroes. Example,Many Muslims view Mohammed as a sacred figure. You dare not say anything wrong about him,and they rate him as the greatest figure in history. Would you believe Mohammed is the greatest just cos some folks view him as so? Exactly!
ValeeLove: I'll give you the external sources. But why would that even convince you when archeological evidence present in modern day Israel won't? From the pic below, logic doesn't necessarily have to be proven by science. For instance, love is logical but it cannot be explained by science. Same thing with spirituality. It's logical to believe in a creator because according to the Laws of Thermodynamics, energy can neither be created nor destroyed, so how did the universe come to be? It's perfectly logical (not scientific) to say it was created outside of time and space. If you pray and read, it's better than just praying or just reading. I stand with my comment.
Which archeological evidence PROVED THAT MATTHEW,MARK,LUKE AND JOHN WROTE THE GOSPEL? You haven't presented them yet. Love is not a logical concept and cannot be proven by science. About creation,atheists insist we dont know. So if I go by your logic about Thermodynamics Laws,who created that god? And what's your evidence that it was created outside of time and space. Also how do u know its your favorite god that di the creation. Again,for the third time,why do you think its better to pray and read,than to just read? I am asking for the explanation of your answer This is the third time I'm asking you this question. Is it that you dont understand the question or what
ValeeLove: mention the contradictions and misinformations.
I literally made a thread about the contradictions. Maybe you should take a look https://www.nairaland.com/7659505/book-bible-gaffes Also about misinformations...do you believe the earth and moon has ever stood still?
RoxyBrownAutos: The bible teaches we should preach in season and out of season.There is no time you give mouth food that it does not eat.The bill is anti Christ and anti Christian bill.It is through preaching ie telling people about God that souls are converted to their maker.
Is it right to use loudspeakers to preach early mornings?
Zooposki: Religion was designed by men and the patriarchy to devalue the matriarchy. The only person that bleeds and dies for you to bring you into life is your mother. Nothing like rib birth. Emancipate yourself.
I agree with you but why are women so protective of these manipulative and misogynistic abrahamic religions,more than men? In our society, women are more religious than men. There are more male atheists than females,in fact on this Nairaland, i have only seen 1 atheist, JessicaRabbit,quite an intelligent woman,but there's loads of male atheists
Elusive001: Read what you wrote again. Does it make sense?
If the iron dome and THAAD interceptors were depleted as you said, would it not have been common sense and logical that Iran capitalises on it to deal with Israel very well now?
SonofElElyonRet: So what caused the big bang? Stop shooting yourself in the foot. Something that was already in existence had to have triggered it.. Atheists won't accept it's Someone
Bro,no atheist says they know how the world comes to be. Its you theists that tell us all kinds of stories. We dont know how the big bang came to be. Scientists are still uncertain The problem with the stories theists provide about creation is that not only have they been proven to be lies,but they are inconsistent.
ValeeLove: the fact that I have information on ground today doesn't mean I have to produce a book right away. My point is producing the book later on doesn't mean the information wasn't obtained from first-hand encounter.
So who were the people who witnessed it first hand since it wasn't Matthew, Mark, Luke and John
ValeeLove: the early church fathers believed it was Matthew Mark Luke and John; it's the modern scholars that disagree. But answer this, why are historical dates measured and written based only on the birth and life of Jesus, a man you claim never existed. You can't even have this conversation without mentioning BC and AD. Is history that gullible?
Good question. I love this. Dates are measured in Anno Domini (A.D.) because a 6th-century monk Dionysius Exiguus wanted to standardize the calendar by making the birth of Jesus Christ the center of world history, rather than counting years based on the reigns of Roman emperors. Now because the phrase Anno Domini is explicitly religious, many modern historians and scientists use the neutral terms C.E. (Common Era) and B.C.E. (Before Common Era). Both systems share the exact same timeline. Remember many atheists dont have issues with the historicity of Jesus, what we debate on is HIS DEITY. Meaning his virgin birth,miracles, resurrection are not evidenced
ValeeLove: logic has every thing to do with spirituality, not necessarily science, but logic. If a man rises from the dead, it's logical to believe him if he says he's God.
The gospels have many external sources, you can look it up.
The one who prayed and read will most likely do the best.
The verse says trust in the Lord; that means in a situation or context that you need or have to trust in God for help and understanding, do that and not on yourself.
Logic absolutely has nothing to do with spirituality. It looks like you dont know what logic is. Maybe I'll define it for you Logic is the formal science of correct reasoning. It involves evaluating arguments to determine whether a conclusion is validly supported by its premises, separating sound, reasonable thinking from flawed or irrational conclusions. From the above definition, it is based off evidence and facts. Spirituality cannot be proven. Why do I have to define stuff for you christians always? You haven't even proven that a man rose from the dead,and you're already basing premises off it. You have been unable to show us the external sources of the gospel for days now, yet you're telling us to do the work for you. Na so u dey do? Why do you think the one who prayed and read would do better than the one who only read? Remember he used all his time to read,he didn't waste any time to pray. That's still what I'm saying. Your bible said not to trust in our logic ir understanding
Elusive001: So Jordan, Syria, Kuwait, Bahrain, etc attacked Iran first.
Bros, American refuellers take off from israel to deal with Iran.
To who brain is given, sense is expected
Iran is attacking US bases in those GCC countries And yes,Iran has been throwing missiles at Israel weeks back that depleted their Iron Dome,THAAD etc. They are concentrating on the US now cos that is the country currently attacking them now,Israel isnt engaged with them,Israel is busy with Lebanon Were you hiding under a rock?
The person Jesus told me so I believe. We can't see proof of Heaven, but as humans we are supposed to take the logical option and that option is Jesus.
Faith without work is dead. Work without faith is also dead.
They're Buddhists in China, but it wasn't a good example since they're mostly atheists. UK & USA built their Nation as a Christian major country. That's my point. Belief in God doesn't stop you from thinking, it does the opposite even and makes you better as a person.
So why should you believe in Jesus since there is no historical evidence that he's a god? Would you believe other gods just because their holy books said to believe in them? What has logic gotta do with religion? Religion believes in talking animals and bushes,mass resurrections, sun and moon standing still etc,which sre events that have not been proven to happen. So logic is out of the window for you. So faith without work is dead? OK, so lemme ask a scenario. I have 3 students for an exam. One ONLY prayed and fasted with faith,the other prayed and read,while the third one ONLY read for the exam. Which of them would probably pass the exam?
Belief in god actually stops critical thinking. Remember the bible discourages thinking and even explicitly says for you not to lean on your own understanding