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Ivynwa:
What is that?
Fans myself with tips of my fingers while shaking my head
No that wasn't only an a*s quake.
That was a bassline a*s with a voice making beats of its own. Hahahahaaaa!
Girl, pls let's hush and quit talking like bad a*s babes biko.

Ivynwa: Woooooyiiiii
Make the ground move
That's an a*s quake!
-Kanye West

Lol lol lol
Girl ain't we funny, tripping like dem fellas when they watch & ogle dem gyals as they dip it and a drop it.

victorian: A pervert is not boldly written on someone's head, to before warned ,is to beforearmed. I agree with the op, completely.. its a choice.

debrief08: Thank You, I dont even know what to say anymore dear. Most times I just shut up

Mowire: You are REPULSIVE!
So every Nigerian is a pervert?!
Where are you from?
NONSENSE!

seunfly: Jallow Op is talking from Nigeria point of veiw, thare are something that happen here may be due to our culture etc that makes all this good advice in Nigeria.

Ivynwa: Do you mean the Koshen?
Girl, Bubble gyal a bubble

Ivynwa: Cool Babes,
I'm liberal minded to some extent and doesn't see anything wrong with people spicing up their life the way they want as long as nobody isn't getting hurt while they are it for example I will always be like "people should let Charly boy do his thing as long as he isn't hurting anybody and isn't dabbling with h-omosexuality"(I happen not to support that one)--

Ivynwa: Jallow Babes you misunderstood me there. If you read my post again, you may understand it better. I never said that such a child will turn out as Charly boy. I only said that it may be all hippie and happy in the home of somebody like Charly boy. Hope you are doing great girl. Wish I can see your tattoos, I like to admire good looking tattoos.

Ivynwa: @Hakuna Matata

If Daddy sags and Mummy tats, Junior will be happy.
He has hippie parents that will be living cool,with plenty sweet hip music around the house and hippie stuffs.
I mean such parents won't be taking life too seriously, will be down to earth and fun to be with.
Yeah right! Hahaha!

Why do such scenario remind me of Charly boy, dude is busy enjoying and sparkling up his life even as a grandfather. I bet there won't be any dull day in the family life of such a person that is chilling and enjoying the fun things of life.

Mynd_44: Learn to close your eyes more

jidegirl12: Bad for baby's head and development? I laugh in French, are you for real? I won't go into Biology with you cos that's what I do just so you know.

That's how they talk? If your toddler still talks with a cry you better run to a speech pathologist and get him checked ASAP, my 3yr old can say a long word like 'disgusting', 'disrespectful' and so on.

It's called being fussy or cranky and it's either there's something wrong with him or she just needs to whine for attention, of course you can cuddle and all that but if it's a constant thing that she's milking then we need a break to get the message across.

maclatunji: I believe she has proper experience of the kind of babies I am talking about and feels she cannot kill herself with stress. I tell you, some of those babies make you feel that way.

peroskyeze: because UR A FAT WOMAN. STOP DEFENDIN NASTY DIRTY LAZY COWS

jidegirl12: Lol.. what are you talking about a child in that age range will sit ''quietly'' for 1-3mins? Come on now..

Leaving a child to cry to sleep will not hurt a child even for an hour as long as he's not running a fever and not hungry and you really don't mind the noise which does not always happen.

peroskyeze: IM ALLERGIC 2 FAT CHICKS

saintvc: I love her long hair. Very very long. I play wit it always. I hav warnd ha dat if she cuts it, iwe wil break up

hakuna matata: dont bother. i've seen them already!
dread, dread, dread, natty dread!.!

hakuna matata: my dear & u desired to hav them as body art souveniors? girl u give me the Hibble-de-jibbies! wld like to see them may i?
but truly, such looks wld only attract ruffians & rasta looking guys into ur world . u dont hav a prob with dat? i really want to know the kinda guys u get their attention. pls.

ileobatojo: Exactly how I would react depends on the extent, the frequency of the behavior and what precipitates it.

Here are some general techniques for the toddler age group though assuming all these things you said happen because the child is not getting their way (which is not the same as 'for no reason');
-If a child throws their toys away in anger, they don't get it back (natural consequences)
-Use of time out. 1 min per year of age.
-Don't give in to their demands because of the crying. Be firm.
-Ignore the behavior (after making sure they are safe). Any attention, negative or positive can reinforce it.
-Respond to the behavior right away or as soon as possible. They need to associate the behavior and the discipline so it can be effective.
-Be consistent. Don't laugh at the behavior one day and get mad the other.
-Be gentle. Kids that age respond better to the firm but gentle approach than the screaming, yelling, mean approach.

You're welcome.

maclatunji: For the purpose of this thread, a baby is 0-2 year old child. I know there are more than 1001 things that could be wrong with a baby and make it cry but this thread is more about babies who seem to take delight in frustrating their mother/care-givers by crying at the slightest excuse, throwing toys away, refusing to be pacified and generally constituting a nuisance. I am a little bit surprised that those who have responded so far seem not to relate with this.

hakuna matata: Didn't somebody say "how u choose to dress wld determine how u r adressed?" if u dress as a ruffian its only normal that pple look at in with that eye. u cant be clad in a lion's fur and want to be treated as a lamb. by the way we were only SPECULATING what junior MIGHT turn out to be(ALL THINGS BEING EQUAL) as a natural corollary from his parents. not what junior must be!

hakuna matata: morals, ethics & dress sense are among the many responsibilities parents owe their children and ALL parents do it well either by:
1. direct tutelage handing it down themselves or
2. condoning and looking the other way while 'society' does the teaching.
the probs with our digital civilization is that parents look the other way while cable Tv & internet does the mentoring.
either way, without ruling out d possibility of deviation, there is a greater probability that children wld pick more behavioural traits & patterns from either or both parents if conditioned. call me old fashioned if u like. ur dreads & tattoe didnt come from the dream na? ....exactly my point!
for all i dont know, ur child may end up being a tattoed & dreadlocked gentleman @ d bar. i'm not cynical about what he wld be but how i wld rather address him based on his appearance.

flourishing: sweet chicks please don't work yourself out just cos you want to shed a few. You are beautiful in every sense of the word. Let no one make you feel less of a woman cos you are not just a woman a BIG WOMAN. Whether its diet or in your blood line, enjoy your good life. God made somebody for everybody so your man will come. Some married men go outside to look for PHAT CHICKS cos they are the total package. They are good home keepers, good in the kitchen, good pillars, they can take care of you till death, young guys want them for sugar mummies cos them get money pieces. Wetin remain.

Idowuogbo: Bcus d guy sense no common, even if at all d model common, hin own na customise.