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deedami: whoever started this killed ma spirit.
cant spell reggae, cant spell Kalonji. . . dang !

I was just about to write the same..

omega25red: intorduce her to heroin or cocaine

joking aside he needs to decide fast if this is something he can deal with because it is very hard to stop a drug abuser from using their drug of choice. The only way they stop is when they hit rock bottom and choose to get treatment. Also weed is a gateway drug for most people. Once they get used to the high they get the will move on to harder drugs.

Google some facts.

Marihuana is not a gate-way-drug.
Marihuana dont get your body addicted in any way.

Peterwins: It's written at the back of the pack (for the small packs which I checked at a supermarket - Garki Supermarket Abuja) in white. They (Nestle) also specifically stated that Golden Morn IS NOT AN INFANT CEREAL. I will research (if I have the time) the negative effects of feeding children under 3 years with it. However parents should always be careful with what they feed their kids with. Check expiry dates, nutritional values, etc. I guess this should be on the front page to alert parents with kids under 3 years. Please spread the word and check your pack again. This isn't a rumour but a fact the manufacturers clearly stated. Thanks.

I dont understand why people dont just feed their kids the same food they are eating themself?

Up to the kid is about 1year, I can understand it. As a in-between-meals-smoothie etc, I can understand. But breakfast? Dinner? Evening?

honeric01: You ain't on my lane.

are their OKADAs in the western world?
O sissi means (oh sister), your mind already on the defensive.
You sag because?
Which point?

I dont know the meaning of Okada, and google tells me this is a japanese last name. If we have japanese people? Yeah.

Of cours my mind go on defence, sissi might mean sissy, which is not nice.

I sag because its comfortable, and nice. I already said that.
Some people dont sag because they dont find it comfortable, or nice.

Why do others wear a damn suit all the time? For me, THAT looks stupid, and un-comfortable. ( I am talking outside the office now.. )

CrazyMan: This has nothing to do with me silly...I'm only being realistic.

55% percentage of Nigerian men are guilty of the said offense.

Therefore in order to navigate through the dangerous waters of life, and preserve your marriage, you musn't react to every information you hear about your husband....rather, you must be tolerant in nature, understanding and a good listener.

Cos such strategy would do your marriage more good...rather than stitting ideal, typing jargons and throwing away years of labour (marriage) over an internet scandal.

Grow up.

No..what would be good for a marriage, is to NOT agree on such behaviour, and letting it have consequences. If you let it happen, he will think its alright to do so, when it in fact is not.
If my husband does not RESPECT me, why should I stay married? More women should ask themself that question.

Its not me who need to grow up here. And, there is a different between "flirting" ( saying to a woman on the internet that she is beautiful, f.ex, when she is flirting to you, but still letting her know you are happily married ), and saying to a stranger that you are not happy with your wife and wish to divorce asap.

Its men like YOU who say this is "nothing" who need to grow up.

alaric saltzman: @ least there is a female who sayz yes! there's nufin there...the rest is history!!!

Well, I had to ask him why he was giving me the money the first time, cause in MY culture, its not seen as a normal thing

honeric01: They don't use commericial bike in the western world, geddit now?

So sissi, you sagging in Nigeria is really a negative signal, if you like, wrap wrapper cover am. why not just buy saggy pants that's your size if you're not cool with using belt?

They dont? Yes, they do. Or are you maybe referring to motorbike-taxis?

Trying namecalling, ah? Not bad. I can play that too, but I dont see no need.
If I want to sag, I dont buy pants that FIT, that takes away the whole point of sagging, dont it?
And I use wrappers and dresses even more than I use sagging pants, so your whole point falls out.

honeric01: Do they use bike as a means of transportation in the US or any western country? this topic is actually for Nigeria.

And for you not wearing belt for your "over-sized" baggy pants, good luck

Yes, I do..I use the bike every day, hon. Nice try, though So does my brother, my mother, many of my friends as well. What, you think everyone is the western world have their own car or only use bus??

honeric01: Then we both are on the wrong path, maybe you're not in Nigeria, the topic is actually talking about sagging in Nigeria (low waist jean trousers) girls wear that exposes their back-side and their undies. not baggy pants.

Even baggy pants have belt holes right? you wear belt with your baggy pants or you just let it fall from your waist?

I sag them. Hence the term sagging. They are down on my a*s. Both with and without belt so they dont go any longer down.

And the topic says nothing about Nigeria, it is about sagging in general. You think people only do this in Naija?

tintingz: Nigerian doctors don't realy accept this "a man should be with his wife in the labour room" even in our culture it dosn't happen. . .na oyinbo tin be this buh i don't see anythin wrong in it being with my wife in the labour room(na me put the belle there na) buh the thing is that seeing her in pains and screaming and NOTE don't look down there aahh! At'all <gross> not advicable

My husband said that was the worst; seeing me in pain, and knowing there was nothing he could do to take the pain away, other than being there.

I told him I did not wanted him to look down (...lol. ) as the baby was coming, but when the nnurse said she could see the head, he looked down. Cant say it has made a difference in our lovelife, but, him seeing me go through the pain of giving birth of OUR child has definitly giving him extra respect and humbleness for me.

Freiburger: And seeing that and dealing with it is what makes you a man. Grow up.

I love you.

And; my husband was there with me for almost all 16 hours of labour.
He only left for 1,5hour to go and get a bag with things and clothes for me and the baby.

He is a muslim, and according to his tradition, he is supposed to be the first to whisper in the baby ears, and he got to do that. Seeing him with our child in his arms only a few min after she was born..goodness.

You can be happy as single or married, and you can be un-happy as single or married. It depends.

First of all; Be happy with yourself. That will make you happy with just about the rest of your life and situation as well..

CrazyMan: Opening a facebook account to ascertain whether or not your husband is cheating on you is a very wrong move.

The reason is that most men won't mind telling lots of lies on the internet just to win the heart of a woman.

So judging his personality based on what she experienced on facebook isn't commendable.


He would definitely fall for it, cos its natural.

I mean he was having fun. You should know that men are professional liars when it comes to pleasing a woman on line.

The truth is that he can never divorce his wife. And even if at all anything should happen between them, it would be a one night stand and nothing more.


Foolish woman. I strongly believe that if the reverse was the case, I see her falling...most especially if the man in question has a deep pocket... willing to lavish on an anonymous character.


So you us to commend you right?

Can you honestly tell me that if your wife plays a similar tactic on, you won't fall?

Are you serious? So...if a beautiful woman contacts you on facebook or whatever, you are "of course" going to flirt, say you dont love your wife, etc, etc, because..its FUN?

Pfff, she should kick his damn a*s out. And I feel sorry for your wife, or future wife, with that kind of attitude.

alaric saltzman: U met a gal, fixed a date at an eatery in which she agreed. on d d-day, after a little chat, it's tym 2 eat. is it rite for the guy to get the food, snacks or whatever, considering the fact that he is the one paying? or should he give the gal the money to get it(not being disrepectful) ??

In my husbands culture, they give the woman the money to go pay and order. Even if we are at the counter together in a shop or a restaurant or buying clothes for him, me or the baby, he always hands me the money to give to the person in the registrer.

No problem for me.

Does it affect her everyday-life?
Does it affect her work, her familylife?
Does it affect how she is as a person, as in; does it make her change personality when smoking?

If no to all of the above, I dont see the problem.

honeric01: We are talking about low waist showing off your butt-hole here, anything that exposes your butt-hole is a nuisance to the society whether you like it or not, if we allow freedom to be left to every single person, some people won't even find a need to wear any clothing.

BTW, there's nothing wrong with baggy pants or do you sag your baggy pants?

Maybe you should google sagging..sagging is the same as baggy pants. And people who ARE sagging, choose to either wear long enough shirts, or not.

*Kails*:
lol...no nonsense woman.

We need more like you. Some women are too docile and naive today. Ive heard some say "its just the internet...he flirts with them but he comes home to me at the end of the day!"....

Uh....yeah....right!

Lol in today's world more than one third of affairs start from chat lines!!

Anyway,
#back2bed!!

My husband is free to LOOK when he is walking in the streets, I dont own his eyes.
But to then start having fantasies about other women, flirting with other women, grinding on other women etc, etc..hells no.
If I aint woman enough for my husband, he aint man enough for me either.

honeric01: That's what i'm saying, the jean trouser is meant to be worn so as to feel covered up, but in a situation whereby after wearing the jean trouser, you still need to cover it with another cloth, then something is definitely wrong, i hope you will "carefully" see the message i am trying to pass to you.

Why wear a low waist that exposes your butt-hole when you can wear a normal one that covers the whole butt and you still look feminine? you won't understand, i have seen worse low waist, hence the reason i feel some people are ashamed of those wearing it.

There was a particular day i was on a bike, another bike rode pass us and the girl that was on the back was putting on low waist with her butt-hole out there for the world to see. the "silly" bike man packed, shoved some sand into his palm, then caught up with the other bike, he did the unthinkable, POURED the sand into the exposed butt-hole and cussed the living day out of the girl. i couldn't get angry with him nor pity the girl, was just indifferent.

In life, there are good things, there are bad things, why people prefer to wear what majority are against baffles me, i still can't see the brain behind such dresses.

1: I dont wear baggy pants showing of anything. Girls who sit down with crack showing is because of low-waist-TIGHT jeans, not sagging. Thats because they are low waist, and when your shirt is not long enough, it shows your underwear sitting down. ( The reason I never wear short shirts, btw. )
When I wear baggy pants or tight pants, you still never see my underwear, thats the difference.

2: If everyone was to do what the majority wanted, and not challenge anyone, where would that lead us?
different strokes for different folks.
What I consider beauty, is not the same for everyone else. And that is NOT a bad thing, that is a GOOD thing. The brain behind wearing what you feel comfortable in might be difficult for you to understand; it`s about confidence, and expressing yourself. If I wish to wear baggy pants on monday, I will. If I wish to wear a silky, long dress on tuesday, I will.

honeric01: What i don't understand is why wear something that makes you feel naked? well if you wear something better to cover up the lapses, then good but why even bother to wear an outside cloth that you need another cloth to cover?

I would still need to cover up the same parts, but with different clothes.
Baggy pants are ten times more comfortable than tight pants, even though tight pants makes my body look more nice.

Haha, it was actually a white girl who introduced me to the dancehall-music

But, I went to a big hippie-festival in Roskilde, Denmark, in 2008, and bumped into a show by Lady Saw, so it kinda started there.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBKowgK41E0

I was standing there, and heard this song and was like; daaaaamn, I love this!
Before that, I was mainly listening to hiphop and reggae.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XNcEXNWa6EU

Kails, this is one of my fav`s of Mr. Riley. Very talented man..
This reminds me of Mr. Jallow

He texted me today, and asked if it is really, really true that I have a ticket to go down.
I answered yes,before christmas, and asked if it made him happy.
He told me "Haha, I am dancing and enjoying the weather!"

1 month, 3 weeks.
I am even planning what to wear when I am getting off the plane to go meet him. Gotta look damn good when I see him for the first time in 6months, lol

vanstanzy: Girl, u get me so wrong. Its not a matter of what people can wear or not wear, but its a matter of, if u must wear cloths, pls wear it decently. Why do u think movies come with ratings? Answer: cos obscenity does not appeal to everyone. Note, we ain't talking of ladies wearing trousers or not here.

And, again, what is decent for YOU, may not be the same for others. For others, decent just means you are covering up. And if you wear baggy pants with a t-shirt or top covering your underwear, you are covered up.

honeric01: Why not just walk naked?

Look at the pics I posted on how it looks nice for me, and tell how that is close to walking out with no clothes??

yohanna zack: All these thins are strategies frm the pit of hell to increase the kingdom of hell. It's a pity dat christian ladies are d ones propagatin dis satanic ideas. It's a gross irresponsibility when a lady dresses dis way. And such a woman can not be married by any reasonable person.

You got me laughing out loud. Thank you!

vanstanzy: Either u cant imagine a lady sagging or u have decided to turn a blind eye to this abomination, called sagging in ladies (even men).
Do they even know its VERY IRRITATING?

I find it more irritating with peope I dont even know trying to act a boss on what people can and can not wear.

kunletiwoo: My dear, what is Abnormal is Abnormal, it has no other name than Abnormal.

So, the one and only truth about abnormal is YOUR words..?

https://static4.depositphotos.com/1001544/328/i/450/dep_3288250-Teenage-girl-dancing-hip-hop-in-the-darkness.jpg
https://uamodels.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/jeans-1.jpg
https://arietawho.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/AALIYAH.jpg

Like this.

Not like this:
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Toktee: You just do it to show your level of your indecency right or shuld i said you are a teanager?

No, and no.

What YOU consider nice, I might consider boring or even ugly.
Its comfortable.