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i actually love skinned women. Those who fit it. It looks plain beautiful.

kandiikane: Why is it that, nose rings look ok on white men and gay on black men?


.... I hate seeing guys with fat asses!

As a whitey..I think the opposite

Dlyna: Don't care what he does with himself. He should just stop advertising it. And rubbing it on our faces like its normal.

Someone asked if he was gay, he answered. I am proud of being straight, let him be proud of being gay.
Is it rubbing it in when he tells the truth?

Dipwater: @the gay guy,broda take it easy on this guys.I AM NOT GAY O,thinking about the whole thing as a str8t man is disgusting sha but dat wuldnt make me hate gay people. 4get about this guys,u no naija now ,we sabi judge people well well and we are f/u/c'king religious .

Back to topic: I
Pierced my ear
Wear necklace(tiny ones)
Do not sag(but not against it )
Have tatoo(chinua achebe on my arm) and
Fine dredlock
If u don't like it or u choose not to like me its ur choice .there is absolutely nothing wrong with these things.its a way of life ,u musnt like evrithing u see but pls be sensible enuff not to judge people thinking in ur mind that u are beter of thanks




And pls let the gay guy breath.

Agree.

I like men with tats, dreadlocks, that wear modest chains ( no big-boom-blings ), or skinned head, or baggy jeans, og pierced ears.
Hell, I can think many different men look god, like I said; as long as it fits the attitude, and is not just a show-off.

Cuddlemii:

I know And he said he is gonna let his beard grow now when he is Africa. Lol.
He gonna look like an ooold rastafarian. I wonder if he is gonna let his white hairs grow as well He will look like Burning Spear in 30 years. Love, love, love.

Cuddlemii: Anyways, I am rocking low cut right now.
It wasn't by choice but by mistake. Its hard to get hairdressers that make naija/african hair over here.
Last year october, I had glue and weaves on, I didn't removed it on time or I guess I messed up while removing the glue because all my hair vanished. I cried and went in front of a moving vehicle cos I loved my hair but its gone .


Well, the good thing about low cut, skin cut, short hair etc is that it makes u look younger, sexier and unique.
You get more toasters/admirers/people take pictures of the hair.
I am enjoying the complements(ladies inclusive) and I dnt need to bother about getting my hair professionally done, I just comb,brush and oil it and I out of the house. My face has become lighter cos of fresh air and I don't have reactions, pimples or spots usually caused by weavons. I feel good

Shiiit..thats why I prefer braiding it in. Tape and glue kills your hair, seriously. Have you heard about micro-rings, though? More and more caucasian women are using it, I never tried it though.

BelaMorena: ABSOLUTELY!

It's cool sis. None of my threads are closed to anyone. In fact feel free to share, comment or whatever you choose to do on here.

I am glad you appreciate African hair. I absolutely love it. I regret putting perms in it, even hair dye lol.

well, I won't stop dying my hair but you get the point I am sure lol.

Oh, girl..I have coloured my hair in aaaall types and shades for almost ten years. For the last three years I started to only blond them a liiittle bit every 6months.
My husband was the one who got me into natural hair. I had locks when I met him, with fakes extended. They were down to my ass, and he cut the fake for me, and it was at my shoulders..I missed it too much, but at the same time..I feel more, I dont know, down to earth? Natural? I like it.

Braiding is my fixation, I think you have been in my thread Just posted some new pics of my kids hair today, her hair is getting longer.
How often should I cut the tips of her hair? She have soft, curly hair, not tough/rough/kinky in any way..I never cut her.

CAMEROONPRIDE: u probably dnt even know the definition of racism or how racism looks like..but you know what i won't blame you i even understand you: YOU ARE WHITE

Nah, of course I dont. Cause white people NEVER get any racism, right?
Mhm.

Go outside your house and talk to some white folks. When people call me a damn whitey, mongrel, donkey, redneck, potato etc..that is racism. When people say "Bleep white people, I hate them all", that is racism.
( And yes, it IS. If I twisted it, and said all the bad words to a black dude people would call me a racist in 10sec. )

Lol.

Let gays be gays and straights be straights and bi`s be bi.
Aint my deal what people do in their beedroom, and aint my deal what people are attracted to either.
As long as the women who hit on me takes a simple no for an answer, I`m a happy camper.

No wonder there is war, when people want to decide how other people should live and love. Haters.

Do you mind if I pay attention this..?

My daughter is only cosing to 2years old, but me and her father is trying to keep it natural. We braid it, and use pearls, but we are hoping to encourage her to not put weaves in it as she grows up.
I love african hair, hoe curly and kinky it is. It seems like much work, I see my daughter, who is just half, get halfway-dreadlocks in the back of her head in the nighttime..

Keep it up, I love this!

CAMEROONPRIDE: it's not funny you should really stop mocking Africans..

Its funny when people think that racism only happens to africans, yes.
Almost hysterical, actually, to be so narrow-minded.

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Fixed the little ones hair today, sorry for the size
She loved this one.

Here is the back, I am holding up the braids:
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And the braids down:
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PAGAN 9JA:
yes and btw that is the kind of selective rascism, i was talking about , that whites face in their everyday lives. i would love that kind of rascism on myself. i mean, anyone would. it is like preferential VIP treatment. everywhere they, go, they get pai d higher salaries than dark skinned people.

and here they are complaining of racial discrimination and trying to gain sympathy.

Lol.

Go to Norway. Or better, google Norway and some of the immigrants here and see their salary.
We got something called minimum wage, you know. I know african people who earn ten times more than I do. That MUST be racism, dude.

Eiregirl: Ok, I'm not going to continue to argue with someone with a one track mind. It's cool. Have a good day!

Welcome to my world, whitey Good its more than only me in here.

CAMEROONPRIDE: yes ..Africans or so called 1/3 world are the only victims...

Lol.

CAMEROONPRIDE: it's my thread go create a thread where white will complain about racism ..this is for Africans esp those abroad ...i don't see how i am racist

They maybe you should change the main topic, then.

You really think only africans have experience with racism?

Thats like the president og Gambia saying he can cure AIDS.

Pfft, if these people really, really could cure it, they would be world famous and damn rich by now. That would have spread to the whole world.

onnari :
@ jallowbah I'm sOooooooooo dissapointed in u! Haba! No pics? :-( u want us to imagine d dress! Biko pist a pic let's c n admire. Well done!!

Haha, I promise, I will take pictures when I am wearing it on tuesday I am thinkin about fixing it some more, adding something somewhere..lol. I dont even know yet, maybe I will get some thoughts from the girls here?
Tuesday, I swear

You guys got me so inspired that I made a dress yesterday, finished it today.. Plain yellow maxidress, little bit fitted, but very simple, with matching scarf for the head

Thank you all!

Tight, tight skinny-jeans. Apart from that? Not much, as long as it fits the attitude.

You sound like me. I have the same feeling for my husband. He has brought out the best in my, and makes me WANT to be a better person.

Like one said before; do small things in the everyday life. Cook his fsvourite meal, bring home his favourite snack/drink when you`re in the shop. Enjoy some time together when the baby is sleeping, dont forget to be lovers AND parents as well. Do things for him he has told you he likes.
Get someone to watch the baby one night, go out and eat and dance and enjoy.

Take good care of the love

Patsey: May we safely infer that through your marriage to this white girl/woman, you have, like several other immigrants, indefinitely settled yourself in the white man's land?

And what is wrong with that?
Some people stay, others go home. Some stay until retirement, then go home. Others stay only a year, then go home.

You should live in the place and country that makes you happy.

To have a phone from about 6years of age when she goes out with her friends, no problem.
To bring to school and have full control herself, from around 12.

Amya: Nope. Most women that get beaten by their men ask for it (indirectly). A gentleman would never hit a woman no matter how much he's provoked.

...wait. What?

If I slap my husband, he can slap me back, yeah. But that is wrong, on both parts.
Most ask for it..thats some of the most bull I have read on this forum.

gbokukueba: I agree with you 100%. I have a 3year old and at some point fiddles with my phones and even knew how to open it when i lock it but after a stern and firm warning she doesn't go near the phones only when it is ringing and to give me or her mum.

I dont get it when parents say their children destroy their phones while they just laugh it off as part of life until the child destroy something bigger than phones.

Because it takes time to learn

My daughter drowned my phone because I fell a sleep on the couch when she was 1 year old. Wich means; my own damn fault.
I have said no to her every time. But when it calls, she is more than welcome to come say hi to the one on the phone 90% of the time. She know that no means no now, but at 1years? Thats when she started understanding what belonged to whom.

BelaMorena: He isn't the sharpest f00l tool in the shed.
Don't pay him any mind.

He, like the OP, doesn't even respect his own kind much less others but want to cry about racism.

Oh, I know. JUst look at how he write about white people. Its alright, I have met worse.

Yes, the Rastafarians. Not the rastas. You got it.

And last time I checked, my hubby was a muslim. Doubt he will change that one.