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@satani, ok oh! I don free una, mk u enjoy, na ur LUCK. Coz mehn she is kul!

Mrs.Chima:
Of course, Mygoldie I know! You can have Jaybee though! He been replaced with Stephen P

hmmmm!! I'm seeing Mrs. Chima's other side/face, n it's kul, vry kul! @190, y not open a new thread 4 guys, So, we can pick our NL wives n g.fs ?

Hmmmm, bhusayor n satani, u guyz re mkin sum1 jealous oh!! @topic, i haven't met any yet, bt i really luk 4ward to meeting MS. CHIMA, i'll luv 2 knock-off dat anti-men attitude of hers, outta her. *winks*

@Upendo, u're stil nt gettin our (me n @Dyt) perspective rite. Usin ur example, letz say mis. Apple marries mr. Dragon n afta d marriage she becums mrs. Dragon or mrs. Apple Dragon fine. D couples 4 d sake of d brand, can n shld leave their change of name 4 their personal affairs. It shldn't affect d brand. Nw, lets say d brand produces a new product, say iphone-30, it shld stil be APPLE IPHONE-30 (nt mindin d change of name as a result of d marriage). In diz way d patronage wil be maximized.

@upendo, brownjay? Dat aint me oh! N wen i said 'i dey feel u die' (a Naija pidgin slang) i don't mean i want 2 die, it means (oops, difficult 2 translate 2 standard English) i lyk ur threads. N seriously, 1 of diz dayz u'll be voted 1 of romance section's most meaningful posters. @topic, lyk Dyt was tryin 2 say d marriage n change of name shldn't affect d brand. E.g if Ophrah Winfrey gets married 2 James (sumtin i seriously wish wud happen. *winks*) she wil bcum Mrs James, bt d show can n wil stil be, THE OPHRAH WINFREY SHOW. Isn't dat true?

I tink d prenuptial agreement its a vry gud, infact EXCELLENT arangement. It helps one 2 knw if d potential marriage partners dat cums one's way re genuine or jst afta one's hard earned wealth. In a way, its lyk a sieve, sievin out those who luv u 4 WAT u are (or wat u have) n nt WHO u are. A person truely luvs u wud happy sign d agreement, bcoz he/she doesn't luk 4ward 2 d crashin of d marriage, he/she @ dat point in time, only sees a happy marriage lyf lastin 4 as long as u both may live, therefore d agreement won't cum into play.

@upendo, i've bn followin all ur threads, n like i said in 1 of dem, dey feel me wif awe, infact, i dey feel dem die!! (hope u knw wat dat means. LoL) @topic, in my humble opinion, d solution is simply, she shld bear d both names. I've seen women who, 4 sum reason, bear 2 to 3 names, includin their family name b4 marriage. So, she cn bear Mrs. Brandname, Dragonfly.

Mrs Chima, once again showin her anti-men n so-called anti-bullshit self. He is jst a new member, instead of welcomin him, u're kickin is arse so hard. U knw wat, i tink u're really a pain in MEN's arse. LoL. @OP, like sum1 said in evry collection there re alwayz d bad n good eggs. It isn't easy 2 find a wife-material (sum1 u're compatible wif) so kip searchin, no matter hw many dates u go into, u'll find dat SPECIAL woman 4 u. B.S: evry1 is wif 1 flaw or d oda, there is no PERFECT WOMAN.

@Upendo, u kip talkin abt d man gettin promoted, if datz a realistic drim, if really he'll get promoted soon, den she shldn't leave. Lyk sum1 said happiness in marital lyf is much more better dan wealth, on dat note, i'll say let dem kip managing 4 nw until wen he gets promoted n he cums home wif an upgraded pay package (which shld b soon). Meanwhile, let her kip searchin 4 jobs within their environs, as far as she kips searchin, job opportunities wil cum up, it wil nw b left 4 her 2 choose d 1 she prefer.

@kutey, hmmmm, datz no way 2 address a gentleman lyk me, ur tone was 2 harsh, were we fightin or sumtin dat u're soundin as if i've touched u where its hurt? Can't u express ur opinion without being insultive? Well, lukin @ d points u've raised, i strongly disagree wif point 1, bcoz i've done sum research b4 i posted dat. D mortality rate of male children is higher dan female children in any country in d world n other factors (lyk war, fatal accidents @workplace most times, alwayz affect men) contributes 2 d reduction of d male species. As 4 point 2 n 3, i have notin 2 say abt dem, u're probably rite in ur own way. However, wen it comes 2 infidelty, i can't bt stress diz fact, DAT NO MATTER HW DISCIPLINED N PRINCIPLED D MAN IS N NO MATTER HW MUCH HE LOVES HIS WIFE, dere is alwayz dat natural tendency 2 flirt wif other women, either bcoz dey re younger dan his wife or re more sexually attractive. Abt 80% of men actually succumb 2 dat tendency @ sum point in their lives. So, get diz i'm nt tryin 2 justify dere actions, i'm jst statin d obvious fact!

@upendo, i tink d best solution 2 diz problem is, lyk i said b4, d man shld move wif her. However considerin wat u've mentioned abt d man nt lykin d idea of being a house-hubby, i've refined it diz way : wat if she 1st leaves n start workin wif d company n den in d 1st few months she actively luks 4 a job 4 her hubby (it might even be @ d company she wrk wif, she kip pesterin her boss abt d fact dat she's married n wants a job 4 her hubby, hopefully wif her connection she might get it) n wen d job clicks, as in, she finally succeeds in gettin him a job, he den move ova 2 join her.

Few hrs ago, Akon tweeted on his twitter account dat he n 2face Idibia re workin 2gether @Atanlata on a track. Woww, we cn't wait 4 u guyz 2 roll it out.

@Upendo, its really 9ice of u 2 be always there 4 an emotionally distress soul. Thumbs up 2 U. @topic, 5yrs huh? Wel, isn't there a possibility dat wen d contract elapse, dependin on her performance on d job, she cud be retained? If there is, den dey cud stil move. Bt, wateva is d case i'm nt comfortable wif d idea of d lady leavin her husband 2 tk up d job, coz i'm 1 of those who blive dat men re naturally flirtitous, even dose wif d best intentions. Considerin d fact dat dey JUST GOT MARRIED, its highly risky 2 seperate frm her hubby n expect him 2 remain faithful n wait 4 her until whenever she returns. So, d bottom-line is, if she must leave den she shld insist on leavin wif him, otherwise she shld remain in d country n pray n hope dat anoda opportunity comes her way. (rmemberin, though, dat opportunity, esp. A golden opportunity lyk hers, cum but once)

@mrs chima, so u tk pride in being a pain in pples' arses? Wel, gudluck 2 u in ur endeavor. Bt in my case, wud u pls reduce d pain, my arse is so hot its threatin 2 go off, if u don't do sumtin soon!

@Upendo, i can't help wonderin hw u get all diz ur real life stories. (u must b a trusted counsellor wif lot of troubled friendz.) well, bck 2 d topic, in my humble opinion, i tink d man shld mk d sacrifice. Though it won't be easy bcoz of d natural masculine ego n d feelin of being d head of d family, he shld be mkin d finally decision n all dat. However, considerin d fact dat HIS JOB ISN'T BRINGIN D REQUIRED INCOME N DIZ JOB CUD BE THEIR LUCKY BREAK, if i'm in his shoes, i'll let her go n probably move 2 d foreign country wif, if all goes wel, i cud find myself a job ova dere. So basically dey cud move 2gether n settle dwn in d country.

Mrs chima!! Mrs chima!! Mrs chima!! U're such a pain in MY arse. Free me jor!