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CXLVII:
This man is abusing a substance that is not good for his health.

He has been spewing a lot of gibberish of recent which is glaringly an after effect of Hard drugs

bodybuilder:
Any steroids for body building available in Nigeria?

Pills? I need it for building muscles. I want to buy.

Ningen:
Rapist are killers.
The society doesn't need people like him.

The authorities should extract all the vital info and then swiftly fire hot bullets to kiss his head.



Nah you joking ryt??...They need to die slow. Straight torture. Headshot is an easy death.

mattfeuter:
Ah! Let’s unpack this!

You have a boyfriend/in a relationship (who you clearly said has been treating you right) that’s not enough ,

You have another guy who is a “friend” according to you but you find him attractive and have deep intimate conversations with.

You told the second guy about your boyfriend and bad man japa, now this is where it gets really interesting! So it bothered you that much that the new guy isn’t talking to you again that you had to open a thread on NL ( all these while having a whole boyfriend).


You even have the nerve to want to friend zone the other guy lol (couldn’t be me tho)

You know you’re cheating right

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

Gadafii:
She's sweet and loyal indeed, baba every girl got a price tag on her head, not every girl might be for sale tho

That ex done pull up with a whip and u expect her not to shake like tiger generator, after all na him burst her cherry, that feeling will still be there, there is everything possibility she will fall back to her ex.

My advice sit her down and have a deep conversation with her, ask her what she wants, you or her ex, make her realize her that choosing her ex won't hurt u(we know it will sha).
If she chooses you, she will have to cut ties with her ex(this one go hard her) but she have to, if she chooses her ex, bro na inside life..if she says she doesn't know what she wants, bro u already lost her, collect enough points from her before you call it quit

Life isn't fair after all

Kylekent59:
The only way is to take that reasoning off your mind.

See her as your own sister, don't let what you had seen deceive you. Some girls like being jovial, they feel at home and smile to others.

Just like back then in school, a girl packed in newly, and she started introducing herself, making friends to every occupants of that lodge.

One of the occupants started boasting that the girl loves him... I think he presumed.


So, at OP, don't presume she has interest in you. She's just being herself.

I wonder what would happen if she is always giving a non-smiling face, or snubs you or rather always staying outside while you are indoor, you would create a post on how she hates and wants to kill you.

Herdsmen:
Uche m di ya nwa dia..Owero! Corona pakiziri men over here.

Herdsmen:
Otu nkwo!

The very place of hustle.. main market .. federal line, Lagos line , concord, bright,niger , olboy I miss otu.

No lazy man for otu ..

Sheriman:
Shut up what are you doing? scamming people all around.. looking for the next victim bait