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Yes if she doesn't see it has an obligation and I can afford it
if either of the above 2 is in doubt then capital No

How are ya Miss Nayah? been a while

ebonyvibe:
'He is a Muslim' - So i take it he is married

My friend stay clear and find your own husband now that you are divorced and leave another woman's husband. This sounds like lust to me and if he was interested he will tell you. He will just sleep with you several times and when he is tired let you really know he is married

Don go spoiling people's home cos you cant keep it in your pants

Chei see correlation, you must be a genius

hmmmmm

why females only?
have u asked those close to you?

Please no more e-fights guys
On me knees begging

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A year should be more than enough but then again it all depends on the relationship

Downsize Downsize Downsize if you are gonna struggle with your current arrangement.

The key thing here is never to expect anything from anyone bar your folks. Try being independent when in relationships as it's going to serve you in the long run

damilolami:
There are times that despite doing your homework to the best of your abilities, the deceit of men cannot be unveiled plus we only allow ourselves to see what we want at times.

What's important to you in life? An educated man or a man worthy to be called a husband?

lovedgal:
is it possible to see here that I am not maintaining that it is his obligation to fulfil my financial responsibilities? But I would expect that he show some concern financially especially when he has the means and can see me struggling at this point where things just got really tight. I am not just sitting down and waiting for this man to come and attend to all my financial needs. If I had the means and saw a friend who really needed help, I would offer to help even though I am not obliged to,

I am working on getting a better paying jobs but until then, the bills are coming regarding and these are not for material things,  Its just the basic needs I am needing help for,  like rent , even for just 1 month,

Red => Contradiction

Why on earth would you expect a man that isn't married to you pay your rent? Once again, is he your dad? I dislike women that expects their boyfriends to take up their own responsibilities all because they are so lucky to be tagged as bf's.
if you can afford your rent then move the heck back home.
You not being able to afford your rent speaks negatively of you. I seriously hope you aren't one of those that would rather spend money on clothes, phone et al before considering rent and food.

Make yourself responsible so you can have your dignity and self worth intact.

Your wedding = Your Choice

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WOW WOW WOW
May the Lord bless you abundantly

r231 = resistor

The only solution on the table for her is to first go for family planning, and then help set up a viable business if she is buoyant enough.

You Should only expect financial support from your dad or husband.

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Did part 1 reach the 100 pages threshold or thread got locked?
I am confused.com

what ever happened to part 1

You HAVE [/b]to spend [b]QUALITY time with someone before you can conclude if the person is right for you.

deols:
would have thought the romance mod had enough eye opening already. .weird world I must say

you may be right but i certainly ain't see enough from an Islamic angle. liking the convo on this thread so i'm definitely gonna continue keeping meself updated/refreshed with the interesting dicsussions
Sunday going good btw?
Preparing for work 2moro?

This thread is surely an eye opener.
Keep it coming guys

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Most def

hmmmmmmmm

Simply because if you are a singleton then you only have to worry about own responsibility whereas once you take on the husband title and in-turn accept your other half as your additional responsibility then it's only natural to be aware of the need to tighten one's belt

Ladyjide:
No i think you are just taking a stab at me, lol, but if you say so!

How dare I take a stab at Queen E
Where have u been all this while though?

loool
Just pointing out that their is indeed two sides to a coin.
No right or wrong way

^^^^
How about the saying, If something is worth fighting for