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Why shouldn't everyone on the prowl look at getting the biggest prize?
Call it childish but human beings will generally wanna fill fulfilled for taking the big catch home.
What you've described is not gender specific.
We can't control choice neither can we help the people we are attracted to

PureOhio:
Honestly, I can't really afford to be rude or mean to these guys or anyone else for that matter. Their family and my family are in the same circle of Nigerian friends. Even if I hated them, I'm kinda stuck with them for the next couple of years lol. My father and their parents grew up in the same area, went to the same schools, traveled to the same places so we're all pretty much tied to each other whether we like it or not. I'm sure you kinda see where I'm going with this.

Try dating outside of that circle.

PureOhio:
I went to a  Nigerian get together in Atlanta recently, and I met some really nice Nigerian guys. They were all cool and assumed both my parents were Nigerians, then they found out my mom was an African American and they totally lost interest in me.

Are you sure they didn't lose interest cos of the way you came across? Men don't usually lose interest by having mere conversations especially to pretty girls like you. We only lose interest if the girl comes across has having some loose bolts in her head or just plain dumb/arrogant.
Anyhoo, ain't nothing wrong with you, you just need to look outside of your comfort zone.

Answer = > https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-26009.32.html

Why r u picking on the girl Mr?
The thread title is self explanatory don't you think?

AjanleKoko:
Well, they look at potential returns, a good life, possible Brit citizenship in the future, all of which 8k can't buy.
Why are middle class Nigerians spending upwards of $10k to have babies in the United States?

Not a fair comparison financially oga,
Chances of achieving all you've mentioned above with a risky investment of £8k is almost negligible whereas an investment of $10K provides them with better odds as the US still have favourable laws i.e.
Children born in the US with alien parents are automatically classed as American citizens. It's a different scenario entirely in the UK.

US with larger land mass, bigger economy still provides people with much better odds of getting jobs compared to a non manufacturing economy

AjanleKoko:
For people who are willing to spend that kind of money to relocate, if I was Cameron, I would 'organize something' for them.
As per the jobs issue. Don't blame me, but I hardly run into any Brit working anywhere anytime I'm in London. It's always strictly Indians, Pakis right from immigration, and even driving the cabs, and Eastern Europeans at all the corner shops and McDonalds. You hardly run into any 'omo onile'. I thought they were done with workin'

The Government is crying oh, people are actually being forced off the dole so less free loaders.

Fhemmmy:
Even if you go for a mortgage . . . . such loan is what they called good loan.
However, if you misappropriate the mortgage, then, there is a problem.
[b]A nice building in a nice area in Lagos or lemme say Nigeria and you get reliable tenants, no matter how you finance the building . . . . it is a good investment.[/b]

Are you sure about this Mr? What's the rationale for having 'em sky rocket house prices around lagos Island?
I hope you know property values crashes once people have increase ease of getting from A to B.
Demand is the only thing driving prices in lagos and once transportation problems eases then you will generally expect demand to subside and in turn a massive property crash
Thread carefully bro

AjanleKoko:
Well, whose fault is that?
I'll bet that for every illegal immigrant they catch, ten others prolly give 'em the slip.
They should get off the air and chase the illegals.

Good question but we can't really blame the UK for upholding human rights regardless to the detriment of her own citizens

I think the message from the awareness campaign is the hopefuls should really think twice if the Journey is really worth it.
why they risk up to £8K to a country that can deport them right after stepping into the land is beyond comprehension

Yes if you have the money as it's always going to be a worthy asset
Not any more if you are going via the mortgage route as house price crashes provides one with the threat of having negative equity at the end of loan duration.

AjanleKoko:
The Brits seem to be really fixated on this immigrant thing sha.
Make dem go rest jare.

UK being a welfare state can't simply afford the projected population growth rate.

Squeeze everywhere hence the constant Immigration headlines/front pages of political campaigns

Duplicate thread
Continue here => https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-347475.0.html

You have all the answers that you seek embedded in this thread =>https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-553653.32.html

The search button is really very user friendly

@Thread
Your questions seems all over the place
Absolutely no correlation between the question and what you are trying to iron out.

The saying comparison between a city girl to a village girl doesn't have anything to do with the actual location but more of the habits and behaviours that comes with living at such locations.

Yet another unnecessary recycled topic
Issue has been over-flogged so please continue here =>https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-34237.96.html

Looks like dis thread needs serious cleansing

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=691515.msg8531491#msg8531491 date=1308239821] When are you up for a ban?[/quote]depends on the ban
what kinda r u talking abt Q

errm errm errm wats good bro? what's wrong with going with what you know/comfortable with?
Are you ready for a cultural/behavioural shock?
Why have you suddenly decided to go for Naija girls or do you think they had be willing to accept any used goods?
Just thinking aloud really

Cos u missed me or something?

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odiaero:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9fE4JXcyE2s&feature=related That is my first  ride b4 i bought RANGE, me driving it out after changing tyres, u can go and hang urself after watching it, i will keep the fronting coming, haters should kill themself

you never informed us about the arm replacement surgery that you had dumbo

1) Used to but not any more and not because i was dumped or whatnot. IMO the whole love shebang brings unnecessary emotional stress that can be best diverted to things that can benefit one in great deal


2) Yes we all do but the more matured we become the easier it gets when it comes to controlling it so it doesn't get outta control

odiaero:
Alright when am done programming

Here you go again . . . .Geeeez, must u always wanna front?
Some people are actual programmers in real life but they don't go around updating everyone about their step by step movement.
how old r u sef, 16?

Nayah:
lol JB, you want them all

I want u alone
I'm sure u know this already

odiaero:
^^ Lol, beside, why did u move my topic in the romance section?, cos the other MOD said u are the one that moved it

Meet me at the romance section complaints thread

yeye boi

Back to topic
when is the yeye dollar gonna find respite?

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=690613.msg8530322#msg8530322 date=1308230030]^^ lol-- JB wetin be dis na? Was that supposed to be a pick-up line?[/quote]I thought i'd get in line now since you are being chased right, left and centre. Maybe a lil chasing at acute angle might just do the trick.
anyhoo, u get mouth . . . .u be ma aburo nau no be so
Just looking out for ya

odiaero:
Are u insulting me, about the payment why dont u go and ask him?, i hope u dont just insult me, cos next time u wont know what hit u

making mouth yet again on www. Seriously SMH for ya?

^^^
Can i have your number as well?
I need to play me the lotto this wkd since you got da hot digits

^^^^^
And what if i did? Why must you display your arrogance all the time on NL?

big mouth odiaero don dey make mouth again?
Big playas keep mute silly billy
U paid honeric back fully?

Yes that why I'm coming from the angle of it being an ideal situation but marriage these days is all about being realistic.
Ain't no perfect match out there. We have to work with those that complement us.

@ Long one
Our mothers are right in the sense that if you marry someone that loves you then you are almost guaranteed to have a successful marriage in the sense that the person will cherish you and most probably put you first in all they do whereas if you marry someone that you love and doesn't necessarily give a reciprocal love back then the chances of things not working out is a lil higher.

look at this scenario, u marry your long term gf that has always been there for you all through life challenges. Chances that this lady or man will continue to be there till death do any apart is way higher than you just meeting a random bimbo who ticks all the box in terms of sexiness bla bla bla but have reservations when it comes to her kind of man.

So many sense in what our elders say ma friend but the reality of things makes it difficult to find that perfect match