₦airaland Forum

Calibrator:
Not a fan of this show but it seems like they only make headlines for sexual acts.


Are you organisers are not spiking their air spaces with pheromones to induce sexual acts?

Really? Do you know what it means for a sexually active person to abstain for one month, two months and three? It's hard bro. And in the house there is no distraction like a smartphone or sth. You know, before now i used to show disdain for the show and the participants -- i felt it was just some meaningless show without value. Until one day when it crossed my mind that these guys are there without their phones, i began to pay attention. Like, this is a difficult exercise in self control and endurance. These days i don't dislike it -- I'm indifferent. But they are trying.

I don't know about immaturity but he is clearly not a good leader; But then, which Nigerian politician is?
A good leader does what is best for all concerned.
A useless leader puts his own interests first, always.

Politicians wife or daughter or mistress.
Mobile police, land cruiser jeep (with covered number plate if you checked) and siren. That's not a private citizen.

Mufakirnaqdiun:
Everybody know that one na,make this man go find solution to his priests unending attitude of raping innocent boys.
Abeg is this not the time for him to prove how real his God is?
Simple pray to your God so he can stop the war/natural disasters/starving children with the snap of his finger,and don't tell me about freewill,when the God himself already predestined everything.

Again this is not fulfilling anything the Bible says because people have for decades proclaimed the end of days according to Bible prophecy.
None of the “prophecies” in the Bible pertain to our time. They meant something to the people who wrote those stories, but they’re irrelevant in our time.
Don’t waste any time or mental effort trying to figure out what they mean to us today. There’s nothing to figure out because the Bible is as fake as a fiction book.
And any slave who can't stand my words should feel free to rant.

You're angry at God.

delzbaba:
Street boys that climbed the ladder of success,see Koko Zaria chai,, within 15 yrs this ones too will contest for senator and governor.

Oh, i see you be oshodi man too. Na every day i dey see them for field dey smoke dey play up and down. Yet their money just dey pile up. This life no balance.

Omo... This matter never still clear Sha

Interesting. I hope he can control his mosquitoes and not suddenly release them to wreck havoc on innocent neighbors.

JASONjnr:
Wondering if Nigeria have the capacity to experiment things that could lead to any form of discovery of this kind when back at the University, we weren't given the privilege to experiment with uranium... Heard that Africa is banned from doing so... But Russia and European countries keep experimenting and creating more nukes to their massive weapon collection....

Have you wondered why africa is banned from that? You think radioactive compounds are a joke right?

CondemnBattery:

The way Oyinbos marry and divorce, and re-marry like a bad changing diapers is very disturbing.
And these same people want to stuff their beliefs on Africans.

It's better I marry 10wives than marry divorce, marry divorce and continue exponentially

They are too liberal. Their values are not deep rooted. Africans have more respect for cultural institutions than these Caucasians.

signature2012:
Reno is delusional.
Since the emergence of Peter Obi as Labour Party Presidential candidate,he has been acting like someone with mental disorder.

Campaign for your Atiku and let others campaign for theirs.

Of course he has a mental disorder. A mentally healthy person will never be all over the place like this. I believe the man has some trauma he needs to deal with,but not like this.

benuejosh:
That guy i am sure was sick and died because he couldn't get medical attention which was beyond roots and other form of herbs.

And he survived for 30 years. 3 decades.

Slay queen who got pregnant in her line of duty.

Slayar:
I gave her 10k for the nite

Ok, i felt she negotiated 10k upfront.

donleo92:
Na that one she go swung into action.
tell your husband to pay workers salary or do road, you no go swung in action.
nonsense of the highest order

You are hopelessly daft.

Interested.

This one na recreational centre.
I probably shouldn't judge but "by their fruits you will know them."

OriOko88:
The highest amount I paid is 6k. It was with a fellow ijaw corper then while serving in ekwusigo anambra state. It was the first time I experienced a girl suck and swallow sperm off my dvckk. Damnn. I still reminisce that day till now. Keme Joy is now married

You paid 6k for what?

Slayar:
10k for a night. She told me she has a bf bla bla bla, she don't do hookup, I invited her over for a drink at a bar closeby. After 3 bottles each and pepper soup I started touching her,I told her if I no fuvk her dis nite na fuvk up.

She reason with me and called the mumu bf and lied to him. We went to hotel,she wanted her breast sucked, I no hesitate. bleeped her 3times from night till morn.

So she didn't collect the 10k or what?

SeaTrade:
One weyrey billed me 400k for knacks for VI a few days back,I price am down to 60k and was willing to pay,
However when I got close to her,found out she bleached terribly and is just a local hustler in ballers space opportuned by conji to even speak to a nigga like me.
I told her that let me go and withdraw the funds,that I don't transfer.
She say make she follow me before another girl carry me,I declined.
I boned her,went up to sleep.
She call tire ,I no pick.
She sent a text that "if I'm broke,I should just say so".
I just smiled and didn't respond.
I'm not in the habit of giving champagne to maltina girls, make she try gee boys jarey
I pay according to cleanliness,I'm hardly carried away!

Pls is this a real life story?

The story of senior ho' and junior ho'.

Do you blame her? She needs some lovin' too.

Vibekiller:
I just don't like anything about this country anymore.

You're not alone, i promise.

jaxxy:
The best advice I can give u is to go celibate or di fasting.

U can only repel a bad attitude with a stronger or equal and opposite force/attitude.

That's not just a spiritual law bt a universal law of physics and change.

You are totally right

Injera:
Masturbation will give you dandruff , shrink your penis , make you go bald and older than your age. All these happened yo me but I finally slayed it. 140 days of no porn and masturbation. My life took s turn for the better. Slay the demon

Are you on nofap?

Hustle2flex:
Believe me bro,that is what am currently doing and I am getting better everyday.most importantly, visit a mental health physician.that was what really turned my situation around.

I imagine you must have spent a fortune on the private mental health thing.
It's cheaper in a general hospital like Yaba if you lived in Lagos State. Don't know where you live tho.

Unyimekelvin:
I need someone to say something about this before I commit suicide please

Commit suicide ke..? Omo just go Yaba psychiatric hospital and talk to someone.

Now I'm truly convinced that a man who can have control on his lustful desires has successfully avoided about 60% of his problems..

You are earning 63k. If you think you are financially able why don't you marry her.

Most guys don't know what they want in life and it's a shame.

You don't want to marry. You are looking for a human reservoir for your sperm. Now she has a child for you and you want her to be suffering with you because of your child.

Nigga you are simply wicked. Let that girl go immediately.

Rozross:
One of the many disadvantages of polygamy . Before you fulfill your lustful desires as a man by going the polygamy route, you should also pause and think about it’s disadvantages. So sad

Exactly. Self control is bae

Lagosanambra:
How do I engage these girls?

Growing up, I tried to concentrate in school even while at the university, to avoid distractions.

I had just few girls around.

I have since the past 3 years--- after relative success in my field--- had few flings, wooed and slept with a few girls too from all tribes; had like 3 living with me for weeks at some point.

Now in early 30s I feel like I should seek something serious.
I find myself picking phone numbers from girls but then I come home, initiate a chat introducing myself but I have no zeal to take it further than that.

I just get tired of the whole thing.

Again, some of them seem uninterested.

You notice this lack of interest from the way they respond with monosyllables, respond after several hours or days or even abandoning the chats outright.


This is more pronounced if you come off too as gentle, without bragging, showing off etc.

I have no difficulty giving girls things occasionally but I hate to feel used or feel a woman is interested in only what she can gain in the short term- immediate gratification.


Going on dates would have been a good option as many girls would hardly reject free food, drinks etc but I don't have the time or energy hence deem it otiose, that's beyond the financial implications as many of the girls are coming to the dates to access you, not necessarily to know you.

And I hate showing off.


How do you guys navigate around this conundrum please especially if you are looking for something serious and not just sex?

This seems like a genuine concern. I pray you gain enlightenment so you can be really clear about what you want in life.

You seem like an ambitious young man so why settle for mediocre women who offer you nothing other than an orgasm and ejaculation. Mind you, your semen is actually very important to you. You can't be wasting it for pleasure. It's what makes you a man. But I'm digressing and i know you may not find these my last points funny.

So, bro, just go on doing your thing. Your goal is number one for you. Maybe one day you can meet a woman that you actually have something in common with, and you guys can hit it off.

In my case, people are always telling me: "guy you be fine boy, you can sleep with many girls. Why are you not having fun?" I don't reply because they won't understand that i have a higher purpose than meaningless sex.

At a point in a man's life he just wants a friend who can also qualify as a lover. But it's hard to come by.

For those who found it yet, congratulations.

BenjaminDomer:
Make 'Megan Good' open for me and see if I no go enter.

I go knack am mercilessly

Chai.. make curse just follow me

Luckily for you, she is no longer married.