₦airaland Forum

dyera:
And the pastor will not see any need to talk sense into the head of the irresponsible young man who has impregnated three women and refused to marry any of them. What will matter to the pastor the most is the fat offering Davido will drop after coming to his church. Like no need to embarrass the young man by telling him the truth. SMH

I don't know why I'm laughing so hard at this your comment. What's the pastor's business with davido's personal life ni tori olorun?

What kind of camera is making her head look like an alien like that? Or that's the shape of her head?

What a life.

Many well-to-do, responsible, kind people don't even have anyone who cares about them... Some are unlucky in love.

But this otherwise hardworking, young and pretty woman had to go through hell because of this ... I don't even know how to qualify this guy.

She allowed him impregnate her not once but 4 good times!! And each time she has to bear the brunt of raising the children by her self. Suffering humiliating experiences; Only to quickly tear away her pants whenever the runaway boyfriend cares to show his #$@* face again.

A fisherman... Who has other children according to her almost incoherent narrative.

Some people are just stupid in this life.

If touching someone who doesn't want to be touched is not an assault, then kindly educate us more on what really is an assault.

Verifying nonsense since 19-O-O

brainhgeek:
...and you have to go in that thing just to prove a point? Nigerians stopped being massively foolish during ENDSARS.

Totally ridiculous.

If APC and this man aren't the most ridiculous set of elements in history!

What the f#$@!!!?

nedekid:
Shey you see the average mentality of a Nigerian? Outsmart them and not pay.
Recently because of the uncertainty with our economy and fluctuations of the naira, I decided to open a UK account. I tell you it is hard for a Nigerian to do so. Infact an Indian ex banker lady, a gf to my friend told me when you put a Nigeria name in the system, it show red ie high risk! Meaning they should show caution.
I asked the reason, and was told Nigerians are "likely" fraudulent! They take overdrafts accessible to others and and don't pay or steal people's identities to take credit.
Do you know that Barclay's offered me 3,500 pounds overdraft as a new account holder, but I could not successfully open the account at the last stage cos of long story of trying to verify my identity through asking for council tax as proof of address! Why, "smart" Nigerians have messed up our reputations. We are looked at as shaddy characters by default.
Anyway, hope we will learn to do things the right way.

It's a pity. I don't even who is worse -- our leaders or we, the followers.

My brother it's a simple matter:

As you have mistakenly borrowed the money, mistakenly pay back, with interest. Then move on with life. Lesson learnt. That's the way things work in life.

If you wait to find out what they'd do, you may not like it.

dontrulee:
At Op, don't be afraid jare.
All these loan apps are paper tigers if you know how to burst their bubbles. Honestly, the interest rate is high but you can search the posts of how other nairalanders were able to outsmart these loan sharks. You'll be fine if you follow the instructions. I wish you the best

Outsmart, as in, not pay back?

Nazgul:
A whole CMD still killing people for rituals, many doctors pay huge sums of money just to get to that position, and this one got there and is still doing rituals. Honestly something is wrong with the black man.

Forget rituals. Did they say any of their parts is missing?
I can guarantee you those killings are 100% romance related. Including the married woman.

atiku4President:
Chiamamada will reject an award where the likes of Femi and co are beneficiaries.

I wish she would.

crownprince23:
MFR for Burna and MON for Tuface. If I were 2Baba, I would reject such

I guess the Grammy was like rocket fuel to his credibility. But tubaba has been here ever since, and won every possible award except Grammy.

Arry110:
Omo forget , offering him 100k is evil

But if the song wasn't successful he would have collected with thanks sef.
Na greed be their problem.. people wey never see big money before

Barrywilly:
It might turned out to be baseless accusations by uninformed mob that didn't bother to listen to both sides. My instinct is telling me that these are just innocent old women

Honestly i don't know why most Nigerians are too barbaric in nature.
What is the point of beating and stripping two old women when the police could simply be called in to do their job of arresting them?
Illiteracy is a disease indeed.

ObamaMessi:
Do you think it's ok for parents to share same
bed room with their kids?

I was shocked to my bone marrow when a little girl of eight was telling me of what happens between her parents at night simply because she share the same room with them.

I can't explain but I can assure parents that sharing the same bed room with their kids is not too good.

Are you suggesting they make the kids sleep outside or they should vacate the room for the kids? I don't get.

Originalsly:
Just curious ... is there any animal you guys just don't eat?

Maybe toad..? And cat. And goose. I eat pretty much everything else.
And Lagos rats. I don't eat Lagos rats.

voltront:
What is with nairaland and snakes!

Small small, comrade.
Don't let Oga lalastic hear this lamentation o.

The way they ride, their attitude, will make you presume they have a spare life like they have spare tire.

His desperation stinks to high heavens. He is very calculative quite alright. It doesn't mean he has noble intentions for the people.

This is a Greek gift! But as usual, i see some Id**ts already foaming in the mouth, singing praises.

The silly mistakes we keep repeating by way of choosing wrong self-serving leaders, we will keep facing the dire consequences together.

Sorry about your predicament bro. No innocent person should have go through something as wicked as this.

However now is not the time to get overwhelmed and fail to act. This is the point where you voice your concerns about the child and listen to her either confess, or lie.

I imagine she would lie, and at that point you should back up your point with the evidence -- the test.

Whatever you do beyond that point is entirely up to you. But most men i know would never ever condone a sexually immodest housewife.

Beyond the cheating, there are some other concerns i believe you ought to be worried about; like verbally assaulting you because you made a decision with your money -- a noble decision no less, not like you gambled it away or spend it frivolously. Yet she is calling you names and verbally assaulting you.That is unacceptable bro. I see how you are subtly trying to take the blame for her disgusting behaviour, saying it's your fault. How is it your fault that your wife is verbally assaulting you unprovoked? How is it your fault that you separated and she is hooking up with another man? Did you also hook up with another woman during the period? If you did, then you have no moral right to be complaining.

Edit: She already knows about the result but she swears the child is yours. What do you want to do? I think you have to raise some money and do one more test to be very sure. I'm worried about your financial situation though. You hinted that you lost your job at some point, i can't say if you have gotten another one.

My reason is this: now that you just have rattled your wife with your accusation and the test, your life is much more at risk. If you can have a second -- sort of like a confirmatory-- test, it will be easier to try to manage the situation -- like sending her away if the second test is positive, or apologizing to her if it isn't.

It's a dicey situation man.

E nor get wetin people nor fit do for this Lagos because of money. I'm not surprised. He doesn't even think about the health implication of the "black medicine" on those hapless kids, just keep pumping their bellies until their young livers give out.

Chaos14:
I laughed so hard that my friends thought i was "nutz"

I swear down!
It's even funnier for me b'cos i saw it as a meme earlier on Twitter!
Crazy...

Pwettylinda:
This guy has mouth cancer

Diarrhea of the mouth

Trust me... Lagos State is a town that makes normal people suddenly abnormal.

By the way, do you have any familial case of mental issues?

MufasaLion:
That was a foolish move. There are more better ways to show your grievances.

You would know.
Type here just one of those "better ways" according to you.

The flagrant display of desperation is nauseating.

No shame at all.

sharpwriter:
Hmmm.... Na wa o... Hand really touch this guy. Him cup really overfull.... After dem catch am, that his video where he displayed dollars saying, "hustle, hustle".. Still dey funny to me dey make me laf always.

People no go know say the olórí burúkú na Evans younger brother

His emotional picture while worshipping in church too was hilarious. Dramatists fill naija!

It won't be funny if people actually know the actual meaning of "hustle". By far the most abused misused word in the Nigerian vocabulary.

JoshTheStoic:
That's the best way, anything you say will be used against you. Let say you are leaving because of unfair abuse and treatment from a boss, they might say you are rude etc. One of my good boss back then resigned and said he want to take a political position in his hometown back then but moved to a rivalry company, I laughed back then but later realize myself it was a smart move. You own nobody why you are leaving, just do what's best for you and your career.

Exactly!
I used the same tactic when i worked in Abuja. I had to tell a lie not because i was concerned about needing them for reference later on, but because i needed them to pay me what they owed me. Coincidentally, it happened that the manager then was an easy going man that respected me a lot. He gave me his word, and i left in peace.

Omihanifa:
Let me tell you something. It’s not everything science can explain o. Have seen people mix yellow and red capsules with Dry gin and it cured their infections.

Have also seen people consume garlic immediately after sex to prevent infections and it worked for them

Have also seen people use warm water and salt to wash their phussy after sex to prevent infections and up till today they are clean and std free.

Have also seen where people use wax from the ear to treat boil. After applying it, the wax the boil soften and the pus started coming out.

So what am saying in essence is that it’s not everything science can explain.

Haven’t you seen where people use agbo and other traditional concoctions to treat infertility and after a while they become pregnant.

You sound very ignorant.

Omihanifa:
most girls use Beecham after unprotected sex and it works for them. Don’t know why it works tho but I know it sure works.

Works for them for which ailment exactly?

I wonder if this is a Nigerian factor.

The best way as a staffer to avoid such awkward situation is to just try and be diplomatic about your exit -- perhaps conceal some details and just give them the surface. Some people even have to tell a lie.

It's sad.