tpia.:



read between the lines- I dont need to explain myself when everyone else got the message.

abeg dont make me your problem oh- face the people you started the thread for.

And dont start any nonsense with me- I've had a NL attack squad on my back because they didnt like the "support" I was giving you in their delusional brains. So dont bring your own personal catfights to me oh- I'm not being paid to be in the middle of this.

I dey here dey sip tea and just browsing the thread.

Is that a crime?

OK, ma'am. Sorry if I misunderstood you but going by an instance where I saw you say, and in your exact word, "wallop", I must have taken you were against but sorry if that's not the case. I hope your tea was well brewed. Keep browsing the thread sis, it's all good.

spikedcylinder:

Ok, fair enough. Make we all follow you beg Seun na.

Thank you for understanding. I have emailed him a few minutes ago and hopefully let's see if my ban will be removed in a few hours or maybe even days. I have to say also, that I won't be available for a few days up till Monday, but I still have about three hours left. I'm saying this in case people don't see me and they start to yap that I ran away. But if my ID is released before I leave online, I will make my statement.

spikedcylinder:

Tpia was being sarcastic.

Meanwhile, I don't know why this thread is referencing Mukina. You were banned by Seun. Do all your defence with this ID na.
_{I'm sure the oversabis will still opine that Seun is not 'petty' enough to care about these things again.
Eyin adofuro}.

Hahahahahahahaa That's a sexual habit that is very nice unless you're referring to gays

As for Tpia, she's not even my business. . . make she fade abeg!

I should have referenced Seun and Mukina together, but maybe I have a predilection for her, who knows. I, however, didn't make the thread to attack her, I just did this when she hasn't replied my emails to her, that's all; in the same light, I'm going to need to defend myself with the original ID that was accused. I want my ID back, and until that happens, we're still going to be in one spot. As you can see, I haven't posted on another thread with this ID since I made this thread yesterday and I won't.

Ujujoan:

I think it makes sense to defend 'Theseeker' with 'Theseeker' . . .

I'm not trying to question your sense of judgement or anything, but if he says he has other proofs, why dont you let him give them?

Or better still, let him share the one you've seen with us! Not that you are biased or something, but you might be overlooking the relevance of he's proof because you've heard a lot from the other party already



Now that us absurd! Besides I cannot even tell if he deserves a ban when I've not heard he's own story. So if they are gonna ask us, let's hear your bit first!

Yes, that's what I want. I want to defend "TheSeeker" with "TheSeeker". Simple.

They said I was banned by the admin. E be like say that admin get as e dey do am. LOL


@Mukina, I will. That admin should take his time oooo! LOL! Imagine, 'defrauding with documentary proofs'. Defrauding my a.s.s.!

Singing "Young Forever" by JayZ.

[Quote author=mukina2]You do not owe me or anyone any explanations. what you do or want to do is enitrely up to you. as long as it does not go against the rules of the forum.[/Quote] Exactly why I shouldn't be banned in the first place.

mukina2:

You forgot your second email. You yourself said Seun emailed you that he will put your proofs on Nairaland and you told him you do not want them via the admin but by your self when the times comes/when you have the time. am i wrong?

Ok, no one's stopping you from talking, you took a long time to get "to the right time ". If this is for your fans/admirers, you could have used another Username to post long ago to show your innocence.
The thread she did was locked.Tow what line? both of my posts in the thread she did was to ask her if she got the permission from Seun ( the same one you were given to do your own ) for personal battles are not allowed on the forum. Its stated in the rules.
Where did she say that?
If its what you sent me/Seun you are planning on posting here, wait, i thought you said you had other proofs?
You dont have to copy/paste anything in here.

You do not owe me or anyone any explanations. what you do or want to do is enitrely up to you. as long as it does not go against the rules of the forum.

Yes, I did state that I will do that myself. When he said he was going to seek the opinion of NL whether or not I deserve a ban is what I found ridiculous, because one, no member should dictate whether or not I should be here, secondly, I didn't contravene any NL rules and I don't see why the members should determine my stay or exit. Therefore, I opted that I have to do it myself at my own pace, and that's not wrong too.

I will do accordingly as I think is right after all.


Mr Jaybee, you may ask your question.

jay bee:

hmmmmmmmm

What is it sir?

OMO IBO:

Like I said before and i'll say it again, this is clear case of 'relationship gone sour'.

Secondly, how people arrive at conclusions by hearing only one side of a story is just beyond me.
Then again, Theseeker was given the chance to explain himself but failed to take it, . . . . ._{Oh schxitz, he was banned almost immediately.} LOL

Thank you. This was a 'relationship' gone bad, but wait a minute, she said there was no relationship on a certain thread, so there wasn't LOL

mukina2:

I didnt ban you, the admin did, when you sent us emails, we told you to come up and show your own proof(s), you took a long time in doing so, and Platinum sent her own proofs and even opened it out on the forum (she didnt send anything to me btw). She sent it all to Seun. You sent your own proofs via email and you were asked to come out open on the forum but you said you had to do this and that and now that everything has died down you want to come wake it up again. You were given time, long enough time but you did nothing.
Like i said earlier , Please email Seun about your ban.
Assuming you even wanted to post anything proof -wise , you can do so with this New Username you have.
The Username being used to post does not matter, its the story that is being posted that counts

Ok, point taken that the admin banned me. Speaking of telling me to come and show my proof, I got none of that message not on NL, not on my email, so where was the message sent? I sent my proofs to you when I found out I was banned, and you said I should come in the open to say something when my ID was banned? Yes, I said I had to do this and that but I haven't done them, however, that shouldn't stop me from talking but I only thought it'd be the honorable thing for me to do before I come to say a word, nevertheless, that doesn't stop me from talking.

What drama has died? Died when she still says anything about me being a 'scammer' at the slightest excuse? I know you're not taking sides but it wouldn't be proper to tow in that line. I will email Seun when I have time, and no, I won't post a thing without my ban being removed. Remove my ban now and see if I won't post anything. I will just copy the exact email I sent you and Seun and post same here.

tpia.:

every male [and female] on Nairaland, with the exception of the seeker, is squeaky clean.

so people dont have to be careful as long as it isnt the seeker they're interacting with

all nairalanders minus the seeker, are kosher, and certified with the official stamp of approval.


take my word for it.

You don finish?

Gabry:

Geeeezzzz. . . The SeeKer, too much time has been given to you and [b]up till this date you have not paid back those you have owed and I have not heard of you paying a single cent. [/b]We dont need your explanations. Actions speaks wider than words so pleaseee. . . pay whoever you owe back and stop making up all this. . . Im upset with you really. Just as so much trust I have for you, you still have the guts to use people's name for UPS once again. . . I'm really dissapointed!.

Before you start spreading your infested news, kindly enumerate the number of people I owe, how I owe them, how much I owe them and when I owe them? Is there any way possible that you'll do that? Thank you.

spikedcylinder:

Not taking sides or anything but why are you talking now? You were not banned immediately the allegations were made, you were banned later. Why didn't you defend yourself then when it would have seemed more credible? Why come weeks later with your defence?
It's funny.

Yes, I wasn't banned immediately but I didn't want any sort of drama, not even an online drama. Besides, what happened shouldn't have been a case that should be online but since she decided to bring it up here, it's her decision. I chose, at first, not to comment on it. However, I've been getting calls from members courtesy of my numbers that she's posted and it was said that some people 'looked up to me' and I grossly disappointed them by what were said about me; going in the line of that, I decided to sort a few things out before I come on here to say a word (not that I have finished that but it's a prep towards my mission to explain my part of the story). So what I want to do - the part I want to explain - is for those who admire me on the forum, not for anyone else.

TOPE2000!:

TheSeeker himself
Na your face be this . . . . . . . .

Yes, na my face ooo!! Wonderful exploits you did on that thread on Crime Section. Kudos to you

oyb:

abegi - this seeker fellow is just the real face of 419 - the smoooth talker who wows his victims and earns their trust before fleecing and ruining them

Stupidity! How many have I 'smooth talked' into doing anything for me? How many have I convinced into doing what's not right? Get your facts straight and stop talking like a fool! I may have lied about being in the United States and that makes my whole life a lie? Well, I don't even have to prove anything to you or anyone. The statutory thing to do for those who 'like' me on here is to rebuff the daft and laughable claims leveled against me.

mukina2:

The seeker
you were banned by the admin, you were given time to get back to us and prove your claims but you kept stalling
Please email Seun for his final decision.

As per your emails, i'll check them today and try to reply them

What other proofs do you need? I sent everything that revolved around the said UPS saga, didn't I? I sent the said bank account documents, which I think is no one's business but since it's part of what is leveled against me, I had to bring that too; I told you how I came about it, I told you who was involved, didn't I? What other proofs do you need? My point was that I need my ID to come on here and say my part of the story, so what else more do you need? If what I sent you aren't regarded as proof, then I wonder how you took Platinumnk's proof as 'documentary proofs' -- it was your decision to accept what she brought along, I'm not blaming you for that, but predicating my ban on that is ridiculous. I'm a Nairaland addict, so what?

Ujujoan:

@ Flgators

Just because he 'stalled' dosen't mean he should be denied the right to clear his name. Now he's willing to do just that, I think we should let him. It's not good judgement to try a case based on one person's testimony.

Ordinarily, I wouldn't care if some gets 'accused' or banned . . but this is 'Theseeker' we are talking about here. The guy has won a lot of respect on this forum and I think it'll be unfair to throw all that away for something that's probably a 'lovers' spat'.

@ Seun and Mukina . . . If Theseeker is ready to talk, I think a number of are curious to hear what he has to say. Platinumk can talk as well. This dosent have to turn into a big fight!

Abi ooooo. Thank you jare. They expect me to come here and start some drama. Isn't it funny that someone who supposedly should have been mature enough to handle her decision, came on a forum (that she detests online drama) to start same? But I'm not even bothered about that.

All of a sudden the fact that I didn't speculate I live in Nigeria is some big deal when in fact, it has nothing to do with Nairaland or its rule. . . . and does it look like she doesn't know I tell people that? Of course she knew I told people I live in the States, but even at that, who did I con to do what and what in favor of me? We need to get something clear here and that is, I didn't scam anyone on or off Nairaland; I didn't make an intention to do so; I didn't ask anyone for a relationship outside Nairaland, so what's these fusses about my claim to be in the United States all about? Pleasee!!!

spikedcylinder:

Exactly.
Everyone has skeletons in their closet. The fact that theirs isn't aired on nl doesn't make them any better.
That's why I was supporting whitelexi until he started behaving anyhow and was attempting to drag me down with him.
However, I still maintain that it's a bit funny for TS to show up many weeks after with his 'defence'.

Like I said earlier, I didn't think I owe anyone any explanation until it became clear to me some people regarded and respected me, and for those people, I owe an explanation. I didn't know this until a few days ago, that some people have some little respect for me and no matter what it is, online or not, I owe them an explanation as I would if we were to be offline. If not for those, I won't be here. I hope I made myself clear ma'am?

Mukina, I thought we talked over this that when I'm ready to talk on Nairaland, you'll have my ban removed. Unfortunately, I have been emailing you back and forth and no attempt to respond to my emails have been made. I don't know what it is that you run here, maybe a cartel or maybe some people have asked you not to restore me but whatever it is, I plead my handle to be restored.

My ban message says, "Suspicion of defrauding with documentary proofs". And if that tattered pack of papers sent you by Platinumnk is what you refer to as "documentary proofs" then I'm disappointed in your sense of reasonable judgment. I won't be in haste to jump into conclusion neither do I want to engage you or Seun in a duel, but all I want is for "TheSeeker" to be restored and then I will formally come up here and say what I have to in defense of all that have been leveled against me, and then we can define what 'scammer' means because it looks like some people's brains are impaired to understand the meaning of the word 'scammer' and the context in which it's used.

Before the foulmouthed fools start waggling their tongues uncontrollably, let me get the hell out of here. As usual, I shall be watching by the sidelines. Also, if you want, you may also ban this handle too at the request of the "accuser" as Seun pointed out in his email to me. Accuser my foot!

That he is coming home tomorrow

Who cares if he's locked up for life

;d ;d ;d

That he spoke to Obama on our terrorism-listing

I am a scammer but I am not TheSeeker

Pen

I wish her the fastest recovery ever, we don't need another death of a prominent man's wife in the -ember months.

Aisha2, the transfer appears to have been done and it's =N=100,000.00. Hook up with me on e-mail when you have a chance. TS

Who are those sadists that don't want Nigerians to win the cup?

What? This thread still exists?

^^^ Osogbo, oroki, ilu aro Welcome aboard

Lost sheep finding her way home

^^ Drama is coming, wait

^^^ You wan hear story?

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
the problem is that some men find a girl , think she is the one, put all their time and energy on that ONE girl and then get mad with all the other good ones out there when this one girl turn out to be bad/not the one.

the main ingredient in finding that right person is called LUCK.
there are zillions of ¨right¨ girls out there but first you have to find them.
look at it mathematically:
how many different girls do you get to know and FULLY discover in a year?
how many single girls in your age range live in your city?
now, do you really think that the few you sampled is enough to come to the conclusion that they are all like the few you sampled?

YOU are the source of the problem and need to change whatever you do/doing/did to find that perfect mate and look elsewhere.
RAISE THE BAR!!!!!!
change your social setting, forget about family friends of friends, mate´s sister, that girl who was ¨introduced¨to you or girls you met at the club.
i am not saying that the ones you will find will be the perfect ones, i am just saying that they will be from a different social setting.

although perfect is in the eyes of the beholder, its safe to say that if you aint got it yourself, then women might loose interest in you.
there is only one person to blame for your misery. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

I think I might have to disagree with some of your opinion a little bit. . . the truth is in fact that, some girls no matter how honest, open, and trusting you are towards them, they tend to take you for a ride. If I'm right enough, some girls are used to men treating them like they are nothing so when the good one comes along, they want to take revenge of what was done to them in their past relationships.

I think I have said it before somewhere, some girls simply don't deserve a good man - they have all manners of ills stocked in them. I do understand however that how you meet a woman doesn't and shouldn't matter but the intention of the relationship matters so much that it has to be checked and placed on a scale to discover what they both are aiming at.

chidyke77:

@poster
Did she tells u wat happened b/w her and her ex? If her ex is no longer alive then u hav to sit her down and discus dat wt her by telling her dat your doing all d best u cn to satisfy her. Bt if her ex is still within her reach,men find a way to let her go and continue wt her ex.

Her ex isn't her father, so even if he's dead, she shouldn't get into a relationship if she knows she'll be complaining about someone treating her differently.

Wow!!

Every other week

Tears or no tears, you gotta do what you gotta do.

The handwriting is on the wall, she still got feelings for her ex - by no means, provocative or not, should a partner remember an ex and making comparison, that's one of the top-class insult in a relationship. You can have normal discussions about your exes, that's acceptably good, but making comparison? That's not too good.