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PoliticsRe: See What A Northerner Said Concerning Datti by jefdr001(m): 7:08pm On Sep 30, 2022
Datti that unseated a governor for senatorial seat is who you are underating?
PoliticsRe: Fund Raising For Labour Party Peter Obi Has Just Began. We Move!!! (Pics) by jefdr001(m): 12:43am On Sep 30, 2022
Account name labour party campaign. ... Whoever is doing this is at par with zenith bank. I doubt if it is a scam since account name checks out
PoliticsRe: Massive Crowd As Peter Obi's Vice Baba Datti Ahmed Storms Kano by jefdr001(m): 4:32pm On Sep 03, 2022
Now I know why they call the op nairaland resident zombie
PoliticsRe: Labour Party And NNPP Working On A Merger - Dr Yinusa Tanko (video) by jefdr001(m): 8:52am On Jun 13, 2022
Reality3080:
u are a comedian

Dreaming is allowed

How will a whole kwankwanso b vp n how will he even market an Igbo Christian in his region?
On a norms many of them won’t vote a Christian except as vp n again u want them to vote Igbo as president
Picking Igbo as vice reduced atiku chances in d north in 2019
So it makes sense for kwankwaso from kano to be president after buhari from katsina 8 years in power?
PoliticsRe: How Would Tinubu Sign Presidential Documents. by jefdr001(m): 1:33pm On Jun 11, 2022
He can thumbprint na. A signature PA is another option.
Christianity EtcRe: Muslim Eyewitness Reveals Deborah Samuel's Last Words We're Divinely Inspired by jefdr001(m): 9:14am On May 15, 2022
exCHRISTIAN:
Why didn't the imaginery christ protect the lady shocked

Is he absent? Or doesn't exist? Or cant fulfill His promise to protect his followers? Or is the bbbile lyi*g as it used to do?
Thessalonians 3:3

I left Xtianity because I realized it's rubbish.
What do yo expect from a god that was born by a WOMAN and ended, murdered on Cross? Didn't help himself also grin


The entitled punishment for blasphemy in Xtianity as I was forced study by my parents back then is death !!!

anyone who blasphemes the name of the Lord is to be put to death. The entire assembly must stone them. Whether foreigner or native-born, when they blaspheme the Name they are to be put to death.
Leviticus 24:16

Deborah killers used this verse to kill her the way the verse instruct, I think they own a copy of christ papers, bible is full of evil to its followers.

I left religion for you!!! Ath3ism all the way

Before any rotten brain qoute me, see my signature..... grin
"Kill" that's all your Arabian masters taught you.
EducationRe: Who Can Help Me In Translating This Pidgin English To Correct English? by jefdr001(m): 9:30pm On Apr 12, 2022
"I'm way older than you"; " I'm not that much older than you"; "how much older than you am I?"
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Medical Doctor Needed In Kaduna North. Salary N180k. by jefdr001(m): 1:16am On Apr 08, 2022
Accomodations available are new terms used to recruit slaves. Work hour go be 247 since you live within the hospital. Plus kd security risks again. Op be aware that NGN180k = 310$
RomanceRe: Help: I Can't Cum With CD On. by jefdr001(m): 1:52am On Feb 21, 2022
Reduce masturbation and Or use better CDs.
FamilyRe: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by jefdr001(m): 3:45pm On Dec 04, 2021
Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?
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BTL like vasectomy is safe with extremely low failure rate, you should do it and free the young man.
EducationRe: Popular And Oldest University Of Jos Student, Jango Finally Graduated by jefdr001(m): 7:00am On Oct 25, 2021
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PoliticsRe: Buhari To Go Ahead With Forfeiture Of Unclaimed Dividends And Dormant Deposits by jefdr001(m): 1:40am On Oct 25, 2021
Who else does not understand what op is talking about
AutosRe: Whatsapp by jefdr001(m): 5:08pm On Oct 04, 2021
True
PoliticsRe: Massive Protest In Bayelsa As Goodluck is Dead by jefdr001(m): 11:28am On Sep 26, 2021
Misleading topic
EducationRe: Meet The Student Who Got Offered Medicine In EKSU, OAU And UI The Same Year by jefdr001(m): 5:20am On Sep 08, 2021
Which score is 285+, 290+ and 310+ again?
PoliticsRe: Central Bank Of Nigeria Finally Signed The Currency_swap_deal With China✍️ by jefdr001(m): 5:33pm On Sep 01, 2021
Stale news being recycled year in year out.
PoliticsRe: Insecurity: Boys Scout Leader Better Than You, PDP Blasts Buhari by jefdr001(m): 7:44pm On Aug 25, 2021
R
AutosRe: Pls What's The Name Of This Vehicle? by jefdr001(m): 5:59am On Aug 25, 2021
ATV, all terrain vehicle
ComputersRe: Lenovo Ideapad 3 10th Gen Core I5 12gb Ram 256gb Ssd Touchscreen by jefdr001(m): 1:18pm On Aug 23, 2021
Ok
PoliticsRe: IRIGWE Development Association (IDA) Replies Police by jefdr001(m): 12:17pm On Aug 16, 2021
they will not tell you the number of innocent students killed by Fulani/ Bauchi road youths on their way to church Sunday morning. a couple very dear to me. Security forces won't offer statement for this. embarassed
EducationRe: Education Degree Or ND & HND Which Is Better by jefdr001(m): 8:14am On Jul 02, 2021
Trade is better
Nairaland GeneralRe: ND & HND Or Education Degree Which Is Better by jefdr001(m): 8:12am On Jul 02, 2021
None is better go and learn trade
EducationRe: Why I Dropped Out Of Medical School At 500L, Ended Up As Cart Pusher –benue Man by jefdr001(m): 12:27pm On Mar 06, 2021
I see many symptoms of bipolar affective disorder in this fellow, but still he couldnt be helped by anyone. I pity our medical schools, especially the public schools, so structured for the smart and rich. I wish they can put mechanisms in place to help previously smart students that are falling apart. I remember once when a colleague then a lecturer told me my brain was full of pus, that I was good for nothing, about that same time my girlfriend of 2 years left me for a working class guy. I almost lost my sanity but God kept me. Not many people can go through our medical schools and remain sane.
TravelRe: Please How Do I Get From Ikorodu Garage To Lasuth. by jefdr001(m): 3:44pm On Jan 27, 2021
Get an android phone, download map and navigation, search for lasuth from anywhere, then click direction. You can choose bus, bike, or trecking whatever mean you want to use. Finally click on navigation and follow as it leads.
EducationRe: Top 10 Most Expensive Secondary Schools In Nigeria. by jefdr001(m): 3:45am On Oct 18, 2020
Is the fee per term or per session. Urgent pls
EducationRe: 5 Most Difficult Universities To Make First Class In Nigeria by jefdr001(m): 9:47am On Sep 18, 2020
I opened to see University of Jos or ABU or BUK. Not all these schools that give prospective exam questions as assignments
PetsRe: Police Search For Man Who Painted Dog Like Tiger To Scare Locals In Malaysia by jefdr001(m): 6:50pm On Sep 11, 2020
A tiger is a cat and a dog a dog.
PoliticsRe: Zamfara Governor Order All Schools To Start Using Islamic Calendar by jefdr001(m): 1:37pm On Aug 24, 2020
Zamfata is in which country now
RomanceRe: How Do I Friend Zone Her Without Getting Into Trouble? by jefdr001(m): 1:20pm On Aug 04, 2020
Treat her like you would your mother. It will kill all sexual feelings in her.

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