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CelebritiesRe: Sophia Momodu Nude Valentine's Photoshoot by jeff1607(m): 9:43am On Feb 15, 2019
she looks like a man with makeup
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: BATE Borisov Vs Arsenal: Europa League (1 - 0) On 14th February 2019 by jeff1607(m): 9:41am On Feb 15, 2019
ikechemez:
And the most useless inconsistent and unserious club goes to.......?. Your guess is as good as my
can you coach arsenal fc and bring desired results?
CelebritiesRe: Cossy Orjiakor Recites The National Anthem In Style by jeff1607(m): 4:25pm On Feb 14, 2019
it is finished
PoliticsRe: Shakar El Comes For Nigerians Without PVCs And Yet Talk Politics by jeff1607(m): 12:49pm On Feb 14, 2019
take this


...........
TravelRe: Lottery Winner Shows Up In Scream Mask To Claim His Price (Photos) by jeff1607(m): 6:38pm On Feb 13, 2019
chai!
PetsRe: Diary of my Caucasian Roscoe by jeff1607(m): 6:16pm On Feb 13, 2019
IamAnderson:
in my area there aren't many dogs and the few dogs that are their don't come outside.....so the chances of him getting parvo are slimmer.
I also made sure he got vaccinated against parvo and other things so he has a better chance of preventing them.
I haven't met any local dog on our walks before so I don't have any experience dealing with them, the only local dog I see is always chained in front of one compound and the dog always tries to attack him any time I pass but they haven't fought before.
I think I can ward off a local dog if it tries to attack him tho, I'm ready to do anything.
for now, he's the only dog that get's walked in my area so the parvo transmission scare is not a big fear of mine, infact I'm taking him to the vet on friday for his rabies vaccine.
cool
PetsRe: Diary of my Caucasian Roscoe by jeff1607(m): 5:51pm On Feb 13, 2019
IamAnderson:
I managed to take a pic of Roscoe, he never stays still for pictures so all his pics come out blurry.
someone had to keep him distracted so I could snap him.
what do you think of his growth?, I've been checking his growth chart and it seems normal to me what do you think?
he's 5months+ now
wanted to ask , how do you summon courage taking your dog out for walks knowing the chances of contacting parvo is high especially this period?

also when local dogs come near you during walks how do you send them away without them coming close or allowing him attack them for fear of contacts
RomanceRe: One Corner Crooner Patapaa And His Very Well Endowed Girlfriend by jeff1607(m): 4:20pm On Feb 13, 2019
snowxandria:
grin all I see is a chimpanzee and a hippopotamus

We now have a verified Google Adsense for sale
fear God na


savage. lol
RomanceRe: My Friend Brings Ladies To My House For Sex. I'm Depressed Now by jeff1607(m): 4:15pm On Feb 13, 2019
I see ladies call the OP weak and here I thought they want a man they are either equal with or one they can control
FamilyRe: I Am Conflicted: Please Advise Me. by jeff1607(m): 3:18pm On Feb 13, 2019
Lukewarm:
I posted this on a thread last month, and I was happy about the good albeit few advice I got. I feel creating a thread will make me reach out to a larger audience.

A little into my background

I am a 23 years old lady that has been in a 3 year relationship with my guy. I am an introvert, quite reserved and have little to none friends. I've always kept to myself and found it hard opening up to people, maybe that's because I'm an only child.

So, I believe an anonymous platform like nairaland will be the best way for me to get advice on something I've never voiced out on.

I should also mention that I'm a Muslim and early marriage is really encouraged.

To the issue

I am at crossroads in my relationship life right now.
On one hand, I've got this great dude I've been with for some years. Everyone
thinks he's perfect for me because he's ready to be responsible and settle down,
then he also plans for the future.

But the problem?

We don't seem to have that connection or chemistry. I find it hard just telling him
I love him. But everyone keeps ringing it into my ear that he's one of the good
guys and there are quite a few out there. So I promised myself to respect him
and hope that is enough to keep a marriage going.

Then on to the minor things:
1. He's a traditional guy. He believes all a woman needs to do is cook, clean, and
conceive. A woman shouldn't be ambitious as her responsibility lies in taking care of the home and bringing up the children morally and in the way of the religion.

2. He believes a lot of things are frivolities and a wife has got little to no
say in the house. I'm naturally quiet and easy going, and I never complain about anything. But, there are times I like to experience new things. For example, I wanted to go to the north for my NYSC, but he didn't want to hear of that and wanted Ibadan because it's close to Lagos (where we both live). I ended up picking 2 of his state choices and 2 of mine.....and I was posted to Ondo.

Then another issue was I registered to be an INEC ad-hoc staff for the forthcoming election against his wishes. I don't see any thing bad in it, and I really needed the allowance.

These issues always makes him say I have a mind of my own and I'm stubborn....which are all bad wifely traits.

These makes me wonder If I'm actually a stubborn person overdoing things.

This really badgers me.

But hey! He's one of the few good ones available.....right?

Then I got a shocker.
I met someone in camp in November and its been a totally crazy and new experience for me these last few months.
It's the first time I'd meet someone that I'm so compatible with.
It's the first time I've seen someone share the same warped sense of humour
I've got. First time I'd meet someone that shares a lot of common interest with
me. First time someone will creep into my subconscious and make me smile or
even lol at something goofy he did or said.

Now, it's got me thinking:
Is respect really enough?

But my family is having none of these second thoughts. Everyone thinks Im crazy to be having second thoughts about a guy with so much potentials. It so happens they'd
conveniently bring up the story of a really distant aunt that lost her opportunity to
marry by saying No to someone and is still a spinster at 45.
And it really isn't helping matters that my new POI is a northerner, stays thousands of miles away, a struggling corp member like me and
isn't set for settling now.

My real guy wants us to get married before he leaves for his Masters abroad. And if that will happen it will be before November.

So conflicted. Please, advise me.
no one is perfect ,

some nysc relationships don't last , don't throw three years away, but just in case you want the fault to come from him like him leaving you, kindly give his contact so I recommend him to someone who values what you claim is old fashioned,

pls mention me here


a girl just lost her boyfriend who helped her from beginning to getting her nysc PPA and a job but yet she went ahead dating the head of accounting in her work place, the guy just did nikkah with her friend after discovering.

don't worry he will leave you to settle with another person so you can move on with your life
FamilyRe: Happily Single And Happily Married by jeff1607(m): 3:10pm On Feb 13, 2019
nothing gives more joy than going home to a happy wife

peace of mind guaranteed
CrimeRe: Fake Soldiers Escorting Politician In Imo Arrested (Photo) by jeff1607(m): 2:56pm On Feb 13, 2019
let them join the Nigerian army for real
CrimeRe: FUTO Undergraduate, Chitere Okoronkwo Kills Her Boyfriend. Photo by jeff1607(m): 2:50pm On Feb 13, 2019
A face a brother won't love
RomanceRe: The Boob Movement Founder Goes Completely Unclad On Instagram by jeff1607(m): 2:48pm On Feb 13, 2019
in baba suwe's voice; ele bo lo! how much e go pay!
CelebritiesRe: Rare Black Leopard 'black Panther" Spotted In Africa For The 1st Time In 100 Yrs by jeff1607(m): 2:44pm On Feb 13, 2019
this cat can hide for Africa
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Want To Give A Lady Head by jeff1607(m): 2:38pm On Feb 13, 2019
prettysassygirl:
It concern u?? Na your heaven??
no vex
SportsRe: U20 AFCON: Flying Eagles Battle Mali For Final Ticket. Today 4pm by jeff1607(m): 2:33pm On Feb 13, 2019
hmmmmm
PetsRe: New Boerboel Owner; Suggest Feeding And Care by jeff1607(m): 11:02am On Feb 13, 2019
Acheron:
Which multivitamin can I get my dog?
sure grow


vetzyme


bullymax
PoliticsRe: 'No Doubt We're Winning' — Sowore Says Saturday's Election Will Shock Nigerians. by jeff1607(m): 10:53am On Feb 13, 2019
if sowore wins many politicians will leave this country or go into hiding
CelebritiesRe: Anita joseph Spotted With Bobrisky As They Step Out Together In Matching Outfit by jeff1607(m): 4:27pm On Feb 12, 2019
any attempted attempt by funnytoheeb to do the do will be.......
ComputersRe: Tips To Protect Yourself From Laptop Radiation: by jeff1607(m): 11:12am On Feb 12, 2019
hemartins:
Hmm, I spend at least 10 to 12 hours in front of a computer daily without precautions. If you see me, you see computer.
you mean you are gradually morphing into a computer?


gimme your specs
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Want To Give A Lady Head by jeff1607(m): 10:12am On Feb 12, 2019
prettysassygirl:
This small boy again ,who did this to u?? Heaven is real my brother. I want to see u there
this one you are eager to go to heaven ,I am not understanding
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Feeling To Commit Suicide by jeff1607(m): 10:09am On Feb 12, 2019
Uniqueaccountant:
pls help me i wanna be a play guy....
love hurts......each time i settle to love for real the
gurls change suddenly...i cant control my heart
from loving any girl it chooses


CURRENTLY BEING HURT BY A LADY...
and you think what you have been through in the hands of girls is enough to commit suicide?

Guys have gone through far more you can ever imagine,
have u given your kidney to a lady and later turn you down?

Man up!! don't be a sissy!

go get a puppy
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Is Nairaland Marriage A Reality by jeff1607(m): 9:43am On Feb 12, 2019
fait10:
How many couples have met here on nairaland and married successful please share your experiences
it is very possible
RomanceRe: Slay Queens Rock, Twerk To Themselves As The Dances To Timaya Song(pics) by jeff1607(m): 9:37am On Feb 12, 2019
well that's all folks nothing more to see
RomanceRe: 5 Tips To Make A Woman Beg For More Sex From A Guy by jeff1607(m): 9:36am On Feb 12, 2019
to make her ask for more dial*556*1#
BusinessRe: How Were You Able To Raise Up The Desired Capital To Set Up Your Business? by jeff1607(m): 5:00pm On Feb 11, 2019
Tolzeal:
I wouldn't advice getting a loan to start a business but you can if you're planning to scale the business.

Best way to source for money is through family and friends, if no family or friends who is ready to help then you need to get a job then do the 40:40:20 theorem.
what is the 40:40:20 theorem please
PetsRe: If You Don't Like Cats This Would Probably Change Your Mind by jeff1607(m): 1:32pm On Feb 11, 2019
when you call cats do they answer?

are they eager to please?
Hamatoyoshi:
My new born kittens ��
when you call cats do they answer?

are they eager to please?
RomanceRe: The Most Wasted Money In This World Is The Money You Spent On Girlfriends - Reno by jeff1607(m): 12:24pm On Feb 11, 2019
it's a gamble
CelebritiesRe: I Have bleeped Up As A Father,role Model & A Husband. 2face To Annie Idibia by jeff1607(m): 11:27am On Feb 11, 2019
why bring it to the public?
CrimeRe: Emmanuel And Annie: Cause Of Death Of Couple In Car A In Maryland, Lagos by jeff1607(m): 11:25am On Feb 11, 2019
CLUBBING has one way or another led to the deaths of many youths
CelebritiesRe: For Using Android Phone, AY Makun Called Out By Lady. See His Epic Reply by jeff1607(m): 8:57am On Feb 11, 2019
EloquentMedia:
People think your ability to spend big is a characteristic of rich men. Those people dont know that Mike Tyson and so many once rich men went broke because of their spendings not their earnings. Anyway you need a millionaires mindset, I recommend a blog filled with motivational stories that will make you think and act like millionaires, Visit Mental Revolution
when business goes bad and you keep pumping in money to revive and nothing nko?

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