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pyro62:
He ain't hitting it hard enough. The first photo was before a workout session, the second post was after a workout session. There is no marked difference and 2hours after the second photo, he'll return to the status of the first photo

tillaman:

In Uncle Ruckus’s voice
DONT TRUST THEM NIQQAZ OUT THERE

24SEVEN:
Use samsung or Apple smartphones and they cant hack it.

also use sim lock.

i have good millions in my accounts. imagine losing my phone.

FutureFocus:
No Sir, not available now.

FutureFocus:
Item 2

Very long water Hose for your garden / garden work , infact, this is for taking water from one point to the other.

Brand Name - Gardena

Contact details on my signature

Vinnie2000:
Op, you must have d ability to be paying all ur bills (rent,security, electricity,etc) without Stress or borrowing! And a steady income!

Naughtyg:
Hello guys. ..a used Sony Bravia 40 inch Led tv for sale...
Call or WhatsApp 09015874634

chatinent:
Two things are involved:

It's either he chose to be mature and deal with his family life privately.

Or


What Naija otumokpo cannot do doesn't exist.

bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here

Candidlady:
You slapped her

Dude even said slightly. Slightly slapped her twice!!! God please bring people like this my way! Who will slightly slap me twice! °°°°that day the man will hate/regret the day he came into existence°°°

The day a man lift his hands on a lady he loses all respect as a man. He becomes a beast


And for that so called seer that said she has been charmed.. That is falseprophet's brother!!!


Modified : men will always brag bout that thing they have done for a lady!!? Read the story you'd understand what imeant!! °°°°ihave learnt never to collect zilch from any dude.. God forbid no be me una go use shine °°°°

you connected her to a business and rented a shop for her gave you the right to SLIGHTY SLAP her

@NapoleonHill
Thanks!! Experiences could really turn people into something else.. Thanks again

DivergentThinka:
Hello Sir . I want to kindly give you a piece of professional advice . DON'T TURN ON YOUR APPLIANCES BEFORE STARTING YOUR GEN
Let me explain why and I want to encourage everyone to follow this procedure when turning on your gen .

1. Ensure your change over is still on Nepa when you turn on your gen .
2. Turn off all your appliances and switches
3. Only change over to generator AFTER the gen has been turned on and running , to be more specific, running in a safe voltage.
4. Turn on your appliances one by one , this gives the generator some milliseconds/seconds to gradually adjust to the load

WHY ?

Your generator has something called a Governor , this regulates the output your generator gives . Most appliances are rated between 100 volts and 250 volts ... So depending on your country(In Nigeria here its approximately 220-230 volts) and how you have set your generator, the governor would attempt to auto-adjust the voltage to that range .

As your generator gets older or in some cases, even in new generators, this governor either completely malfunctions or doesn't auto-regulate as quickly as it should . So two possible things can happen here . Your generator can possibly output a voltage of approximately 300 volts , sometimes as high as 400 !!!! continuously ! this is an indication of a complete malfunction of the governor or a need to adjust it , OR it starts at the voltage of 300-400 and adjust itself in about a few seconds .

Long story short, during that continuous or sudden/temporary spike in voltage while you are starting your generator, anything plugged to it could potentially get burnt/damaged, in an instant .

I always just listen to the sound of the generator before turning anything on, or I check the output voltage meter that is standard on all generators nowadays . If its above 250/240 volts, I adjust it down . This is the exact reason why generators come with those meters, so you can check and be sure its safe to turn on your appliances.

I once got ALL my appliances burnt, before I was this experienced .

And oooh, one more thing, even if its Nepa Light let's all learn the habit of switching off all electronics, lights e.t.c when power goes off, except you have a central stabilizer in your home with delay activated .

Please let's take precautions .
Peace

AmALeo:
Update: car has been found

olamidedivotee:
If you know the amount soldiers are collecting monthly, you won't blame them for collecting bribe.

Francisanointed:
Pardon my grammatical errors
A lot of people who regretted getting married to their spouse can attest to the fact that they saw the "red flags" but they insist on continuing the relationship and getting married.
Why do people do this ? Married men/women, single ladies/guys,what make/made you to think of marriage even after the red flags
A girl continues a relationship or marry a guy that beats her often,cheats on her unrepentantly,abuse her and disrespects her.
A guy continues a relationship where he sees the girl cheats,lies and disrespect him. Sometimes you know there are things you can't naturally tolerate but you tolerate them in relationship and eventually when you get married,you want those things you tolerated in your marriage to stop. That is impossible!
I know you can't marry someone that is 80 percent a version of you. But you must know what you can cope with

Why do people get married with someone they saw "red flags" ?

ElonEmpire:
GoodMorning all ,

I will make this as short as possible.
Before marrying my wife she seems to be this very generous and accommodating fellow . I felt fall in Love with her because this is just the kind of partner I want,

I have not really stand very well financially, though comfortable and contented, but I have this great dream of, because of what I pass through to help as much people as I can.
While dating her, she told me all kinds of stories of her philanthropic and generous gestures to people.

But moving forward to today, she seems to be direct opposite of everything.
She detests people coming close or we offering any kind of help or assistance to family both hers and mine not to talk of friends.

What about suggesting to assist a relative that can't afford, with their child education na war
We have not born but I have more than enough space to bring one or two children to see them through school but my wife is not buying is at all at all.

I know who I am before I marry, this is the only thing that gives me joy, and my only reason for asking God everyday to bless me so that I can bless people.

But right now am seriously confused
it hurts me alot but I don't wanna force anything against her will.

I have tried discussing it over and over with her but she is still not buying it, with the excuse of that we have not stand enough to carry anybody .

What could be her reasons and
What should I do?

Tmberwolf1:
Read the fullstory retar*d

"Some drivers and their assistants: Adeyemi Bayioku, 31; Godwin Anya, 28; Yusuf Taofik, 20, and Adeniyi Adelaja, 19, who were on ground to load the shipment into their vehicles were promptly arrested while two trucks, a Siena space bus, Peugeot Boxer bus and a Toyota Camry car were seized from them."

wacoj:
The day I bought my car, I installed tracker immediately before leaving the location.
All this kind story dey pain me for belle.

I gave my mechanic my car to fix one day, as soon as he dropped me off, I put on the tracker and started monitoring his movement,
I was even listening to his conversation while he was driving. He was shocked when I asked him later why he was driving and discussing on the phone.

Tracker is very good and cheap!

Alexjohn2020:
lol, 9.00version the hack on 9.00 started January 2022, send me a YouTube video of how to go online with previous low versions.. 5.05,6.72,7.02 and the rest.


Abeg no reply me again, we dey derail this precious page with your Solomon wisdom

Timekeeper:
How does hybrid protect the car and what does hybrid mean in this concept of stolen car

50d33q:
At this stage I give up on your case
If user1 isn't an account how will you save game data
Like the other guy said I pity those buying from you cos you are shady as fvck
Ignorant and still stubborn, lmao 9.03 higher version when the system will always tell you to upgrade if you play online games
This guy na clown abeg
How can sony release 2 higher version firmwares Omo

FavRicc:

What are you even saying? Lolzz. Even a brand new Ps4 has user1 that doesn’t mean it’s an account..!! Jezzz!! Who’s this person please?!

You said 9.03 is a low version and I told u it is not. Now you’re talking about 9.04.

9.03-9.04 are high versions bro and requires account!!! U can check my previous chat with the other person where I mentioned it..

9.0 down are hackable and doesn’t require account.

I’m not supposed to be lecturing u for free bro!
I off mic.

Cheers nwanne!

FutureFocus:
I’ve screenshot all your comments regarding this issue, calling me thief and all that, when time come, you will be invited to come and say what you know and present your evidence. All printed out! thank you.

Cokahot:
How many ppl go get time dey check plate number of every blue muscle for naija Road,when the person wey dey your front,no sure if he go suddenly step on brakes while on medium speed. Forget that muscle bro,if no tracker,just forget it. If any tracker donbdey disable,pray make the thief no use towing rope ,tow am. Last but not least,it would have been disassembled by now and parts already racing to ladipo for immediate sales. Good luck. Na npf u go play with,and e sure say them go milk u dry.

omotolsy:
This controller is the only controller that can be used to play Nintendo Switch Games on The EggNS Emulator on Androids.

Quite scarce and unique as it can map any game control.

Online Price: N50,000 approx
My Price: N25,000 Firm


This is tempting I must say

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Iyaebe:
Wiping my tears, the pain that a good mother goes through for her child,God bless them

paulolee:
he cnt control himself, dt stick only reacts to ur state of mind n dts why some guys dey always Mk dis mistake n start blaming konji..
whenever I de around pool, my little boy no fit react even if I see Nikki or cardi strip dey twerk bcoz i know I cnt av them in dt environment..na to jus remove mind..