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Iyaebe:
I have no business with military men,never.

Well this one did and is regretting it.

Have empathy

Kobojunkie:
In life expect the unexpected and plan for it. If after it all you still decide that having a kids makes sense, then be sure that it is failure on your part.

I pray you don’t experience what can bring a family man or parents down even all the savings or properties will be sold to resolve such especially if the kids are about getting into the university or while in the university, my neighbor then while still in school has his father working in schlumberger, at year 3 , he was diagnosed with cancer and they sold virtually all they had and they were 7 in number , mother had to quit her job to cater for the man the kids, 3 had to drop out so the two who were in their finals could finish as the company had already paid him off, he got a bit better but getting another job was a problem same with the wife, the younger ones had to leave the expensive primary school n move to Fgc government school.

Things happen or would I say sometimes life happens, some get back on their feet others do not.

Nooneonline:
Hi ahnie . I love the way u write. I love that u are proud of ur hustle, who wouldn't be proud doing something legit that pays their BILLS but there is more to this life than just doing something that pays Ur bills.

Please read to the end even though I don't write as good as u do.

In the book of judges 1: 5-7 a king by the name Adonibezek confessed before he died that he cut off the big toes and thumbs of 70 KINGS and had the feeding from under his table.
Please let me explain that to u though I don't know how spiritually minded u are but from Ur writings u re an educated person and also vast in Ur thinking so u won't find it hard to understand that TOES are what help a man/woman gain speed in a race and Ur thumbs are Ur identity it's used in the banks, for nin verification etc.
Now what I'm I saying except u prove me otherwise u are supposed to be much more than some akara seller at a Junction but u are now a 'KING' that has lost her identity only to be called a mere bean cake seller and u are very proud of it for no other reason than it pays Ur BILLS and because of that u have lost the speed and advancement u need in life u re now only concerned about paying bills. Ur bills are not more than 1million a month (that's an over exaggeration) yet people that pay that as NEPA bill still go to church talk less of staff and other needs they need to attend to. u let Ur bills and business consume Ur time and energy. U said in one of ur posts that u make more money on Sundays, that is the devil keeping u from seeing the LIGHT. Forget about people telling u u will go to hell if u don't go to church. Bills will always be there, problems of life will always be there and the money u are chasing will never be enough. Dangote still dey find money. Jeff bezoz still dey find money. All of us go die live money. Locking up Ur shop on Sunday will not kill Ur business. Some people are not hustling as much as u do yet they make more money.
Bottom line is between money and Christ (eternal life) which one u go choose.

Lest I forget u might say u don't have any Adonibezek doing u but even Jesus had a Judas. And don't forget that the enemies of a man/woman are those in his house hold.

My message might not be as coherent as I might have wanted it to be but I hope u will understand it.
Jesus loves u....

This your write up just spoilt the whole thing

Mama Zino, you are doing well

Kobojunkie:
This has nothing to do with privilege... it is not a thing of privilege to have responsible individuals as parents.

Those who have irresponsible parents should know that they do not because Luck or God was somehow magically not on their side but because their parents failed to meet up the responsibility they choose of their own accord.

What about parents who lost their source of livelihood or contracted an ailment that made them
Unable to provide?

Iyaebe:
Always playing the victim card with their one sided stories,I don’t always believe when a man put his stories here,they always lie to paint their partner as a demon.Oga What is that thing you always do that has made your wife violent?was she a violent woman before your marriage?

Have you ever been in a sincere relationship with someone in the Nigerian military?

70 percent of successful businesses are run by women?

Got a super Mario kart deluxe cartridge for Nintendo switch going for 9700
Plus other accessories if interested

Lagos 08037686837

GloriousGbola:
That's because I have been around scum scammers like you na. One can only approach you with paranoia and extreme caution. Every business transaction with you guys is lose win. It is what occurs on this very platform, and in multiple sales platforms on Nairaland all the time.

People paying good money and being sold rubbish.

I had a printer go bad and I took it to hp as it was under warranty. They first had to take a day to confirm the serial number because apparently Nigerians refurbish and repackage printers and sell them in cartons as new.

I bought a 'brand new' tplink router. Somehow the model does not look like the same model on the manufacturers page. Worse, the features I bought it for - parental control - do not work. And yes, I bought it from a Nigerian.

These are just two stories. I have several of them. The more knowledge you have about what you want to buy, the more you will find that 95% of the people selling are dishonest hustlers who will sell you dubious shit that may even kill you.

The fact that the fellow I called out was amiable about it is actually the first pointer that he is legit. Usually anyone called out gets agitated and abusive and started saying you are jobless or too poor to buy the item being sold.

Like you,for instance.

People need to learn to ask questions. It is their money. When people start getting cagey, then you know there is an issue.

Ironically it is also a trick that savvy buyers play. Once the seller sees you know exactly what's up, he then drops the price. Last year I needed to buy a hard drive urgently. I found a guy on jiji. He said the drive is 80k.he claimed it was brand new. He brought it without a box. I first checked the serial and then I plugged it in and analysed it. Once I was able to show him that the drive was infact not new and had been powered on 20 times before, he sold it to me for 55k.

I can tell these stories all day

Some sellers if you ask them info about the item or product they want to sell they become agitated

CsRockefeller:
Tennis Racket and Chelsea abi na Arsenal boot for sale

07056802001

Free?

stamapro:
Stripping her shows the deprived and perverted mind of those men. She caused it for herself anyway. If not that she stole, which of those stupid man can ask her to strip in public?

And when a man is stripped in public?

czarr:
Just know most guys wouldn't ask to just be friends with benefits, because most girls would feel insulted and not agree...so instead we wine you, make you feel special small, fvck a few times and ghost you.... that's how most guys move, it's left for you as the woman to be able to see through the whining and see who has genuine attraction for you, but women are blinded by appearances.(looks and money)

Even the guys who are more sincere with their feelings are tossed away or relegated to the friend zone or maga zone , most ladies would want to start just being friends with a guy n most times it doesn’t go beyond that.

Milesbillions:
Saving allawee was very hard for me as I fully depended on it, no other source of income....was even paying for my accomodation and the rest from there.
The little I saved, I channelled them in crypto and now bitcoin is going up and down...lol

Also served in state that was very far from my state of origin....70% of the allawee always finishes on travelling.

You finished alawee just like that?

Fear OAPs

Uniquewise:
Food cart/truck

For your mobile food business

This has a lot of potentials for your business

Call for more information

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Price please

WomanWeyGetMout:
Knack me better price and e fit be yours.

40k

MadamVanessa:



It's not hard to identify a great leader that mean well for the people and Soludo is one of such great leader. He has kept to one of his promises. This alone has endeared him to me and many others.

The difference is clear between an educated and a stark illiterate, between a ph.d holder and a nepa certificate holder.

A new dawn in Anambra state. I envy and jealous the good people of Anambra. The best is about happening.

And remember osinbanjo is a professor and yet

You know the rest

That ain’t putin, that’s a body double

She isn’t even worried making 2baba carry all the financial responsibilities, e no bad if she has financial goals but then again Na woman.

We will still overcome

No be Naija?

pyro62:
He ain't hitting it hard enough. The first photo was before a workout session, the second post was after a workout session. There is no marked difference and 2hours after the second photo, he'll return to the status of the first photo

Nah bro

Second photo was with a new belly tattoo and a darker contrast

tillaman:

In Uncle Ruckus’s voice
DONT TRUST THEM NIQQAZ OUT THERE

No relation

24SEVEN:
Use samsung or Apple smartphones and they cant hack it.

also use sim lock.

i have good millions in my accounts. imagine losing my phone.

Samsung is the easiest to hack or backpass using Grp and all details will still be left in it. iPhones are better or if u can get a blackberry

FutureFocus:
No Sir, not available now.

Pls let me know if any becomes available

FutureFocus:
Item 2

Very long water Hose for your garden / garden work , infact, this is for taking water from one point to the other.

Brand Name - Gardena

Contact details on my signature

I need something like this but with a pressure mechanism for washing a car, for personal/home use not the industrial type.

Do you have something to that effect?

Vinnie2000:
Op, you must have d ability to be paying all ur bills (rent,security, electricity,etc) without Stress or borrowing! And a steady income!

What if a man loses his job after marriage nko?

Naughtyg:
Hello guys. ..a used Sony Bravia 40 inch Led tv for sale...
Call or WhatsApp 09015874634

Free?

Just curious;

How these wrestlers win belts when it has been scripted and they still make it look as if they really really worked for it?

chatinent:
Two things are involved:

It's either he chose to be mature and deal with his family life privately.

Or


What Naija otumokpo cannot do doesn't exist.

Be like you haven’t seen the Ghanaian version

bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here

Marry her

Akamu

Candidlady:
You slapped her

Dude even said slightly. Slightly slapped her twice!!! God please bring people like this my way! Who will slightly slap me twice! °°°°that day the man will hate/regret the day he came into existence°°°

The day a man lift his hands on a lady he loses all respect as a man. He becomes a beast


And for that so called seer that said she has been charmed.. That is falseprophet's brother!!!


Modified : men will always brag bout that thing they have done for a lady!!? Read the story you'd understand what imeant!! °°°°ihave learnt never to collect zilch from any dude.. God forbid no be me una go use shine °°°°

you connected her to a business and rented a shop for her gave you the right to SLIGHTY SLAP her

@NapoleonHill
Thanks!! Experiences could really turn people into something else.. Thanks again

How about ladies who run their mouths during a misunderstanding? As you know words hurt a lot more than sticks and stones

NEXT!!!!!!!!!