Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Need mature, wise male friends and chat buddies by jeff1993: 6:51pm On May 19, 2019 |
Hi rain let's chat ..... DM me |
Politics › Re: How Kwara People ‘flogged’ Us Out Of Office – Senate President’s Ally Ali Ahmad by jeff1993: 9:15am On May 19, 2019 |
stupid write-up from stupid blogger who cannot construct meaningful sentence |
Celebrities › Re: Omoni Oboli And Richard Mofe-Damijo Kiss On Set Of ‘Love Is War' by jeff1993: 4:44pm On May 18, 2019 |
Id97: For a married woman,this is inappropriate even if her husband consented to it. .... is it to concern  .... hwho are you to talk if the husband approved it  |
Family › Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by jeff1993: 11:19am On May 18, 2019 |
Marbella003: I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont
I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.
I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.
I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.
I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.
I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with myee husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore. ....hello marbella can we talk  ..... |
Politics › Re: Osun Beyond Senator Adeleke’s Capacity To Govern – APC by jeff1993: 8:25pm On May 17, 2019 |
krebdawise: Nigeria politics is synonymous to Funny Politics... it's a joke.
Helo Nairalanders, am damn broke in school now(EKSU).... a/c: 0054187884. Bank: UnionBank... any amount.... ..... come and join our group NBA(nairaland beggars association)!!!! |
Islam › Re: Here's How Long Muslims Have To Fast For Ramadan Across The World by jeff1993: 8:04pm On May 17, 2019 |
mamapidgin: Great !!!
However let's pray for Muslims in China it is illegal to fast during the month of Ramadan
The Muslim world must not be silent on this
China
China hate Islam ..... Can you listen to yourself.... if you don't like Chinese laws move to a Muslim country. Same way northern Nigeria is silently harassing non Muslims who are eating during Ramadan!!! Islam always playing the victims card when they are in the minority!!! |
Celebrities › Re: Comedian Igodye Writes On The Struggles Of Men In Africa by jeff1993: 3:49pm On May 16, 2019 |
tohyorsih2: Abeg sharrap!!!  .... you the boy ... you never cease to be senseless |
Science/Technology › Re: Hope Emmanuel Frank Used Wood And Laptop Batteries To Construct Excavator by jeff1993: 2:15pm On May 15, 2019 |
LazyGold: Yeah maybe you are going to be the one feeding them instead
His mates are hawking Gala in Lagos Traffic ... sometimes I wonder if it was because of your tribe buhari called all of Nigerian youth lazy!!! |
Science/Technology › Re: Hope Emmanuel Frank Used Wood And Laptop Batteries To Construct Excavator by jeff1993: 2:12pm On May 15, 2019 |
Amuocha: great
BTW his mates are already carrying markers at bus-stops collecting money from 'yellow' commercial buses and keke >:
"The first time I saw an excavator, I thought, oh, let me just try this. I did the skeleton part and the flex, but it was not all that enough, like how to get them to move was my problem. I then thought of the idea of using a drip-set replacing the hose in the real excavator and the syringe works as the boom" - AMAZING TECHNIQUE  .... I pity those his mate carrying markers up and down ...... sometimes I just pray this awful prayers of motor smashing them to smithereens in their quest to violently harass legal money making individual with their hooliganism...... |
Celebrities › Re: Jim Iyke And Onyi Alex Sex Scene Got Celebrities, Fans Talking by jeff1993: 9:13pm On May 14, 2019 |
If you like last 40sec
If you like last 40hours
Na yourself you dey do
All I just want is to CUM..... If you cannot CUM with me in 40 seconds that is your problem!!! |
Politics › Re: Charly Boy Reveals Shocking Things About Deji Adeyanju In New Interview (video) by jeff1993: 9:19pm On Mar 24, 2019 |
Stupid fellows only looking after the is stomachs!!!!
Charlyboy your mumu don do!!!! |
Celebrities › Re: Destiny Etiko: Mercy Johnson, My Mentor In Nollywood (Pics) by jeff1993: 2:32pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: I Did Not Write Any Letter To The President's Chief Of Staff - Akpabio by jeff1993: 3:19pm On Feb 14, 2019 |
You want to trend MR Akpabio .... we did not see any letter ....PDP cannot stoop so low to use you even in a foolish gimmick ..... You are as useless to PDP as the "P" in psychology!!!!! |
Politics › Re: IPOB Holds Mock Referendum In Owerri, In Readiness For 16th by jeff1993: 3:04pm On Feb 14, 2019 |
If someone told me that Igbos can be fooled like this I won't believe.
The foolish coward bonobo monkey is in London with his wife and children .... his brother just travelled out yesterday ... his immediate relatives are not involved in this fight because almost all of them are outside the country but foolish and jobless Igbo youths who have no inkling of what happened to their father thinks its by foolishness Biafra would materialise!!!!
I don't feel any pity for the idiots who Nigerian army would use as training ground for their recruits ..... Igbo's need to rise up and become a giant in Nigeria politics and it is not by taking pictures of big bare chested jobless men in ipob rally.... it is by being politically active. We are not a minor tribe..... For Gods sake we are a major tribe!!!!! |
Politics › Re: IPOB Members Blast Nnamdi KANU Over Atiku Comment -photo by jeff1993: 10:00pm On Feb 10, 2019 |
AmarachiAshawo: All I see are bunch of efelefus who doesn't know their right from their left, who doesn't know they are slaves to fulanis in this British contraption. No referendum no election, sit at home and enjoy with your family. Your vote won't count. The zoo must fall. ........ Sorry for your life ..... just sit down and think how useless your statements is!!! |
Crime › Re: "Oyinbo We Can't Send Your Money Back, We Used It To Buy Benz" - Nigerian Man by jeff1993: 10:25pm On Feb 09, 2019 |
4ckTOTO: I decided to click your profile. I just discovered I have been responding to a pauper. You are now fully IGNORED .... Anytime you decide to be sensible bro .... try changing your name to start with .... it says a lot about how useless your personality is!!! |
Crime › Re: "Oyinbo We Can't Send Your Money Back, We Used It To Buy Benz" - Nigerian Man by jeff1993: 10:40pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
4ckTOTO: That's because I am not here to please you. Btw travelling dosnt not give you sense. What gives you sense is failure. I know that might be too hard for your brain to decipher ..... and I did not ask you to please me .... all I ask is for you to be a little sensible and stop exhibiting the traits of someone who has failed woefully in his chosen career. |
Car Talk › Re: Man Uses A Rope To Pull A Faulty Car In Benin, Edo State by jeff1993: 7:36pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
As far as this thing happened in Edo ..... the guy has spiritual backup |
Crime › Re: "Oyinbo We Can't Send Your Money Back, We Used It To Buy Benz" - Nigerian Man by jeff1993: 7:30pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
4ckTOTO: Idiot. I have been to countries u only dream about ..... lol ..... if u say so ... I expected more sense from someone like you who is widely travelled but you failed!!! |
Crime › Re: "Oyinbo We Can't Send Your Money Back, We Used It To Buy Benz" - Nigerian Man by jeff1993: 6:00pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
4ckTOTO: Sorry the white men got so greedy and wanted to be richer than Bill gates. Hence got scammed. Its not the fault of the yahoo boys .... When you go out of Nigeria your mentality will change .... I use to think like you before .... Can't do a decent business online with a Nigerian identity without been called a scammer |
Crime › Re: "Oyinbo We Can't Send Your Money Back, We Used It To Buy Benz" - Nigerian Man by jeff1993: 4:17pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
4ckTOTO: Its called karma. The sin they whites sinned before is chasing them. U can't escape karma Sorry your people sold their selves to the whitemen for mirror and guns ..... Its no fault of the whiteman |
Crime › Re: "Oyinbo We Can't Send Your Money Back, We Used It To Buy Benz" - Nigerian Man by jeff1993: 4:01pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
This people are the reason why white people are always wary of Nigerians
I wish I can just kill all the yahoo boys.... They make things hard for Nigerians who are living legimately and trying to hustle in foreign countries. |
Politics › Re: Body Bags: El-rufai, Shut Up! Apologise & Move On - Aisha Yesufu Blasts Governor by jeff1993: 12:52pm On Feb 07, 2019 |
michoim: This ill-trained, and uncultured woman is at it again...Bitch . ... How cultured is your mother?? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Recruitment For INEC Adhoc Staff For 2019 Election Thread by jeff1993: 11:34am On Feb 02, 2019 |
PreciousMia: Anyway, the training started today, we were told that if u didn't get a text, u can't participate..unless your name was sent from somewhere to them ..... pls can you forward the text to me please precious.. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Recruitment For INEC Adhoc Staff For 2019 Election Thread by jeff1993: 8:29pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
PreciousMia: please anyone from Ajeromi Ifelodun LGA? Lagos State...got a text that the training will begin tomorrow ...... Yea am from ajeromi ifelodun local govt ..... missed the training due to work today .... it is holding at Ebenezer pry school at dustbin bus stop... but I didn't get any text.... can we link up 07063802002 |
Politics › Re: I Have Been Fighting Corruption For 35years Since I Was A Kid, Olawepo Hashim by jeff1993: 9:55pm On Jan 29, 2019 |
EYAN MAYWEATHER |
Romance › Re: Pre-wedding Photos Of A Female Soldier And Her Civilian Man by jeff1993: 2:51pm On Jan 26, 2019 |
jnrbayano: How many have you married to know they are the sweetest women to marry bro?
Care to share? Has anyone maltreated a husband you know
Care to share?? |
Romance › Re: Pre-wedding Photos Of A Female Soldier And Her Civilian Man by jeff1993: 12:31pm On Jan 26, 2019 |
Either this guy is her childhood friend or they have a mutual friend who brought them together or the guy has military back up.
Military women are the sweetest women to marry but you must be an alpha male to get them. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Recruitment For INEC Adhoc Staff For 2019 Election Thread by jeff1993: 11:02pm On Jan 24, 2019 |
keep posted |
Celebrities › Re: Desmond Elliot & Wife, Victoria Celebrate 15th Wedding Anniversary by jeff1993: 10:59pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Bar1941: Mumu, how she take ugly? .... Mumu ask me again |
Celebrities › Re: Desmond Elliot & Wife, Victoria Celebrate 15th Wedding Anniversary by jeff1993: 12:59pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
handsome men marry ugly wives |
Romance › Linda Ikeji And The Hypocrisy Of The Nigerian Woman's Orgasm. by jeff1993(op): 9:18am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Guys check out this funny post on the current Linda Ikeji chronicles, by a friend on Facebook. Dinma E-bae is her Facebook ID. *********************************************************** The hypocrisy of the Nigerian woman' orgasm is everything embedded in Linda Ikeji' unbelievable wall of holier-than-thou text.
Behind the guerilla marketing strategy to drive traffic to her blog and all the fictitious elements that laced her humongous wall of explanation, is the pathetic story of how the Nigerian woman continues to reject her desires and natural appetite as a human with blood coursing through her veins.
The Nigerian woman never indulges sex. Sex is overrated. It is always the man begging and pursuing her a million times but behind the curtains she is getting laid in a cramped bedroom and recklessy enjoying every bit of it without a rubber.
The Nigerian woman has only been with two men in her lifetime. The person whom she "lost" her virginity to and the one she is currently sacrificing two hours of her daily existence in traffic to go see with a laptop and career-woman pinup label.
The Nigerian woman never gets pregnant deliberately, pregnancy FALLS on her without notice and so we must all pity her pathetic situation and not judge her for having a baby that appeared out nowhere.
The Nigerian woman is always a sanctimonous woman regardless of what holy laws she is contradicting. So that she turns fornication into something righteous because God has a purpose for everything. If having multiple orgasms and chancing upon a billionaire's sperm isn't God' blessings to his children, what is?
The Nigerian woman is so stuck on a psychological blame game. She never accepts responsibility. Always it is a man's fault that her narrative is what it is. You can call her Adam and the man, Eve.
The Nigerian woman always owes everyone an explanation for indulging her desires (actually she does) so after panting in the bedroom, she invites us to an online assembly to dissect and analyse the validity of her needs.
The Nigerian woman is so dumb that she thinks going back to her apathetic ex and shagging just one on and off eggplant is morally valid than having body counts.
The Nigerian woman finds her actions so ridiculous that she is Laughing Out Loud (LOL) at every point of her silly explanations.
The Nigerian woman is so pathetic you want to weep for her because despite her status, enviable achievements and Bleep-you-money, the sum total of her essence as a human is still tied to her vagina and need to pander to the ideals and validations of faceless strangers.
The Nigerian woman doesn't take lightly her self imposed burden of being a role model to many impressionable young ladies even if it means shifting the goal post of subjective morality to accomodate the expanding, deceitful and self-righteous lines of her narrative.
In the end, the Nigerian woman is a prisoner of her own pretensions and valid desires.
Written by Dinma E-bae |