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My advice is that you don't raise ur hand on a woman. That's the training i'm going to give my son.

The reason being that as men, u're naturally stronger. U all will agree with me that when u're angry, u tend to put reasing aside. Beating her may result in killing her or even inflicting her of a permanent pain such as breaking her arms or legs,

Prevention is better than cure, if you'd ask me !!

In my 1st pregnancy, i could barely do anythg for myself. My whole system just shut down. I'd stay the whole day without eating even though i was hungry but didn't have the required strenght to get up and cook. My hubby was always working, day and night and would buy me burger on his way home.

Surprisingly, now that i've started working, i find my 2nd pregnancy less difficult. Would u beleive that i'm even strong enough to wear make up everyday to work, fix my hair every 2wks and even cook a meal daily.

I advice that u go ahead when u're ready without thinking it'll actually be as bad as the 1st time. U should also catch enough rest, at least 8hrs of sleep, eat little but more often than before, avoid stress, lots of water/fruits and vegetables,

Tom and Jerry !!

Building Seed!!
Shiloh Seed!!

The N°1 made me laugh out loud at work, Abeg u try oooo

I feel so much PAIN going thru these pics. And reading those posts hasn't made it even better.

In as much as i undstd ur plights, i still feel it's necessary that we try our best to source for help, when we need it. If u feel offended by such posts, then don't read them anymore. But as a mother, i put myself in this baby's parents shoes. These are people who don't even have enough to feed, they're vulnerable and are in an urgent need of a miracle.

Pls lets all endeavour to help in our little way cos noone knows 2mrw,

I think the major point here should be the desire to encourage them to move back home and not the actual percentage of nigerian docs in the US.

In that case, gvmt should start working on those thgs our country lacks and that the developped world has such as: security, constant power and water supply, jobs, good roads, good schools, functioning equipments in hospitals, qualified docs (as it's being discussed),

A CAR !! lolz

The idea of taking lunch and drinks to her office is a nice one. I'm tires of regular gifts

Na wa for this people ooo!! Despite the awareness that has been created on drug smuggling, people still don't care and are ready to take the risk. It's like they have no respect for life itself.

I think Asians got it right. such people don't deserve to live

Since the robber was armed, even if her glass was rolled up completely, he could still have attacked her. Or don't bullets pierce thru glass again??

How else could she have been watchful in traffic?? it was just a mere coincidence her glass was down. With all this i don't think she could do anythg other than obey the robber's instructions.

There's no universal reule that states that she has to be single. So u can go ahead and do what suits u most. The most important thg is that u stick to ur plans for that day so u get to enjoy ur day to it's fullest.

u either divorce or live with it all ur life while hoping and praying change comes.

Pastors will simply PROTEST !! u wan pour sand inside their garri abi??

I concur to HIV screening at the airport !! Now we go see who sabi pass, EEDIOTS!!

I have done that more than 20 times both day and night trips. But all that was between 1999 and 2004. I recall it used to take us about 12hrs when we started but later started taking 8hrs. We used to take commercial buses like ABC, EKENE DILI CHUKWU because they are the two that kept to time, hardly had technical problems on the way, had escorts, and back then flying cost alot.

However i hear 9ja has changed alot now with so many aviation companies now but also many armed robbery attacks on the way. I almost experienced one, when we all were asked to stop cos armed robbers were raiding in front. A jeep that succeeded in escaping was badly damaged with gunshots but noone died. This happened at Bida.

That's why i strongly advice u take a flight since ur major concern isn't the time spent on the way but ur safety.

My husband is by far my No1 BEST FRIEND!!

Wonders shall never end!!

R.I.P dear !!

This isn't a reasonable post. Why try to compare 2 nigerian heroes? They stood for different causes and as such, both remain relevant in our history. Any answer in the favour of 1 against the other, to me, is biased!!

God punish all of u (BOKO HARAM)!!

It's not because we're not russians that we should feel less concerned. It's always a good thg to be INFORMED. The difference between Failure and Success is INFORMATION, STAY INFORMED!!

Thanks for the post jare!!

Pls lets endeavour to authentify our posts before rendering them public. Some of us don't live in nigeria and rely on what we read here.
Thanks!!

Unfortunately, in Africa, women from broken homes are looked down upon not knowing the reasons behind their actions. No normal person would opt out of a promising marriage only if her life is at risk, that of her children or she finds it nomore healthy.

We should learn to respect peoples decisions and see beyound their societal flaws. See what staying in an unhealthy marriage has caused this victim, the ultimate price. Her kids will never get to see her again. Even if the husband is dealt with, does it undo the harm??

Yes oo, death penlty straight!! like the asians

What a question !! of course the answer is POUNDED YAM, even if i don't know how to pound. I hate the taste of Poundo because it's so fake but for some reason, my husband still prefers it to eba.

However, if not for theis post, how on earth would i hav known dat some peeps prefer poundo to the original pounded yam??

Very funny !! You just basically have to sit him down and explain to him how it works ( certainly not to be swallowed). It shows that he's a great listener though

I don't even know what to say on this one. This man is so full of himself, trying to pass for a saint. Which nigeria were u saving? is it d same one u stole from??

I agree to some extent with the previous post.

There's some hidden info somewhere and not until u open up, noone would be able to advice you accordingly. Your wife isn't insane, neither is her mom. They can't just choose to walk away from a promising marriage.

That's the pblm many men have. U impose total submission in ur homes where she can't utter a word and she just has to comply with all u say. Definately she'll be waiting for that day she'll have enough energy to say to hell with u. That's why when u claim nothg was wrong when leaving ur home, i want u to know it's a planned thing. They didn't just think of it at the hospital.

Which kind WICKED holy spirit be dat? dis one na blaspemy ooo

In this same 9ja?? police go pay such money?? we all better wake up from our slumber.

By the way, has Baba Suwe been paid? when i was tellin peeps he'd never smell the 25 million, peeps didn't beleive me, Now we all have seen for ourselves

My dear, pls try to sincerely (without any external influence) weigh the pros and cons of the situation. Choosing to keep this baby, without the approval of the father isn't the best. Someone mentionned clarence chukwurah, my dear, its not the same thg oo. Both of them were public figures and peeps were aware of their liaison, so the man couldn't deny that fact. She obviously would have loved to spend d rest of her life with him.

In ur case, thgs are different. You have admitted it's not a serious relationship, you don't love the guy, your family has disowned u, You still need to give us some info like
1- are you working
2-do u strongly know you'll be able to take care of this child alone (financially, morally, )

These are the types of questions u should ask urself. If you answer no to most of them, then go ahead and abort the child. If not, you can keep it

GOODLUCK dear !!

This man is a FOOL!! so money laundering is a good thing??

Abeg fade jare !!