My dear,E NO EASY OOO!! and the most painful part is that u don't realise this until u're married.

Lets all pray for the grace of God to pull through

May their souls rest in perfect peace...Amen !!

Go ahead seeking for the job. If they eventually get you tested, since you don't knw if HIV test is inclusive, i advice you inform ur uncle. But if they don't test u at all, you may wait till u're ready to let the family knw.

Don't mind those who say noone would stigmatise. I would if i were in their shoes and that's LIFE. However, with time, peeps will come to terms with reality and embrace u while they still can...Goodluck !!

Marriage is not as easy as it sounds!! I'm sure most of u who have answered aren't even married so u ought not to comment. We need peeps who are experienced here. I'm married and for over 2yrs and i can tell u that this is somethg that can happen. Unfortunately, There's room for such occasionally be it from the hubby or wife.

I am ooo!! But i must admit i frequently have sex in my dream(last night sef) since my hubby isn't the sex freak type.

This is a very delicate one!! I'm of the opinion that our parents are our responsibility in old age just as we were theirs when we were little. Not every parent was fortunate/wise enough to make arrangements for their upkeeping in old age. According to one's case(which you know more than anyone else), one is expected to know what suits one's parents most. Be it getting them an apartment, a permanent maid, bringing them in or putting them in a home.

My mom is late and she solely trained my siblings and i. I would have gladly brought her in but i'm sure i wouldn't have needed to do that untill she's 80yrs. Due to the fact that she's very active, richer than all her kids also.

If my irresponsible dad needed help(even if he's richer than my mom), i'd simply refuse and refer him to the kids he took care of at our expense.

As for my in-laws, i've stayed 4mths with my mom in-law. She's a darling but i can't stand the idea of having her indefinately in our home. But i'd undstd if that's my hubbys choice simply because i'd have done same for my mom.

I strongly feel the way you do but somethg keeps telling me it's wrong. All because Malachi 3: 8-10 "Honour the Lord with your tithe..." God was very clear in this scripture asking that we take our tithes to the church. Whatever that money is being used for is no longer our buisness, because we would have done our own part.

HIV or not...........WE ALL SHALL DIE SOMEDAY!!

U are CORRECT!! He was actually GROOMED by Wade before leaving to create his own party.

Na wa oo!! I'm forced to say THIS MAN IS A BUISNESSMAN

It's a good thg u have ur brother at heart. When i 1st read ur post, i thought it was dumb of u. But after a rethink, i have had a change of mind. It's better u suggest it to management if not, make him go thru the same process u went thru. Remember if it's meant to be, it'll surely be. U don't want what happened to the newly caught fake NYSC corpers to happen to ur bro??

I don't think in the gender, lies our fate. I agree with those that said all we need is REORRIENTATION !! We all don't bliv in ONE NIGERIA and to crown it all, PEOPLE ARE READY TO DO ANYTHG TO ENRICH THEMSELVES...SAD BUT TRUE

All i need to know is: DID THEY KNOW ALL THIS WAS FAKE OR THEY'RE ALSO AS SHOCKED AS WE ARE??

This woman is really going places(TRUTH BE TOLD) !!

My 1st year was great with little or no quarrels(none that i can remember). Also got pregnant immediately after my wedding so things were really going as planned. Mom in law came in 2wks b4 i gave birth and her son had bought her a 4mths ticket(without informing me of the period). Even when i got to know, i didn't think it was too long a time to stay with us(even if i did, she was already with us). Did i mention we live outside 9ja and it was her 1st time travelling abroad. She came and was initially very nice only for her to also interrupt when we're discussing, wanting to know what/who we're talking about.

The most painful part came after i gave birth. They started talking about some type of sacrificial food i must eat because they are from a royal family(royal family without a palace/people)!! Guys, i almost lost it. The food had thais serious smell and was cooked without maggi/salt. She also said i musn't eat anyother thg for 1week. I suffered!! As a new mom(my mom had passed a yr before and my siblings all live in the US), it was really tough on me. I'd cry all day and she began acting funny because i objected to eating her concortion.

My hubby is the very loving type but unfortunately has never stood up to defend me in my presence. I stood my ground on this issue.

She later left 4mths later. 8mths later, his younger brother came to live with us. He's been here for 6mths now and after him i'm sure, another would be coming. Still,at the slightest quarrel, he claims it's my fault and starts calling all my siblings. In short, this 2nd yr is the worst. We used to be really close but i don't know what's been happening to us.

I'm fed up but what can i do? I'm not willing to leave cos i love him and i just must work towards the success of our mariage but i must admit, i'm no longer a happy person. If i had the ressources too, maybe i'd be a happier person.

In short, just for u all to knw that to every mariage, it's challenges. None is as perfect as it appears.

D days of Tandi Goranda, Limca, Gold Spot, Mirinda, Pepsi, Fanta Chapman, Fanta Lemon...

Dat part got me laughing for minutes "On his 20,000 Naira salary per mth, it'd take him 125yrs to be able to buy such a car, if he doesn't buy anythg else".....Lolz (SAD BUT TRUE)!!

Congrats to us all !! She's NIGERIAN[b]Congrats to us all !! She's NIGERIAN[/b]Congrats to us all !! She's NIGERIAN

I think the white people should take over again. At least they'd bring back sanity, orderliness...

Even if they enrich themselves in the process, wouldn't it be better than being duped by our so called brothers??

Nice development !! they should equip themselves accordingly

Dancing to water bam bam at birthday parties; dancing competition

Inter house sports in primary schools; Cultural dance days; Girls guide and Brownie days; Boys scout days; playing Ten Ten or Suwe after school closes till the driver comes to pick us up

Actors and actresses like Ego Boyo, Regina Askia, RMD, Hilda Dokubo, Susan Patrick, Saint Obi, Pete Edochie, Sandra Achums in films like Nneka the pretty serpent, Karashika, Violated, Domitila, Full moon, Saworoide, Ashewo Ti O lO Mecca, Ti Oluwa Ni Ile...

Choco Milo, Tomo Tom, Butter Mint, Goody Goody, Ice cream sold in front of schools...

Naija no dey carry last...which one be dis one again ooo??

Both of you are guilty oo!! What are you both doing on such a site in the first place??

Own a Bible !!

Why must we always condemn every move of GEJ?? abeg let's give the lady time to prove herself.

It's best that we all note that there are 2 categories of ambassadors: CAREER and POLITICAL. She may happen to be of the later.

Pls ask the Pastor himself !!lol

Even though every indicator in ur question suggests it's WRONG.

They should be executed Asap!! our prisons are already FULL

This sounds like a Joke !!