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So una still dey here

Because the two parties fails to understand what they are into and the meaning of that word relationship.

A real man is one who can tolerate every rubbish that proceeds out from a woman's speech organ and yet won't raise a finger on her. If a man can do that then every other thing can be added unto him.

chefremy:
why now?

Why what?

Orobo or fatima...I don't need to tell you why.

They look alike..
Are they father and son?

jossi994:
Just make money!
Plenty money

CoolHunk:
It's the same formula.

I hear

CoolHunk:
Yes, run like the chicken you are. If you want a great man, be ready to take risks.

If you want a great woman nko?

[quote author=Bridgetown post=+28317465][/quote]Am rushing to do that.

tellwisdom:
Your body go dey smell oo

Bridgetown:
You don't use sponge at all! Try marry first you husband go divorce you because of bottom odour. You better learn it because non be abroad u dey. Naija dust hmmm.

Why una dey drink panadol for my own headache. If u like use sponge ten times in a day while bathing, if you have a body odour it will never cure it. So please leave me and my body and learn how to mind your own business. I have seen someone that bathes three times a day, she uses the best perfume. Yet her body odour tells me that she is around the corner. Bridgetown, I will make sure I invite you to my 100years in a successful marriage. Just be alive. You must be a witness to it.

bigemmmybig:
Ur very correct ooo...n d worst part b say d itching no dey pity person at all. Instead of bathin n feeling refreshed, after bath na vex....got to a point I nearly vex wit God sef...chaiiiii

Seriously the thing is so irritating. When I started noticing it, I thought maybe I have skin infection or any of such issues until my mum advised me to visit the hospital but due to the urgency to ascertain what is wrong I quickly went to a nearby pharmacy and met with the doctor there. I explained things to her and she said that from what I said that it's no infection but that I have a very sensitive skin. She told me to stop using any medicated or antiseptic soap. That I should use toilet soap that has less perfume content and mild perfume and body spray too. She said that some body spray and perfume have some strong chemicals in them. She gave me a list of soap like fade soap, any baby soap and rapid white or any other soap that is mild and that has less perfume content. And my cream should be mild too. And then using of hot water for bathe and soft cloth in place of sponge. To also confirm what she said I have to make series of research from Google and it gave me the same thing the doctor said and then I stick to it till today. And seriously for like sometime now I have not experienced itching except on a day or two that I will like to exfoliate my skin using sponge. But I do the exfoliation on Saturdays when I no that am staying @home to avoid anything spoiling my day. It's all bout knowing your skin. For some of you that is saying they can perceive the odour don't worry yourselves.. Its my body anyway and am not complaining. If I have a body odour my mum will be the first to tell me. She is my mirror at home and before going out.



If you have not experienced body itching after bathe... You will definitely not understand what am saying. During those days sometimes I feel like cutting off some part of my body that is itching , sometimes I cry in silence... chai... itching after bathe I swear for u.

koolg:
I can perceive the odor already

Yes. The odour don enter Guinness book of record. Do you have any other thing to say?

Very nice post. No 5 is seriously eating deep in some ladies. They leave all the house chores for the maid otherwise called Nanny(that's the baptismal name) including cooking and serving the food for the man of the house. They leave the children at the mercy of the maid. The kids do nothing once they come back from school. Everything is left for the maid. They forget that somehow they are training the maid at the detriment of their children.

Visit a gynaecologist and have them test your hormones and infection. Sometimes our body system changes and same with our hormone. It maybe hormonal imbalance or infection. It's better you visit a gyna.

wakacome:
nice.

Ok.

Hmmmmm

wakacome:
good morning jenny,how was your nite?

Very good and yours?

wakacome:
ok now I understand...

G.morning.

wakacome:
very sad death?is there happy death?

Yes there is.... At the age of 100 or more. it's not just a happy death it's a celebration of a life well spent. I pray for Long life of 90 and above for my parents, my siblings, myself and my well wishers. Anything below this age limit is a painful and a sad death. May her soul rest in peace. Amen. God knows the best.

She looks more beautiful before her face surgery.

Don't really know what happened but whatever be the case may your soul Rest in peace.

Burger01:
OK.
But, what do you say to Yorubas that don't attach much values to bride pride? Does that mean a man is less responsible and a subject of ridicule amongst his mates?

Well different tradition for different people. In my place when a guy pays for the woman's bride price the parents of the bride will return part of the money to the man and his family telling them that they are not selling their daughter but giving her out to him to help them in taking care of her.

Catholic by birth and will be till death and even after death.
Am happy to be one.



CHRIST THE KING
THE HOPE OF OUR
S A L V A T I O N

Burger01:
I'm not against bride price or whatever traditional dues a man must pay. My question was if after paying the bride price and wife starts living with the husband, what assurance is there that the wife would for (1)- be dutiful and truthful to the husband? (2)- be a progressive wheel in the life of the husband and not be a clog? (3)- not send the husband to an early grave? We all know some women (if not most) do have caustic tongues, do live adulterous lives and even bring bastard children to their husbands. Not generalizing please. I've heard of a case where a husband found out two of his three children were not his!..... and this man paid the bride price o. Paying the bride price is traditionally OK, but what assertive impact does doing so have in the husband's life? Yoruba people would tell you their daughters are not for sale and the bride price returned. Why would they do this? They might do this because of some unforseen situations in the future.

Bride price, to me, is just like extortion in the name of traditional marriage. Please don't hate me

Am not hating you because everybody has his/her understanding towards some issues. And you can call bride pride extortion, that's the way u see it. Bride price does not ascertain how the marriage will be like or whether the wife will be faithful or not. What am saying is that it's a traditional thing which is expected of any man that wants to take home a woman as his wife. Bride price does not guarantee a succeful marriage just as elaborate wedding won't. Since its a tradition that must be carried out which is expected of every man then why can't the man. He is not just doing it for the woman but for himself too. When u can't pay the bride price of the woman you're living with or you want to live with I wonder how you want people especially your age mate to see you. They will assume that you're a not upto the task. An age mate of yours can easily shut you up when a meeting is going, so many people will take you for granted and disrespect you because to them you are not a man yet because you failed to the necessary. Repect they say is reciprocal. Even sometimes the family of the woman can insult you. So to keep your diginity and prestige as a man you have to do what is expected of you. If you think that paying of bride price will determine how happy your marriage will be then am sorry to say that such a man that habours such thought is not yet ready for marriage. It's only the couples understanding, their level of maturity, the love that they have for each other and the grace of God that determines how happy the marriage will be.

Congrats Naijaboiy...

Burger01:
As long as the bride price is not more than 35k, no problem

Bride price doesn't really tell the expected value of a wife in the husband's life or in the marital home - does it

To a large extent it does. In my side if a guy asks for your hand in marriage and for some reasons couldn't meet with the demand in bride price or attaining to the items on the list it's assumed that you're not fully a wife to him. In fact if anything should happen to the woman like the case of death.. The man must pay up every dime even in death. And in some town the wife is somehow not regarded as a full fledged Member of the umuada community because of the man's inability to complete with the bride price. As for having any value in the husband's life... Please do not allow any man to take your sister away without completing with the proper things. at least he should be able to complete every of the traditional right. Maybe not once but he has to. It's what is expected of him. When he has the money he can go for the wedding, it must not be an elaborate one. Except if you want your sister to live in pains all her life... When a guy can't pay up the necessary dues it calls for disrespect if not from the husband's family then maybe from the husband itself. some men can behave funny at times. A guy paying the complete bride price is the first respect she can give to the woman both in his home and outside his home.
Think of a woman that got pregnant and moved in with the guy without anything been done on her head. 10 out of 100 of such women have a happy home. Now tell me the difference between such women and the one that her pride price is not done or not completed and is living with the man.

Dominiquez:
If he cannot afford bride price he should stay off from marriage. Because d responsibilities of marriage is bigger than bride price.

You said it all.

edozie04:
Be it my mother,sisters,wife,cousins,niece and gf,don't know about you but to me they must to chop my money

Amen... And may you never lack to spend on them and even when the money is not there may theyunderstand too.

onila:
ok let me help u. .just say its your boyfriend's baby. .i mean if the baby comes out looking like yr bf's grandfather=pple will just say he took his grandfathers genes . .after all they have the same blood

if you smart abt it trust me nobody will know

Miss special adviser to pregnancy and related matters for how long do you think she can conceal the truth? Or do you think that the truth will not surface one day? (keep the answer to yourself).

Ok...

spicyhoney:
Lol! I will when the time comes. Don't forget to invite me too.

Yea... I definitely will, when the time comes.