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Mine:
In all you do, Think of Heaven.
Bible verse: Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.
(Colossians 3:2).

Let you heart always think of heaven. That will guide you and keep you from commiting sin.
Things above last but the earth will pass away soon. Nothing for on earth last forever.
Struggle daily to make heaven.
Set your mind on heavenly things.

There is nothing like angels and spirits. It's just fantasy!

Mallam from hell.

Antyxx:
I have been having headache since i broke up with him
We just broke up this morning, and ever since, I have been praying for him, even though he blocked me and i blocked him back,I unblocked him and keep praying for him

He wont see my message anyways but i hope my prayers meet him

We have dated for a longtime that I am even ashamed to tell people how long we have been together,all his friends that started dating 3-5years after us have married with kids,some have changed girlfriends upto 2times before marrying. But hes always giving excuses, one after the other. This is someone I told from the begininng that I dont date or interested in dating, I want to court and settle down within 6months of our relationship because he already ticked most things i want in a guy
Also, we have been in a long distance relationship all through

Modified: I dont want him to unblock me, i dont want him to come back, I wish him get his desired gf and live a happylife

Werey. After sleeping with other men, you want to settle down with him.
The guy is wiser.
I pray he comes back and finish you completely.
You lost your virginity to a man who offered you Two eggs and indomie but you want him to pay Bride price on you? Only a foolish man would do that.

Nigerian army takes to many pictures. You don't compromise security forces like this; everything should be done secretly.

If you didn't marry your wife as a virgin, then I am here to tell you that one or two of your children are not yours.
Marry a virgin and see how your home is filled with joy.
You children will become great like Soludo.
Marry a woman who another man has slept with and see how frustrated you will become in your own home because she will fvck her ex the moment he shows up.

Wawelexy:
You are still very young
You are in school
You are an orphan
You chose a female as your bestie
You are doing the do with her
You are doing it raw without condoms
You still have the guts to tell us no insults

I wish I can lay my hands on you and test this original USB cable on your thigh... foolish boy

He is very foolish indeed. The boy didn't listen to the words of his father.
If you check well, he will be one of does stupid boys who will paint room, buy iphone, buy expensive clothes without having anything doing (they're depending on their parents) yet, calm to be a big boy.

ccjoe:
I haven't been able to sleep since yesterday. I'm a promising young guy and still in school and this girl is my bestie in school.
We do it regularly and without condom, I never knew it will end like this.
Pls i'm just an orphan and still very young.. I need advice on how to handle this situation now..

##Mature minds only and no insult pls.

You acted childishly but you're here looking for mature minds only. You're a fool.

You like pvssy right? Deal with the consequences of your action.
You have just throw your destiny to the dogs.
I pray your life make a U-turn and head back to the bottom until you begin to contemplate suicide. I diot. You don't have anything but you keep Fvcking pvssy.

Who raised you?

Marry a virgin or training a child who is not yours.

Nice one my virgin girl. We move.

Who has experience dating girls who wear glasses?

Named senseman but lacks sense.

yemmit90:
You are very right, the man is so stupid with low self worth mentality. Imaging someone with good paying job begging a woman to consider him. Las Las, he will end up training another man's children, so pathetic.

He clearly got job through connection;, he isn't smart enough for such a high paying job.

Mom007:
No wonder who married who in the first place? Speak for you wife(if you have one) and your sisters pls. You do not know me so don't make stupid assumptions. I left fb long ago because it became such a toxic space with too many negative stories going round. I only use nairaland because it used to be a great space to read and engage on relevant issues. Too bad its being taken over by silly underaged and poorly trained kids who have no kwalms insulting people older than them in the real world. Or can you say this trash to my face if you meet me outside?

There's only one way to find out.

Juliusdaughter:
I met a man through my long term friend and he has made his intentions about marriage known from the start. He loves me, is attracted to me and loves to do PDA when we are out together.

He has everything a woman would want in her husband, but I am not attracted to him neither do I have feelings for him. I love him as a friend tho because his physical attributes will not matter in that instance. I am slightly taller than him, even tho I'm not a tall person, I am dark skinned and he is darker than me. He has a really small stature and you wouldn't know he has money or works in good company.

He has told me his plans for us and it's a really good one, he works in top management role and he earns over 20 million naira per annum.

I have told him what I feel and he is really persistent, he says I should try and reciprocate his feelings and love towards me and the feelings will grow, that I shouldn't worry about the height of our kids
I can't lie, I don't feel proud this few times he's done PDA with me, I see the way that makes him happy, making me feel like a trophy wife.

There was this other guy I had feelings and attraction for, and it disappeared the first time I saw him and realized he isn't who he said he is. This confirms to me that feelings is flimsy and depends on circumstances.

To married people here, both long or short years in marriage; is attraction and feelings one of the major things holding down your marriage? Did you marry who you weren't really attracted to but you're happy now in the marriage? How will I deal with public perception of us especially when it's comes to flaunting him as my husband?
I have entered my late 20s and I don't wanna waste time, I don't wanna waste my time in vain waiting for the guy I'll feel all these for, what if he isn't worth it?

I didn't read this long shit but I can confidently tell you that very soon, you will wish you married him.
On a second thought, don't marry him because he is a stupid man. He is so stupid that he wants to force love on a woman. It never ends well.

Rozross:
Men are very jealous, men will have more than a thousand body count but gets jealous with few body count from their women. I wish all women can keep themselves till marriage, all these rubbish won’t arise

Yes because sex with multiple partners damages women.

MrPower:
[color=#000099][/color] this is one painful and traumatising experience some men go through. this is a sad reality most men face that has made so many loose trust and confident in decent ladies especially the religious once, and has change their perspective of morality and decency. That's why most men no longer believe a lady is a virgin or has had sex only once or twice.

The question is why do most women lie about their body count?

You still take non virgin serious?
You have not learn anything in life , on Twitter or Niaraland. Shame on you

Op, you need a good fvck. You need hot and powerful sex.
Most physiological problems women face is due to lack of good sex.
Once a woman is above 20, good sex is her cure.

Get fvcked op. Get fvcked.

superCleanworks:
all those babes wey their gist no pass NEW PHONE, BBN & WizKid. Just mention words like MICROSOFT, INDUSTRY, BUSINESS, FUTURE PLAN, CENTIMETER around them and they will be mute forever and start pressing their phone.
their favorite songs are -
SCHOOL NA SCAM
ADULTHOOD NA SCAM
KOROBA by Tiwa Savage

Thumbs up for you man.

I wrote my daily plan on a piece of paper because I might forget something due to office activities.
One stupid girl I was initially planning to ask out saw the paper and began to laugh. She called her dump friend and both foolish girls laughed together. They were like "why will someone write his programs down?"
I smiled scantily and continued my work. That was the day I ditched the plan of asking the pretty girl out.

Another girl saw it and was like "hmmm. You're an intelligent man. I do this too". We became good friends with her later that day.

Moral lesson: don't date stupid girls and don't keep foolish people around you; they're worst than COVID-19.

A child's intelligence is from the mother; don't marry a woman who doesn't have good memory or who can not keep up with intelligent conversation.
Op, just keep Fvcking that girl and dump her when you're ready to marry.
Do otherwise and regret.

TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

No man is stingy; either he doesn't have or you don't deserve it.
He doesn't want to spend on a woman who is at the end of her ropes.

TS2911:
Good afternoon everyone and how are you enjoying the weekend? I am a lady of 29 and I'm in a relationship with this guy. Our relationship is 7 months and I've done everything possible for the relationship to work out but it's like this guy isn't ready.
One of his attitudes is the art of communication. The relationship is a distance one but in the same state. He won't call or chat me and wen I call, he won't pick and neither does he call back. Though I the same age as him and I tot we could work things out but he doesn't appreciate all my efforts.
The only time he calls is whenever he needs sex and I sometimes regret succumbing to sex in the first place because I wanted to be abstain. He can stay for 2 weeks without communication and his excuse is that he is busy at work whereas I am also working but find time to make the communication flow but he is not ready for any changes.
This guy is also stingy and that is not my major concern because I also work and earn my money without depending on any man.

Pls advise me as you would advise a friend or sister because I am fed up and don't want to waste my precious time dating myself, thanks

Sorry sweetheart. But why didn't you marry the serious men that approached you when you were 18?
Why didn't you accept a humble guy that came to you but has no money yet?
Why did you lose your virginity to men who gave you flashy temporary things?
You have made a choice and now the consequences are here for you to swallow. Shame!
I know men have come to you in truth but you think you deserve better. Now your time is up.
There was a time men are chasing after you (You should have picked one then). Now , after abortion, it's you turn to chase after men. (Life na turn by turn)
You're simply paying for the choices you made when you were younger.
Everyone pays eventually.


Just keep throwing yourself on men. Hopefully, one will be stupid enough to house a wasted woman like you. (I won't bet on it though)
Happy weekend love.

Never marry a woman who is active on social media.

Zonefree:
Maximum energy he should have channeled into something more productive. Iyaebe, when will you accept that you don't have sense?

Hahaha. Probably when Kenkenso of NNPP becomes Nigerian President.

Now she's your ex. She will be expecting another man (probably her husband) to do same for her. This is why she will not have a lasting home.

Mom007:
I have been seeing so many of these so called red plier stories and I sense real bitterness, pain, hurt and frustrations behind the movement. Pele. But does it mean there really are no more good, intelligent, smart godfearing ladies out there anymore? On the flip side, are there no more honest, smart, hardworking, principled godfearing men remaining on the streets or are they all lazy, entitled, sex crazy, fast money and fast life addicts? Na waa o! But by the time you have a generation whose motto is God na scam and School na scam, what else do you expect?

Sister calm down. Only a fool will marry a woman with heavy social media presence.
If you are always on social media and your husband (or future husband) has no problem with it then he is a foolish man. No wonder he married you in the first place.

Onyiiobi7735:
Obviously the man doesn't truly love her, to have left her just because she left her white collar job to sell crayfish,or he's just a slimy gold-digger.

She wanted to leave. He let her go. Simple.
I don't see the man's fault and neither should you. (She wanted to leave).

Enny2013:
Just d way I didn't apply any makeup on my wedding day. Hubby didn't let me.He hates makeup for no reason.

Sorry. But we are talking about women who married as a virgin. Not those who are into paternity fraud.

Check well. Check again. This girl is a virgin or disvirgined by her husband.

Do you know that every woman was created beautiful?
Most of them lose this natural beauty once they sleep with more than one man. As soon as a woman is mounted by more than one man, the natural veil (the beauty) falls off. Thus, she begin to rely on make-up!

When the true beauty (her glory) has left her, a woman has no other option than to start where skimpy clothes, do makeup, exposing her breast and yansh just to attract a man.

Women who marry the man that disvirgined them looks beautiful even at old age (some even look more beautiful at old age).
However, women who has lost this natural beauty ( from God Almighty) looks like a rag after one child. You will certainly regret marrying such women because her beauty is soley based on make-up ( looks ok in the day but looks like a monster at night).
Shame on all of you who desire to suffer on a pvssy another fvcked in a single or or a hotel with just two eggs and indomie.

ORAFA:
Happy 50th birthday to the wife of the Benue State Governor and First Lady, Dr Mrs Eunice Ortom.

May your days be long and blessed.

Looking at the attached pictures, I think she's the most beautiful First Lady in Nigeria.

And she's even a Ph.D holder. A true woman.

Obafavour:
Lolzzz.... So you're saying black women Bleep than white women

You don't understand.
Paying attention to your pvssy only is different from bleeping.
Whether the white bleeps more or not, I don't know but what I do know is that Nigerian girls think sex is what they're made for. So they don't bother to improve other aspects of their lives while a white woman sort for life outside her pvssy.

Helpout12345:
And you people should stop forming statistics from your head. Statistics from your head is just based on what you watch about western people on DSTV, Netflix etc and see on social media.

All women of all races develop big tummy at a certain stage of their life. Its nature of the female homosapiens.

Go to white people country and see many big tummy white women first before you conclude and form assumption in your head based on the models and actresses you see on TV.

Have you written any project in your life?
Have you ever heard the word "sample size"?

iamyungkhalifa:
Please my fellow nairalander there is the thing i have been thinking about. Please why do 90% of nigeria ladies especially when they are getting to their early thirties start to grow big tummies whereby a typical white lady with not. Please i just want to know the cause . I dont like women having big tummies unless they are pregnant

Women need maintenance. Most of them don't know this. So they go around sleeping with men, eating like a hungry Lion when they manage to secure a date with a man, no exercise only makeups, no mental development only stupid boyfriend talks and gossips etc.

I run from such girls because, imagine what the tummy will look like after bearing a child.

Nigeria girls see themselves as sex objects (pvssy is what men want, they tell themselves). This kinda mentality makes them pay little attention to their body.

Once you approach a Nigerian girl, the first thing that comes to her mind is " he just want to sleep with me and dump me."
But a white woman knows that there is more to her than sex. She has a LIFE!