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potland:
can i marry a girl i disvirgined but has been with other men after me?

Yes. Marry her.

Let her give birth. Collect your baby and leave her to another man.

Guys, listen. When you finish using a girl, don't dump her with anger; creat a fight, frustrate her until she calls off the relationship by herself. That's how to let them down gently.
That way, she won't come after you.
Let your ext down gently.

So port hacourt is named after a mumu man

Kitotech57884:
Ok

Ok? That's all you have to say?
This is more like "thank God. Minus one". You're wicked.

FG should scrap this NYSC please.
Many graduates were killed by those who didn't invest a Koko in education.

On a second thought. Every graduate should serve in his father's house. Or FG should just give each graduate 1M and forget this 11months of stress

erinzy901:
Hello, Nairalanders, Actually this is my first time opening a thread like this. Please don't mind my typing errors.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for more than 5yrs now. I love this girl so much and I trust her too. Her family knows me and my own family knows her, I provide everything for her, I even place her on a 20K monthly allowance. {I'm a fraudster} I don't have females friends because of my girlfriend.

For 1 month now I noticed she's been going out with one guy and I confronted her, She told me she has nothing to do with him and that he's just a Bestie. Meanwhile, since we've been dating I never check my girlfriend's phone or maltreat her. I always make sure she's okay with everything, Anytime I called her she's always told me she's with her bestie, and sometimes she told me they go shopping. She once introduced me to the guy, I didn't answer the guy that day once the guy left she asked me why I sounds rude to that guy besides he was meeting me for the first time.{ I can't fight because of a girl, I'll never do that in my life}.

Anytime I asked her what was going on with the guy she'll be crying and I'll just forget the matter. Last two weeks I met one girl and since then we've been talking with a good vibe. I asked her out she told me she'll be thinking about it. Once I call my girlfriend and she didn't pick I won't call her back again. She notices I don't give her attention like before again, She asked me several times did she offend me, I'll answer her NO and She said why I don't repeat the call, I told her maybe she was with her bestie and I don't want to disturb you guys she's not saying anything again and she'll change the topic.

She later agrees to be my new girlfriend, So I told my girlfriend that anytime wants to see me she need to call me before she comes to my side.
Yesterday morning she come to my house without calling me and she meets my new girlfriend and She leaves in anger I don't bother to call her either she didn't call me.

My family has been asking what's going on with my girlfriend and I just said nothing. Now her own family has been calling me to come and see them.

Guys Pls what should I do?

You have been fooled and you have decided to remain a fool.
This is my submission. You're a foolish man.

Go for a virgin and regain your wisdom else, you will always be foolish in the hands of women.

Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?

We realized that marriage is retirement program for women so we better have baby mamas.
But marrying a virgin is a union because she gave you her Best years and you take care of her and maintains her.

Men only suffer in marriages.
It's better they get the pvssy outside than the over used pvssy their wives offer them.

SalisuJasper:
I meet a girl not long and we became good friends. shes so free to discuss anything with me on what is going on in her life and most especially her love life and all. i dont want to bore u with epistles. we do normally go out to drink and have fun and she love spirit drinks allot.

There was a time we went out and we had a little romance. she sat down on my leg and with tight cuddling.

So fast forward to lask week and something really strange happened. It was on a sunday evening and we both request we both go have some drink, so we got to the store and bought big smirnoff spirit drink and some other energy drinks to mix it.

We went to an uncompleted building and we started drinking and gisting till we both got drunk. it was already getting dark and from no angle we started cuddling aggressively again and it was the first time she will kiss me and i also sucked her boobs real good. And also she gave me a Mouth Gig right there. But we didnt have sex because she just said she want to leave probably she remembered we are just friends.

Now the problem is, ever since that night she started avoiding me and don't even reply my chat. i always try to talk to her but she will say she want to be left alone, i really dont undetstand what is going on and i am just confused why she could act this way.

How can the second party be angry because of what we are both involved in, its just strange to me.

Please can someone share more light for better understanding.

This matter is simple.
She knew you're a mistake.
She regrets every moment with you. And, she wished it didn't happen.

Next time, spell out your relationship status with a girl; let her know if it's FWB or actual girlfriend.

Finally, op, you're stupid for doing those things with a girl who hasn't accepted to be your girlfriend.

If she's not a virgin or he isn't the one who disvirgin her, he will regret this proposal in about two years.
If you like propose in Vatican, you're bound to suffer or train another man's child if you didn't marry her as a Virgin.

boma10:
Gudday my fellow nairalander's, please i have a girl i want to get married to and she has agreed to marry me too,we are 1 yeas old in the courtship,but the issue is that for the past 4 month she has meet wit 4 different men,bt she told me 1,i found out the rest on her chat and she plead to it,i love her so much and she knew and provide for her on the ground that she is okay,plz wat should i do? Help me out

This is what you should do.
Keep fvcking her while you search for a virgin to marry.
When you're ready to marry, visit a decent family which you admire their lifestyle. Get close to one of the family members. After some time, speak to one of the girls you find attractive and wellbehaved, then inform the parents that you want to marry their daughter.

Never pick a girl from the street for marriage.

Rozross:
Any man who pay for sex is a low value man with low self esteem. They are the male prostitutes

Come on shut up.
Every girl collects money or something for sex. Whether girlfriend, FWB or house wife. Men pay for sex one way or the other; olosho just put a price on it thats all.

Nice

AntiChristian:
If someone has an antichristian view does that mean he's an antichrist?

And you'll claim you have holy spirit with you like this?

I knew you will say this.
Christianity is Christ -like.
You're anti christian. You're anti Christ like.

I think Showkey is stupid for condemning NPF

Grandemperor:
........
I swear! [1] Do you actually know the meaning of armoury? [2] Where do you see special forces here?
First, an amoury is a museum; and it is open to the general public.
Were you referring to the sort being displayed here? Those are for commercial purposes but within the arsenal of Nigeria.
However, Russia has Satan 2, the world's deadliest missile pointing towards Ukraine. You dig?

Amy need no commercial purpose.
If you don't mind me asking, what do you do for a living sir?

Oqw1:
Home alone

Next Sunday, try and go to church. There is joy in meeting fellow Christians.

Women (pvssy bearers) are everywhere. Wives (virgins ) are hard to find.
Better struggle to get the best and have a happy home for a lifetime than get the worst and which you didn't.

It's a lie. They will care if your father married your mom as a virgin. I am not shitting you, I am very serious.
Everyone values a virgin and her fruit; I can not say same for a woman who has slept with many men and can't really tell the real father of her children.

Would you as an uncle care for a child that you don't really know if it's your brother's or not?

Big breast na wahala.
Big yansh na problem.
A woman with be back and front is good for sex though. But, brothers, don't marry such a woman; she's a disaster in waiting. You will not like what pvssy will look like after birthing one child.

Girls who have opened their legs because of iphone or indomie and eggs will be ashamed to comment here even if you tag them.

Las las, sleeping with more than one man is a shameful thing.
Their body is their most valuable asset; once more than one man have seen it( used it), it becomes a liability to everyone, even to the owner.
Sleep with any girl you want but if you want a stable home, marry a virgin. They are had to find, yes, but it's better you suffer to find the best and live happily for a lifetime than to easily get the worst and live a hell on earth.

InfinityFabric:
All the single ladies! Where art thou ?

They know it's a shameful thing to sleep with more than one man.
They feel terrible within themselves.
The guilt in them is no joke.
Finally, the knew they have made an irreversible mistake due to their love for material things.

Na shame no make them comment.

I only have one thing to say.

Mikebj:
How to keep your FAITH working.q
Bible Reading , Philemon 1vs8, Psalm 82vs6 e.t.c

I would like to learn more about this.

Vinnie2000:
Lol, nah the OP Trademark Quote be dat o.

Surprised to see him preaching bible here.

I send not myself but thy Lord God sent me.
Happy Sunday my sister.

EKONGKING:
only people with unstable IQs goes to church in the country where i am at present .

What!
Which country is that?

God1000:
I didn't go today

WHy? Hope all is well?

AntiChristian:
Your antichrist never come! You are still expecting it. Why lie by calling me antichrist?

Your name says it all.

Grandemperor:
.......
Parochialism - typical Ibo mindset. Die in silence, keep everything secret. I believe and accept that there is the global accord that every nation must declare their assets: treasury, military, production, population, GDP, etc. Nothing is hidden under the sun.

How many times have you seen Russian armory in pictures?
How many times have you seen British special forces in stupid pictures posing with classified war machines?

phemmyfour:
We are still in Church

I will be here when you close.

AntiChristian:
Same thing Jesus taught in church!

This is a Christian trend. What are you doing here antichrist?

robinso01:
I wan bath now,u go wait make i cum back .

Sure. Sure.
Christ be with you brother.

Vinnie2000:
OP, I learnt dat if you don't marry ur Wife as a Virgin,
you will be training another man's kids.

You're right.