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dyera:
The blood of the vagina smearing on the penis during first time intercourse actually has a spiritual significance. That's why a man who would get married to a woman whose vagina blood smeared on the penis of another man is a fool.

Gbam!

Sweetplum:
Sweety you v made valid points.
But, what about those that lost virginity due to rape?
What about a girl that lost her virginity due to youthful exorbitant and when she realised chastity, she became celibate till marriage.
I m here to tell you that marrying a virgin isn't the only recipe yo sweet marriage.
It used to be in the past but now, the world's complicated.
So how do you marry a good woman, test what she has in her heart during courtship. You can't date someone for at least 6 months without seeing their flaws. I don't mean long distance relationship o

My girlfriend told me that she will rather die than allow a man rape her. That's a girl who is determined to have a happy lasting home.

A girl who lost her glory due because she's exorbitant and/ or peer pressure can not last a day in marriage. There's is more pressure in marriage. So if you can't survive the simple pressure as a single, you can not last two months under marital pressure.

Emeskhalifa:
How will you know she is a virgin?

If you take her to the hospital to carry out virginity test, will there be peace and trust in that house??

Have you ever attended house dedication or any project commissioning?

You will discover that there's always a ribbon around the house or the project which the commissioner have to cut with a scissors.

God has placed a ribbon under her (hymen) which you (commissioner) have to cut with your scissors (pen1s).

If it's not a virgin, it can not feel like a virgin.
If it's not a new car, it can not feel like a new car.
Put you pen1s into her. If the hymen is absent, she's a wasted product.

Once she's not a virgin, treat her like a rented apartment. Fvck and go.

Never allow any family to sell you a used building as new.

SmartPolician:
Talk is cheap.

Where can you find virgins these days?

Even girls of 15 years have started having sex

I have to also mention that some girls are genuine victims of rape who are too shy to report the rapists.

When you're ready to marry, ready this careful.


If you're one of those who desire a pure and happy marriage which will last a lifetime, then you must desire a virgin woman.
Look for a virgin woman in the following places
1. Her father's house: Look for a family with a decent lifestyle where you live. Find a way to become friends with any of this family members. Observe the girl you want in this family and chat with her. Then go ahead to inform her parents of your intention to marry their daughter.
Happy home awaits you.

2. Through your friends: Ask your "bad boys" to tell you about any good girl in their neighborhood. Those bad boys know which girl is responsible and which girl is fvcked by boys. They know the bitches. So tell them you need a good girl who is pure and they will lead you directly to the door step of a true woman. Chat with her, go on a date and visit her family.
Happy home awaits you.

3. In prayers: You can do like my uncle who prayed for virgin and exactly one month later, a virgin walked up to him and asked him to help her carry some items she bought to take to school. They got talking and today, they are married happily. She was a virgin. He said that from her dressing he knew she was a virgin (decent, clean girl with a steady gait and a graceful walking posture).

If you want a serious relationship, never look for a girl in
a. University ( most of them are used by yahoo boys and they don't even know).
b. On social media ( most of them have guys they sex chat with and fvck.)
c. In church choir ( believe me or not, these girls are religious oloshos).
d. Hausa girls ( Their religion don't have problem with virginity. No teaching in their holy book which mandates you to marry a virgin so most of their girls do shitty things. Some get fvcked outside their house in the night by guys who rides motorcycles. They will sit in the dark and hide the guy inside that their big cloth. The guy will lick, finger, fvck and release. We see many of them here in sokoto).
d. Jobless girls looking classy. (No need for long story. You already know how she maintains her expensive lifestyle)

Sweetplum:
But virgins commit other sins. Is that purity too?
What about virgins that married and committed adultery in marriage?
Come and explain and show your level of understanding.

Listen sweetheart, it takes determination for marriage to work.
A woman who kept herself until she got married is a woman who is determined to make her home happy.

That's a woman who is ready to please her husband with everything in her.
No man, I repeat, no man will divorce a committed and submissive woman.

A woman who can defile all odds to stay virgin (pure) until she met her husband will know that she has put too much into the marriage to cheat. Unlike those who have been fvcked and mounted by several men.


So you see the power of purity?

To stay pure is no joke. It is no child's play. It is no piece of cake. It is a serious business which many of you have failed!

A woman who stayed pure means business. Shes ready to have a stable home. She's committed to have a lasting marriage.
It will difficult for you to sleep with her when she's married. (Something you couldn't do when she's single, you now want to break her home).


That's a true woman.

NezzyMike:
Just like how your mumsy was mounted and fvckd before the man you call father begat you ..it sounds good right? Learn to be productive son

On a contrary, my mom married my dad as a virgin and dad is always proud of saying it to anyone who cares to hear it.

Nice. See their happy faces.

Your life will be a comedy if you didn't marry a virgin woman.

How can a woman who has given her best to another man expect you to pay her bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of inlaws just to have her worn out pvssy?
Is that not tragedy?

when2:
I think you lack wisdom. Pls stop displaying your foolishness the more.

Can you truthfully answer the question?

Autobot05:
This early morning??
Oga na only God fit give you peace of mind .. you are very correct by saying Not everything is about money
Even a so called virgin can cheat with leisure ...
Women are easily influenced by their friends and there is nothing we can do about that

As for me if she doesn't meet to my standards ... then it's a NO NO
I wont do evening newspapers by God's grace too

God has given us brain to use for our own good.

God will NEVER do for you what you can do for yourself.
Assuming you met two ladies (say Sarah and Deborah) and both of them have good characters that suit you but Serah is a virgin while Deborah has been mounted and fvcked by many men.
Who would you use your hard earned money to pay her bride price?

fman:
why are you so obsessed with these words: ex, virgin, fvck?

Im obsessed with purity. Virginity is purity.

Why do we fight war?
Why do we make money?
Why do we chase leadership roles?
Why do we buy houses?
Why do you desire flashy cars?
Why do you seek better jobs?
Why do you establish businesses?
Why do you study in school?
Why do you seek fulfilment?

Why do you even drink water?

Why do you do anything?


It's to have peace of mind and lead a comfortable life.

You can not have peace of mind and a comfortable life free of frustration if you marry a woman you did not disvirgin because she will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market and your mind will never be at rest to enjoy the money, the politics, the victory of war, the houses and even the water you drink.

Be wise. Some things are more than money.

Do not let marrying a non virgin ruin your life. Fvck her and let her move onto another fvcker to avoid stories like
"My wife is still calling her ex"
"My wife doesn't want to have sex with me anymore"
"I'm tired of my marriage"
"My children are not mine"
"My wife sent nudes to another man"
"My wife doesn't respect me"
"I am alone in this marriage"
"This woman wants to kill me"

And many more.

Marry a virgin woman and free yourself from generating such topics in your life.

Phamo0:
You had sex with an underage, barely 17 years old for that matter and you were proud to announce here. 'her p*ussy is tight', pedophile misognyst bastard! Thank your head you are in Nigeria .. in a sane country, you would be in prison.
If all womens' worth in life is virginity your mother ain't worth a dime. Check your head in the nearest hospital, you might be redeemed with good psychotherapy..
gosh!

Yeah I did. And I will do it again in a heartbeat.

What is life if you can not give birth to legitimate children?

Of what use is your money if you can not train your own child and have a happy home?

A woman you did not disvirgin will deny you of peace when she start fvcking her ex.

Be wise son. Be wise.

What a sad news for his family.
He was going to work and got crushed to death. Imagine what men go through to get money. Imagine the dangers you face every single day to make money. Imagine the stress. You literally put your life on the line to make ends meet.

After going through all these hustle, you will now use your hard earned money to pay the bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of inlaws of a woman who has given her best (virginity) to another man?

Only a fool will do that. Are you the fool?
Do you want to go through all these hustle while someone else (called ex) is fvcking your wife?
The only way to prevent it is to marry a virgin.

A woman who did not give you her best should not expect the best from you.

Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, take the pains to find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

SmartPolician:
Look how you changed the topic from oil discovery to women and virginity. Take this madness to the romance section. We discuss serious things in politics section.

Why do we fight war?
Why do we make money?
Why do we chase leadership roles?
Why do we buy houses?
Why do we do anything?


It's to have peace of mind and lead a comfortable life.

You can not have peace of mind and a comfortable life free of frustration if you marry a woman you did not disvirgin because she will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market and your mind will never be at rest to enjoy the money, the politics, the victory of war, the houses and even the water you drink.

Be wise. Some things are more than money and politics.

onumadu:
Here come pvssy wailers who believe that God is pvssy.
Go and check all the top women leaders in the business, political sectors and other sectors, and see how many of them married as virgins.
You tie your destiny to pvssy, and wonder why you never go far.

So you chose money over peace of mind and happiness?

You're too young to understand that the success of a woman is having a happy home.

when2:
One of the ways to identify a foolish person is when they open their mouth to spew rubbish.

The truth burns the guilty.

Would you want your son to suffer for a woman who has been mounted and fvcked by many men?

Mrfksb1:
I think you've gone mad. You've been spilling this trash here on nairaland. Keep your opinion to yourself.

I guess your mom and sisters are useless stop making it seemed it's same everywhere.

The level of you guys dehumanising girls on this forum should be look at, you can't try this here in Los Angeles you'll be lock away for a long time.

You people should stop being stupid, if you're tired of life please take the suicide option. Go make money

The truth burns the guilty.

Sweetplum:
If I m not a virgin, may you not see the end of this year in pieces. You dey craze?

So why are u lying that you're a virgin?

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Jeromestarks do you think the dead man is the one who deflowered her?

No no no no
He can't be.

Women don't play with the first things in their lives be it her first born, her first boyfriend, her first birthday gift or her first fvcker.

The man is a fool for marrying a woman he didn't disvirgin. Shame on him.

Congratulations!

You uncle has met Mamiwater daughter.

EmiDon11:
One of the reason i respect northerners is because they respect eachothers hustle.

Imagine there is one northern girl's boyfriend who sells purewater satchets in a bowl for a living.
And they are still dating up till now.
I just bought pure water from the guy not knowing that the girl she is with is her girlfriend.
They just hugged and parted ways as i am typing now now.

Unlike my southern sisters.

Chaii
I felt it, i felt the love,the affection,the trust and respect they have for each other.

The girl in question looks neat in white hijab, she could be a rich man's daughter.

I just pray that she isnt a nairalander though...lol

But come down to south,

IF HE NO GET IPHONE, I NO DEY DO.

IF HE DOESNT EARN 200K PER MONTH, I NO DEY DO.

Whats wrong with southern ladies?

This is why the northerners get married in their prime while the southerners will waste away without husband in their lives just many joysticks.


Some southerners live a single life with many men fvcking them codedly.

Op, what is this na?

The thing just look like shit.

No dey post this kind pishure abeg. Haba.

Op, you're helping them spread the news na


Anyways, the only way you can have pure children is when you marry a virgin woman.

A woman who has been mounted and fvcked by many men will definitely give birth to illegitimate children who will open their legs for many men before marriage.

Ladies are a copy of their mothers.


Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

Some idiots who doesn't have happy home. Who doesn't even have a stable relationship are still following this chioma and Davido.


One way to have sense is to take your attention off another man's life.


Stupid people won't ever concentrate on their own life, except others.


Some girls who are not virgins even desire to have the life of chioma. Ogun kill una.

Sweetplum:
I v not lost mine. But tell the following and win N40K your story no need touch my heart.
* How you lost yours?
* Why you are so concerned about virginity?
* Do you v a job?
* How much you earn?
* Qualifications?
* What you ll be doing in 5 years time?

Something about the topic hurts you.
If you're still a virgin, may you see the end of this year in peace. But if you're not, may you cry over your loved one before the end of this year. Say Amen

No girl. I repeat, no girl will be bold enough to truly narrate what happened with her Virginity because the all knew that it's a mistake the have to suffer its consequences for LIFE.


if you don't marry your wife as a virgin, she can never give you peace because she will forever compare you with the first man who fvcked her.

Even if they discovered 1 billion mega barrels in the North, the land will still remain poor. The North will still remain poor. Poverty is a state of mind. Even the northerners with millions in their account are still poor.


No matter how poor or rich you are, never marry a woman you did not disvirgin except you want to live a life of frustration.

A woman you did not disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market and you will train another man's child.


Women are forever attached to the first man who fvcked them. Don't worship a woman who worships another man in her heart.


A woman who did not give you her best (virginity) should not expect the best from you.


Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

Op , was she a virgin when you met her?

damoobaba:
Na yoruba. I just can't stop laffing. I just want seun to improve Nairaland. Same features since 2008 wey I join.

He's working on it. I spoke with him last month about improving NL. He will do something about it.

siofra:
I had a friend who was trying to learn English, he can speak two foreign languages already.

When he met me, he said he wanted to practice his English grammar skills and I'm like cool, okay, whatever.

We start chatting and became very close for over a year.

So one day while we're chatting, he makes an error in his sentence and I corrected it but after I corrected it, he started acting cold until he stopped chatting with me.

I didn't bother to reach out to him again. He stopped chatting with me because I corrected his grammar.

I don't miss him because he's ugly anyway.

But why do men have such fragile egos

You sef, u talk too much.
No wonder someone said you have a smelly vagina.

I didn't like you but I don't like the way they insult you.
Hide your face abeg.

Demn! Bursted.

NLders, una too bad abeg.

YoungLionken:
Thanks for the acknowledgment my Comrade Jeromestarks, aka "the non-virgin Tormentor" !.

As for the girl who sent you a mail, are you sure she's telling the whole truth? Because, a typical Nigerian girl always have someone to blame in her narrative history; "I lost my virginity to robbers, my first boyfriend raped me", and the list goes on..

Some of these girls who have been sexually reckless, yet lucky to be in marriage are really lucky because, some men are not wise yet, lack exposure, if not, it would have been doomsday for all them girls...

You're right o. One can't really tell if they're saying the truth.

Those who marry non virgins come online to say stuffs like "I find out my three children are not mine"

"My wife is still calling her ex"
"My wife don't want to have sex with me anymore"
"I am tired of this marriage"
And so on...


Some who don't want to rant online simply suffer depression till they die. I really pity those men.