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These guys are fulfilling prophecy. It was clear their dispute will happen

This doesn't look like punishment. Instead, you've opened a huge way to marital breakthrough for her. With this she's likely gonna find a better person than you. You just wasted your money making the postal

How can you ignore Ahmadu Bello University, zaria

ifeelgood:
Do you know that Bishop David Oyedepo doesn't earn salary at Living Faith Church?
Go do your research.

He's not the only church founder who doesn't earn salary from the church, they're many. Stop feeling special on his behalf like he's the only one who knows how to offer selfless service as a pastor

Stop taking too much alcohol, you no go hear. I'm sure you're one of those men who believe taking beer is part of mature manliness or perhaps you even take alcohol-based manpower and now you're experiencing one of its side effects. Alcohol no matter how little has no good benefit for your health. People have believed in a lie that a little alcohol is good for the heart or brain, liver etc. It's a big lie. Alcohol drastically destroys testosterone stores in the body and retires you sexually before your time.

Instead of alcohol intake, engage in exercise, stay athletic, take zinc diets.

Mama has finished her race. R I P to her

She her halogen face. She don see opportunity to riches despite her enormous body count.

Sometimes I envy the female gender. When you see an amputee among them or the one looking dejected, they'll still have men willing to date or sleep with them somehow

A male amputee or a dejected male on the street does not have same fate. Ladies will even spit on them if they have their way calling them smelly pigs or even worse names.

What a life

It may mean your parents don't even know you.

Especially when two exes leave you, they should start studying you to know what's imbalanced in your life

Your community people local o. Shuu! It must be one of the villages where they fly at night without planes. Wetin dem need plane for? Are you sure this celebration will not raise envy of the witches against you?

But it's good though for future records, when history will be made about your village

Good and experienced mother. What's the essence of being christians attending different churches. That can come up later in the marriage with permission from the husband but not starting up a married life with that. Means there are many other things and situations where she won't consider her husband's opinion at all and divorce will definitely come up. The husband self is a mumu. She has used feminine deception to cloud his mind finish.

Welcome to the club. Our club of children who fight through difficult parentage. It's one of the reasons why some marry early and think others are not serious about marriage or about their career. That strong belief in you by your parents and their support makes a really huge difference. Tech is a very lucrative career but your dad is ignorant of it.

My own parents were not even together since my birth. I lived with my domineering mom without a father figure. She's financially buoyant but decided not to braise me up cuz I established relationship with my dad's family which she's been bitter about. Her thought as a woman is that all her effort raising me alone will still be submitted to my dad's people. And I've been thinking how a full grown young man like me won't have to know my paternity lineage. I struggled through a lot of financially demanding situations myself from schooling to marriage. Ensuring that I don't transfer the hardship pain to my wife n children is another challenge on its own.

You can reach out to family members or friends with good will who are tech-inclined to support your dreams. Don't give up.

It's any of these not 'any of this'

Test for what? Test ko, exam ni

That's one test we're not willing to pass

Negotiation of ashawo bill must have caused the fight

I'm beginning to see the necessity of cosmetic surgery especially in some cases. That nose must have given the woman serious discomfort

VicM6:
She could meet those she has relationship with within and outside her family.......So u want her to start selling her kpekus to those old guys she was hanging around with b4 she got married bah....lol...hahahahaha

Relationship is not always about sex. You should learn more about human relationship guy. It can lift you really high in life and give you opportunities with great people. Don't be a mumu

Both of you lack harmony in your plans and thoughts. You're both right and wrong. She shouldn't have sounded that way at all, infact, she should have appreciated that amount from you, then she should try to raise the other little amount she might need perhaps from her savings or she could meet those she has relationship with within and outside her family.

On the other hand, depending on the business you both agree about, some shops alone cost almost that 1m talkless of the goods to fill it up with. That must be why she spoke that way

surgical:
All these GO are criminals who takes advantage of vulnerable people
Especially those that refuse to use their God given brain

I'm not supporting any of them cus I was not there when it happened.

But concluding on all the GO because of what someone said on media without any evidence shows high foolishness. How can you take side when you don't even know who's lying or who's truthful among them. So if two people have issues and are brought to you to settle, you will take side of one without hearing the other? If someone comes out now and says "Donald Trump raped me", you will just jump to say Trump is a criminal just like that without seeing any tangible evidence forgetting that once a person is famous, things like this happen often to defame the person and even you are not exempted when you become great and famous.

It's men like you who are not fit to lead a home due to poor judgement mentality that make women disrespect their husbands. How can you a man, not a woman, think like this.

I'm not supporting anyone of them but I'm not superficial like you to just take any online or media accusation against an important person hook, line and sinker until concrete evidences are presented.

Emmy000seun:
If this story is true, then I thank God for the battle unseen the Lord has fight for you.. some people are not lucky enough to see this and have lived to regret it for life.. congratulations and I wish you the best

You don't need to quote the entire long story and make scrolling boring. All you need do is to type tour comment. That's all

You're not a good writer o. You've not mentioned how the influence of these things occur on japa

Some ladies are already tripping for the radical driver as they watch. It's shame and the fear of what people will say that won't let them approach him

That's the societal norm. Not all men are destined to marry by 30. A man who worked hard to send himself to school and have younger siblings is different from a man who was sent to masters level by his parents and he's the last born

Only God knows the right time for each person

virginprincess:
Men are always pained when women reject their proposal yet they say they are doing women favour by marrying them😒😒

Any man of marriageable age that still stays in his family's house is a huge turn off, go and get your own apartment, don't come and make somebody daughter uncomfortable 😏😏

You don't need to look up to a man for comfort. You can complement his life with comfort for the sake of both of you if you have the capacity. Many women have done it and their men are grateful today.

Your African instinct that a man must be the one to do and initiate everything is too prominent.

You said you're looking for a girlfriend not wife. So why ask if she's the one: one like ..wife or just girlfriend?

Lemme give you a sincere answer. No! She's not the one. Men of 30+ are still trying to instill sense in the brain of ladies in their late 20s and early 30s and they've not succeeded, na 21 year old rabbit go come be wife? A girl that age is looking forward to an adventure with you. If you like dull yourself.

You better date what you want to date and comot mind from if na the one or not. Girl weh no fit endure hardship or handle jealousy. Does she even know what it means to be a helpmeet? You yourself, which status you don achieve for your career and life goal?

Have you told your boyfriend(s) abi..
shebi that's how you girls run it

You didn't state if it's an online chat or a blind date. Cuz if it's real life, both of you should have seen each other to know your statures.

"Are you chubby?" Is a better approach. You don't ask raw questions like that from women just as it is in your mind. You should filter it before asking

How did he date a girl for years and not know her siblings?

Obviously he went for who was not in his level. That's his blame.

But how did you allow him date you to a point of proposal when you know he's not someone you can marry. Because he patronizes you as a customer I guess? You were wrong and selfish too but here on an anonymous forum, you're sounding like you're Mrs innocently-right.

How can you keep a relationship because of the benefit you derive from it raising the hope of the young man, because outrightly it's not wrong to propose love to someone who's been giving you positive responses and butterfly feelings irrespective of the kinda shelter one has. You spoke up here neglecting the reality that some men rise through support from their ladies who are financially bouyant than they.

You should both admit the truth and learn.

Lol. Reduce bride price una no go hear. Dem never see redundancy and prostitution. Na until dem begin use under tree as brothel unit for every street before dem review their bride price culture.

One wife bride price for imo state especially that Orlu is equal to 5 wives bride price for another state. Yet you dey advice to marry two wives. Igbo women that maltreat househelps to unbearable point, na him go live with second wife weh peace go dey? Sorry oh, but truth is bitter.

Very soon even the indigene men will totally stop taking wives from there and go to other places and culture. Una just dey start.

it's not easy for him to express his negative feelings

I don't understand this. You want him to express his negative feelings on you? And you think it won't make him toxic and make you bitter?

Mastering your negative feelings and expressing positive ones, to me, is a great attitude worth emulating. Anger and fear should be at the minimal level if they're ever expressed.

You just got married from the way you described. These things are not strange in the early years of marriage. After 10 years, I promise you, your attitude will be super-blended. So just know it's normal and cope along.

In moments of argument, happiness, joy and sorrow, always uphold this hard fact: he leads, you support, he loves, you submit. As long as you don't breach this confine, you will survive any travail; not only argument, in your marriage.