LordKO:
Nonsense! Nothing pleases beta and omega classes of people than when they're successful in domineering and subjugating others around them (of course they do only have their way when dealing with those of these same lower classes too), which is as a result of the innate timorous attitude that runs in their blood veins - small-mindedness is a disease. @OP, you ought have boldly postulate, without meandering, that a woman must be your slave in order to fit into your small-minded class.

As far as I am concerned, any relationship that doesn't encourage/accept as norm mutual conscientious libertarianism and reciprocity of goodness is far from being healthy, therefore, should be equated to slavery.

I know you only meant to embrace the occasion to put your fairly impressive eloquence on display. Guess what? You succeeded. Thumbs up.

And to your seeming argument, this write-up is not mine. A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN WHO ENJOYED 82 YEARS OF MARRIAGE WROTE THIS DOWN, SAYING IT WAS HER SECRET TO DOMINATING HER HOME (WHICH IS WHAT NEARLY ALL WOMEN WANT).

She chose to use SUBMISSION to get what she wanted. Other women use REBELLION. But the fact is that they all want the same thing. This was this woman's way of getting it.

Always try to get the point before opening a debate; MR. GRAMMAR

rebirthforgoody:
Taking permission before going to bed you are really not serious.I can't take that shit

Like I've never failed to inform, I DIDN'T WRITE THIS EPISTLE. A WOMAN LIKE YOU DID. Can you guess what else? She had a successful MARRIAGE and was the master of her home. Please get that!!!

chynie:
wehdone
wait for God to create the woman for you
cos am sure your mom didn't keep all the rules u listed above.

abi are your parents divorced?

As untrue as it may sound, my mom actually kept these rules. But I wouldn't say my dad deserved it. However, I can boldly declare that I'm a better man than daddy and deserve it all. The question now is; ARE YOU WORTH A PROPOSAL?

IAMSASHY:
Al dese ar possible bt it stl depends, nt all men ar worthy to b worshipped dat way, respect is reciprocal. A drunkard, a beater, womanizer dnt deserve such. If u wnt 2 b treated good in a good way, lead wt examples

Good talk... I respect you already...

Chybeibe:
You are practically saying that we should be our husband's slave. I'll pass.

I didn't say. A woman like you said it. And from her story, she was no slave. She was a MASTER instead... I want to believe you didn't skip that part of the write-up..

mrdickhead:
I miss those days I used to call my wife and she will answered,Yes My Lord

tycoon3:

Sure they are but maybe 2 in 100 very scares
If any girl should tell you there is noting difficult in it I can go by the rules bro check her age maybe 40+ and still single"desperation

You have a point there...

tycoon3:
Hmm...I don't believe any lady of this generation will accept and adhere to this, it sounds rigid

I dare to believe, I dare to hope, I dare to have faith that there are still girls like this in this generation, however little their number might be. May God help us!!!

izaray:
My dear, its only a robot can keep to all those rules

You're saying the woman who wrote this down is a ROBOT Well, in my opinion, if it takes being a ROBOT to HAVE CONTROL OVER MY HOUSE AND MY HUSBAND, I would rather be a ROBOT. Isn't that better than battling for superiority only to get thrown out of the house in the name of DIVORCE

makdcash:
Nowadays girls will never agree to this...

This was the very first thought that crossed my mind the moment I read this... And judging from the words of the FTC, I wasn't wrong...

izaray:
Nice write-up but you forgot to include, a wife must be a [b][/b]Slave to her husband & his families

Like I told the other woman, the rules aren't mine. A woman like you noted them down, and she didn't include SLAVERY in any part of her write-up. DO NOT FORGET THAT SHE HAD A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE and HAD FULL CONTROL OF HER HOME by implementing these rules...

QueenSekxy:
mtchew..people that cant even afford to woo a girl outside NL gives rules about how women should live their life. ...go and sleep abeg

You must have skipped the introduction. Let me draw your attention to the part of the introduction that said

This was established by Mrs. Martha de Purenez, who died at the age of 104. She spent 82 years in marriage. In her lifetime, she noted the following;

They are not my rules. They are rules given by a woman like you who spent 82 years in marriage; OKAY

I know that young ladies may never agree with me. But whoever will implement these points in her marriage will be the happiest of all and shall make a nice home; unless otherwise. This was established by Mrs. Martha de Purenez, who died at the age of 104. She spent 82 years in marriage. In her lifetime, she noted the following;

1. The husband is always right.

2. The husband is always the master of the family even if he has no job and NO MONEY.

3. The wife must ask for permission from the husband before going to bed if the husband isn't yet in bed, as well as before turning her face away from him on the bed. The husband is still the master and has full control on all the operations even in bed.

4. If there is a quarrel with the husband and then a visitor comes, the wife should smile as if nothing happened.

5. Anytime the wife thinks she is right on a matter, she should refer herself to Article number 1.

6. A good wife must go to bed in her nightdress with no panties or bra, (except during your monthly flow, which he must know about) to allow the husband access to her at any time he feels like (NOTE: All women should note that this is a man's greatest desire in marriage - especially if he loves the woman).

7. A woman MUST NEVER refuse her husband's romance expect on the grounds of health and prayers. Even in such cases, she must POLITELY and LOVINGLY explain to him.

8. When the husband is shouting, the wife keeps quiet and that is the time to apologize for whatever has upset him. (NOTE: Apologizing to him after you have shouted back and insulted him DOES NOT WORK!) .

9. The wife should always seek the husband's permission before making any decision except where he has previously granted you the permission on that particular issue.

10. A wife should always excuse the husband to the children if he comes home late.

11. Even on a personal matter a wife waits for her husband with her ideas but must take those of her husband when he is back home.

12. The wife must never use work in the day as an excuse to deny him at night. Let him be the one to say, "Oh, you must be tired after all the stress of the day!" It is best that way.

13. The wife never goes to sit down in her husband's office unless in an urgent case or an emergency. A good husband too will not come and sit in your office.

14. A good wife does not embark on any kind of expenses without consulting the husband even if it is your own money. A good husband too will not control your money.

15. The best way to settle misunderstandings is in the bedroom. If a misunderstanding lingers and he does not make a move in bed, a good wife should make the move.

16. The wife never refuses to prepare his meals, even if he is refusing to eat due to annoyance. When he has refused 2 meals, prepare his favorite, with tempting treats.

17. The wife has no orders to give to her husband, but she receives orders from him.

18. The wife must always respect the husband. Next to freedom of access to his wife's body, this is a man's most important concern.

19. The wife has to control her jealousy and never show it in public.

20. The good wife pays visits to her parents as well as to her in-laws only with the permission of the husband. And under normal circumstances, accompanied by the husband.

21. A good wife never entertains guests in her home without the husband's knowledge and consent. Not even your own relations.

22. NEVER ENTERTAIN ANY MALE GUEST WITHOUT HIS KNOWLEDGE. Not even his own blood brother He may not talk or complain about some, but be sure he has counted it against you.

23. The wife never goes out anywhere without permission from her husband.

NB: Dear woman, know that THE POWER OF A GOOD WIFE IS IN HER WEAKNESS. Please, as stupid as this may sound to you, use it and watch your husband become your lover once again. This was Mrs. Martha de Purenez’s secret recipe for a happy marriage and full control of her home.

She did all the above and was the one running the home; NOT HER HUSBAND!!! His love and respect for her were second to none!!! If you wish to marry well and have all that control over your home, you might want to consider taking this to heart. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WOMAN WHO IS WISE!!!

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elkon:
hmmm I remember back in d days. . I was young den so I approached one gal for m street guys ah if u see how d gal just abuse m nd m friends were watching m from far na so dem dey hail m cos I was d sharp one among dem den but dey don't know what d gal was saying dey just dey hail m ..ah d gal disgrace m oooo bro I was disappointed dt day so when I get back to m friends dey asked me what d gal was saying I had to lie to dem dt d gal say she will be thinking about it so dey start telling to b helping dem to woo a ladies in which dey don't know I was d one dt need help lol lol. anyway wat happened dt day still dey affect m confidence because I believe I wasn't confidence enough.. whenever I remember dt day I go just dey laugh

Loooooooooool...

So what about your friends who asked you to be helping them? Had you at any point helped any of them?

Shawnnn01:
No matter how handsome or rich a guy is some ladies will still say no to you. The problem with guys that fear to approach a lady is that they do not want to have no for an answer.

If interested in any girl walk up to her n say hi, how are you doing ? You do not need any pick up line or all that nonsense. Immediately you said hi the girl would have weighed whether you are what she want or not. I advice shy guy to desist from wasting their time trying to convince any girl.

It's impossible to ask 5 girls out in a day in Lagos where I live and not get one. Try with not so beautiful girl to build your courage and that's it straight n simple. Relationship is a learning curve you are allowed to fumble n wobble through it.

Great one there!!!

Apus:
hmm... I think I'm guilty of this. Even after knowing a lady is attracted to me I can hardly bring myself to walk up to her and most often they end up feeling disappointed(despite the bad boy/confident look). This happens almost on a daily. I've never wooed any before.

I know how you feel...

emydnoble:
Awesome, hope real women will learn from this piece.

Exactly...

HeWrites:




This is still affecting me till date

comshots:
Slay Queens nko?

I don't have what to say to them yet...

jamarifox:
I strongly disagree with your statistics.
92% guys never approach ladies?
Pluheeeze

Stop slaying around and serious men will come

@Bolded...

Would 75% add up? So we can say only 25% of guys are off the "shy men'' leash.

hisgrace090:
Shy because our women have vow to ever humiliate those currageouse to approach them.

So you don't always blame men.

As in ehn.... After a guy has managed to sum up enough courage to approach her, she'll just "fall'' his hands and he'll start fearing that every girl will treat him that way if he makes a move on them.

There are 10 commandments. If you keep 9 and fail to keep 1, it's like breaking them all (Sin). While this is true, folks may be tempted to limit it to sex.

There are many inappropriate things folks do on weekdays/weekends and end up in church on Sunday. Examples include;

Lying
Cheating
Defrauding
Drugs & Alcohol
Masturbation
Insult Elders
Stealing
And so much more...

I think it should be generalized; except you intend to deal with SEX particularly...

FortifiedCity:
I partially agree with you.

The other part are girls who do not know what they want

You're right... Many are unaware of what they actually want...

Guys grow up with the idea that they’re supposed to do something when they find a lady they like. People often make phrases like; “IF YOU LIKE HER, YOU’VE GOT TO GO FOR HER AT ONCE BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE DOES.” There’s always this pressure to “GO FOR HER”, and it makes most guys feel INADEQUATE.

The African society burdens us with the responsibility of making the “first move.” What people don’t know is that many of us guys have not been taught how to do anything. So we just walk through life seeing ladies we are attracted to without being able to do anything. Truth be told, THAT’S A GUY’S LIFE.

However, there are some sets of guys who approach EVERY LADY, whether they LIKE THEM OR NOT. There are some other sets of guys who approach EVERY LADY THEY LIKE. But it’ll amaze you to know that these two sets of guys put together constitute only 8% of guys in the world. Unbelievable, right?

From the remaining 92%, 22% NEVER APPROACH ANY LADY, while the remaining 70% are the SHY GUYS who always do nothing more than WAIT FOR THE RIGHT MOMENT to approach a lady. You know what’s worse? This right moment never comes because these guys are not really good at judging when the right moment actually is.

To top it off, when we’ve managed to tell ourselves when the right moment is, we run short of ideas on how to go about maximizing the long-awaited right moment. This explains why many ladies constantly experience guys walking up to them to act weird and do some really creepy stuff.

It has become a major concern in today’s world because the ladies are not enjoying advances from the many guys who find them appealing and worth being with, hence the increasing number SPINSTERS. This situation begs for an answer to this question; SHOULD THE LADIES START BEING MORE PROACTIVE in order to get the guys to DO SOMETHING?

We’re in a world where ladies blurt words like; IF A GUY DOESN’T HAVE THE BALLS TO APPROACH ME, HE’S NOT THE KIND OF GUY I WANT. Ladies, how correct am I about that? Forgive my language, but I think a lady who says a thing like that is CRAZY!!! For crying out loud, THIS IS THE 21ST CENTURY!!! Now, this is why I say you’re crazy.

Do you have any idea how many ladies a guy gets attracted to in a day? What do you think will become of the male folk if we start running after every single lady we’re attracted to? Won’t you call us HORSES and make statements like; GUYS ARE DEVILS!!! THEY’RE ALL THE SAME!!! Shhhhhh!!! You’re wrong!!! ALL GUYS ARE NOT THE SAME!!! Now, back to business.

The idea of NOT BEING INTERESTED in any man who lacks the balls to approach you is ridiculous!!! Know this; out of 30 ladies a guy gets attracted to, he might end up approaching just 1 of them after spending an eternity to find the right moment to make a move. I believe you must be wondering when this RIGHT MOMENT is. Here’s what it is.

To a guy, the RIGHT MOMENT is the moment when he feels it’s easy enough to do make a move. Moments that present too many hurdles is a NO-NO for a guy. If you’re the kind of lady that spends moments with your big group of friends, he’ll never come to you no matter how attractive he finds you to be.

If you appear too busy, he won’t make any move on you at that moment. Also, if you get to spend time often with a particular male friend or several male friends who have nothing to do with you, a shy guy will avoid you like a plague and chose to let the feelings he has for you to suffocate him. His conclusion is that YOU’RE TAKEN, when you’re not.

But many ladies have argued this analogy, saying they’ve been in a position where almost every guy who got attracted to them walked up to them and asked them out. While that is true, it has a downside. Do you remember me saying there are sets of guys who approach EVERY LADY/EVERY LADY THEY LIKE? They amount to just 8% of guys in the world. Now, those are the sets of guys those ladies are talking about.

They are the once who break your heart because they have the balls to go for every lady they like. You don’t expect them to stick around for so long when there are lots of pretty ladies they find appealing, do you? These sets of guys are usually the loudest guys in the room and on the streets. So, the next time you call guys PLAYERS, know that you’re referring to just 8% of guys in the world. There’s 92% somewhere that might never cross your path.

So, if you always hold back and wait for the guys to MAKE THE MOVE, chances are; you’ll either meet a PLAYER or accumulate thousands of SECRET ADMIRERS. I know for a fact that no girl likes a guy to PLAY ON HER even when she’s PLAYING ON HIM. So what can the female folk do to arrest this situation and reduce the number of SPINSTERS?

It’s about time women faced the reality of things and understand that an overwhelming percentage of guys are the potential spouses they pray for. Sadly, these guys lack guts!!! But a lady can do much to help out these sets of guys and help themselves ultimately. What do I mean by that?

I’m not saying you should make the move on a guy. But you must always endeavor to give a guy the LICENSE TO MAKE THE MOVE. If you are that 1 lady among 30 ladies who makes it easy for him, you’re definitely the one he’ll take his chances with. Ladies, please don’t get it twisted. I’m not saying you should BE EASY. What I’m saying is that you should make yourself EASY AND APPROACHABLE enough for a guy to dare to take his chances.

When he finally does and the tension between you too is eased, you can go back to being the real you. By so doing, you have succeeded in opening the door for the guy to walk in. It will then be left for him to make the best of the opportunity you’ve afforded him; and trust me, these guys will NEVER DISAPPOINT YOU. How difficult can that be?

The number of SPINSTERS in this part of the world is becoming ALARMING and really needs to be curtailed. Every passing day, ladies are becoming more and more DESPERATE without knowing what to do to secure a man for herself. OPENING UP TO SHY GUYS is one sure way of getting the problem solved because these guys hate adventure.

Once they get their hands on a girl, it doesn’t cross their minds to get another girl. Sadly, these 70% are still single and unengaged, just like the SPINTERS. Who is to blame for this? And who is more affected? Many would blame the SHY GUYS. But I put it to you that THE LADIES ARE TO BLAME!!! Remember, a guy can marry at any time.

If he finds the right moment when he’s 50 years of age, he’ll definitely marry at that age (even to a 20-year-old girl). But the same cannot be said about a woman. Once her season is gone, it may never return. So please my sisters, WISE UP and embrace the mindset of the WESTERNERS profitably!!! Enough of that AFRICAN MENTALITY!!!

adonbilivit:
for ur mind now u dey creative abi?

You think otherwise?

michael142:


A girl who wants you will be cheating on you with other guys. But a girl who wants marriage will be faithful

Faithfulness should be a virtue/lifestyle, not a marriage-securing undertaking...

A girl who's only faithful when she wants to marry isn't legit. Faithfulness ought to have been her way of life right from the onset.

So a girl messes around in relationships and gets faithful when she wants to settle down, and I'm supposed to clap for her?

Not me!!!

lenghtinny:

Trust me in the picture you just painted, the girl who wants marriage is more dangerous than the one who wants you because she has ulterior motive behind her actions...
What happens after she achieves her aim? What is the guarantee that she will continue to take all your excesses after marriage.
Marrying a desperate woman is not good for your health.

#Word!!!

thesuave10:
study her carefully and you'll know. Older women are after marriage most times tth

Can you please specify the age range that fall into this class (@ bolded)?

kimbraa:
Typical of NL guys. Twisting what she said in your favour. Are there not men who marry just to be sexually satisfied?.

And you would marry such a man knowingly?