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Romance / Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by jezuzboi(m): 10:08pm On Mar 27, 2019
essenceplus:
Long time Jezuzboi you've taken writing to a higher level. Well done
Thanks plenty...

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Romance / Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by jezuzboi(m): 8:44pm On Mar 27, 2019
Women who stick to struggling men until the men grow their financial IQs and become financially stable are usually praised and approved by almost everyone.

While that may be a testament to a woman's praiseworthy character, I am of the opinion that such women still fall short, in the sense that they only stick to a man while he grows his financial IQ, without them growing theirs too.

A poorly resourceful but endearing woman may mean the world to a struggling man. But the moment he mounts financial heights, his once endearing but financially uneducated partner may become a liability.

Mounting financial heights is a function of FINANCIAL EDUCATION, and financial education promotes ASSETS but frowns at LIABILITIES. As you know, assets put money in your pocket while liabilities take money out of your pocket.

A poorly resourceful woman may be an asset to a struggling man because she supplies his emotional needs despite his low financial state. But when he grows his IQ and gets rich, he'll most likely require more than emotional satisfaction from her.

If she had failed to grow her financial IQ along with him, she will depend on him to supply her financial/material needs just as she supplied and still supplies his emotional needs. At this point, the woman may become less attractive to the man.

Any woman can supply emotional needs. And when it comes to supplying emotional needs, it's a two-way traffic. But if she had grown her financial IQ along with him, she would easily flow in the same frequency with him, both emotionally and financially.

That way, their attraction to each other endures and their love blossoms. Between a financially educated partner and a financially uneducated partner, there will be arguments and fights over money, and most of the time, if not all the time, the root of the problem can be traced to the partner with low or no financial education.

That is why one partner eventually walks away. Even the Bible says; "Can two work together except they be agreed?" In most cases, the partner who walks away is the one with more financial education, which in the context of the write-up, is the man.

We may call him a monster, an ingrate, or Lucifer, as the case may be. But if you take a quick run through history, you'll find that many financially educated women had to dump their financially uneducated male partners when they could no longer agree on certain money-related matters. It is not a GENDER THING. It is a GROWTH THING.

The 21st century ladies have asserted that sticking to a struggling man is one of the most uncalculated risks to take because the man dumps them for another woman the moment he gets rich. But how many men of substance walk away from women of real WORTH and VALUE?

If you supply emotional needs alone, what happens when other needs arise? It takes more than the emotions of love to keep an affair going. And I am not in any way talking down on women who see beyond a man's pocket. As a matter of fact, I ADORE them.

That is why I am writing this piece: to give them heads up on how to keep the RICH VERSION of their partner glued to them, thereby making the years they spent with his POOR VERSION count. Don't just service his emotions while he grows his financial IQ. Grow yours too. That's one important thing that will earn you his affection and respect in the long run.

Emotion and finance have been the key focus of this piece. But they are not the only areas that require growth to keep you BALANCED. Others include spiritual, mental, academic, etc. Whatever the growth, the bottom line is: GROW ALONG WITH YOUR PARTNER TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH.

Jezuzboi©

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Romance / Re: How To Secure Your Money From Emotional Gold Diggers by jezuzboi(m): 7:01pm On Mar 26, 2019
topedoski:
Make d money come first.... Before I go reason this ur story

It's better to have a plan on ground before the money comes, else, the coming of the money might be followed by a disaster that's fostered by ignorance.
Romance / How To Secure Your Money From Emotional Gold Diggers by jezuzboi(m): 4:06pm On Mar 26, 2019
LOVE PREDATORS

In simple terms, "Love Predators" are people who MARRY FOR MONEY. The more you have, the more they love you. And yes, the world is almost saturated with these sets of people.

That is why you must never combine LOVE and MONEY. Love is love, and money is money. Combining love and money isn't a financially intelligent thing to do. Actually, it's financial insanity.

Marrying for money is a profitable venture in a place like the United States where a wealthy partner is obligated to split his wealth in two and give half of it to his partner in the event of a divorce.

Therefore, many poor people look to marry rich partners they don't love so they can file for a divorce eventually and walk away with 50% of the rich partner's wealth.

Imagine yourself as the rich partner in question with a net worth of $30 million. You'd have to give $15 million to a love predator just for saying "I DO." This is why seemingly wise people get a PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT before marrying.

For those who don't know, a prenuptial agreement allows you to determine what happens if you get divorced in the future. With a prenuptial agreement, you can keep your finances safe from love predators.

But the 50/50 rule is inoperative in countries like Nigeria. Even at that, love predators still marry for money, but with a different game plan.

It could be to manipulate their names into your will and then kill you, or join forces with a more cherished lover to blackmail, defraud, and rob you, or hold you spellbound by black magic, thereby controlling you and your money, especially your money.

There's this other scenario where a love predator comes into your life and feels entitled to your money, striving to have as much control over your money as you do, and even manipulating their way through to your money.

In another case, they come into your life and lazy about, expecting that you meet all their unending needs and pay all their expensive bills. After all, you have the money and your MARRIED to them!

Getting caught in the web of a love predator is dangerous and tiring. That's why a good measure of premarital planning is of the essence. Making money is no easy task. Don't let yourself be robbed of it in the name of LOVE.

In protecting your money from love predators, a prenuptial agreement will serve if divorce is no big deal to you (and it should). But if it is, you should look through the eyes of God when choosing a life partner.

Jezuzboi©

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Romance / Re: Emotional Carnivores by jezuzboi(m): 3:30pm On Mar 24, 2019
opparadise:
This dry writer must be feeling very motivational in high spirits for this long love epistle he typed for hours to an extent he had to include the copyrighted tag. Only if he knew it didn't move anyone..

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I laugh in Spanglish.
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Your writeup was almost good till you mentioned Holy Ghost. What connotation and denotation have 'holy' and 'ghost?' It turns out you are a learned illiterate. You are free to argue with yourself.

ARE YOU DONE TALKING?

Romance / Emotional Carnivores by jezuzboi(m): 8:27pm On Mar 23, 2019
The truth is that EMOTIONAL CARNIVORES are out to tear your tender heart apart with their RUTHLESS DECEPTION. Another truth is that you encounter them more often than you encounter HEART HEALERS and EMOTION MENDERS.

You know why it's so? The reason is simple. CARNIVORES are always on a HUNT for MAMMALS. So it's not surprising that the last three men that came your way only wanted SEX. It's also not surprising that the last three ladies you encountered only wanted MONEY.

Even when it seemed like a potential GENUINE partner finally came your way, you eventually notice they have a deceitful game plan which is aimed at satisfying their vanities. To successfully play a fast one on you, they try to seduce you with PRETENSE. That is why you should never trust people who FLATTER.

These bad eggs are responsible for many broken hearts and shattered emotions. Because of them, many victimized singles with beautiful souls have resolved to JOIN the game and also do the work of HURTING people, breaking hearts, and extorting material things from innocent victims.

They may justify their consciences with the thought that they are only doing to others what was done to them. But such justification doesn't change the fact that "a man reaps what he sows." It doesn't matter your reason for sowing evil seeds, when it's time to reap, you will surely reap evil.

Until the end of time, we will always have deceitful people with us. Like I said earlier, the earth is full of people who don't mind ruining your destiny just to feed their selfish appetites and desires. So it beholds on you to live with caution, learn wisdom, and be very close to the HOLY GHOST. This way, it will be difficult for you to fall victim to EMOTIONAL SCAMMERS.

There are good people in the world, and as the Bible says; DEEP CALLS UNTO DEEP. In due season, your persistent GOODNESS despite the pressure to TURN BAD will pay off. Never let the EVIL DEEDS of people with TWISTED SOULS contaminate the SWEETNESS of your own soul. At the right time, you will be rewarded with your kind, as much as the BAD EGGS will be rewarded with their kind.

Like my pastor usually says; "CUNNY MAN DIE, CUNNY MAN BURY AM." Rephrasing that statement in a direct contrast, it becomes; "LEGIT MAN LIVE, LEGIT MAN LIVE WITH AM." Just keep up the good work if you're in the business of doing good. Soon enough, it'll pay off. Good always pays, as much evil does.

Jezuzboi©

Romance / Re: Have You Ever Had Serious Bad Luck Just After Pre-marital Sex? by jezuzboi(m): 11:33am On Mar 19, 2019
Blyzz:
crystal clear bruv! But I'm not a writer like you. I'd like to share my story from the start, but it just too long and full of depression and frustration and so many darkest moment. Whosoever that read this piece of information should learn from other people like me, it not good to experience it. Secondly, one's foundation is sometimes an obstacle to some certain person going forward. If you're on WhatsApp I can send u a voice note base on trust, that you won't write my article with my picture or name. I'm sometimes shy. But I also think it the right time for the world to hear my story, cos foundation or spiritual forces won't let go of you easily especially when they see greatness around you.
It'll be my pleasure. But I can't drop my number right here. It's too open. How about we connect on Facebook so I can inbox you my number via messenger? Just click on this link to reach me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/jezuzboi
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Had Serious Bad Luck Just After Pre-marital Sex? by jezuzboi(m): 12:41am On Mar 18, 2019
Blyzz:
Would like to, but it important some persons should experience it themselves. Many who are eager won't adhere to what I may say. I'm 28 by August and I've had so many life experience both good and the urgly. All the girls I've met and sex with never wish to date me or agree to date me, rather all they keep saying is they just like me as friend and it OK that way. sometimes I see it as a weak point towards me because I'm very simple and have great sympathy. Each time anyone of them call me and ask for something just because we've exchange blood together through sex I rather do it base on human feelings. But among all the girls, there's this particular one that always come around whenever I'm broke. When I have cash and call on her, she won't show up. She'll give me one or two excuses

It doesn't matter who doesn't adhere to the warnings that will come with your story. In the Bible, Paul the Apostle made a statement that he upholds his evangelical ministry with such great passion so that "he might by all means save some." Your message doesn't have to be for "all." "Some" is enough. It may be why you didn't sink after all. Not many who had the experience survived it. Just go ahead.

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Romance / Re: Have You Ever Had Serious Bad Luck Just After Pre-marital Sex? by jezuzboi(m): 12:24am On Mar 18, 2019
Blyzz:
and what would the demonic spirit do in exchange? Stay happy with the said person or live in harmony. Guy, this tread won't go far because the devil wouldn't want the truth to be exposed. I'm a victim of this, still battling with prayers and fighting spiritual war with water wife who comes whenever I want to have breakthrough and sex me at night. Bro, this things are real. I never believed until it happened to me. I'm a victim of this topic. Some girls exchange goodluck with you after sex, many take your stars, you end up struggling. If I tell people my story, many won't believe. But I put everything in prayer!
I seriously agree that you start a new thread with your story. Mention me.

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Celebrities / Re: Michael Jackson Wore Condoms To Prevent Him From Wetting The Bed – Doctor by jezuzboi(m): 11:55am On Feb 22, 2019
Adakintroy:


You talk like a child. Quoting scriptures.

What will you do with wordy fame. Even Solomon T his peak spoke down on it. And crheist reject it.

Again beware of the light (worldly lights) it can be blinding.
Have a good time wallowing in darkness
Celebrities / Re: Michael Jackson Wore Condoms To Prevent Him From Wetting The Bed – Doctor by jezuzboi(m): 7:25pm On Feb 21, 2019
Adakintroy:


Baware of the lights. It blinding!
Then God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. And God saw that the light was good. Then he separated the light from the darkness. - That's according to Genesis 1:3‭-‬4 (NLT). I wanna believe you hold the Bible in high regard.

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Personally, I wanna be more famous than money. I even documented here on Nairaland. Just in case you'd like to check it out, go here: https://www.nairaland.com/4986688/wanna-more-famous-than-money
Celebrities / Re: Michael Jackson Wore Condoms To Prevent Him From Wetting The Bed – Doctor by jezuzboi(m): 6:30pm On Feb 21, 2019
Adakintroy:
How many of you still wants to be a super star. Let me see your hands up.

Remaining kim. One day her waste will fall off..
So what are you trying to say? That all superstars are bound to end this way or have these kinds of issues? You don't know non-superstars with worse issues?
Religion / Life Is So Simple But We Make It Complicated by jezuzboi(m): 8:58pm On Feb 09, 2019
Abraham was wasting away in a pegan land of idol worshipers when God called him to a glorious life. God promised raising a nation through a promised child that was to come from his loins. But Sarah decided to help God fulfill that promise by importing an Egyptian lady who only succeeded in starting a family line of (I didn’t say anything oh). Life is so simple but we make it complicated.

Adam and Eve had been created and given so much glory and wealth they didn’t work for and never had to work for. But one person woke up one day and said; “No oo. This wealth is too much. We cannot continue enjoying it for free. We have to start working for it.” That person went astray and led the other person along. That is how suffering started. Life is so simple but we make it complicated.

To sacrifice to God no be by force oo! But Cain and Abel offered sacrifices to God. Abel offered a better sacrifice than Cain. God accepted Abel’s sacrifice but rejected Cain’s sacrifice, clearly stating out why Cain’s sacrifice was rejected. Instead of making his sacrifice better, Cain went and killed Abel as if Abel was responsible for the rejection of his sacrifice. Life is so simple but we make it complicated.

God sent Joseph to the family of Jacob to fulfill His promise of taking his people into Egypt. But his elder brothers got threatened by God's purpose for his life and sold him off to slavery as if Joseph was the one who burdened himself with that glorious purpose. They didn’t want to bow to him. Joseph saw hell in Egypt for 13 years before finally seeing the light. Life is so simple but we make it complicated.

Jesus finally came to make things right again. But the Pharisees and the Sadducees and all the hypocrites ganged up against Him as if He was the one responsible for their miserable lives. They handed Him over to a completely lost soul who nailed him to the cross and bounced away with reckless abandon. Yet while on that cross, He forgave them and gave everyone a chance to live simple and shun complications.

Let me not even mention Jezuzboi©’s own before they will enter meeting on top my matter and start planning to do me strong thing. (Bros, na joke oh). But last-last, it would be so nice if we can remedy our insecurities and other failings with the authentic and therapeutic WORD OF GOD so that we can see just how simple life really is. That way, we won’t keep complicating life for ourselves. LIFE IS SIMPLE!

Jezuzboi©
Politics / Re: Nigeria Politics: A Seduction Of Gullible Masses by jezuzboi(m): 11:50pm On Feb 08, 2019
Prodigysam

What you typed up there was deleted before I could get to see it, probably because it was inappropriate or so. But for some reason, I nurture this curiosity to know what you wrote. You can try rephrasing.
Politics / Nigeria Politics: A Seduction Of Gullible Masses by jezuzboi(m): 6:04pm On Feb 08, 2019
We tend to tilt more towards the infamous lifestyles of the Westerners but totally abhor the worthful practices they uphold which puts them over us perpetually. We have no problem normalizing divorce, soliciting for gay rights, walking public zones half or completely nude, and so on.

But we completely brush aside things like acquainting ourselves with the country's constitutions to enable us have valid says at all times. We brush aside advocating for the adoption of a workable system of government, and lending our voices to the furtherance of noble courses. Instead, we let ourselves drown in a gullibility that renders us pitiably susceptible to the seductions of political Casanovas.

We let them enter our spirits through an artful temporary compliance to our set standards, thus gaining our endorsement. We then fall into the temptation they create through empty promises; a sin we keep paying dearly for but never seem to want to break off its hold. We are tossed around like sheep without a Shepherd. We buy whatever they sell to us.

They run the show and we have no say, even when we outnumber them 100 to 1. That ought not to be so. The real power lies with us, THE PEOPLE. But if the ignorance of this power keeps opening us up to political seduction, I’m afraid the situation of our dear country will only succeed in becoming irredeemably hopeless! But guess what: just a little enlightenment can make the difference!

Right from the days of John the Baptist, the real power had always been in the hands of THE PEOPLE, not Herod, or the chief priests, or the teachers of the law, or the elders. At a time when Jesus drove out money changers and traders from God’s temple, the Chief priests, teachers of the law, and the elders confronted him. They asked to know by whose authority he was operating.

He in turn questioned them about John’s baptism, asking if it was from heaven or of human origin. Now, read carefully what they whisperred among themselves: “If we say heaven, he’ll ask us why we didn’t believe John; if we say humans, we’ll be up against it with THE PEOPLE because they all hold John up as a prophet.” They decided to concede that round to Jesus. Mark 11:31‭ (MSG‬).‬‬

Again when Jesus told a parable that bared the hypocrisy and wickedness of the religious leaders, they sought to arrest him. The Bible says this about them: “The religious leaders wanted to arrest Jesus because they realized he was telling the story against them. They were the wicked farmers. But they were AFRAID OF THE CROWD (PEOPLE), so they left him and went away.” Mark 12:12 (NLT).

From those two biblical instances, it is clear that when it comes to LEADERS and the PEOPLE, the PEOPLE wield more power and have the FINAL SAY. But how come we’re not exercising that power in our country? How come our leaders have their ways back-to-back while we do nothing but wail? The answer is simple. We have opened ourselves up to political seduction.

We are swayed by a variety of candidates who put us against each other all the time. What we need to do is to use our PEOPLE POWER to keep the political bad eggs from wielding power but ensure that the good ones occupy positions of leadership. What we need to do is to use our PEOPLE POWER to propel even our good leaders into action just to make sure that slackness doesn’t set in at any point.

The real power is in our hands. We have what it takes to steer the country in the right direction. But to do that, we must purge ourselves of ignorance, greed, ingenuity, and every likeness of corruptness. By so doing, we can stand tall, fight a good fight, and have a better Nigeria. Remember, THE PEOPLE are always FEARED. THE PEOPLE have the FINAL SAY. YOU ARE THE PEOPLE! Use your power rightly today!

Jezuzboi©

Religion / The Wrong Side Of Heaven & The Righteous Side Of Hell by jezuzboi(m): 9:51am On Feb 04, 2019
If you do not belong to the category of folks who ignorantly doubt the existence of God, then your mind most certainly has nurtured thoughts of what the second coming of Jesus Christ will be like. I was an unbelieving teenager when the thoughts started hitting me hard. I was even far from being a teenager when visions of rapture made it a routine to invade my nightly dreams.

You’ll agree with me that those thoughts can be hunting: more like a threat to the soul. Some of us find a way to suppress them. Some of us ignore them but live with the fear it creates in us. But some of us can’t seem to ignore or get rid of them no matter how hard we try. Those thoughts have certainly come to stay. I have them. You have them. We all have them. Now, let’s discuss them.

Believing a lie does not make the lie any more than a lie, and disbelieving the truth doesn’t make it any less than the truth. The lie is that there’s neither eternal life nor eternal condemnation. But the truth according to the Bible is that external life and eternal condemnation are spiritual realities that will inevitably be lived out by us depending on our individual choices.

Of course, our merciful God would not be so wicked to make us in His own image, only to throw us into a fire that never dies out. That’s why He didn’t create that fire with the intent of sending us there. Hell was created for Satan, a rebel of the highest other. For committing treason, the most soothing punishment for him according to God’s wisdom, is an eternity in unquenchable fire.

However, he was dumped on earth, pending the set time for the carrying out of his sentence. Since then, he’s been walking the earth and making human recruits: the young, the old, male, and female. For every recruit he makes, he subjects him or her to the same future he’s doomed to. If one decides to share in his rebellion, they likewise share in his doom.

The case is no different with those who decide to share in the obedience of Christ. As Christ’s obedience secured Him a permanent place at the right hand of God for all eternity, so will it be for those who share in that obedience. Whether or not we reap the fruit of obedience or the punishment of rebellion will be determined on a particular day: JUDGEMENT DAY.

Being a merciful father, God delays the coming of that day, as He makes every effort to reach out and get us on His team so we don’t share in Satan’s doom. He reaches out to us in various ways, one of which is THOSE THOUGHTS WE KEEP HAVING. We can’t run away from them. But we can embrace them and adjust so accordingly that we don’t get threatened by them.

We can share them too for others to equally embrace, adjust, and share. Running away would be putting one’s self on the WRONG SIDE OF HEAVEN & ON THE RIGHTOUS SIDE OF HELL. Trust that voice in your head right now, that’s the last place you wanna be on that day! Make hay while the sun shines, and advice the next person to do same.

Jezuzboi©

Romance / Re: Falling In Love: A Luxury We Can’t Afford Before Marriage??? by jezuzboi(m): 7:35pm On Feb 01, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Okay
I assume you're already enrolled in the school of love...
Romance / Re: The Problem With Fine Boys by jezuzboi(m): 4:29pm On Feb 01, 2019
kollinzgee:
fineboys are the shiit i maybe am one of them though.they have pink lips,they have well carved hair and beards ,they are tall and muscular and probably visit the gym regularly.In their mind they are the shit but bro with your good looks and six pacs how chicks have friendzoned you.how many times have you being snubbed and rejected many times abi do you know why?
the women who are looks freak are a minority in the the female population and are mostly teenage girls.wake up and improve your life women are attracted to men with purpose and have the ballz to go for what they want stop pinking your lips,gyming your body and work on your purpose......
Lol...

A funnily portrayed fact...
Romance / Re: Falling In Love: A Luxury We Can’t Afford Before Marriage??? by jezuzboi(m): 4:25pm On Feb 01, 2019
solz007:
Beautiful
You can say that again...
Romance / Falling In Love: A Luxury We Can’t Afford Before Marriage??? by jezuzboi(m): 10:17am On Feb 01, 2019
If only we knew the tons of genuine admirers that pass us by daily because it would be a taboo for them to speak of their feelings without the intent of following up with a lifelong commitment. What about those who make our hearts skip but we can’t bring ourselves to mention it to them because professing love is now understood to mean a subtle and indirect marriage proposal.

There’s no more room for the Romeo and Juliet experience. The days of picking up a biro from the basket of love to pen down heartwarming words for a significant other are long gone. Even the SONGS OF SOLOMON in the Holy Book are not deemed delightful compositions anymore. If a man does not purport from the onset to leave father and mother and cleave eventually, he’s nothing but bad news.

Falling in love has become a luxury reserved only for the married. But the commitment & responsibilities that come with marriage sometimes overwhelm couples & leave no room for thoughts of actualizing certain youthful fantasies. For instance, you can’t be raising children & thinking of embarking on back-to-back romantic tours or undertaking some exciting adventures of love with reckless abandon.

Such sweet things become “once in a while” indulgences. Couples’ minds become so preoccupied with family matters that they scarcely smile at each other at every turn or whisper sweet nothings into each other’s ears. Even when they get to do them, they’re done mostly out of necessity, not out of sensuality. Marriage is cool. I can’t wait to get married. But I’d love to fall in love prior to walking down the aisle, possibly with the one I fall in love with.

I know that some of us do not have the luxury of investing time in a romantic affair that is not marriage-bound because “we’re not getting any younger.” We want to go into marriage straight up! But take it from me, you can’t afford to walk this earth without falling in love and getting all caught up in its priceless sensations. I’m talking about falling in love with someone you owe nothing more than to love them in every possible way without being burdened with marital expectations & mandatory responsibilities.

It is understandable if age isn’t on your side and you need to get married in the next couple of months. But when you get married, you might wanna agree with your spouse to postpone childbearing for a year or two in order to take time and enjoy romantic love without distractions. You just can’t afford to miss out on that feeling. But if you have a lot of time in your hands like me and are yet to fall in love, you might wanna catch the next ride to LOVE GARDEN and have your love story written down in history.

You never know how many people may be interested in reading it. Four years back, I had my LOVE FANTASIES documented in a 43-EPISODE ROMANCE NOVEL titled OGECHI & I. It instantly became an AWARD WINNING BLOCKBUSTER. You can google it. Now I can’t imagine what’s gonna happen after I have my REAL LOVE STORY documented in a book. I’m pretty sure it’s gonna make it to the bestsellers. Don’t get twisted, love is a beautiful thing. You should fall in love today.

Jezuzboi©

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Romance / Should We Have Standards For A Desired Spouse Or Settle With God's Choice 4 Us? by jezuzboi(m): 10:39am On Jan 28, 2019
BETWEEN SETTING A STANDARD FOR A DESIRED SPOUSE & LETTING GOD CONNECT YOU TO A SUITABLE SPOUSE, WHICH IS THE WAY TO GO?

We all have the kind of spouse we desire to marry. For some of us, it's the tall, rich, and handsome brother who speaks fluently. For others, it's that eye-candy sister who takes every guy's breath away when she stands out to address an audience.

It's cool to have standards. But is it cool to set standards for a desired spouse? Think about it, Adam had no idea what Eve would look like, neither did Eve know what Adam would look like.

But on beholding his God ordained & divinely connected spouse, he set a standard for her there and then. The standard was: "This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. (Genesis 2:23 KJV)."

Until Adam met Eve, he had no idea what she was going to look like or be like, same as Eve. That's because the base of their meeting was GOD'S DIVINE CONNECTION. Setting a standard for a desired spouse could reflect a lack of trust in God to divinely connect you to a spouse SUITABLE FOR YOU. (Genesis 2:18).

I think the best union is a union set up by God himself. All we have to do is ALIGN OURSELVES WITH GOD'S WILL AND PURPOSE for our lives and marriages, and PRAY like our marital destinies depend on it because to be sincere, IT DOES.

God is more interested in HIS PURPOSE FOR A MARRIAGE than in the couples' personal self gratification which is usually a function of selfishness. And selfishness is largely responsible for most marital shambles.

On the other hand, marriage stands firm on the wings of pure & genuine selflessness. I'd say there's a thin line between standards and selfishness because nothing about standards is favorable to the other party.

It's always about the party setting the standards. Of a truth, God's choice may not always be in tune with our desires. But at the end, we would be angry at God if He hadn't connected us to that seemingly inadequate & undesirable partner who usually turns out to be nothing short of the best for us.

God knows better. I bet Abraham would not have opted to marry Sarah if he as much as suspected she wouldn't bear him a child (delay God's promise to him) until he was 100 years of age. But today, Abraham is called the FATHER OF ALL NATIONS.

That wouldn't have been possible without the one-time barren Sarah. God's ways are not our ways, same as His thoughts. Our standards can only hinder the EXPECTED END He has in store for us. Marriage is all about SACRIFICE, and the first sacrifice we may have to make may be ACCEPTING GOD'S CHOICE OF SPOUSE FOR US, no matter how undesirable they may seem.

Howbeit, there might be a couple of us who hold a strong conviction that SETTING A STANDARD FOR A DESIRED SPOUSE is the way to go. Feel free to drive your point across if you're one. I could be wrong in my assertion. But if you think I'm actually saying something here, concur with a THUMBS UP & KUDOS remark.

Jezuzboi©

Celebrities / I Wanna Be More Famous Than Money by jezuzboi(m): 8:16pm On Jan 27, 2019
FAME AND MONEY

I wanna be more famous than money. But having fame without the right amount of wealth to commensurate the fame is just something I can’t wrap my head around. Like, what’s the joy in being famous and broke? Think about it; when we hear names like Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Aliko Dangote, Femi Otedola, Bishop Oyedepo, and those other famed names, the first thing that comes to mind is the mammoth wealth they’ve amassed.

But when we hear MERLIN the magician, or GAIUS his equally poor master, or Jezuzboi©, or that poverty stricken wise man in the book of proverbs who delivered a whole city with his wisdom but died broke, what the hell comes to mind? Just a bunch of stunts men and “mad creatives” with poor financial recognition. That’s sick!!! And that’s gotta change!!!

Since MERLIN and GAIUS are fictional characters in a Hollywood blockbuster, and the POOR WISE MAN a biblical figure of the old testament, we only have Jezuzboi© to make the difference. Like it or not, the process has begun. It’s just a matter of time and moneybags will manifest insecurities at the mention of Jezuzboi©. I don’t mean to be vain. You and I know I’m heaven conscious. But it’s just as important to be earthly relevant. You know that too, right?

Jezuzboi©

Romance / The ‘girl-beauty’ And The ‘girl-beast’ by jezuzboi(m): 4:47pm On Dec 06, 2018
The upside of an encounter with ‘girl-beasts’ is that it helps you appreciate the coordinateness of ‘girl-beauties’ whose countenances are always lit up with cheery smiles. Unlike those conceited drama queens who seek nothing but undue attention, these harmonized breeds give a brand new meaning to life; a whole new essence to existence.

In place of an irritating sense of entitlement, you notice a deep indebtedness for the littlest of your kind deeds. In place of an inflated idea of delusional self-importance, you get a down-to-earth modus vivendi that suspends mannish reasonability. In place of concocted illusionary feminine qualities that give pleasure to the male senses but blind the eyes to predominant devilish demeanors, you see the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit.

These life-sweetening agents make you wonder why their fellow feeble creatures beautifully made by the creator would take so much smelly pride in variability. It’s cool to be broken; what’s weird is willfully deriving devilish pleasure from unevenness. Trust me, even rakish bachelors look out for genuine peace-giving maidens, not daytime witches!!!

All the disgusting mood swings, repelling superciliousness, alarming neediness of unmerited adoration, and feigned generosity, who puts up with that? A girl-beast will quickly say “A REAL MAN.” I’m guessing a real man like biblical King Ahab who entertained Jezebel in his Empire and ended up in ruins; a resultant effect of her bad energy.

But looking on the bright side, girl-beauties would not get much recognition without girl-beasts. For instance, without the likes of the fallen Queen Vashti, the likes of the elevated Queen Esther wouldn’t be celebrated. So we can say that girl-beasts are not completely useless. Heaven wouldn’t be so craved if there’s no hell. Good wouldn't be valued if there’s no evil. Perhaps the existence of ‘willing girl-beasts’ is to project the wonderfulness of girl-beauties.

A trustable confidant, harmless live-giver, industrious ally, gracefully generous, securely confident, decently elegant, clever and purposeful, strong and respectable, admirably fearless, man promoter, a firm believer, and a creative lover: what more can a man ask for? Oh Lord, in a world full of girl-beasts, cause the light of girl-beauties to shine on your sons.

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Celebrities / Re: "Tomato Seed" Tiwa Savage Show Off Her Grown Up Son Jamil, Fans React by jezuzboi(m): 4:21pm On Nov 02, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Tiwa is unhappy and particularly upset about the negative comments about her. This is also making her start to reconsider her affiliations with Wizkid.
Celebrating Jamil is the only way to keep the negativity far away.

Please, let's be fair to her.
She is just an entertainer.... You don't expect her to wear hijab. She's got to live up to the show, so she can still be relevant in the game.

It's true she's neither a good role-model nor a good mother, I also know she's a scum who has no sense of self-respect.
But the truth is,
A ho will always be a ho.

Stop the hurtful words.
Because if a woman has no shame, nothing you say will shame her.

SEE THIS GUY'S COMMENT ON INDECENCY PROMOTED IN WIZKID'S CONTROVERSIAL "FEVER" VIDEO - HILARIOUS OR SAVAGE?

Not minding the rumored illicit affair between them, Nigerian pop stars, Wizkid and Tiwa Savage got together on the visuals of Wizkid's FEVER song and showcased such infamous erotism that got Nigerians talking.

Tiwa Savage was particularly castigated considering her position as a woman (a mother for that matter), an ex-wife, and the the older one who should be putting the younger Wizkid on the right track.

Unable to bear the ill-comments thrown at Tiwa, one guy stepped in to condemn her castigators, saying she's just human and it's all entertainment. However, there was this other side to his comment which rendered his seeming favorable intervention questionable. He wrote;

"Tiwa is unhappy and particularly upset over the negative comments about her. This is also making her start to reconsider her affiliations with Wizkid. Celebrating her son is the only way to keep the negativity far away."

"Please, let's be fair with her. She is just an entertainer. You don't expect her to wear hijab. She's got to live up to the show so that she can still be relevant in the game."

"It's true she's neither a good role-model nor a good mother. I also know she's a scum who has no sense of self-respect. But the truth is; a LovePeddler will always be a LovePeddler. Stop the hurtful words because if a woman has no shame, nothing you say will shame her."
Romance / Re: The Easiest Way Up Is God; The Easiest Way Down Is The Delilah Kind Of Woman by jezuzboi(m): 3:48pm On Sep 15, 2018
QuietHammer:

I'm only drawing inferences from what you wrote
Maybe you should re-read what I wrote for better understanding cuz obviously, you misunderstood it all.
Romance / Re: The Easiest Way Up Is God; The Easiest Way Down Is The Delilah Kind Of Woman by jezuzboi(m): 3:23pm On Sep 15, 2018
QuietHammer:

Are you saying because a woman gives life therefore she is Godly?
How does this question relate to the post you made which I responded to?
Romance / Re: The Easiest Way Up Is God; The Easiest Way Down Is The Delilah Kind Of Woman by jezuzboi(m): 2:36pm On Sep 15, 2018
QuietHammer:

So, if God takes a man up and a woman brings a man down that means God and woman are opposites. In other words, there is no Godly woman. Brilliant
You must have noticed that part towards the ending that says "WOMEN ARE LIFE GIVERS." Use your head bro. Read between the lines. This is no shallow write. Try to comprehend its true context. Abi you have read admonitions like this in the Bible? King Solomon himself wrote it. And a certain king's mom did same to his son. That should be enough already.
Romance / The Easiest Way Up Is God; The Easiest Way Down Is The Delilah Kind Of Woman by jezuzboi(m): 12:31pm On Sep 15, 2018
WOMEN

The easiest way up is God; the easiest way down is a woman. Find, marry, stick to one woman, and have her under FULL control. When your enemies exhaust all avenues to get to you, that random girl/woman around becomes the next, final, and more often than not, unfailing resort.

Love is the greatest of all fruits of the Spirit; I think self-control is next, and then patience; virtues King Solomon and Samson seemed to lack, thus making top two on the list of the FALLEN MIGHTY. Imagine how reference is unendingly made to such men of TIMBER AND CALIBER when it comes to this demeaning subject matter. Thread with caution.

But peradventure you fall short and become subject to mockery on account of a woman, do like Samson: reach out for the pillars and bring total destruction on your mockers, and sometimes yourself too, but most importantly, the damn girl!

N/B: This is by no means a bash at women but an obvious truth which women themselves will agree to. After all, at the other end of it, women are LIFE GIVERS. But if anyone insists on unduly deeming this offensive, WHO CARES?

Jezuzboi©

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Romance / Re: If Dem Dey Rush U Or U Be Small Girl With Big God, Read This & Help Ur Destiny! by jezuzboi(m): 2:25pm On Sep 01, 2018
chiommy123:
I understand what you're saying but that's not what I was referring to. I mean there are people who can't marry outside their faith or church
This is another issue entirely which I had written about sometime ago. You can read it here: https://www.nairaland.com/4205528/inter-church-marriage-best-shot-securing

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If you're talking about NOT MARRYING OUTSIDE YOUR FAITH, I agree with you. But not MARRYING OUTSIDE YOUR CHURCH (a particular denomination)?

Apart from JW, is are there other denominations that make it compulsory that singles MUST marry from the same denomination?

I know some churches ADVISE so, not make it COMPULSORY, apart from JW like I've heard and read. And even with that, what happens when no proposal is forthcoming from the CHURCH but are flooding in from legit men in other CHURCHES (the same faith)?
Romance / Re: If Dem Dey Rush U Or U Be Small Girl With Big God, Read This & Help Ur Destiny! by jezuzboi(m): 12:41pm On Sep 01, 2018
chiommy123:
you know there are certain things you want in your man that you can't marry any one below that standard not that its too high. Hope you understand
I'm a social media person and less social media folks who want their stuffs on social media usually contract me to put their stuffs up here for them.

So there's this seminar that was conducted for SINGLE GIRLS in my area and I was the only guy let in there so I can push SOME DETAILS from the seminar online.

Married women were talking to those single girls about how their husbands met them and proposed. The common factor in what they said was that their husbands didn't look like the kinda man they wanted.

They only accepted them and counted their losses. But now, the men turned out to be exactly the kinda men they need. But they didn't seem so when they proposed. So you see?
Romance / Re: If Dem Dey Rush U Or U Be Small Girl With Big God, Read This & Help Ur Destiny! by jezuzboi(m): 11:45am On Sep 01, 2018
chiommy123:
how did you know all these BTW its not a bad thing to wait upon the lord
Waiting on the Lord is one thing. Knowing when the Lord finally shows up is another thing. When God visited Abraham and Sarah and told them they'll have a child, Sarah laughed (doubted).

The Lord visits many girls with their husbands but they turn them down because of "preferences and choices."
Romance / Re: If Dem Dey Rush U Or U Be Small Girl With Big God, Read This & Help Ur Destiny! by jezuzboi(m): 10:46am On Sep 01, 2018
Henryfocoyo:
like me, i love dem mutured waw
For marriage or for hook up alone?

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