johnpaulo:
Somebody future husband.

The girls don't mind...

Front Page nah!

Ah-Ah!!!!

Rasaqolawale:


Unclothednesses

You got me wrong... You said you're not moved by unclothedness(es). So I'm asking to know what moves u.

Maychang:
Im not moved by nudity.

What are you moved by?

#THREAD_CLOSED

AfonjaGuy:
Nairalander To Host The Red Carpet Mega Show, Oboy no Bleep up but make us proud we your fellow Nairalander bcoss we go hear the scores after the event

You have my word...

#THREAD_CLOSED

Can we talk privately?

BBM = 7BAE27CC

When a child begins to think he is wiser than his father, what his father spent a lifetime running away from, kills him in his sleep.

As good as logic is, it is also the tragedy that has made the sun to shed tears by midday. Disbelieving the truth doesn't make it a lie. And believing a lie doesn't make it true.

The wisdom of all the wise joined together is far less than the foolishness of God, if there is anything like that. The foolish things of this world have often been used to confound the wise.

There will be no end to your confusion. And the answer you seek will not come to you here. But just know this; "On the day the gods have destined for the monkey to die, all the trees in the forest become slippery."

Never take anything for granted! Many who did, are now grounded! #Pray

Nice one there! No controversies....

Maychang:




hhehhehehehe.... id let u fink. its starts with an 's'. wen u rememba dnt right it here o

It's so hard to figure out. Are u S***S***IRE?

Maychang:

aii boo boo..... i dint knw u stil roll on nairaland ....we actually know each other so well .....dint wanna tel ya before.... dis is my new account....beg me to show myself to u.

Pleeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaasssssseeeeeeeee....
Show thyself to meeeeeeeeeeeeee.....

Maychang:


what ya trynna do? correct my statement? I have or I've - its d same...duh uh

I was referring to the statement "I've never felt that way b4."

Its true with some guys.

OLAADEGBU:


Amen! This is a brilliant response to questions asked on this thread. You can go ahead to give us tips on how to be 'completely abstinent, refraining from alternate forms of sex' as you succinctly put it.

Follow this link to see how I practically stayed clear from all forms of sex.

https://www.nairaland.com/2175592/ogechi#31242557

Maychang:
IVE NEVER FELT LIKE THIS FOR ANY WOMAN IN MY LIFE.


yea right...tell that to the birds

I have never!

Unsad:
The only time I'll be ready is when I have Money, More money and more than enough money.

Say it again please....

AyamConfidence:
I don't visit Coolval anymore... too many erotic stories.... damn near damaged my spirituality... but I'll check out your stories here... more ink to your pen

Thanks mahn....
You can check out my blog or Facebook page. I've got spirit lifting stories there that I haven't brought here. See links below...

www.jezuzboi..com

www.facebook.com/imaginaryreality.jezuzboi

AyamConfidence:
OK boss... sorry for mistaking you for this riff raff....nice story you had there...do you post your stories here too??

Yea. First posted Ogechi and I here before Coolval. I've got some short stories here at the moment. Working on the next novel now. Its titled; SPY DISCIPLE

Will post here and coolval simultaneously

AyamConfidence:
you read the story shey.... the boy don degrade

You've got me mistaken for this guy. I'm the guy from coolval, not this guy. Just got a mention from OluwabuqqyYOLO and had to come and clarify. Thanks....

Do You Know That There Are Amazing Answers To Questions About Sex, Courtship & Marriage That You Don't Know? See Here; especially number 5.

QUESTION 1
Should we have sex during courtship?

ANSWER 1
Capital No! That has been the case with many people who have courted for years. They are said to have been married enough before even proceeding to wed. So it is not allowed. Make sure you discuss these things during courtship. Three basic things to discuss during courtship are MONEY, SEX, and FAMILY. Run away from anyone who doesn’t talk during courtship. He or she has something to hide.

QUESTION 2
You said the biological features of a lady should be considered only after marriage. Would it be wrong to want to marry a girl because of her biological features as far as she is spiritually sound?

ANSWER 2
It is not wrong. But it shouldn’t be the primary requirement for marriage because biological features are variables and will surely change with age.

QUESTION 3
Relating the biblical concept of Levites marrying Levites to the present generation, does the idea suppose that as Christians, we are limited to choosing a wife or husband from our religious denomination alone? Or can we choose from any denomination as far as he or she is a Christian?

ANSWER 3
Cross-denominational marriage is not bad. But it is advisable to marry from the same denomination because both parties have acquired the same knowledge about marriage and can easily overcome marital challenges, unlike marrying someone from another denomination who has a different idea of marriage.

QUESTION 4
What if I don’t find a wife or husband among the maidens or gentlemen in my denomination? Do I just tie the nuts with anyone in my denomination?

ANSWER 4
If you are faithful to God in your denomination, He will provide you a suitable spouse; most likely from your denomination. He can also provide spouses from another denomination. That notwithstanding, it is still advisable to marry from the same denomination. Or from any branch of the same ministry because they hold the same orientation.

QUESTION 5
A lot of marriages crash because of sexual dissatisfaction. So how do potential spouses determine whether they are well equipped to satisfy each other sexually before marriage so that they don't marry and have to face issues of sexual dissatisfaction?

ANSWER 5
Read sex books by Christian authors. That will help you understand your body. That's how to you determine all you need to determine before marriage. NOT BY TESTING!

These are marriage principles you must follow if you don't want O.Y.O (On Your Own) to be your case!

Op, abstinence good ooh. We should be discussing about how not to be inconsistently abstinent, as is the case with many. We should also talk about how to remain completely abstinent, refraining from alternate forms of sex.

SIN is SIN no matter what. And never forget that Jesus is coming again. You don't wanna go to hell Cuz of sex and the likes. Thanks.

Aluta Continua. God help us all. Amen!

Many have flawed in the decision-making process of who to marry and had themselves subjected to the woes of being unequally yoked together with the wrong partners for a lifetime. Youths are encouraged to embrace certain spiritual measures which will serve as a guide to being adequately developed for marriage. These measures will aid the finding of a partner from the multitude of the good, bad, and ugly who is most suitable for this lifelong commitment called marriage. So before proposing or agreeing to a proposal, the following should be in place.

Develop Spiritual Muscles.

Develop Intellectual Muscles. (Intelligence in this context not measured by certification but by knowledge of God)

Develop Economic muscles.

God is a loving father, and will not give you more than you can bear. Marriage is not a simple task. Rather, it is HARD work, meant only for those who understand the basics and rudiments of relationship. Note that marriage is an interactive relationship, not exclusively for reproduction. The marital union requires as much training as does any other of life’s course that demands excellence. Bachelors and bachelorettes must be well trained to handle the marriage covenant, as a shortfall in that area can result in marital catastrophe. God forbid!

One must understand that the first man and woman were made male and female for A COURSE. The course in this context signifies the God-ordained purpose for which a man glues himself to a woman in holy matrimony. If intending couples happen to be void of the understanding of the course for which God made them male and female for marriage’s sake, they shouldn’t proceed to tie the nuts.

The term "Male and female" does not speak of gender for productivity. So marriage should not be thought of as a platform for human reproduction. That is however not absent from the purpose of marriage. You must have a rich understanding of why God made you either a female or male before getting into marriage. Refer to the nuggets below for more enlightenment.

God only yokes two persons in marriage when He notices adequate training and preparedness in them.

Understand the CAUSE of Marriage before getting into it - Mark 10 v 6, Gen 1 v 26, 27, Exodus 2 v 1, Gen 2 v 24, 25.

Don't marry someone you are not proud of or cannot respect. And don't marry someone whose occupation you don't like.

Courtship is not a guarantee to Marriage! A broken courtship is far better than a broken marriage.

God is the YOKE MASTER. He won’t ever yoke you in marriage with anybody capable of wasting your time, destiny and resources.

When you are well trained and ready to marry, God will bring the right person your way.

For the marriage yoke to produce results, it has to be BALANCED.

To be continued.

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Where are u from?

Op

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NUGGETS

As a woman, you must work. If the man is the BREADWINNER, you should be the AKARA WINNER.

Anointing does not solve marital problems. What solves marital problems is wisdom. Read books.

What men need from women is not LOVE. What men need from women is RESPECT. On the other hand, what women need from men is LOVE.

If you love a woman, she HEARS IT.

No matter how spiritual a woman looks, SHE NEEDS HELP!!!

If you don’t discover that you need to fight for your family, you are in trouble. The marital problems we see in our homes are not the couples’ making. It is the devil’s doing

You may need to rebuke the devil in your marital bed. Even sexual dissatisfaction can be a demonic manipulation.

For those contemplating divorce, know that life after divorce is not better.

CONTINUE READING HERE >>> https://jezuzboi./2017/02/09/solutions-to-marital-problems-using-the-acronym-smiles/

theEYe21:
Abegi! This is a long tin

It is better to pay the price of discipline than bear the pain of regret. I'm sure u don't want O.Y.O to be ur case.

lilyqueen:
This is lovely.

Good one

Indeed! Cheers!

AMAZING ANSWERES TO QUESTIONS ABOUT S3X, COURTSHIP & MARRIAGE THAT YOU DON'T KNOW

In far away Akwa Ibom State is a local assembly situated in the city of Eket and headed by a Spirit Filled Pastor who's so passionate about the welfare of marriages. Having dealt with series of catastrophic marriages, he sought to put an end to all unlikely marital uprising by enlightening the youths of the city about the dos and do not's of marriage to prevent them from having bad marriages.

To do this, he started a free marriage school called "SINGLES MARRIAGE SCHOOL" (SMS), and youths of the city turned out in their numbers to learn. Between March 2016 and now, six topics on marriage have been dealt with; one topic each month. The topics are

1. The Origin Of Marriage
2. Who Should I marry?
3. Maturity For Marriage
4. Understanding The Marriage Yoke
5. Understanding Christian Courtship 1
6. Understanding Christian Courtship 2

But before I venture into details about the topics, I'd like to share with you the amazing and hilarious questions that sprung up in the course learning within these past six months; and of cause "THE ANSWERS." Sit Tight!

QUESTION 1
Should we have sex during courtship?

ANSWER 1
Capital No! That has been the case with many people who have courted for years. They are said to have been married enough before even proceeding to wed. So it is not allowed. Make sure you discuss these things during courtship. Three basic things to discuss during courtship are MONEY, SEX, and FAMILY. Run away from anyone who doesn’t talk during courtship. He or she has something to hide.

QUESTION 2
You said the biological features of a lady should be considered only after marriage. Would it be wrong to want to marry a girl because of her biological features as far as she is spiritually sound?

ANSWER 2
It is not wrong. But it shouldn’t be the primary requirement for marriage because biological features are variables and will surely change with age.

QUESTION 3
Relating the biblical concept of Levites marrying Levites to the present generation, does the idea suppose that as Christians, we are limited to choosing a wife or husband from our religious denomination alone? Or can we choose from any denomination as far as he or she is a Christian?

ANSWER 3
Cross-denominational marriage is not bad. But it is advisable to marry from the same denomination because both parties have acquired the same knowledge about marriage and can easily overcome marital challenges, unlike marrying someone from another denomination who has a different idea of marriage.

QUESTION 4
What if I don’t find a wife or husband among the maidens or gentlemen in my denomination? Do I just tie the nuts with anyone in my denomination?

ANSWER 4
If you are faithful to God in your denomination, He will provide you a suitable spouse; most likely from your denomination. He can also provide spouses from another denomination. That notwithstanding, it is still advisable to marry from the same denomination. Or from any branch of the same ministry because they hold the same orientation.

QUESTION 5
A lot of marriages crash because of sexual dissatisfaction. So how do potential spouses determine whether they are well equipped to satisfy each other sexually before marriage so that they don't marry and have to face issues of sexual dissatisfaction?

ANSWER 5
Read sex books by Christian authors. That will help you understand your body. That's how to you determine all you need to determine before marriage. NOT BY TESTING!

My brothers and sisters, these are marriage principles you must follow if you don't want O.Y.O to be your case.

mizzbouqui:

I'm extremely good for this kind of man

Roger that! You obviously are a very romantic girl, and I think you'd love to read romance stuff too. I've got one for you. It's right here on nairaland. Maybe you've read it before; I wouldn't know. But in case you haven't, hit this link.

https://www.nairaland.com/2175592/ogechi#31242557

It's titled "OGECH & I"

Have fun!

mizzbouqui:

No I can't post a picture of him
Those signs listed are not too hard for you too do
Which of them do you think is not achievable?

1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Impressively YES!
4. I Dunno
5. Extremely YES! (On mutual grounds)
6. CAPITAL NO!
7. CAPITAL NO AGAIN! (And very unwilling to change that) #Sealed!
8. Very Very! Yes.
9. I will when occasion demands.
10. I will when occasion demands.
11. Yes (On mutual grounds)
12. I pray oh