yungzed360:
This is my girl. Our problems are she most times receives calls and chats with lots of guys and she lies to me alot, I've told her severally to stop and always tell me as it is, although I get angry very easily bt it would be better to digest the truth than lies cus it's hurt me a lot. So I've broken up with her many times and she sometimes swear never to come back again. But after a few days or weeks. She will come begging, calling and texting again and then I keep forgiven her.

Below is a screenshots of our most recent quarrels when she came back begging and the reason for the quarrel was she was at my house when another guy called again, and she couldnt tell the guy she was at her boyfriend's house even though the guy kept asking where she went, she only said she went out.

What exactly could be the problem?
Is it me? Is it her? I'm I too over protective or feeling insecure? Please guys what should I do?

She's just telling you that you are the best at tolerating her bullshlt

Essenza01:
I really don't know anymore, i just did my budget for the month and i am scared, i have cut from everywhere possible and i fear for my self.. i dont have a GF, Wife, Children.. my salary is N400,000 and i have added side businesses and one or two's to even survive.. but with this fuel increase, what else is left... zero savings..

- Rent - N108,333/mth (1,300,000/12)
- Fuel for car - N180,000 (36k for 5-6days)
- Auto maintenance - N30,000/mth (service/repair)
- Fuel for generator - N50,000/mth (20ltr/wk)
- Feeding - N62,000 - (N2,000/day)
- Health miscellenous - N5,000/mth
- Dstv - N4,500/mth
- Data - N7,000/mth
- Recharge card - N3,000/mth
- Dry cleaner - N4,000/mth (Starch/iron)
- Hygiene maintenance - N10,000 (body spray/perfume, roll on, soap, cream) etc..
-  Gift to people - N10,000/mth
-  Family House contribution - N20,000/mth
- Eko electric - N10,000/mth
- repairs and maintenance - N12,000/mth
- Clothing, footwear etc - N10,000/mth
- Outings, restaurant, sit outs and provisions - N30,000/mth

Total = N556,500...

My rent is average rent for where i stay, its a two bed flat, i use the other room for home office..

Feeding is N2,000/day.. its not anything out of the ordinary.. tried cooking and spent more with time wasting.

Fuel for car is at the new rate of N500/ltr, my car is a 70ltr car tank..

Auto maintenance is basic brake pads, shocks, service 2mths, tire guage, police pr, tire purchase if any, minor touch ups etc... nothing major.

Fuel for generator is 20ltr/day (2hrs or less daily)

I need help.... how are you people doing it, what am i doing wrong? The rat race is killing me..

You pay 10k for Eko electric disco and still spend 50k on fuel for generator, are you a welder?

This bushbaby don come again

You and your cult group are the real evil

LagosEmir:
The drug lord will soon be booted out and sent to jail where drug dealers like him should be

Una go still abuse the judges and the court.

Get your hopes high if you like

Rayban25:


Oya drink water so as to alleviate your depression

Na you get depression

Mounting Tinubu back to back in less than 24hrs in office, looking for faults.

More heartbreak awaits you in the PEPT and next election if obi will contest

Rayban25:


From your write up it's clear that you dont even care if Nigeria burns to the ground as long as an igbo person dosent govern Nigeria.

Your problem is tribalism...shebi tinubu has instructed all petrol stations to sell fuel at 50naira per liter for yoruba people.. you no get issue then...ewure

Okpa don block your brain Okafor.

I'm sure obi would have been distributing fuel for free as a world class magician

hammerT:
REDEEM IS NOT A CHURCH, IT IS UST ANOTHER TYPE OF LASTMA.



BIRDS OF THE SAME FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER.



FLEE FROM RCCG.

Go and meet those who gave you prophetsee for thanksgiving

Rayban25:
Lol..if you remember what happened to abacha then you should know the actual meaning of what he meant but...

Even if that should happen again
It doesn't mean Pandora wasiu girigori will get near presidency

Shattuck:
I hope tinubu understands the importance of federal character, there is a difference between managing Lagos where you can fill all positions with your tribesman and loyalist, the national level is a different ball game entirely, I hope he understands this considering the fact he ran his campaign on an ethnic agenda.

Did you apply for the role and didn't get it?

Because of federal character, i should ignore competency and appoint an Okafor who's an ipob terrorist

NzogbuNzogbu:

Portable gets this everyday

My question now is,

Na this one obi wan dey do for 8 years, looking for attention?

He has to engage the endless mob consistently so as not to lose relevance.

But the next loss will be bigger than this one based on their actions so far

LesbianBoy:
This is the first time that someone who didn't win is getting so much love. To the fools that would want to argue go and verify. It has never happened!

It's so obvious tinubu didn't win this election and Atiku didn't come any stupid second.

This is actually the guy that won but because there is an agenda that an igbo man or south south man should not rule that useless country they put tinubu there whether the majority like it or not.


Anyway, God bless peter obi

The true president elected by the people not that criminal inec selected

GEJ is from the North i guess

A loser always have fans too

The millions of people that voted Atiku in 2019 could have formed a cult group and kept following him around too instead of accepting reality that he lost.

Then someone like you would have said Atiku is loved and he won.

This is what you get when losers refused to rest

Obi will make it big in the movie industry
Especially with his voice

Vinnie2000:


SHUT UP, you Broke Tribalist! 😒

Lol
Me broke?
See okoro
You go lament taya

Pandora Wasiu Girigori

They know he's a bad leader
But they don't care, they just want to have an ibo president

Vinnie2000:
*Ihordspy
*Seunmsg
*Hellanus
*Madridguy
*MannaVulturegrills
*Ngeneukwenu
*Christistruth
*KingOK
And the Teeming APC Goons.🙂

*WHY CANT ANY OF DEM EVEN DO FINANCIAL GIVE-AWAY, to celebrate Tinubu's Inauguration?😏

*Or is it to Shout Igbos and IPOB they know how to do?
*Or they are POOR fellows?

If HE Peter Obi had won the Presidential Election, I Personally would have given 2K Giveaway to 20 Nairalanders!.

PlZ our BAT fans, Do Give-away Here to Celebrate Tinubu as President.


SERIOUSLY, CAN ANY TINUBU NAIRALAND SUPPORTER DO GIVEAWAY TO CELEBRATE HIM? 🤔

Drop comments.

Use that your 2k giveaway to buy okpa and akpu to give you more energy to cry.
As days pass by i expect your grieving to reduce as you acclimatize to realty

SalamRushdie:


My mind is free , I am a strategist so I like to make calls , I remember I warned here 8 years ago that Buhari will achieve nothing after studying his early decision and I was right , bad action beget bad result it has nothing to do with me looking for bad news ..How can your first action less than 13 hours of inauguration is to trigger a needless fuel scarcity

You think the problems of Nigeria are the politicians alone?

70 of the problems are from the citizens themselves.

There's no fuel scarcity, many fuel stations out of greediness have stopped selling the fuels they have in their reservoirs, waiting for when they can be able to sell at higher price cos of greediness.
It's the same greediness that push you people to crimes, fraud and all sorts of vices

HardBishop:

🤣🤣 Time Will tell

Ibos want biafra, putting them at the helms of Nigeria affair is counterproductive

SalamRushdie:
This is not a good sign the first reaction to his govt is Fuel scarcity, Nigerians have started suffering from day 1 of Tinubu govt ..This is not a good sign , let's see how the first week goes

You need to free your mind and reduce your eagerness for bad news and bad things

HardBishop:
I pray make him no appoint Ibos...🤣🤣 Make we just dey observe

Wetin ebo get to offer?

Lol
I'm just waiting for when Obi will come and contest again.

They think their cult group alone is enough to make him president

HardBishop:

SO that you theives can grabbed their hard earned lands.
Bunch of criminals.
Then for your sanity, declare a secessionist state of BIAFRA

Do they have lands anywhere?

Read the land decree of Lagos State

Every land belongs to the Lagos state government.

Ok,I have declared a "secessionist" state biafla,

Will you go back to agulu now?

Highlife217:
Tinubu won’t be president for long before he is removed, one way or another

It's been quite a journey but you people always find a way to shift things forward.

From he won't win the primaries to he won't be sworn in ,here we are.

As for us, we are waiting for obi to come to the poll again.

Only then will he be able to see the consequences of his actions and that of his cult members

GUNITGuy:

It's still going to get to that point..... This is just intro

Lol
I just pity the suspects if they think they can instigate crises and go scot free
This will be a good excuse to send them back home

HardBishop:

Magana banza, is now good you see the rubbishes your father's did staining their hands with bloods. Anyways is past, but ALL IBOS PLS stop associating, marrying the yorubas. Pls. Remember their demonized nature they killed millions of ibos. Make sure you only do business with them.. they hate you stop wandering to their churches and contributing tithes..... My hand no dey

Your advice is incomplete
Tell them to go back to their region

DaTruths:
Tinubu supporters will cause problem for Tinubu.

What Tinubu is struggling to Put together, his supporters are busy online putting asunder.

Enraging oppositions the more.

One thing is certain, if Tinubu misfires with his policies like Buhari did, Nigerians may not afford to endure and wait for another 4-8 years to reach before an uprising will erupt.

Which may even erupt from Supreme court this year.

Who are the oppositions?

It's better to fish them out, tag them as criminals and deal with them once and for all.

Ibos can keep pampering Igbos and unknown gunmen while they commit all sort of atrocities in the east

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Tinubu administration is about to kick off in a bad note
Imagine federal ministry departments and agencies have not been payed may salary

Before they usually gets thier salary Before 28 of every month

It is about to get worse for Nigerians

The truth and happy thing about Tinubu's administration is am not gonna pity anyone anymore since have realised that the masses are the problem of Nigeria
A south African friend told me that if tinubu gets more than hundred vote in this election then it means Nigerians are sick and the tribalism hidden in us is out openly

You have taken your hard drugs as usual

Electorate:


and you think Tinubu will succeed without the igbos and a divided country, dey play...the igbos contributed to buhari's failure...same route for Tinubu.

So you agree that the ibos are failure merchants

IGoComotYaTeeth:
Peter Obi won

In South East

Penguin2:
Not my president 👎

This man below is who Nigerians voted for.

Thought Tinubu would be arrested this morning