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Politics / Re: Expel Obasanjo Now, Clark Tells PDP by jliusadura(m): 10:48pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
From the write-up, one can deduce that Mr Clark is conceding defeat already 26 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Coca-cola Company Mocking APC And PDP ( Picture) by jliusadura(m): 4:54pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
broom has an upper hand. see d photo again |
Crime / Re: Hoodlums Gang-Rape Lady To Death In Kogi by jliusadura(m): 5:22pm On Jan 15, 2015 |
They probably premeditated the act targeting her because those guys ordinarily be in their in an early morning like that. The police should use DNA investigative system (hope they have relevant facilities). RIP 1 Like |
Politics / Dps Used By Buhari/apc Supporters (pictures) by jliusadura(m): 4:24pm On Jan 08, 2015 |
Facebook, twitter, Nairaland, bbm, whatsapp and other online fora are 'bombarded' with displayed pictures of Buhary/Osinbajo by APC supporters. Here are some of the dps. You can add yours. The first one below is my number one because of its creativity/innovation. Add yours.
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Politics / Re: APC Planned To Hack Into INEC Database -DSS by jliusadura(m): 4:20pm On Jan 07, 2015 |
Political DSS 20 Likes |
Family / Re: Who Is To Be Blamed, Husband Or Wife? ( Picture) by jliusadura(m): 9:16pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
naturally: 1 Like |
Family / Who Is To Be Blamed, Husband Or Wife? ( Picture) by jliusadura(m): 8:48pm On Jan 05, 2015 |
Oya nairalanders, are we guys to be blamed for changing after marriage. Why doesn't this happen before marriage? In what ways are women probably responsible for this? 9 Likes 1 Share
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Nairaland / General / Re: My Housewarming And Birthday Celebration (pictures) by jliusadura(m): 7:47pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
ASL33:corrected. Thanks. I was doing other things while typing. |
Nairaland / General / Re: My Housewarming And Birthday Celebration (pictures) by jliusadura(m): 7:45pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
donphilopus:Amen 3 Likes |
Nairaland / General / My Housewarming And Birthday Celebration (pictures) by jliusadura(m): 6:48pm On Dec 30, 2014 |
I celebrated my birthday and dedicated my first ever house yesterday. I started the house last year April after my NYSC camp. (2013 batch A) These are the photos. In the second photo is my pastor cutting the ribbon. Moderator can move it if this is posted in a wrong section. 141 Likes 7 Shares
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Celebrities / Re: Photos : Psquare And Their Wives Step Out For Pre-christmas Dinner by jliusadura(m): 1:23am On Dec 25, 2014 |
ok. fine |
Politics / Re: Buhari's Wife Visits Tinubu (Picture) by jliusadura(m): 5:26pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
olrotimi:She is in her office in Abuja. 11 Likes |
Politics / Re: Buhari's Wife Visits Tinubu (Picture) by jliusadura(m): 4:42pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
Haywhymido:The photo has been added. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Buhari's Wife Visits Tinubu (Picture) by jliusadura(m): 4:30pm On Dec 22, 2014 |
National Leader of All Progressives Congress Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (middle). Wife of the presidential Candidate of all Progressives Congress Hajiya Aishat Muhammodu Buhari, Deputy Governor of Lagos state Mrs Adejoke olorelope -Adefulere and entourage during the courtesy visit to National Leader of All Progressives Congress at his Residence Ikoyi Lagos on Monday. WHAT DO YOU THINK WAS HER MISSION? To appreciate him or to strategize for women votes? Source: http://thenationonlineng.net/new/photo-buharis-wife-visits-tinubu/ 29 Likes 3 Shares
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Politics / Re: PDP Uses Hummer Jeep To Campaign (pics) by jliusadura(m): 10:23pm On Dec 15, 2014 |
Msn |
Celebrities / Re: Dabota Lawson Shows Off Her Range Rover Bought By Her Billionaire Boo by jliusadura(m): 7:24am On Dec 13, 2014 |
Pls Hw can I delete this post? I wanted to do first page commentus but I landed on second page. In any case, it seems the op dey take the story personal. Abi u dey jealous? |
Romance / Re: Some Dps Ladies Post When "Break-up" Takes Place. by jliusadura(m): 3:44am On Dec 07, 2014 |
She must have been saving those dps when you guys started having problems. No be today she get them 7 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: 9ice Denies Losing Election Primaries. by jliusadura(m): 12:09pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
This is what I posted on front page but it was hidden. Is there anything bad in it? ''His statement was too harsh. As a politician, you don't blast journalists like you do as an artist. You will always need them to accumulate political capital. I think he needs a good political adviser. He also called his opponents ''enemies'' instead of my ''political opponents'' nairaland with hidden agenda 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: 9ice Denies Losing Election Primaries. by jliusadura(m): 11:29am On Dec 05, 2014 |
peculiar3:so girls self don dey book space 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Former Nigerian Foreign Affairs Minister Gbenga Ashiru is dead. by jliusadura(m): 10:25pm On Nov 29, 2014 |
One of the best ministers under GEJ government. Other foreign ministers after him have been comparatively passive. RIP 10 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Falling In Love With A Narcissist - The Challenges by jliusadura(m): 5:55am On Nov 08, 2014 |
benromeo39:hmmm, narcissist usually deny that they have problem but there are degree to narcissim, may be yours is moderate. Hope you have a psychology coach. Please do if you don't have. This may help to reduce excalation as one grows up because it gets worst with age. |
Romance / Re: Falling In Love With A Narcissist - The Challenges by jliusadura(m): 9:19pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
BreezyRita:...but you can't know one until you spend time with them. |
Romance / Re: Falling In Love With A Narcissist - The Challenges by jliusadura(m): 9:01pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
benromeo39:Why did those girls leave you if they enjoyed your narcissism? |
Romance / Re: Falling In Love With A Narcissist - The Challenges by jliusadura(m): 6:24pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
Have you dated or you are currently dating a narcissist? please share your experience |
Romance / Falling In Love With A Narcissist - The Challenges by jliusadura(m): 5:34pm On Nov 07, 2014 |
Have you ever got the sense that your partner thinks he/she is generally superior to you, or more entitled to things than you are? Does he/she find a host of ways to devalue you or ignore you? Does he/she try to control you? If so, you may be living with a Narcissist. If you are in a relationship with a Narcissist, it will be a one-way relationship, as he/she is particularly self- absorbed. Narcissism is considered a spectrum Disorder, which means that there are degrees of manifestation of the characteristics, so a person could have a couple of Narcissistic traits, or have many and be considered to have a full blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder, as defined in the DSMIV, or sit anywhere in between. The 9 Characteristics of Narcissism 1. An exaggerated or grandiose sense of self importance that isn’t supported by reality. He/she believes that his/her priorities, interests, opinions and beliefs are better than or more important than others and as a result, they feel entitled to dominate and control those around them. He/she can even seem quite modest in public about these views, but usually at home these are evident. 2. A preoccupation with fantasies of extraordinary success, power, beauty or love. He/she lives more in a fantasy world of their own making than in reality of both successes and recognised failures. 3. A belief that he/she is special and unique and can only be understood by other special people. He/she sees himself/herself as more special than others, whether it be more accomplished, more feeling, more giving, more ethical, more long suffering, more insightful, etc. 4. An intense need for admiration. When in conversation, he/she can’t listen attentively and will bring the conversation back around to him/her. Often partners of a Narcissist will refer to the one thing they have in common with their Narcissist partner is that they both love him/her. 5. A delusional sense of entitlement. He/she feels that rules, regulations and normal standards don’t apply to them, and also may find hard work, working toward a goal, illness and injury difficult to cope with, as they believe themselves to be above these kind of common things. 6. A tendency to exploit others without guilt and remorse. He/she is a “user” who may manipulate situations such that others end up doing all the work (and the Narcissist often gets the glory), or may end up losing their money. He/she will also promise things that they never deliver on. 7. An absence of meaningful empathy for others. This is almost a universal trait with all Narcissists. He/ she is so caught up in their own grandiose fantasy life that they pay no real attention to others in any genuine way. In the courting stage, he/she will use “fake empathy”, but beyond this stage, partners of Narcissists feel completely unsupported and not understood. 8. A tendency to be envious or to assume that he/she is the object of others envy. He/she will be very envious if others close by have more than him/her, and will usually express this as contempt, distain and belittling towards them. 9. An arrogant attitude. He/she will often be judgemental and condescending toward anyone who they feel is not up to their high standards and will regularly “put down” others to bolster their own self esteem . The more of these qualities you find in your partner (or yourself) the closer they (or you) are to a Narcissistic Personality Disorder end of the spectrum, which means the more difficult (or impossible) they will be to live with, or to maintain a healthy relationship with. Research has shown that approximately 75% of those with Narcissistic traits are male and 25% are female. How do partners feel when they are attempting to have a relationship with a Narcissist? In a way that you often can’t exactly identify clearly you can feel: - Very disappointed and disillusioned about who he/she seems to be now, compared with who he/ she was in the beginning stages of the relationship - Confused because of the lies and half truths he/ she continually feeds you - Hurt and shell shocked because of the myriad of ways he/she belittles, criticises and blames you - The relationship feels unrewarding because it never feels that he/she is really there, and it is not possible to share any real intimacy with him/her - Unhappy because he/she always tries to undermine the happiness you create for yourself - Untrusting of yourself because you don’t know what to trust anymore, wanting a real and happy relationship but always feeling that it is not available to you - Intensely frustrating when he/she can’t be reasonable or honour agreements or work with you for a win-win solution - Utter perplexity at how he/she can be so sweet and nice one minute, and so mean and callous the next - Despair at the dawning realisation that he/she doesn’t really care about you or how you feel. Trying to relate in a healthy way with someone who has many Narcissistic characteristics in like walking through a minefield. You will need to develop boundaries and assertive skills and depending on the degree of Narcissism, you may need to leave them. Often counselling with a Psychologist who understand about the specifics of Narcissism can be most helpful. Author's Bio: Julie Hart is an Australian Relationship Psychologist who heads the Hart Centre, a team of 70 Psychologists in centres around Australia who specialise in Relationship and Marriage counselling, Anger management and Sex therapy. |
Politics / Re: Thread For Cybercafe Operators Over Non-accreditation For 2015 Utme by jliusadura(m): 11:40am On Oct 14, 2014 |
There is a meeting currently going on Abuja among stakeholders concerning JAMB registration and the lack of meaningful progress by CBT centres which are saddled with the responsibility of registering applicants for 2015 UTME. The ongoing meeting may give room for cybercafe operators to participate in this year registration. Unlike cybercafes, CBT centres have not been able to register appreciable numbers of candidates. There are also indications that many members of JAMB board are unhappy with the exclusive use of CBT centres for registration because most of the CBT owners are close allies of Prof. Ojerinde. Infact, many of the approved CBT centres don't have functional infrastructures on ground - they were given license based on promise they made to put in place necessary infrastructure; a promise many of them have failed to fulfill. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Thread For Cybercafe Operators Over Non-accreditation For 2015 Utme by jliusadura(m): 2:30pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
Thank you all for your contributions. Please let's keep this thread alive to get the attention it deserves. It is not about us alone but also about over one millions UTME applicants who would be put through stressful experience just because they want to register foe JAMB exams. |
Politics / Thread For Cybercafe Operators Over Non-accreditation For 2015 Utme by jliusadura(m): 11:07am On Oct 03, 2014 |
It's no longer news that the Joint Admission and Matriculation Board under the leadership of Prof. DIBU OJERINDE has banned thousands of CYBERCAFE OPERATORS from participating in the 2015 UTME registration exercise by restricting registration centres only to CBT centres. For those who don't know, the following points are very important for Nigerians to note as I state them bellow: 1. JAMB under Prof. Dibu Ojerinde wants to monopolize UTME registration revenue for few rich individuals therefore preventing thousands of ordinary Nigerians ( cyber cafe operators) from the exercise. We suspect this to be a grand ploy to sharing such revenue among themselves while ordinary Nigerians who have been able to create jobs for themselves through online registration business are forced to close shops and join army of unemployed youths in Nigeria. It is a wicked plan to make the rich become richer while blocking opportunities for those who are trying to move up. 2. That JAMB under Prof. DIBU OJERINDE is creating inconveniences for millions of 2015 UTME applicants who may have to travel to far distances in order to get registered by few available CTB centres. It should be noted that some states have as little as two CBT centres. This policy creates unnecessary problems for applicants. As a matter of facts, one of the objectives of introducing online registration is to end congestion of JAMB candidates at JAMB offices and some sales points. Are we now back to square one? 3. JAMB under Prof. DIBU OJERINDE used to collect N10,000 each from thousands of cybercafe operators to get access code for UTME registration. In 2012, the payment was said to be refundable but for 2013 and 2014, the money was never re-funded. This money amounted to billions of naira. We are not complaining of paying for access code and we are ready to pay for 2015 UTME registration. If JAMB is uncomfortable because access code can be shared, they can make it in form of license. 4. Nigerians should note that JAMB under Prof. Dibu Ojerinde has always pursued policies that targeted excluding majority from participating in UTME registration so as to favour few capitalists who have direct contact or relationship with him most probably with the aim of collaborating with such people for mutual exclusive financial benefits. Such policies include the introduction of biometric license, the introduction of access code and yearly payments. Because these steps failed to stop the 'poor' thousands of cybercafe operators from engaging in their legitimate business through which they survive, the JAMB registrar has now taken now taken his policy of exclusion to a new level. CONCLUSION We call on our President, Goodluck Jonathan who is a lover of the poor and the weak to prevail on Prof. DIBU OJERINDE to stop this selfish capitalist policy and allow hundreds of thousand of cybercafe operators scattered all over the country to participate in the 2015 UTME registration. We are aware that our dear President has been working tirelessly to create jobs for the youths and therefore this policy by Prof. Ojerinde is anti-productive to Mr President's Transformation agenda as it will throw thousands of people back into unemployment market. We also call on well meaning Nigerians to prevail on Prof. Ojerinde to stop his anti-poor policy. JAMB is a public/government agency and not a private concern, he should therefore not personalize its policies and operations. JAMB belongs to all Nigerians. Thank you as you read and share. God bless Nigeria. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: op by jliusadura(m): 5:11pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
It has officially started but we can't register candidates because of the problems enumerated above. |
Education / op by jliusadura(m): 4:45pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
It's no longer news that the Joint Admission and Matriculation Board under the leadership of Prof. DIBU OJERINDE has banned thousands of CYBERCAFE OPERATORS from participating in the 2015 UTME registration exercise by restricting registration centres only to CBT centres. For those who don't know, the following points are very important for Nigerians to note as I state them bellow: 1. JAMB under Prof. Dibu Ojerinde wants to monopolize UTME registration revenue for few rich individuals therefore preventing thousands of ordinary Nigerians ( cyber cafe operators) from the exercise. We suspect this to be a grand ploy to sharing such revenue among themselves while ordinary Nigerians who have been able to create jobs for themselves through online registration business are forced to close shops and join army of unemployed youths in Nigeria. It is a wicked plan to make the rich become richer while blocking opportunities for those who are trying to move up. 2. That JAMB under Prof. DIBU OJERINDE is creating inconveniences for millions of 2015 UTME applicants who may have to travel to far distances in order to get registered by few available CTB centres. It should be noted that some states have as little as two CBT centres. This policy creates unnecessary problems for applicants. As a matter of facts, one of the objectives of introducing online registration is to end congestion of JAMB candidates at JAMB offices and some sales points. Are we now back to square one? 3. JAMB under Prof. DIBU OJERINDE used to collect N10,000 each from thousands of cybercafe operators to get access code for UTME registration. In 2012, the payment was said to be refundable but for 2013 and 2014, the money was never re-funded. This money amounted to billions of naira. We are not complaining of paying for access code and we are ready to pay for 2015 UTME registration. If JAMB is uncomfortable because access code can be shared, they can make it in form of license. 4. Nigerians should note that JAMB under Prof. Dibu Ojerinde has always pursued policies that targeted excluding majority from participating in UTME registration so as to favour few capitalists who have direct contact or relationship with him most probably with the aim of collaborating with such people for mutual exclusive financial benefits. Such policies include the introduction of biometric license, the introduction of access code and yearly payments. Because these steps failed to stop the 'poor' thousands of cybercafe operators from engaging in their legitimate business through which they survive, the JAMB registrar has now taken now taken his policy of exclusion to a new level. CONCLUSION We call on our President, Goodluck Jonathan who is a lover of the poor and the weak to prevail on Prof. DIBU OJERINDE to stop this selfish capitalist policy and allow hundreds of thousand of cybercafe operators scattered all over the country to participate in the 2015 UTME registration. We are aware that our dear President has been working tirelessly to create jobs for the youths and therefore this policy by Prof. Ojerinde is anti-productive to Mr President's Transformation agenda as it will throw thousands of people back into unemployment market. We also call on well meaning Nigerians to prevail on Prof. Ojerinde to stop his anti-poor policy. JAMB is a public/government agency and not a private concern, he should therefore not personalize its policies and operations. JAMB belongs to all Nigerians. Thank you as you read and share. God bless Nigeria. |
Family / Re: Baby Sleep Myths Every Parent Should Know by jliusadura(m): 4:18am On Oct 01, 2014 |
Noted till I get married and have babies. |
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