OP's original sin is simply lack of boundary which you mentioned.
2. He allowed some religious malware programming to take over him, including that harmful 'allowing peace to reign.'
3. No 2 above messes up with his leadership role in the union; with the spiralling consequences on both sides. A man who firmly leads as the captain and with a strong boundary that he actively polices would considerably tame his woman. I mean, gives her a strong sense of direction. This wasn't there and the woman chooses to be doing anyhow.
4. Guy must have to face his business squarely first before anything. Then, go on a therapy or heal up before setting up boundaries to safeguard himself.
5. After taking his time on No 4 above, which must have primed him up psychologically, he can then go for DNA test on all the kids.
6. Separation is something OP should consider first; if possible with immediate effect and he should be more security and safety conscious going forward.

Dogalmighty17:
Technically, you don't have a wife. What you have at home is a bi(t)ch. You are also a fool! What are you confessing to your wife for? You want her to poison you? Oga this cheating thing plenty men dey run am. If everybody start to confess like this no be burn dis country go burn down?

Forget about your wife o! Those her tears are a trap. That woman will deal with you badly. I hope your stupid love didn't allow you put her names on the documents of the house? It is time you start keeping money aside for yourself. You will need it.

Why does your wifes sister seem to have so much say in your home? Can't you see that they have put you in the middle and playing kalu-kalu on your head? And in all you said I'm shocked your mother is still alive and watching all this nonsense unfold.

Your epistle is painful to read. And inside hangover wey I dey manage I still read all of am. The only thing that will reset your wifes brain is when she knows you have fallen in love with another woman. So go out there and look for that woman. You owe your wife nothing so long as she keeps serving you disrespect.

And about your child that you doubt the paternity of, what is the use of your money if by now you haven't done a DNA test? Be there whining like an efulefu. No just allow me insult you this morning o.

chukwudi44:


I am not the one in euphoria.say that to your colleagues who already salivating at their fantasies of Saraki's imaginary removal!!

You dont need to answer those who think through the anus of sentiments and childishness. In law court, it is the merit of the contending parties that matters. Some of them claiming holy holy here, will do worse if given mere church offering to handle. Your argument on why Saraki may win is very plausible. There even more holes I see from both the prosecution bench and the CCT itself.

chukwudi44:
Saraki will definitely triumph at the supreme court.I am not interested in what happens in Injustice Danladi Umar's court

Exactly! The case against the Senate President is pure persecution both by some political power block and some irresponsible and misguided media.

Thank you sir.

cherylstun:
Just an update to those who cant install videofx that was shared in the group,i just uploaded sparkol,which is an alternative.Enjoy

If You use SS, its better you go through kproxy. Zenmate will OVERRIDE your SS proxy setting which will expose your nigeria mtn IP.

cherylstun:


You cant use zenmate with simple server.

Go into a popular niche like article writing,video commercials and logos

You be frEe RidEr joor! :-). I dey gbadun you sha...

kayworld2:


Ooooh sorry am not here to promote product.

As Fiverr members you can exchange softwares here: https://www.nairaland.com/2422841/fiverr-business-softwares-exchanger

This thread above is to exchange tools e.g exchange what you have to get what you want.

Em em eh where ya ''Fisa" Charley

Ganoderma:


Charley,

How far nah!

Thank you sir.

Ganoderma:

Your number has been noted.
Training is on Saturday.

Em em you hit the hammer, sorry nail on the head... ie, we have options... Thanks

gametalk:


Oga Forget Payoneer and Paypal Saga. Move on to the next level.
Others are busy making money online and withdrawing with ease.
Fiverr has 2 Withdrawal options.
1. You can withdraw directly to your payoneer card or Fiverr Card and get your cash here in any NIGERIA ATM.
2. You can withdraw directly to you USA/DUBAI paypal without any hassle. Yet, you can withdraw here in Nigeria or Exchange the funds for Naira.
SO SIMPLE AND EASY! Dont complicate any issue here... This is 2015.

OP you have not added us o!

Hi, pls add me 08107390775. Thanks

Ganoderma:
10 new guys....

Yes I did. Nice job you are doing here to empower Nigerians. You will reap bountiful and fruitful rewards from this. Peace!

cherylstun:

Do you have access to the group now?

Thanks bro. Can I PM U here on FB?

cherylstun:

I have added you to the group...you will get all the support you need there

Good morning,
I want some guidance with the review exchange support; I've sent FB request. Thanks in advance.

cherylstun:


Thanks.If they can follow everything on this thread,they wont have problems.
This is what i do all the time and am already on my 4th account on fiverr.
We also have a facebook group for review exchange and support.

Awesome strategy you shared @OP. However its a nice thing for whoever will adopt it here to be smart as well and also command marketable skills. If not, they may muddle it up and start hunting you to HUG d Blame on U!

08107390775 . I wish to learn. Thanks

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meet a professional to conduct a feasibility study and possible a business plan and model for you IN YOUR LOCALITY. If you are serious in biz, U should give it d commitment it requires. [quote author=morason post=34953605][/quote]

You can do a name search online. Visit CAC site, fill details, pay N500 to designated bank. You will get other guide on d site.

femeritus:


Ok, tanx.

Hi, where are you base?

Nigeria36:
We need people that are creative in thinking for our operational team. We are currently building a business brand that will be known in every home and the country at large. The market is still virgin for us to penetrate, the return on invest(ROI) is very promising for our exploitation.
If u want to be a share owner and active member of our company; send your details to Siruconsult@gmail.com

I think he wants specific ideas that he can choose from...

BiggerBro:
Well there is no special business, you can make or lose money in any business. i have seen where guys go broke doing oil and gas seff even with the myth, if you will chose any business at all which could be anything, just make sure its well planned. That the right things and the right peopale are in place and the rest will just fall right. Also with 2 million i will suggest you invest in a business where you will have a good leverage and you will be able to plan and grow it all the way. To make it better, if the business does very well you can liquidate some of your assets in the business to invest in other businesses. Also you can also look towards riskless investments where you are not a part of the business and you will be paid in royalties after you have reached an agreement with the person or business that no matter what happens to the business he will pay you your capital first and even if the business crashes, he will be in your debt and on the other hand he pays you in royalties, no riskd attached. But dont invest in any big business now, the economic environment is still unpredictable and neither should you hold on to the money because, you lose money in value as the naira drops and loses its purchasing power.

Good and valid suggestion you gave.

PresidKing:
No need to create new thread, there are already threads on this kind of question. However I will give my two cent, there are couple of things you can do.
1. You can go into Importation. Check the internet and what you can get online.
2. You can go into Farming: Poultry, fish, Cucumber, snail, pigs, and what have you
3. You can invest in Properties, look for a cheaper lands that can cost from say #300k to #500k and get some plots, leave it for one year, it
will never remain the same
4. Look around your area, do a survey of what people really need, and go into it.
5. Read links below. You can draw some ideas from it, but you need to be involved directly in the business in order to start it first


https://www.nairaland.com/2274641/2015-investment-opportunity-insight-secrets
https://www.nairaland.com/2337224/what-business-start-just-n150000
https://www.nairaland.com/1487699/investment-opportunity-cassava-production-modified
https://www.nairaland.com/1341656/100-million-naira-invest
https://www.nairaland.com/2111692/amazing-financial-freedom-opportunity-2015

Well, just as I have detailed in bullets above, you need do the ASKING - Real Research. Not a desktop thing. I did suggest some steps as business, is subsumed as part of wider resource allocation system as ours.

dondo83:
the land is at kuje and it not the developed area. karu is a warehouse and it in the market

Hi Stadora, apology for the late response. I am in Sunnyvale estate. Reachable on 08107390775 BY call during normal human time and Whatsapp. My I had upfront that I design business model, business plan, marketing plan & related, feasibility study and other field & desktop research. My interest is about developing markets, the core value of any business.

stadora:

pls Wich part of abj re u, am in kado Estate

Its quite a good idea. I know several ''shared'' or multipurpose services (I alluded to it up thread) in Abuja with such as part of there business model. It thrives on good/accessible location with potential customers having paying capacity and of course a sound management. We are already in a sharing economy in Naija...

Often I hear/read similar questions like this.
My take sir:
1. You need to do the ASKING and ANALYSIS, i.e., Real RESEARCH - NOT Desktop Research sir!
2. By spending say between N30-N100k on such research, (a) asking say business people some selected businesses and (b) also asking potential buyers of these selected businesses and getting several reports, you will have clearer idea of which to establish. 7 to 14 days should be okay for this.
3. Should You settle for any based on (2) above, you will need do a proof of business concept to determine the economically viable market offer. 14 to 45 days
3. With (2) and (3) above, you will not only save the possibility of big loss in an unfamiliar business/market, but also gain the city market insights such as various markets, prices, players/agents/contacts/network, and some peculiar market challenges.
4. With the above, you can have a better level of assurance to do whatever business that will bring in profitable paying customers.
5. For instance, should someone say business X, or Y or Q is the best for one to go into, questions to ask the person is show us those who are making such money so as to get an idea of how they are delivering value to customers (i.e, their business plan). If, they cannot show us human being who run such, well, it may be poems for the deities . You need see evidence, me think for you to spend any money o.
6. Businesses that come to my mind right now, that can be tested in any viable location in Abuja include a business center (you will have advantage of doing your paper works and pursuing contracts market in Abuja), laundry services, multi-service centre (one with say gaming, viewing, saloon facilities), agric production (NOTE- good to start by buying and selling any of such before you go into actual production yourself) or even PARTNERING or BUYING out-rightly any existing business and restructuring it. It's all about the system/business model you setup to run any business you so settle for and of course, ACTION, being proactive!
7. Ultimately, the business you settle for should be one that you can develop interest in so as to contribute into its growth.
Sorry that I wrote lenghty - the answer requires many clarity/obstacles to arrive at sir!

I will suggest you do a CP/BA investment in any commercial bank. The interest may be small but, your money will be safe till you will be able to do the business you presumably have competence in and familiarity with its market dynamics.
If you are to invest such in any business now, the risk of loosing the money, to me is on the high side; 1. You may not have TIME, 2. You may not be able to get COMPETENT hand easily to assist You,and 3. finally You may not be able to Evaluate the Market because the short time frame.
However, to overcome this, You may have to ask around in your LOCALITY for a knowledgeable business researcher/consultant to quiz you further and also suggest what businesses are available in your domain after considering YOUR personal CONSTRAINTS.

Chai! Trekking don cast o!! I think we need ''port'' to Fasting ;-)

Your bias and paradigm are both baseless and repudiating... Are you insulting US who voted His Excellency, PMB, the Able leader of Africa and the entire Black Race?

kenbee:
is he now a peace ambassador or model?
I thought he once said "Dog and baboon will soak in blood" and that was the most violent election in Nigeria history. Now he is chairing peace talk meeting.

Your are welcome sir. Sincerely

Hello @all. My take on this:
1. Is the whole sum going to be capitalized for the business? If yes, it means 50 of you guys are co-owners of the business(es) accordingly. I am assuming, you guys can form a cooperative to have a more formal identity and structure.
2. You guys also have to determine whether you are employing others to carry out the business or you have competent manpower in the battalion of 50 men.
3. For a real business as you want, it is the market that SHOULD determine what you are to go into and also your collective resolution...
4. It means, you will need to have a REAL Business Developer/Researcher in your LOCATION/AREA/REGION to conduct REAL research/feasibility studies in order to determine A) what products or services the LOCAL PEOPLE are PAYING FOR (LARGELY IN CASH) and the viability of such.
5. In summary, Your location and current or potential future market needs should determine what you are to consider for business decision. It would be difficult for anyone here to tell you the right business if we dont know which LOCATION/AREA you are from; and most importantly, getting a business analyst/researcher/consultant(whatever label) to do a proper field work. Cheers

Goodmorning Gimakon, these countries you mentioned, developed because of their peculiar nature - for instance, USA was built from scratch by the immigrants who left their old world and culture which they dont like...; India with her staggering population is only responding to natural economic laws to speed up development (You cant have such population and be on merrymaking!); and Japan has a long history of innovation and organization ingrained in their culture. In my little experience in Nigeria, getting the right developer with right attitude is a big challenge. The problems are much to say the least. However, we need focus on solutions on way forward for Naija...