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Emdi1914:
See, you have to understand something..,as a man,it is more pleasurable to give than to receive.
This marriage thing is not for everyone.If you see 'providing' as hard labor,it is better not to marry, because providing for someone is more of pleasure than pain,I swear it is a blessing believe me.

Eagle1eye:
AI video is becoming more common now.
You’ll notice people using it for things like business ads, YouTube content (even without showing face), and video editing for clients. Some also use it to grow pages online.
It’s just another digital skill at the end of the day, like graphics or web design. Those who take time to learn it seem to be finding different ways to earn from it.
Still early for many people here, but it’s gradually picking up.

GrammarNazi1:
Livestreaming, especially when excessive, has certain negative consequences!

1. Heavy livestreamers don't get enough sleep, which could negatively impact on their health: high blood pressure, and diabetes!

2. Some of them have to take energy boosters such as energy drinks, which could still lead to the health issues mentioned in number 1 up there.

3. Blood clots: livestreamers usually sit for long hours, which could increase the chances of blood clots (This could be fatal).

Godmind2022:
Christianity has a very big role to play in every area of our lives. It makes life better. It brings peace and meekness to one and if one has peace within him or her, it will make one a good human.

We can't over emphasize that.

To answer your question, I guess your question implied how our fathers sustained their marriages before Christianity came. The traditional religions people practiced then also preached fear of God from which comes tolerance, honesty, faithfulness to marriage vow, respect for one another etc. Apart from that, these were the days people married based on recommendations. These recommendations were also based on those qualities mentioned above.

inoki247:
Lol sending Email Baba fit dey leave trail Incase in future if divorce wan go show....


Evidence go too dey.....

Godmind2022:
1. Open communication:

This is where matters are discussed without bias, without pointing fingers, without reference to past misdeeds, except you bring up your own misdeeds/mistakes first before hers/his, if it is absolutely necessary.

2. Don't attempt to change your partner if there is no danger or loss involved:

No two persons think the same way all the times. Make room for differences

3. Forgiveness is a must:

There must be offences but forgive. Nobody is perfect, even you.

4. Emphaty is key:

When you ask for sex, and your spouse says no, for example, she is not doing that out of trying to get at you or trying to deny you. Always put yourself in the shoe of the other person. Nobody likes being woken up in the middle of the night when the sleep is deep.

5. Fear of God:

This is the foundation for other secrets and if your spouse is not born again, this would be hard. Fear of God makes one to be submissive, cooperative, understanding, faithful, honest, transparent and helpful.

Pootle:
he cant fix the fire in LP but wants to fix nigeria

angelboy01:
I used to work in this company. Omoh I know believe this o. Lol

Coronavirus1:
That’s how they are also doing in Nigeria

iwaeda:
I have said it crimes are sponsored by many corporate organisations, knowingly or not.

Angelfrost:
If I talk now, people wey dem born yesterday go begin dey call me names...!

Some even call me ancestor when I speak against the abuse of the social media space.


Everything don become content na...! Even p0rn is no longer a grey area or forbidden thing: it's now all over the social media space.

Y'all should continue hustling for the crumbs that Zuckerberg and Musk are tossing around.

I wish you all well!

spiceadole:
So despite all the bragging on social media, men okokos are still planning on getting married.
This one wants to spend 3 million naira for the same marriage that they claim they do not have anything to benefit from.
Unbelievable!

ariesbull:
Tell him the truth and stop deceiving him! 2 hours ruinations isn't good be it in Russia or Northern Canada


Ask him the lifestyle and what he eats...you know eat lots of junks there and GM foods and rarely do exercise and can't even pay for gym membership

lightwind:
I drink a lot of water, and i pee a lot too

MichaelTokunboh:
Waking up to pee every 2 hours is a dangerous occurrence & frequency!
That's a sigh of a weak or failing kidney.
Kindly go for check up ASAP.
Short bursts of sleep at night isn't a good thing either, your sleep cycles need to be longer.
Thank you 🙏

kelechi50:
Inside life of a married OS.

We4all:
What if she was hypnotized and kidnapped by the man? In Nigeria, anything is possible.

Desusi:
A serious issue in Nigeria.How can the nation's capital be lacking anti - venom in their hospitals? No be juju be that? Who bewitched and cast spells on this country?

Kingsley34:
The major problem be say if this thing bite u just know say na death remain cos this country no get anti venom for their hospital

BrightAhiah99:
Someone should help us and summarize the scenario, what really happened?

Akalia:
My post reads folly to you because you lack the depth of mental maturity to grasp its underlying moral story.

Not your fault, perhaps one day you would understand.

Jman06:
Lol.... this reminds me of my argument with a babe here. She said that one of the reasons why men should carry the burden of providing for their wives is that she changed her surname to his. I then asked her if she'll be willing to carry that responsibility if I change to her own surname and she started the game of shaming me for not being a "real man". I just laughed

SIRTee15:
First it's insulting to say your wife added no value to your life. She gave u 2 kids that bears YOUR NAME. THAT PRESERVES YOUR LEGACY.
She just doesn't sit down at home doing nothing, she is raising your kids, keeping the house clean, cooking you good home made meals and satisfying your urge at night at your beckon. That is something and u dont pay her for it, do you?
forcing her to do business when she has no entrepreneurial skills or background history in business acumen shows it's your fault not hers. She may be well adapted to routine desk job rather than commerce. ask her first how she wants to add extra income to the house not just pushing your ways on her.

Finally, whether u like it or not. It's your duty to provide for your home. THAT IS YOUR GOD GIVING RIGHT DUTY AS A MAN TO PROVIDE FOR YOUR HOME OTHERWISE U ARE WORSE THAN AN INFIDEL- NA BIBLE TALK AM.
Being a man isnt about attending to the needs of your testosterone urge or packing 5 shoulders up and down. What makes u a man is your ability to take care of yourself, another man's daughter and your kids.
whatever your wife brings in is just an adjuvant, u are not expected to rely on it.

I think it's high time we really need to change the orientation of our men in southern Nigeria, because I dont understand how u cant feed your family and the next thing that comes to your mind is to blame your wife....instead of u to DOUBLE YOUR HUSTLE AND KEEP GRINDING.

come to uk, south asian men dont even allow their wives to work, yet na dem get property pass even more than africans that both couple work.
Men better learn to work hard, disruptive AI is coming that will wipe out more than half of all jobs in labour market. At that time, a man will even be lucky to get job not to talk a house wife.

PissInside:
A whole lot of men are going to marry nonsense in this generation.

No wonder a lot of newly married men are now looking old,depressed and aggressive.

Akalia:
God will provide you with an opportunity to earn a very good salary. I was once in your shoe, all i needed was a way better job and it miraculously came my way at the appointed time.
Today, comfortably no matter how much I spend in running the family every month, I still have a great deal of balance to split between my personal savings and my frivolities.
Your wife is not a problem-please never see her as one else the devil will start feeding you with negative thoughts that will drive you to acting untoward to your wife.

Yes, she may not be economically productive but she is still very useful in other areas in the marriage, so don't go hard on her. She can't do what she doesn't have the capacity to do.
I pray that God will come through for every responsible married man that is struggling financially, Amen.
OP please be intentional about getting closer to GOD. What you really need is a miraculous breakthrough and not necessarily your wife's supporting effort towards financing your home.