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englishmart:
Work on your self-esteem, bro.

You must be joking !! But on a very good day you will understand.. Las las every Lady ain't the same, on both sides there are good and bad

Why are they looking like this??

Because its a drainage ,,and I don't want to beautify or find a perfect spot before taking it

Next question pls!!

Ishilove:
Why is this place so filthy?

What exactly is ur point ?? Cos I can't see one..So if the government that you elected
Isn't doing the needful ,you shouldn't speak up??
Am not an IPOB ,but an Igbo and feel the hardship .I am not fighting rather am speaking up cos we are fed up with the way things are going,period!!

COSGABAT2023:
Exactly my thoughts, very senseless moves coming from some bunch of senseless jobless folks. You cannot fight Federal Government, very senseless people. Next time you tell your king Kanu not to display criminal acts. Ran away from 9ja and stupidly came to Kenya because of some money support.

Na how we see am ,if e be red mud like your village. I for no reply you,,kpele !!!

shigishege:
Oga make wna manage am like that. Abi no be wna wants a supreme leader?? So what do you expect?? But how come all wna street for onitcha come be eyesore like this??

Lol do I have to lecture you on figures of speech As though if every Igbo come abj ,it will contain them

jmoore:
After bragging about flooding Abuja in millions. You decided to apply superglue to sit at home.

Nobody is clapping rather it shows solidarity...you for say billions

jmoore:
Why are some folks clapping for the closure of the market? Is it an achievement?

I expected Millions of Ipob members near the court in Abuja today.

Intelligent mugu ,wallow in pains

Ekpeitit:
Who cares about Onitsha?

Mumu people,go to Abuja and protest.

Nottidge by Johnson street,main market Onitsha. Everybody is being sent out of the market

Where you take see the masked men??

SGANIVA:
Reporting from onitsha awada,owerri road ,
How is your side this morning as unknown masked man Take over some area in onitsha

Laslasticlala

Onitsha main market is closed today. Every trader is heading back home .

Biggest market in west Africa, is closed .

I wish am near you, make I give you resounding slap.
You are angry because he doesn't want to join you church. If na me eeeh!! You will even stop that your Pentecostal church and join Catholic before I marry you. I hate religious fanatics.

You be iti

AlphaAlex:
Only fools will believe NASA and their photoshop and CGI trash they deceive the masses with year in and year out . Which Venus smelling lies

WEB STORAGE
this topic just gave me better headache in HTML still need to understand it better
I need help ooo

Kobojunkiee:
I hope they are on treatment please.

They were initially on medication when my dad was alive. To even take the med na war.. We just working assiduously to make money and take them to better psychiatrics. But they ain't violent anymore and can communicate

Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

Experiencing same with two of my eldest brothers, though they are now calm but can't do anything other than eat

Unknown8:
Hey guys, hope y'all good.

So there's this wound on my big toe, which developed by itself, just like that. I've been suffering this injury for more than a year now.

I've taken many medications and treatments, all to no avail. I've met 4 deferent doctors, who apparently do not know what that is or how to treat it, they just dress it and prescribe some medicine, and that's it.

I just discovered recently that it's an Ingrown Toenail, after some research on the internet. And according to what I read, it needs a surgery to remove the Ingrown Nail, but all the doctors I've met do not know what an Ingrown Toenail is, and they usually tell me that it doesn't need a surgery.

Guys pls, this thing is really painful. I can't even walk properly with it. If you are a doctor here who knows about this, I beg you to not ignore this post

If you have experience something like this or know someone who has, pls tell me how to treated it. Thank you so much.

It will mean a lot if this thread could reach the front page to gain more views. Pls I really need any help I can get. Thank you!

It happened to me last month,,after searching the internet and discovering what it is.
Mine was even releasing pus everyday, I have to spread the skin from the nail and slowing cut the ingrowth nails in the flesh ..
I did it everyday till every of the nail was visibly outside and the flesh dried

Unknown8:
Hey guys, hope y'all good.

So there's this wound on my big toe, which developed by itself, just like that. I've been suffering this injury for more than a year now.

I've taken many medications and treatments, all to no avail. I've met 4 deferent doctors, who apparently do not know what that is or how to treat it, they just dress it and prescribe some medicine, and that's it.

I just discovered recently that it's an Ingrown Toenail, after some research on the internet. And according to what I read, it needs a surgery to remove the Ingrown Nail, but all the doctors I've met do not know what an Ingrown Toenail is, and they usually tell me that it doesn't need a surgery.

Guys pls, this thing is really painful. I can't even walk properly with it. If you are a doctor here who knows about this, I beg you to not ignore this post

If you have experience something like this or know someone who has, pls tell me how to treated it. Thank you so much.

It will mean a lot if this thread could reach the front page to gain more views. Pls I really need any help I can get. Thank you!

It happened to me last month,,after searching the internet and discovering what it is.
Mine was even releasing pus everyday, I have to spread the skin from the nail and slowing cut the ingrowth nails in the flesh ..
I did it everyday till every of the nail was visibly outside and they flesh dried

Inec officer right now

ebuka10box:
been dating this girl for a while ,we have had our ups and downs but we settled. I plan to get married to her when I get back by God's grace . I noticed she wants to get married by all means,note:she is 27.
today ,I wanted to try her loyalty and submissiveness. I decided to give her number to a friend ,guess what ..... she denied me , I dont feel bad at all but tired of searching....
omo this girl use me play gg2.5 lolz...... imma take a break rn

What if she carry your number give her own babe,bros you fit stand ?
You won't have fvcked her friend in space of two days??

1. Babies are born not children
2.no matter the height the eggs will crash
3.you can't split without touching them

I had this experience, on my birthday my guy wanted to take a girl out which he don't normally do,but decided to it on my birthday.
As we reached the eatery he went down with the girl and ordered food,i told him to include chicken or Turkey..

While waiting ,them kukuma carry two plates arrive ..the guyman told me that he is not hungry that he ate at home,that me and the girl should eat while he watch
Immediately I noticed what happened, I quickly rebuked him,taking out cash from my pocket and told him to get something for himself..
I laughed tire that day,he have spent every money he have there ,after I later balanced him every penny he spent cos its my birthday and he was trying to impress the girl.

I was just chatting with a long time friend...something popped up and I was like "awww dear ,on a very good day I will send you money for sharwama"
The next day darling and sweetheart started flying everywhere ,I was like you don see mugu na..I just dey look am .the next day she greeted me ,something that has been very hard for her and the next I heard was "you should borrow me money and its big shaaa"
I laugh tire, I told her "I have previously had bad experience with borrowing ,that I don't do it".
But thinking about it I wanted to help out and chatted her up ,she replied once then started acting funny and stopped replying..

N.B they are only ur sweetheart when they have something to gain from you,,when the benefits stops ,you are in ur own oooo

Have been in that kind of situation....while trying to forget about a girl I really loved cos she was older than me,my first lover.
I tried distracting myself with a girl in the street where my workplace is located.
Firstly,she requested my fb username and we started chatting. And this girl poured out all her dirty secrets of her previous life style and runs to me.
Meeeeen!!! I was like "woow" this made me to respect her even more and liked her. Due to my policy of giving what I can afford to lose and not doing pass myself,I help the way I can without asking anything in return cos i wouldnt want her back to that old ways and she pressured me for sex and I declined due to my own reasons.
After much pressure abt sex with no avail, I noticed she has changed to her old ways..She wouldn't try calling to know ur welfare and every time my phone rings with her calling what comes to mind is what "what does she want this time". After the usual how far the next thing is she asking for favour.
My guy,nobody adviced me to run ooo.Someppl won't just change they mentality.
Your girl dey carry paste dey walk upandan I fear wetin no go dey that her bag,FEAR THEM!!!

Your problem is one good slap...
But as they say" one good slap deserves another"....mtcheeew move on joor

You want to stop masturbation and start fu*king the real thing .my dear ,go hustle joor church don blow ur mind

soulwin4life:
I was a little bit timid why growing up, I found out that things don't usually work out well with me and the opposite gender, I always feel cheated and some kind of, so one day I was sitting alone and discovered that I was feeling some kind of Hot. To cut the long story short that was how the issue of masturbation en kindled me. But I discovered something then I lived a very stagnant life, I hardly have any goal accomplished, I will pray to God, cry, beg and fast still nothing changed. Immediately those act came and I perform it, it will be as if they have taken my joy away, I will be unnecessarily unhappy, I couldn't help myself then and I keep on repeating one particular goal. Life was just a messed up for me then that I even attempted suicide more than ten times.

Until I decided to listen to gospel giving myself wholly to God, I prayed to God to help me out as I couldn't help myself, because people including my relation always mock and take me as someone that have nothing to contribute, even when important issue emerge I hardly come to mind, sometimes I will sat down to imagine how I have been working so hard with no result, I hardly keep money, I don't even know sometimes how money use to vanish from my hand, in fact the whole thing may not be compiled in one note.

As I seek the face of God I prayed I refuse to allow those evil thought cross my mind, and the moment I started to abstain from it things started changing.

I can testify today that masturbation left me and I discovered who I am.

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.

I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have seen each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.

The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excuse. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she is crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.

She is begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet married. In fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are yet to marry.

Note, we are getting married this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

What do you advice me to do.

Op ,I have to say my own. You just trusted this girl and she is playing with ur intelligence.
You are her ATM.
A person that doesn't value you enough to come know ur place. Don't be surprised if you guys are strolling and you ask her ur surname and she doesn't know , yet you guys want to marry

Nice initiative, very commendable. But I can only 60units here

Wickedness 6mil!!! For wetin na.you wan make he call him ancestors

From my perspective, though I haven't heard her husband side.
I just can't understand how the man can pull all this stunts without her knowing ,whereas you guys live in the same apartment.
But the only thing I know for sure ,is that you pay heed to ur job than to your husband,for goodness sake he is your husband!!!
Now I feel like he left you so you can focus well with your job.but if you ask me,I dont believe he has traveled out.
He probably have rented out an apartment in ajegunle. And you don't even care about him self being back,you sure say you still love him