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MzPecs:
Guy you dey hot oh!

not necessary means hot. but aura

[quote author=Ginaz post=41026679][/quote]whatever you feel is up to u? I know the sun bear me witness.

Chidoks:
Dear Mr Hot,are you telling all? There's something you do to make her want to visit you.If she follows you around,it simply means you enjoy her presence though you may have told her off.but you get time o,first day in church and all you noticed were the babes that were dying for you.hmmmm...

you are wrong to think that I gave her some time and enjoy this stuff. I really don't. you might want to ask why she was scared to get close to me for sometime because she is not sure of my reaction.

I am asking for a line to put her off. I way from me without sounding rude, if it were a girl it would have been easier for her to sound rude to a guy. I need a line of phrase.

NayaNdupu,

thanks, I want to call u so I can get some assurance. and I don't know if I can call you now or tomorrow morning?

I am just returning from the hospital and after my complaint and explanation the doctor increase the drugs back to two at night. my fear is if the things happening to my eyes is not a dangerous threat.
cause it scared the hell out from me.

as regards to the things I see in the dark. it happens when I open my eyes from sleep. not on closed eyes but open eyes. and it only happens when I newly work up from sleep. at about 30 seconds to 60/seconds it get clear off.

or just when I put on the light everything will get normal.

example is it form something scaring or strange from existing object. from closet. cotton, pillow you name it. just anything. just like when u are trying to form something out from the sky, moon, clouds etc. seeing things in the dark that is not real. colors. red blue white yellow etc in darkness.

the constant noise volume has increase and other formal symptoms as a result from moving from two at night to one at night.

the doctor said I will need to take it for along time. now I am going back to two at night.

thanks dear

dear nayandupu,

I think I finally find the name to what I am experiencing and told you about. and not blurred vision as you have said, it is "hallucinations" I was able to dig this out from my research online. when I woke up at night it only happens in the dark. I see things entirely deferent (scaring moving images from things around in the dark) and it only get cleared after some several seconds or if I put on the light. it less or increases from days to days, it improve sometimes or increase some times, though not knowing its due to with light in or light out. another thing is that light shone as i can't look it or look close to it directly with my eye if newly woke up.

and I also figured out that the doc reduce the drugs from previous two at night to one at night from last visit. initially for a week I was taking two until I saw that it was now written 1 at night instead of the usual two. so I then shift to one at night.


today is my appointment day. I will be going there and also to explain. during this period of taking one a day. sometimes it felt like the headache is gradually coming back with some of it past sensation or feeling. I am getting tired of it complications as I can't just wait till this whole things goes away if out all it will. I will be the happiest dude cause it feel to just end the life at times.

my fear is this will ever goes away. and what time exactly the drug already producing side effect. getting irritating and annoyed especially the buzzing nose and leg sensation and head zap.

I am just too tired

thanks

Oh Well, to start with I am attending this new church not quite long, and from my first day in church service it happened that dozens of ladys had crushes on me.


And I have made up my mind not to have anything to do with the church lady's and not that I am too holy, but perhaps I have not seen any one I am into. among all the girls that is crushing on me from left and right there is only two that is making it too obvious. Although one is manageable but the other one I am sick and tired. She is the reason I am opening this thread, its her story so I will only tell about her part.

Here is the girl name withhold, she is in choir and in drama group very confident girl. The first day she saw me in church the service has not started so the choirs were rehousing a choir song seems to me they were re memorising it, her eye balls were on me so badly to the extent she forgot herself. The choir leader had to call her name and tell her what her you looking at, and start telling her why her mind is not there but looking someone, it was so embarrassing.

But it didn't end there, could you believe that after another lady keep disturbing me on my seat I was forced to get up as she was hitting my chair from back. Then this choir girl walk up to me with a hand shake, well I return the hand and next she introduced herself with her name which I tell her mine also. And I make sure it end there as I didn't ask anything further and not even her number, so when she sees weren't talking then she left.

To be frank with you this is where it all begins.
Ever since then this girls had been a pest to me all around after church closes. I keep turning her offer down. A blind lady will knows that this brother here is not interested in anything with her. Not that she toast me but she want me to spend time after closing, she want me to join youth group she want me to do this and she want to do that, you know that kind Christian brother things. I am not interested.

From my mood and from my facial reaction at least she could have got the message. There was a day she was asking for my number I refuse she keep begging and begging I said I don't see any reason to give you my number.

One day after service she said she want to follow me home, I told her i am not going home, she said okay she will follow me to wherever I am going. It took me a lot of minutes to finally discharge her, after I keep explaining where I am heading to. She said its not fair oh for the things I am doing to her that I keep maltreating her.

As a result of that I move straight to another direction to an hotel reception to relax, the truth is I was actually heading home but because of her I had to move to another direction.


What happened yesterday is what made me to open this thread. Yesterday after service she said why I hate her so much with a kind of calmly voice. I was shocked. My reply Me hate you? she said yes that ever since she had been scared to come to me. ( the truth is I have been avoiding her, after I fall her hand from crowd place in front of Church members she has not been able to come to me again when there is crowd, and I always use the opportunity to discharge myself when there is crowd since she want to follow me home, cause I know she will come to me if I am alone).

Next she said if i had a gun I will just shoot her from the way I am doing towards her, that I just hate her to the extent I don't want to even see her, but the truth is I love her not to even want to have anything to do with her.

, look here not that she is a minor maybe around 21-22 but we are not near in terms of age. I have upper hand to use this girl as I like anyhow From her stubbornness towards me but I think I have done everything I need to do to avoid her, I don't know which other line I am not using. Someone.. Anybody please help me with a line!!!


To cut the story short, while I was making her understand that I don't hate her and I don't have any reason to hate her, in her reply she told me sorry for what she said and next she said she will pay me a visit one of this days, a sudden visit. I was in total confused and calm. She said what do I think and I replayed no problem.


I can easily get to this girl pant as I like the fact she is so disparate. But me being the fact I am matured and i know what I am doing. I know she will be blindfolded to do anything I ask from her. But I don't like her a bit to even think to do such.


This brother here need a line to avoid this girls. She said she will pay me visit and she will do it someday. That is what I am against and also thinking.

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gpercuxionz:
download traffic racer and thank me later

thanks bros yes it is what I am looking for.

akinlaso:
Its traffic racer

thanks bro. yes it is. I don't know how to thank you. for many months I have been for it. two bottle of beer..

best2com:
No vex.

Are you using Legitimate or Illegitimate data?

which or is legitimate and illegitimate data. I paid a month bis

it download at a speed between 20 - 5 kb per sec.
I am frustrated for days now, tried several browser's but no help.

slap1:
Real Truck Park / Dr Driving

thanks, but not this one. its a car driving a 3D but also have truck in selection of car.

solomonsojay:
car or bike...


LAND FOR SALE!!!

its both car and lorry driving not racing.

I once had it on my phone in 2014. I have forgotten the name. I have been looking for it for the past months.

the camera view is from the top. it has brake and acceleration pad including left and right control pad on screen.

you drive through the road escaping cars and lorry left and right.

anyone with useful information should help.

its a car and lorry driving game

after communicating with a year old kid with facial reaction. several kid respond differently. some kid do not get scared from dimm eye and scaring facial contact.
do you think this is a learnt behavior.?


crying

scaring
quite
smart

confused
surprise
sad

angry
laughing hard
happy
smile and eyed
smile

Michellla:
so why are you angry the girl came to distract?

in what part of the post did you find I was angry? I said I never wanted to toast her. not even toasting anymore babe this December. had to finish with the one on ground.

cc: lalasticlala come here others need to learn.

Michellla:
na yansh dey pain you.

as I said no intention to toast her.

oh well, only want to share what happened an hour ago. on my way going somewhere fully kitted up. I decide to get airtime on my phone, I went to a shop to buy card and met this girl with big behind which I request for Glo.

to cut the story short she was actually helping me to scratch the cards even without me asking her for help. I was actually busy loading the card one after the other. the way we were together anyone around could easily believe I have something more than just buying a card. the truth is I have no intention of toasting her at all.


but when one of her friend saw us together, she quickly came and distracting us. she keep talking to her with some useless gist on how she see the weather and the idiot didn't even notice what was happening that her friend is up to something. she keep responding to her, next she said Christmas done come oh and no money, she replied I tire oh.


i am here not because I wanted to toast her but I notice what was happening. I am only worried for her for a guy who might be serious in toasting her and what she could miss out.

I just have the thought that maybe others need to be aware of their friends behavior. word of advice.

cc: lalasticlala

Blue balls are when you become sexually aroused but don't orgasm/ejaculate, causing discomfort.
A more technical explanation:


" "Blue balls" is a slang term referring to testicular aching that may occur when the blood that fills the vessels in a male's genital area during sexual arousal is not dissipated by orgasm.


When a man becomes sexually excited, the arteries carrying blood to the genital area enlarge, while the veins carrying blood from the genital area are more constricted than in the non-aroused state.


This uneven blood flow causes an increase in volume of blood trapped in the genitals and contributes to the penis becoming erect and the testicles becoming engorged with blood. During this process of vasocongestion the testicles increase in size 25-50 percent.


If the male reaches orgasm and ejaculates, the arteries and veins return to their normal size, the volume of blood in the genitals is reduced and the penis and testicles return to their usual size rather quickly.


If ejaculation does not occur there may be a lingering sensation of heaviness, aching, or discomfort in the testicles due to the continued vasocongestion. This unpleasant feeling has popularly been called blue balls, perhaps because of the bluish tint that appears when blood engorges the vessels in the testicles.


The condition usually does not last long and the level of pain associated with blue balls is usually minor and can be exaggerated. Most men have been socialized to ejaculate when they get an erection during sexual activity. Failure to ejaculate and to feel orgasm often adds frustration and disappointment to the reality of the physical sensation.

Men who believe that they should ejaculate every time they have an erection are likely to exert pressure on their partner to proceed with sex without taking her feelings into consideration.
Some men find that masturbation is a viable solution and are realizing that ejaculation is not a requirement in every sexual situation.

This attitude allows both men and their partners to relax more and to learn that pleasure and meaning can exist without having to reach ejaculation and orgasm during every sexual encounter.


Men are not alone in experiencing the discomfort of unrelieved vasocongestion. Women's genitals also become engorged with blood during sexual arousal and, like their male counterparts, women can experience pelvic heaviness and aching if they do not reach orgasm."

if I were you. I will not marry India man. haven stayed in India before myself. I can categorically tell you that Indians are big time racist to Africa blacks. you can't fit in into their society don't even think it, his family will never be happy with you this also applies to Chinese people to Africa as well. they have bad misconceptions about Africans. they see Africa as backwards people just the same way they respect whites. some sees Africa's as God punishment to bad people who ones live on earth. it's commonly easy for Africa man to marry India girl than for India man to marry Africa. except you will live with him all the rest of your life in Lagos.

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Idydarling:
op is jobless, if he wasn't, he wouldn't be hanging at her office 24/7

can you give me a job?

thanks for your response, but the fact you insult my person I do not accept that. you must have type so many things from your imaginations but I think you are some how far from it.

first of all I am not adolescent I am a man. I might be seen as selfish or wicked towards lady's in
general but due to my experience many years back. now I only consider myself first in any relationship, what I want. to satisfy my self yes me only and no body else.

there is a place I normally visit that's is close to her office more like anytime I go there I branch her place. if I don't branch her office there will be problem from her if she learnt about it. bitc.h is not an insult it is just a way to describe disparate girls.

she has an interest in me. i have interest also but my interest is not a good one that was why I use all efforts to stay away but it seems its not working. while I was trying to avoid it even in the detriment of my person cause she must have thought that i am not man enough which I never mind either. but now everything falls on my face.




now its to my own advantage if anything goes wrong I am not to be blame. her interest might just be similar to mine who knows.

5minsmadness:
This will make a very good case presentation
cc Mindfulness, timboktou, pickabeau1

I am going to assume this is a true story.

It is obvious from the op's post that he is a young fella, probably an adolesecent or just out of his teens. He seems to spend an awful lot of time at "her office" for someone who is not attracted to her. It could most likely be joblessness or it could be that he hangs around to catch feelings from the girl and enjoy the attention she showers on him.

Also,it is obvious he has no genuine feelings for her except selfish ones. He hardly respects her (or women generally) hence his use of the word bi.tch to address the female of his species.

She on the other hand, is obviously borderline obsessed with him. She has not hidden her feelings and is in fact brazen enough to ask a guy that has repeatedly shown his lack of respect for her person out for a relationship.

I will tag him as an effeminate fellow since he sees no qualms in depending on a lady for financial assistance, he is an opportunist and is obviously hanging around her for the economic gains he will reap. He has no manly pride.

However, can we say this lady who is old enough to work in an office (even if as a photocopier in a buisness centre) is not aware of what she is going into? can we absolve her of all responsibility? She has been repeatedly shot down but insists on maintaining the rleationship and is now excited that he "pressed her boobs" . Is it not obvious what she wants? Are we now to totally blame this selfish op if he takes advantage of her as he most likely will and then use her as much as he can before dumping her since she was never his specs in the first place? Are we going to tag this lady as being mentally and emotionally unstable?

In summary, who are we to blame for the immaturity and indecisiveness in both parties? what can be done, what advise can be given to avert the disaster that is looming? Tomorrow this girl will find that she has been used and will start shouting rape, that she didnt know what she was doing, that all men are beasts, meanwhile all the warning lights were shone right in her eyes.

And who do we blame for this man's seeming lack of manly pride? what is to be done?

Good morning.

KashyBaby:
Lol....buying a viagra for a guy to use? This is crazy!
Why ladies spend to buy viagra when they can bone that guy & find a new one who can have a horse power OP

I have a friend who has this girl. anytime she is coming she come with Alamo. my guy knows all she want is sex. she already had a child and has no man. she always come for it and my guy knows he is helping her as a result of this my guy treat her like trash and always use her head. he knows she will always come back.. he collect her money and bang her anyhow. some girls want their guy on drugs during bed time.

Every woman dream is to have a perfect man with perfect qualities (full options), the option of very good in bed is inclusive so let us not deceive ourselves. But it's so very unfortunate that most men can't have all the qualities. This option make most girls keep several men for different qualities. So right now I will only list the sex quality.

Here are 6 signs to note that she is only using you for sex.

1, She always wants you to talk dirty on the phone:. When all she want from you on the phone is to talk spoilt and dirty gist every time.

2, She doesn't bother you for cash:. When a girl only sees you as sex partner the chances for her to demand money from you is very low.

3, She does not talk future with you:. she always goes mute each time you raise anything futuristic gist, she will never contribute anything to it.

4, She only comes to your house when she is sex starved:. the minutes she enter your house she goes Straight to your bed and start cuddling you.

5, When she buys you Viagra:. anytime she is coming to your house she always come with Viagra or other sex performing drugs. Or she might demand that you buy them.

6, When she wants you to drink alcohol:. anytime she is around she want you to be high. She can even sacrifice her money to buy you some wine just for you to get tipsy.

7, When she still comes to you after getting married to someone else:. yes the fact she is married to someone else yet she still come to you for cuddling or sex.

Let me stop here. You can add yours

no no. I will not allow that. I should handle it all. I have a reason...

how did you end up in dating him at the first place? a signs the handsome guys are not forth coming by. so with no option you decide to hang around with him. I would want to have a doubt about your beauty claims. men go after beautiful girls even with bad character. i know your boyfriend is ugly and you need handsome guy but what more do you need from a guy outside of handsome,? I am sure when you finally find that handsome guy you will find some other excuse. by the way most handsome guys has no regards for girls hope you will not end up with one who will treat you like trash and come here to complain again. my advice is to leave that guy. don't bother staying around since the guy already hoping for marriage.

is pastors not humans? please kindly remove the word pastor. better like this a 17 years old rape and murdered a 14 years old.

thread closed

op go to sexuality section. search deep and deep you will see some thread there we have dealt with this case many years ago. around 2006-2007-2008 although with my former id.

there is something i teach or did to a girl who end up never want to leave me again. at first she never allow me to do it. but when i forced my way to do it to her she end up not wanting my dick penetration again but that thing constantly. she has high sex drive so she keep Cummin multiple times without my dick or having me to wine waiste to penetrate her.

there are secret things God hide in every individual one can only learnt them through exploration. squeeze your woman don't be scared explore her. draw her hair lick and breath hot breath with your mouth on her ear. press her ass. play with her clitoris. wine her pvssy with you lap. you don't even need to penetrate to satisfy her.


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