₦airaland Forum

chocorex:
I don't think so, if the man was a bully and a monster like you said, he'd have killed the woman for having an affair and for the op he would have killed him too. the man isn't here to defend himself.

I have not met her in person at the time. She searched for me on social media. So, we had no affair.

Asowari:
well wat did she do that makes him to beat her?

In the chat, she kept saying she wouldn't stop loving me. And told me how she became the man's wife. Sensing the problem will be more felt by her children, I blocked her from all forms of contact. I even stopped returning to my hometown(city) where she lives when I was billed to start a work there so dt we won't meet again. That was in 2014. She divorced him in 2016 and we met again last month.

khiaa:
He's already beating her daily so how would you call that a marriage? The guy was a monster from the start and so are the girls parents.

When we met and I understood that this would cause a big problem for her, I severed every contact with her. That was in 2014. We met this year again, and she's divorced.

phayvoursky:
After she got married why didn't you stay clear?


You wanted this, now you have have it, what else do you want again?

Abi you want to destroy our own marriages?

How old are you? Where in the post did you read that? Jobless f00l forming married.

Earthbound:
I knew it! Iyawo o ni iyawo ni o ma n dun mo yin. I know your type. Home breaker!!!

It seems you have problems with comprehension or you just wish to be daft?

lefulefu:
Hope u not the reason wey her marriage crash?..hmm four kids..da lord is ur strength.

I'm the reason. We met in high school but I didn't woo her. She was a virgin. The man raped her and was surprised dt she was a virgin. The rape led to pregnancy and parents sent her to the man. The man then truly fell in love. But when we met again, everything covering her eyes disappeared. The man found out from our chats and beating to stupor on daily basis began.

Earthbound:
My culture doesn't allow me to insult the elderly. You'd have had an earful.

How can you be sure of this?

The situation that led to her having four kids before her marriage crashed was beyond control. There are also solid reasons why the marriage will never work again. She's madly in love with me. I'm older than her.

As it stands today, if she doesn't feel me in a day, she feels suicidal. I'm the reason why the marriage failed because it started in high school but I didn't woo her.
Do you think we should let it lead to marriage?

KOPT55:
Lol. I used to have someone like her. He mom sells amala and ogufe in our area. She used to serve my food with so much love and care. Always made me eat very very well. Sometimes, when I am going there, I buy her small gifts under 1k. Those gifts were the conditioner because she used to go gaga after each one.

It all ended the day I took my girlfriend to eat there! I started regretting why I took my girl there.

I think she is feeling of a loss. I asked you to serve food that's worth N200 and you served the one worth N300; that one no concern me and I no send. She's a minor too. I'm just wondering what her problem is.

BeingFrank:
War Of Love. You've Answered The Question Already, Throw Your Bullet Too.

She has not my specs. I'm just taking my time to know how best to make her regret what she's doing. "If you have to hurt someone, let it be very deep. You need not fear his revenge." That quote is my favorite.

I use to buy food in her mother's restaurant. Whenever I request for two morsels of meat, she would put three. It had been like that for months.

Since last month, she would frown whenever she sells food to me. Yesterday, she hissed after handing a plate of pounded yam to me. I know she should be reported to her mother, but I like to know what my offense is first. I also don't want to stop patronizing them because the restaurant is the best in the area.

Wiseandtrue:
N13.5M as a running cost not even salary

And they say Nigeria is poor

What is the need to borrow money when you can comfortably afford to pay N13.5M to each member of the Senate without blinking

Why borrow to pay workers when senate are receiving this side money

How can Nigeria be well when pensioners who worked to serve the country are still in tears in old age

No wonder all Nigerian senate cannot proffer any solution

If not how can they be there and this great injustice is melted out to those they are there to represent and they all kept quiet

And the federal government is dashing the masses free lassa fever treatment while the few lazy ones are embezzling our money

and they say we should be praying for our leaders

Someone collecting N18,000 minimum wage should be praying for those collecting N13.5M side money

This country is a joke!

Thank God they are treating lassa fever for free. I managed to graduate from the University with hearing impairment. Now I can't get jobs because interviewers get to know about the impairment. In saner countries, hearing aids are given free of charge. Though it's very costly, the question is: do we have up to 500 people that need hearing aids in Nigeria? No. I don't pray for God to judge again because I know He will surely not judge them.

mkpurumma090:
Okay... But watch your mouth

The person you quoted said a fact. No need to watch his mouth.

36STATES:
May God punish you and your father there.

This thing pain u well. No commit suicide o

BluntTheApostle:
There is nothing like pastoral calling. There is no indication of "special calling" for pastors in the Bible.

So, every Christian may choose to be a pastor of a church?

midolian:
Learn to make your comments without bringing religion into it..we were all human before our choice of religion.

The religion supports the man in this. Timing is not stated in the Quran.

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lollybabe9498:
his she your Muslim girlfriend you're talking about?

No. I moved on cos different religion won't let that work.

MissRaine69:
Yes

Lol. You that your IP usually reads somewhere in Europe; you're not the girl joor.

MhizAJ:
There are ladies that have contributed greatly to the lives of their partner and most times we don't get to hear about it because they mostly do it out of true love but what do they get back in return...Heartbreak

Not all ladies are parasitic...You've been mingling with the poor dirty looking ones

What do these boys even have to offer self that we will not hear word All these sexually frustrated boys without home training

Even boys these days are becoming so parasitic...I can't deal with a man whose vision is not always coming to pass like they add value to their partners life too....

Why are you ranting? It's a known fact that 98% of Nigerian women are parasites. I'm not rich, and every girl I dated was in it for the meagre amount of money I made. You said op was rolling with poor girls, will you expect zahra Buhari kind of girl to have interest in him? Show me a stinkingly rich woman that went for a poor man and I will show you millions of poor and jobless women that married working class men.

MissRaine69:
Life is fair it’s you that has chosen to have a blinkered view of what’s on offer. You are opting for what you what rather than what you need and this is the reason snag men end up being burnt. Thinking for the moment and not the future never bore any fruit.

I know this moniker. Where have you been? Hope you fine sha?

QueenSuccubus:



OP, remember this LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE ... It's the law of attraction..

So, don't ask us why this girl is heading on ur way coz u know exactly the reason why

I know why...she's everything I stand for in terms of talent, skill, views of life and religiosity.

gabinogem:
Are you a hardcore sex-craving type of guy?

Sex will be no 1 thing in my marriage.

gabinogem:
Lol... Nobody wins them all...

This life no fair at all. Na jejely I for wife her if not for the sexual attraction that is not there.

Safiaaa:
So why is she not sexy to you?

I want a tall woman but she's short. I like my woman to have plenty hair but she shaves her head.

Safiaaa:
Sexy? Sorry what do you mean by sexy?

Someone that one will wish to make love to.

She has almost everything I want in a woman, but I don't find her sexy. Those I find sexy don't have what she has. She thinks I'm shy and probably don't know how to woo her. So, she has started sending me coded messages. Why is life unfair like this?

ladiesreject:
She's a member of naijacrush.com and she's seeking advice on nairaland. Make I shit Tokoz if I click on that link. When she's ready for advice she won't provide us where we'll drop it, as it can be dropped anywhere

U wicket, ehn. U no wan accidental bloga to eat.

NWgraphics:
I have ndi ara

You

SoulB6:
Christains never get it, Muslims don't care much if somebody insult Allah and Islam but speaking ill of the prophet (Muhammad S.A.W) is something else. Even me I will kill anybody that insult my prophet in my front.

And you too will be killed

Y0ruba:
All of the emboldened have variants of different levels but saying Araba Elebuibon does not have or can not withstand them is quite fallacious, don’t you think? There is a reason he’s an Araba of the entire Osogbo.

The highest level of power a human can attain is to enter into imule or use fellow humans as items of fortification ritual as opposed to the blood & consumption of certain animal parts.

Nonetheless, except a person is a spirit, they can always be caught (arrested by the state or killed) if it comes to it.

I agree that Elebuibon is superior, but since the law doesn't recognize Yoruba's heritage in solving state's problems, baba will never intervene. There are cases where he can intervene though. If a powerful armed robber is constantly killing people or ritualists terrorizing a town, the oluawo of the town will do counter rituals to render the evil doer impotent and subsequently caught.