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slam7000:
How old are her parents? This lady needs mental health check, is she the only child of her parents? If the parents are retired or not working due to ill health, Lagos wouldn’t be the best place for them to live. What about their kinsmen?

Has she considered her parents before talking about killing herself? There’s obviously something you are not telling us.

She's the first born. Her younger brother depends on her and he's in school. Her mom can't work because of illness. Father is getting pea nuts from side hustle.

Kinsmen? Her father helped his younger siblings to the extent that about 3 of those siblings are multimillionaires not resident in Nigeria. They all neglected the father. Thoughts about those father's siblings alone get her angry.

Samantha124:
Has she ever considered reporting him to the police because it seems like he's a psycho and he's stalking her, and from what I've heard and read about such people it's that they can be dangerous.

She should change her number and go do a protection order from the police station because I have a feeling that the guy is gonna end up killing her one way or the other... Either he's gonna kill her with depression, or with his bare hands if one day he finds out that she's moved on with someone.

As for her parents, don't they own the house they live in that they're daughter is paying the bills?

It's a rented house. I asked her to involve the police but she said those that have known her to be his fiancée for more than 10 years will say she's wicked.

Samantha124:
It's like she's enjoying the ex's messages because she could've blocked him long time ago... And it's clear the ex is not yet over her, he could be with another woman, but he's not over her, else he wouldn't be disturbing her with messages every now and then.

As for her job, I think she should look for another position elsewhere and get a maid that's gonna help her parents around the house.

She can't afford a maid with all the bills.

The ex is clearly not over her because after taunting her for a while, apology message would follow. But same cycle will repeat itself next month.

Once she blocks him, he uses another line to message her. There's was a time he called her company receptionist anonymously to ask about this girl.

phorget:
Tell her to commit suicide then allow her aged parents grief to their own death...
If she so much love her parents then the thought of leaving them behind should make her hold on to her tiny life.

Have you been able to find out if she is truly ”wicked”? She should change her ways cos I doubt if any sane man will ever leave a good woman and still have the heart to be taunting her with text messages.

She's not wicked at all. Even she will borrow money just to make you happy. In my spiritual expedition about her, I found out her spirit-husband is the one chasing men away from her. If such men visit spiritualists, they will say the girl is the reason the guy is not progressing.

yrhuhfy113:
Therapy works, so send her for mental health therapy sessions.

Also, she needs to go to the GYM and work out often it will help her mind....

asides that she needs FEMALE FRIENDS not you.... she needs ladies who will surround her with positivity.

She needs GOD as well, spirituality is important... you mentioned that the EX taunts her, I have seen cases where EXes go to ijebu and other places to ensure the person they broke up with NEVER EVER marries or gets rich.... THINGS HAPPEN, so she may need deliverance and prayers.


asides this.... SHE MAY NEED TO RELOCATE...CHANGE NUMBER, CHANGE IDENTITY.... just to leave her past behind

She doesn't have time for therapy because the MD even calls her at times on Saturday to attend to important things in the office.

capnies:
SHE IS PHYSICALLY CHALLENGED?

Not at all.

yrhuhfy113:
Therapy works, so send her for mental health therapy sessions.

Also, she needs to go to the GYM and work out often it will help her mind....

asides that she needs FEMALE FRIENDS not you.... she needs ladies who will surround her with positivity.

She needs GOD as well, spirituality is important... you mentioned that the EX taunts her, I have seen cases where EXes go to ijebu and other places to ensure the person they broke up with NEVER EVER marries or gets rich.... THINGS HAPPEN, so she may need deliverance and prayers.


asides this.... SHE MAY NEED TO RELOCATE...CHANGE NUMBER, CHANGE IDENTITY.... just to leave her past behind

She wakes up by 5am to prepare food and other things for her sick parents. The office closes by 6pm but she returns home by 9pm because of her position in the company.

She has no female friends based in Lagos that can visit and she doesn't even confide in people; confiding in me is a coincidence.

I took care of the spiritual aspect which made them send her to another unit the other time.

I met this woman through one of my male friends because she was referred to me for advice on her relationship matters.

Her longtime lover and her parted ways. But she lost a lot to that relationship in term of resources and dedication. What's killing her is that the guy got another woman but won't stop telling others that he left her because she's a bad person. But if you examine the life of this woman, she had never loved another man in her entire life apart from that guy. The guy also sends message to her once in a while to taunt her... messages like "have you been able to get another man? I doubt you can"; "I'm now with my heartthrob, I just tried calling you to see you have moved on but you didn't answer the call suggesting the wickedness in you never dies"... She showed me a lot of these messages while still crying. I have done all I can to help her.

You may think starting a new relationship will help her, but she vows not to get married. Anytime I'm not with her physically, she talks about suicide so much.

Another factor driving her crazy

She works in a company owned by husband and wife. She worked directly under the husband, but the wife is not comfortable because this woman is very beautiful and in her late twenties. The wife looked for excuses to sack her but the husband refused. She was then sent to another department. But the husband got fed up with the new person they sent to work with the husband and requested that this girl be sent back to work under him. This girl is educated beyond first degree. I don't want to mention her profession because someone from her company may be reading this. While she was working with the husband, the wife showed her hell that she was at the verge of committing suicide. Her saving grace was the fact that they sent her to a new unit where she won't be working with the husband directly.

Now she told me she will rather die than go back to work under the husband. I told her to resign. But she said resignation will make the suicide she's thinking of quicker because she's the one taking care of her parents. The company is close to their house in Lagos; should she start looking for another job now and even if she gets another not close to her house, it's another disaster because of a reason I won't like to disclose here.

This girl is Igbo and I'm of a different tribe. I need advice about how to help her because her parents know nothing about all these. Time is running out.

Mynd44, RoyalRoy, please help me push to front-page.

OneTemplate:
Bro, such a wonderful man. The bank had told me his account had not been active for ages and that he was above 80.

Per the amount involved they actually phoned him while I was in the branch and he was not even aware of any credit to his account.

The man explained he did not go out much but would call his driver to take him to the bank to authorise the reversal on his end.

Even felt guilty for troubling the old man. I think bank called him Tuesday. He went to the bank Thursday.

The older generation are much better than our hushpuppi generation today like the chap advising how to japa with the money. Very worrying for Nigeria sha. They are all worse than Peter Obi. Lol.

I opened a new bank account recently. I didn't collect ATM. I downloaded mobile banking app, created password, but before I could start doing transactions on the app, an agreement popped up saying I should consent to it. The agreement said that I I'm solely responsible for any loss of fund if I continue doing transactions without collecting hardware token. I refused to consent to it and logged out. I keep small money there. One day, without any alert, my balance increased by about 5k. I didn't say anything because I know those bank workers tried using my account by midnight to move fund with the hope of moving it out again to other account in a bid to destroy their trail. They did it by midnight. I have been getting alerts for other funds I sent to the account but didn't get alert for that particular 5k. I don't trust anyone.

Like other users, they would think I agreed to that clause. They won't be able to contact me because that person was trying to defraud the bank.

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Wao

KingsCity:
Rubbish

My question is why has the Police not arrested M C Oluomo or whatever they call that criminal, I don’t even know

See, all these unwarranted harassment has an expiry date

Ipob member, do your worst

Whatever census figure you get from Lagos, divide it into two and add half of to Southeastern states... Lagos is no man's land as I heard.

Interimcartel:
Yes, Obi is a big daddy. We need no other daddy

A big daddy that denies a call he made. Why can't he sue gazette?

snapshot:
Soworethr guy that thought Peter Obi would ganner about 33k votes like him

We love you before,but you just dey jump up and down

This struggle is not about PO and that is a fact that people like Sowore can't seem to get,it is about the millions of Nigerians trying to actualize their dreams of a better country through him

An attack on PO therefore is an attack of we the millions of Nigerian vying through ObiDatti

Sue gazette if the audio is fake

bentenny:
Sowore's constant rants and direct attack on Obi will never sway the obidient supporters to his side!
He is only setting himself up for future disappointment because in years to come just like FFK,someone will show sowore all the jejune and reckless tweets he made against his political opponents!
He will definitely learn the hard way that you can't bring down another person just because you want to shine!

Then sue PG if the audio is fake. Abi obituary no get court money again ni

seborrhic:
In all these your epistle u never stated the salary all these category of staff you mentioned are paid that you call peanuts,despite claiming to know too much.

Seems you and HigherEd have not seen what this ex winners pastor turned Babalawo is saying...
https://www.nairaland.com/7158807/why-resigned-job-pastor-winners

Omooba77:
Why do many people fear death? Death is just transition from one realm to another, if you have Jesus, going to heaven should be a thing of joy.

Death is the fear many join occultism, doing rituals and so on.

Not just death.

You can go mad, and become an object of ridicule.

Enemies will laugh at you for many years.

V

oluwaseunamos33:
Hmmmm. Religion of pieces by pieces for the pieces. I salute una oooo

Bro, this your comment got me this night. You no well atalll.....lol.

One of the benefits of a LONG LIFE is that you will have to school IDIOTS someday.

Vickyvice:
easterners hailed them when they started. It will reach all or most igbos resident in d east Las Las. Easterners are relocating to asaba rapidly, cos of this Biafra agitation method of killings/destruction of properties of persons who they adjudge flouts the Monday and Tuesday stay at home. Akinyuli husband is a victim. Painful thing is that as at d time these gunmen were born, he was already a medical doctor. We in South no allow this Biafra thing cos we know it will turn to something else like it is in east. It's not as if we don't wish to break,.

Another thing is that government will highjack it and kill people in the name UGM so that people can turn against IPOB.

I thank God Tower of Knowledge Nursery & Primary School just sacked me ontop 12k salary.

Make I apply for Npower sharpally.

Paretomaster1:
Baba MA bawon spread fake news, Nkan to so ko niyen......

O se jare, omo iya. That guy is known for saying rubbish ni jare.

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The good thing about the useless Nigeria is that, being unable to feed myself, I retraced my steps back to my destiny.

Game on!

Why did they release this lunatic?

stabilizer:
At this point in time, it's not bad to say Hausas are wiser and smarter that the stupid igbos.

I just don't understand why killing your own people and some set of miscreants still support them. Nigeria needs to break up because of IGBOS. They are animals


I think APC is paying the unknown gunmen to kill their people. Why defection to APC at this time of heat when everyone thinks the most deadly group in the region is against APC.

IGBOS ARE STUPID

APC is probably behind that UGM thing. They will just write election results in their situation room.

alizma:
Those killing people are making the election victory easier for APC.

That's what those commenting above don't know.

APC will claim people didn't come out to vote. They will just write results.

Ryan03:
heartbeat ke? Your wife is a wicked and useless woman who is not fit to be called a mother. God should just take away the child from her since she is using her to get to you. Infact, your daughter will grow up to become like her, after all, she will become a woman and as you know, women are nothing but prostitutes and liabilities.
I am sure this is what you wanted to hear, otherwise I don't see why you brought this here

If you have been taking your drugs regularly, you won't be saying this.

mamagee3:
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But how do dumb people get to the US? USA is overrated.

Klass99:
Jogunomi, but what stops you from carrying your daughter in your arms when she's crying, cuddling and comforting her till she stops?

Ayam truly not understanding why you can't do that and ignore your wife. Parenting is not the responsibility of just one parent biko.

If my daughter wants breast milk, there is nothing you can do to calm her down. Plus, my daughter's anger gets customized plate number...you go fear na, despite being less than a year old. She does things kids in two years age bracket do.