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Onyewarri:
For the past seven years I haven't posted or login on nairaland. I just read topics and comments as a guest. But because of the importance of my message i had to login.

My message for you is RUN. I mean take off your shoes and RUN cos your life and future depends on it.

I will be honestly blunt with you because I don't want you to suffer what I am suffering. I have first hand experience.

First let me tell you the pattern of events as they have, are unfolding and will unfold.

Initially when you guys started you noticed some of this things and you thought it was just as a result of the relationship being new. No 2 persons are the same so you believed you guys can work it out. At this stage some persons will try to warn you but you will not listen.

Then you moved to the next level which is commitment. Then you will start building and investing in her. She will become more relaxed and comfortable with you hence you will see more of this nonsense. But being that you love her you will overlook and forgive her easily especially after she apologized mostly with tears in her eyes or she tries to make it up to you somehow. At this stage people will leave you guys alone, only those really close to you guys will try to stylishly warn you but you will not take them seriously.

Then to the next level which is where you are now. It is intent to marry/ proposal/family meeting. This is when you bring out your extra eyes and senses to scrutinize your spouse and know if he/she is the one. Then you will begin to see and realize things that will get you confused and begin to ask questions. At this point when you seek counsel, her family members will make excuses for her and your family members will tolerate her in other to be at peace with you. Only few neutral people will tell you the truth.

The truth is, she may change but she will never stop being who she is. If she cannot be submissive to you or tolerate your mother for a few days especially at this stage of the relationship then she is either using you or she will make a really terrible partner that will make you a bad person or make your life miserable, either way you will regret it if you don't end it now. If you marry her you will end up quarreling and beating her every now and then hence people will see u as a bad husband or you will swallow her shits and end up in misery with high bp. Because whatever you are seeing now there is usually more after marriage. And don't think that u can divorce her easily because it is not that easy.

In life I have come to understand that the two most important virtues in marriage is patience and understanding with these a whole lot of other things falls into place. Anyone who is short tempered has fallen short of both.

You can make a wife out of a woman but you can't make a woman out of a wife. Before she becomes a wife she has to first be a woman.

But what do I know.

Poster a word is enough for the wise.
I equally don't like qouting and commenting in matters like this. Kindly be wise and run for your dear life.

This was how I removed my younger sister from a beast. I asked her if she was convinced she is no longer interested and she said yes., We located the nearest local government and went straight to there human Rights section. She made the complains and told them she was no longer interested in the relationship. He was invited and saying he is still very much interested, they were asked to go and come back three weeks later, my brother I jejely packed her belongings to my house and she was staying with me. We went back after three weeks and relationship was dissolved.
Note: she had two kids for the man ,no marriage registry. ...

emeijeh:
If any guy had borrowed an expensive car from his friend to show off this morning, and the car was parked around the vicinity where the explosion took place, SORRY IS HIS NAME

We are talking of lives, this one is talking of a borrowed car that can be replaced. ... Hiss**

I heard the vibration in Canaan land otta. People around kept shouting blood of Jesus. Lord have mercy

O
wn a home

Still very available

Pull a call

Still very much available

Negotiable

7.5m

It's at Sango otta

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Mods help push, make we hear good music

OK guys lets do this, list your best love songs of all time and who would you say the the greatest love singer of all time. Mine is :
When a woman loves-r Kelly
I will always love you - Whitney Houston
I don't want to miss a thing -aerosmith
I look to you - Whitney Houston
Endless love- Lionel Richie
.....my greatest love singer of all time is Whitney Houston.

Pm express... It's like your stories are centred around egigbo and environs.

After when you thought you have heard it all....
Na waoooo

She dey try sha, if I see am again we go join.
She dey strong, turn one naira to 1000 naira for biz wey I set for am, humble even when she come get pass me now, what more should I asked for, I go marry am again jare

Here I come. It's my seaaon

Guy I like your person. OK the guilt will remain as long as you keep it to yourself since as I can see you are a conscientious person. I will advise you go out of your way to shower her with gifts first, then tell her you have offended her and that you need her to forgive you, since you love her you can actually kneel down and burst the bubble, if you be actor you fit even form cry. Ah ah... She no get stone heart now... But pls try to have self control going forward. Peace bro

johnnobles:
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francis5051:
Nigerian girls will think dis is a day to display dia nipples

My exact thoughts, I trust my naija and Ghanaian babes

The rescuer was eventually rescued at command rip to the young lad I was at that area today

have anyone travel through this means or knows anyone that have travel through it. Gurus kindly answer this for me. E visa from Nigeria to Australia

Na d same rope dey draw all of them jare. Politics is a bbnaija game

XXMML33:
I'm not really rooting for anyone. But I think either of Frodd or Seyi deserves to win.

OK fingers crossed.

XXMML33:
This people contributing money to give to Tacha are idiots of the first class. Hasn't she wasted their money enough? Imagine the amount of money invested into voting for her and everything just went down the drain because of her stupidity and inability to control herself.

No one should give Tacha any money. In fact no one should say kind words to her. Let her learn her lesson the hard way. People should pour in as much hate comments as possible. Only then would she be able to acknowledge her mistakes and makes steps to become a better person

You don't reward stupidity, rather you criticize and mock it.

I admire your comments a lot. Yes even though you were a tacha fan, you didnot give room for sentiments. Honestly I was equally disappointed in her. I wish her well though.... Who you come dey route for now?

XXML33:
Venita and Elozonam will be evicted.

Thanks, oh boss I so much enjoy your analysis and prediction here. Weldone bro. You are good

So who do you guys think will be evicted today. I respect your judgement here.

Joe made and left an impact. He will be missed