₦airaland Forum

TheFinesseKid:
you tear am slap.. haba

Yes na, I told her she is already cheating emotionally, I cant tolerate that, if they admire you tell them you are married, if they worry, I will go haunt them down simple!

luminouz:
Only a mumu will go ahead with the wedding. I will call it off right there and then

You lots don't know women. Any woman who values her integrity will never say "she feels like kissing a random Instagram model'. She doesn't respect her fiance and the fact that she says it's not a big deal...MEANS IT'S A MUDAFUCKING BIG FUCKING DEAL!!! 😡😡😡

Jesus...I broke up with a girl who went to visit her toaster.... They didn't have sex but the fact that she went anyways was enough. Women don't cheat physically without first cheating emotionally. Once you tolerate that, it's downhill from there. There was another girl of EKSU who claimed to love me but at the talking stage, she has a male bestie who according to her sleeps in her room, because she can't sleep alone. She said she can't let him go. I flung her out of my house. She came back saying she has changed but I slammed my door in her face.

N.B: the Lesson is simple. Never tolerate any disrespect from any woman. It always goes downhill from there.

You 100% correct, the day a man even admire my wife's beauty on whatsapp, without she telling the man to stop, she collect slap that sent her to the ground, and I went for the idiot, but he was lucky

They won't allow married people to comment...

People who enjoying stable marriages dont come online to show off, that is why it seems there are more bad marriages than good ones.

To have a stable marriage both couple must want and need it! You must want the marriage, because you need a family, other things falls behind this, talking as a married man

Ashawoman82:
what is growth or skill acquisition without money bro.

From your answer I assume you are still young, I am not very rich but I can tell you for sure, money is not everything, I own a house in the FCT, I own a car, I have a career, and own a business, my wife is doing excellently in her business, money is not too much of a challenge, I thank God. The following are greater than money:
1. Purposeful living.
2. Health.
3. Happiness irrespective of status.
4. Power.
5. People.

Stonecoldstare1:
Oh for crying out loud,men aren't gatekeepers of masculinity neither are women gatekeepers of feminity, everyone have both energies in them, there are no 100% masculine men and 100% feminine women, know this and no peace....... especially when it comes to art

I know where this is coming from, I was a member of DeMolay and still in the degrees of the brotherhood of the cross, nobody study those 'energy stuff' better than us, nobody promotes existential freedom than us. You know what I discovered? too much freedom is actually servitude! there should be constraints in everything we do.

Effeminate... not attractive(good) for a male child...some will come and be bashing me soon, all Nigerian youths know is money and fame, throw other things in the trash can

Look at how much emphasis Nigerian youths are putting on money! non of you is even talking how they hone their skills, learn from mistakes, build and grow, everything money, as if money can bring all those other values without deliberate efforts

The challenge is what many people call 'help' is actually 'handouts' if I keep giving u handouts then you are leeching no body likes leeches, if I was leeching I won't make it. Show them how you make it, they will run or cannot replicate your success

DrDoc:
Unless you have excess, it is better to expand income generating systems. I.e build more businesses than build a house that doesnt generate or create substantial wealth on time

If u are not sure of profiting from business, building a house is not a bad idea

lexy2014:
pls tell us what she went to do in Dubai?

are you saying that Dr Festus Fadeyi is now her source of income because she is his girlfriend?

which billions has she "chopped"?

na so them de see the billion chop? why u never chop the billions?

no mind them, very incoherent people, to think properly dey hard dem

those idiots will start attacking Obi, till they experience being shut or kidnapped.

Business is tough, get a licensed business developer to guide you, I am one.
There are many government incentives you can leverage on, you can also get many inputs free or super cheap, you may not have to spend all your 1 M.

Hehehe, them don mark u

Sorry o, this is scary, pls take it seriously, if you need financial help speak up now oh lets come together for you, dont play with your health

There are only 2 problems here:
1. He is not providing for his family.
2. He has a gambling habit.
Now these are the solutions:
1. Let him earn more, I have a friend who does bet Naija, but he makes nothing less than 30k a day, he ahs an upper limit of 5oK a week for his gambling, he takes care of his wife very well, expanded his business, recently bought a car and expecting their first child in weeks. So dont be too hard on your husband, talk to him softly, help heim look for jobs, share opportunities with him, I am a business developer I can assist him with links to government and foreign grants and loan opportunities he can use to start a profitable business, even if he continues gambling you wont even know.
2. Gambling is a HABIT, a terrible one for that matter, the tested way to KILL BAD HABITS is to replace it with a new habit, let him get a copy of this book https://www.amazon.fr/Science-systems-achievement-English-Lawrence-ebook/dp/B0BRJJLH9D it will erode that non-sense gambling habit

then its not cheating

Nigerians are stupid! Now that Fubara and Wike has "tested the microphone" and are sure that instead of the people whose resources are being shared 10/25% to riot and give both of them a quick public judgement, they are foolishly divided into pro-Wike vs pro-fubara. Now both Fubara and Wike can form a truce then decide on a better formulae to pillage the resources at both state and federal level. Pitiful!

My friends and family dont know that my house is at finishing stage. Am I a bad person?

Stop her when she want to share such, change the topic, or tell her you are not interested, I have many of them as friends, and that is how I handle it

The only loosers are the people

hello

Nonny95:
And Yorubas are known for skull mining right, Hausa known for terrorism abii?

Agreed, dont promote hate that is my point

TopBanter:
What tribal slurs? Do you appreciate the seriousness of one ethnic group alone, out of over four hundred, always wanting to justify wrongdoing claiming it is a witch-hunt against them?

What is wrong with Omokri reminding that the solution to a great Nigeria is for all Nigerians, at all times, to abide by the provision of the law?

Do you understand the abnormality of a mind that wants to do wrong always and be allowed to get away with such?

It is a big national problem bro. It is why some are now begging for Kanu, with a lot of blood on his hands, to be set free.

They tell us Emefiele too is the victim of a witch-hunt after he completely wrecked the economy of Nigeria.

They praise Ekpa a messiah and follow his instructions oven in far away Finland.

Even recently, authorities exposed areas in Anambra where fake drinks are been produced that will surely be poisoning and killing Nigerians.

Yet, guess who were defending such a heinous discovery , even in Nairaland, other than those behind it.

I am not Igbo, though my wife is Delta-igbo who grew up in Ondo state, we live in Abuja a place considered as north, I am Ebira who schooled in North my grand father is from Oyo, I can comfortably claim yoruba as a matter of fact all my siblings bears Yoruba names and claim yoruba, my 2 daughters first names are yoruba, my second daughter have an Igbo name, I schooled in Nasarawa state University, I have muslim cousins. With this introduction you will understand u are dealing with somebody who has a fair balance of the idea of one Nigeria.


I made a post concerning how the Rwandan genocide started, which was primarily lasting hate! bigotry! which was catalyze by careless media statements, similar to what that stupid Reno is always doing. Therefore my points are:
1. Nobody has the right to promote any form of hate against any group of people because of few bad persons, should I remind you of banditry in the north? Boko Haram? etc. or skull mining in the west and yahoo?
2. We are not a nation yet, not even the best of Nigerians have any sense of Nationalism including myself, whatever good I do is for humanity not for this country.

10 is too much, bet even that is a lie

This is why Nairaland was banned! I dont support what Igbos are doing, right from my child hood they are known for fakes, but we have authorities to deal with that, stop bringing up tribal slurs

The annoying thing is that they wont push this post to FP. signs they are not ready to learn

All this "laugh now cry later policies" will only worsen things, lasting problems requires lasting solutions

Nigerians are stupid! Now that Fubara and Wike has "tested the microphone" and are sure that instead of the people whose resources are being shared 10/25% to riot and give both of them a quick public judgement, they are foolishly divided into pro-Wike vs pro-fubara. Now both Fubara and Wike can form a truce then decide on a better formulae to pillage the resources at both state and federal level. Pitiful! Americans will say "Niggars never learn"

Untill the people understand that they are "the boss" and start acting that way, Nigeria will never move forward. "public servants" are not lords they are your SERVANTS!!!

Nigerians are stupid! Now that Fubara and Wike has "tested the microphone" and are sure that instead of the people whose resources are being shared 10/25% to riot and give both of them a quick public judgement, they are foolishly divided into pro-Wike vs pro-fubara. Now both Fubara and Wike can form a truce then decide on a better formulae to pillage the resources at both state and federal level. Pitiful!

All his policies are always "laugh now cry later" temporary solution to permanent problems