₦airaland Forum

Foodqueen:
Mind your business.

I can't imagine that u actually went to say that to her mother. Isn't she aware about what's going on before

No matter how much you try, that girl no go ever look your side, there are some girls that are destined to date bad boys, she's one of them.

U thought cos u are a cool guy, she should av been chilling with you ba

If u like part with your money cos u av the hope that she might start dating you. OYO.

Mind your business before them naked you for that house.

complete advice, if u like ignore this advice

franchasofficia:
Her problem is her taste and standard.

It is the same problem with single successful ladies of her age; they want rich, successful handsome men since they believe they are successful, but unfortunately life doesn't favor women in that regard because naturally, men don't marry based on a woman's financial or material worth, except for financially struggling men and men looking for a woman to assist them come up in life.


A lady doesn't need to be rich or successful to attract a quality man, she just needs to be good looking, homely, friendly and respectful, and some atom of divine favor.



But for a man, what he needs mostly to find his desired woman is financial success or financial stability and a good sense of reasoning to decipher good from bad.



Men of her marital age range (32 to 40) who are financially buoyant are all married or seriously engaged, making it difficult for her. So her only option right now is to:

1.) lower her standard and go for a financially struggling humble man within her biological age range

or

2.) go for younger guys who are still struggling to stand financially

or

3.) go for older divorcees or widowers

or

4.) codedly share a married man with his wife

super correct

mistacoco2:
Hello guys,

For some days now I have been on a serious dilemma whether to resign from my federal government job that pays me above N200k for my current position and migrate to the UK or stay in naija and set up a business to augment my salary. I will be 34 years next year, I feel traveling to the uk for studies next year September will delay my chances of getting married, as I have planned not exceeding 34 years without getting married.

I belong to the school of thought that believes can make it in Nigeria despite all odds. However, considering the economic realities of the country, I have recently contemplating of japa and maybe get a Nigerian lady for marriage after my studies.

Please I earnestly need matured advice from you guys to know how to start the coming year.

since you said you want to get married, next year then no need travelling

Olarewaju89:
Na waoo 4million, how bro

Na long story o

dontrulee:
Dem no lock you for prison?

It doesn't work like dat

ImoleNaija:
Crossing over with ₦90k debt.

Thank God for life sha.

wey me I get over 4m debt, n forget to count it as regret, such is life

Zonefree:
Who brought this idea of kneeling to beg a woman to be your responsibility?

The first sign of an unstable marriage is "kneel and propose."

My two cousins that went on two knees to propose to their wives are single fathers today.

hmmm I agree with you. It's so unmanly and unafrican... Forming my English

Some news are not for everybody, when I realized that I had better peace of mind

As a married man let me advice you:
1. Now start pretending you are broke.
2. Love and treat both your wife and mum with care.
3. Invest your hidden money in your career or business.
4. Be extra prayerful, draw your mum and wife into prayerful habbit.
5. Don't stay home too much, less sex with your wife.
6. Allow God and time to take care of the rest

Nchoje34:
It is better to embrace some certain truth than ignore it in life.
After all the initial gragra from the youth all across the country..... Where dem dey now

The same set of people will still dance to the music of a man that they wanted to prosecute months ago.

It goes to show you that people never truly love him....justiceformohbad was just an emotional exercise triggered by what they perceived.

Watch how people will rush to listen to the two singles released by naira Marley on all streaming platform.

Chop ur money while you are alive oo

I said this that time, some idiots wan chop me, Nigerian youths are mostly weaklings, see what they are doing in rivers, make noise then run to apologize or hide, and it same nation wide, they are mostly spineless, people wey get mind no dey talk too much e.g arabs, russia etc.

Na the deceased fkk up pass. The girl seems to be alpha, the other 2 males are just bitches

Nazgul:
Lol...you go wait taya.

They know that the 50% discount is a scam that's why they're all silent. Most of them must have secretly gone to these parks to inquire just for propaganda purposes, on hearing that the buses are still charging their normal inflated prices, they left in shame and kept quiet.

If the 50% discount was real, Tinubu's e-rats would have painted the who social media with videos of passengers confirming that they paid 50%. This announcement is as fake as the Nigerian air that was unveiled few weeks to the end of Buhari's administration. Just lies upon lies. That's what APC has been feeding us with since 2015.

I have come to realize that most people who supported and still supporting Tinibu, are people who are not moving forward and has vowed not to let others move forward as well, crab mentality, but as usual, it results in them getting lost in oblivion

Nazgul:
I don't get this.

8k to sleep with a total stranger when she has a fiance she's living with and who's probably shouldering all her financial responsibilities.

Like what is 8k and what exactly can such amount of money do for her in this economy?

If the money the op was offering was like 500k - 1m, I would have understood. But 8k? Haba, that girl is nothing but a parasite.

Wrong as far as you have a price tag, you are cheap, and yes people pay that much for sex(500k). I was bargaining 10k vs 20k with a hookup girl sometimes ago, the next thing she ask me was "what do u take me for?" I quickly reminded her that my mechanic can afford that 20k. She got angry and blocked me, but I am glad she got the message that as long as you have a price tag anybody can afford you. This is why we men value and respect virtuous women.

Persephone1:
You are not different from her... Someone is also going to end up with you who have no respect for yourself or pride in your body to patronize sex workers.

Phew!

you are very wrong, its not equal, equitable whatever word u want to use, its never the same for both sides

You still sound tribal, abi e dey blood?

Faiththatworks:
I was saying in another thread that the doom messages by some so called experts are nothing but scare tactics to discourage Nigerians,and this wonderful thread has confirmed my assertions.
The story confirms my belief that the so called food scarcity in 2024 is only in the imagination of these false prophet of Baal.
Even though the reporter did a wonderful job trying to report what he considers an imminent increase in the price of grains in Nigeria,I refuse to see the cup as empty but rather as half full and half empty.
There's a particular paragraph that talked about the bumper harvest of grains in the North,that's what I call wonderful news.
Infact I daresay the Almighty God will bless the foreigners who are empowering our Northerner farmers.
Despite the report of incessant farmers-herders clashes,banditry, kidnapping and killing of farmers in the North,the news of a bumper harvest should really bring Joy to the heart of any patriotic Nigerian.
Once again,God bless these foreigners bringing in foreign exchange to buy our grains.
I end by saying although Nigeria isn't Eldorado but at least I can testify I bought a tuber of yam for 1000 naira in Ajah, Lagos.
I have lived in that Axis for 3 years and last week was the first time I actually bought a tuber for 1000,it seems there's a bumper harvest of yams in Nigeria.
God bless Nigeria.

Definition of delusional

Nazgul:
What still baffles me is how people still manage to defend Tinubu's policies since May 29th.

Every achievement Tinubu has made since resuming office has been on paper. We're yet to see even one policy that has made life easier for the masses. On the 50% discount on travelers going to the East, myself and two friends went to Chisco and God is Good parks at Jibowu on the 26th to confirm. They told us clearly, that they're charging their full price and if we want to book for a seat we should pay. Of course we didn't want to travel, we just wanted to confirm what Mr President said.

Nobody has benefitted from the so called 50% discount, yet everywhere is silent. If you talk his e-rats who can't even afford a day's meal would attack you.

APC has been lying to our faces since 2015, yet they keep defending Tinubu and his Party. Africans truly have a serious problem.

I am waiting for somebody to prove this comment wrong...I am still on my wait

Pootle:
you right. yesterday my wife said some was following her around the mall all i was waiting for was when she will tell me she told the MF she's is married, if she no talk that part i for too change am for her, fear woman but i still dey fear to check my woman fone maybe the day i go check na that day my marriage go end lol but she dey always check my fones

dont go snooping around, but have access and always take permission before you do anything, if she is clean she will let u have it, u both have to have access to each others phone nothing must be hidden

Scamburster:
Man, can you give me a little guard too, I'm into this now and it worries me a lot.

As preposterous as it may sound, pray ask God for a wife, before you go toasting the next woman, emphasis woman not girls most girls aren't ready, when I say woman I dont mean in age, but in behaviour, then follow the tips above

GVTAsiwaju:
I hope I can be like you... That slap go be factory reset

When u remember how much u have invested, u no go know when u go slap person daughter, I don't even mean money here, I mean time, reputation etc.

TheFinesseKid:
sure. I dey even fear to enter inside. It's scary the kind of women society dey breed these days.

I will give u tips:
1. Want it badly, like how u wanted admission to the university, or how u wanted a job or a car(but this is only applicable if you love children and love having a family, otherwise remain single).
2. Look for a woman(not girl, girls thinks girlish) with motherly character. Atleast make she no wor wor, but no put too much emphasis on looks, she should be enterprising as well.
3. Let her wants to settle as badly as you.
4. The rest install God fear/love in your new home, things will be going on smoothly.
5. Marriage is continuous keep learning, amending and loving.

TheFinesseKid:
guy you no get joy o

My brother, na so e suppose be, marriage is a huge investment and it concerns lives, so u don trivialize things

TheFinesseKid:
you tear am slap.. haba

Yes na, I told her she is already cheating emotionally, I cant tolerate that, if they admire you tell them you are married, if they worry, I will go haunt them down simple!

luminouz:
Only a mumu will go ahead with the wedding. I will call it off right there and then

You lots don't know women. Any woman who values her integrity will never say "she feels like kissing a random Instagram model'. She doesn't respect her fiance and the fact that she says it's not a big deal...MEANS IT'S A MUDAFUCKING BIG FUCKING DEAL!!! 😡😡😡

Jesus...I broke up with a girl who went to visit her toaster.... They didn't have sex but the fact that she went anyways was enough. Women don't cheat physically without first cheating emotionally. Once you tolerate that, it's downhill from there. There was another girl of EKSU who claimed to love me but at the talking stage, she has a male bestie who according to her sleeps in her room, because she can't sleep alone. She said she can't let him go. I flung her out of my house. She came back saying she has changed but I slammed my door in her face.

N.B: the Lesson is simple. Never tolerate any disrespect from any woman. It always goes downhill from there.

You 100% correct, the day a man even admire my wife's beauty on whatsapp, without she telling the man to stop, she collect slap that sent her to the ground, and I went for the idiot, but he was lucky

They won't allow married people to comment...

People who enjoying stable marriages dont come online to show off, that is why it seems there are more bad marriages than good ones.

To have a stable marriage both couple must want and need it! You must want the marriage, because you need a family, other things falls behind this, talking as a married man

Ashawoman82:
what is growth or skill acquisition without money bro.

From your answer I assume you are still young, I am not very rich but I can tell you for sure, money is not everything, I own a house in the FCT, I own a car, I have a career, and own a business, my wife is doing excellently in her business, money is not too much of a challenge, I thank God. The following are greater than money:
1. Purposeful living.
2. Health.
3. Happiness irrespective of status.
4. Power.
5. People.

Stonecoldstare1:
Oh for crying out loud,men aren't gatekeepers of masculinity neither are women gatekeepers of feminity, everyone have both energies in them, there are no 100% masculine men and 100% feminine women, know this and no peace....... especially when it comes to art

I know where this is coming from, I was a member of DeMolay and still in the degrees of the brotherhood of the cross, nobody study those 'energy stuff' better than us, nobody promotes existential freedom than us. You know what I discovered? too much freedom is actually servitude! there should be constraints in everything we do.

Effeminate... not attractive(good) for a male child...some will come and be bashing me soon, all Nigerian youths know is money and fame, throw other things in the trash can

Look at how much emphasis Nigerian youths are putting on money! non of you is even talking how they hone their skills, learn from mistakes, build and grow, everything money, as if money can bring all those other values without deliberate efforts

The challenge is what many people call 'help' is actually 'handouts' if I keep giving u handouts then you are leeching no body likes leeches, if I was leeching I won't make it. Show them how you make it, they will run or cannot replicate your success

DrDoc:
Unless you have excess, it is better to expand income generating systems. I.e build more businesses than build a house that doesnt generate or create substantial wealth on time

If u are not sure of profiting from business, building a house is not a bad idea