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Obavoh:
I swear on my life, since we’ve been married I have never hit this woman. I have never slept with another woman.

I am writing this with tears in my eyes. I love and trust this woman with my soul. I have sacrificed so much in this marriage just to make her happy.

Since day 1 that we met I Always try my best to see her smile but this woman took everything for granted.

When we newly met and I was trying to get her to be my girlfriend, she refused because she was dating another man. I did not give up on her, I kept on doing everything to remain close to this woman to the extent of going to clear her father’s farm just to be on her good side.

One day she came to tell me she was pregnant for her boyfriend and the guy rejected her . She confessed she had done an abortion before and did not want to repeat it.

I decided to marry her and cover her shame because of the love I had for her. Till today, I did not open my mouth to tell anyone about it. I paid her brideprice in full and did all marriage rites.

Some months into the marriage, she lost the pregnancy. I even borrowed money to evacuate the baby from her stomach. I suspected that she drank herbs to try to remove it but I didn’t say anything.

All these years, we have not spoken about it until few days ago she asked me to help her send some money to her father.

I became suspicious because the account number she gave me was strange. I asked her about it and she lied to me it was her cousins account and they want to use the money to buy her father drugs.

I innocently sent the money. I was waiting for her father to call and thank me as usual but a week passed and I didn’t get any message from him.

I asked my wife about it and she said he told her to thank me. That was when I knew something was wrong.

I went through the new phone I bought for her last month and saw this woman chatting with the same man that dumped her with pregnancy.

He was begging her for money and they even planned to meet in her Mum’s village.
She told him she was waiting for me to receive my salary and give her money so she can travel to the place.

I felt like dying.

I showed her the message, I didn’t even wait for her to explain before beating her. I feel very bad for doing that but I couldn’t control myself.

I left the house since yesterday afternoon. I lodged in a hotel in another town. I can’t eat or sleep. I’ve just been crying.

I don’t know how to go about this. I am thinking of my children. I still love my wife. I can’t even open my mouth to tell my people. I don’t know what to do.

This is how all SIMPS are paid for been stupid. You won't learn cus all you said showed you have been a SIMP all your life. Worthless SIMP that cannot care his immediate family, them go finish your Timaya before you leave this World

Antiochus:
Police said the shooting was not an accident; investigators are working to determine where the child got the weapon.



https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2023/1/7/teacher-shot-by-6-year-old-with-gun-in-us-classroom-police

Bye Bye America, if 6 years old are now taken into custody, you society have failed

Johnthejohn:
That serves him right.
I hate Gays and Lesbians with passion

Ohhh gush no one ask u to like them. But we have to protect each and everyone in a Nation. It's sad when someone will hate someone who have not harmed or curse you

Justkatty:
First of all, I'll commend you for forgiving your wife because in this part of the world, a man can overlook any other thing but when it comes to cheating 99% won't even want to think twice before sending her out.
May God continue to strengthen your marriage and also bless Mama for helping out.


Back to your question

I'll advise you to let her work for few months or a year, for her to be able to gather herself and think of a business she can do atleast for now, till when the kids comes of age. But I wouldn't want the kids to go live with her because of expenses, I believe you both can come up with a target and when that is achieved, you can now consider her quitting the job.
I know for sure you'll be having this double mind of her messing around, since you won't be together again, just don't let that bother you
If she chooses to respect her body fine
If she chooses to misbehave fine, when it's time, she'll bear the consequences.
Peace.

Such a mature advice. Lool no further here is your answer.

Newton2024:
Are you an APC urchin?

Obasanjo, Edwin Clark, Ortom, etc. are patriotic Nigerians who wants the best for the country unlike Thiefnubuu's greedy handlers.

Patriotic my foot.

All these bandwagon you named up there have just one thing in common, all former ans current PDP member inclusive Peter Obi.

And we will never allow PDP or its branch child Peter Obi get to rule Nigeria ever again.

Tinubu's victory is sure nothing is stopping that

[quote author= post=119666417]Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/1/gunmen-kill-pdp-leader-and-four-others-in-anambra.html[/quote]We are just the worst sets of animals created on Earth. We as the most populous black nation shows how much the black race are uncivilised, backward, retarded. Our mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters are worthless. Seun Osewa posting all about Politics cause we only care about the money. We can argue abt Politicians who care less about us and unite on irrelevant issue and yet we do not talk about lack of community security, data gathering just like it is seen all over the world.

So these killers have now turn ghost, no plate number to identify, no street cameras, no bullshit and there come to a conclusion is cult related, so we should all go to sleep. Our Police is a Rogue Organization, our intelligence gathering shows just intelligent 200 Million Fools will remain. I curse the GOD and Earth that created me in this worthless world.

planetE:
Nonsense. Na only him be legend wey go make every nation name its stadium after him?

You be indomie generation sha. This is the real goat, not even Maradona

Blupen:
Lols why you wicked like this bee??

Him no wicked poverty is not a condition but a state of the mind. Lots of Nigerians are poor mentally and it relationship

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

Is this for real. Chasing you out of your own Fathers house.

undisputedKOC:
Of course it is expected. Majority of SS is behind Tinubu, the Ijaw nation is behind Tinubu, the majority of the North are supporting Tinubu, and SW is following Tinubu bumper to bumper like Igbo drug traffickers follow cocaine across the world.

Only IPOB terrorists fools from Ojucrook land are supporting Peter Obi the IPOB candidate. These Zombidiot fools will be resoundingly disgraced by February next year after Tinubu wins the elections and is sworn in as president.

I will advise these hateful frustrated wretched Zombidiots to start contributing money to buy their coffins now before the price quadruples next year because I'm sure these Zombidiots can't bear the overwhelming disgrace, sorrow and depression that will follow after Peter Obi the political fraudster loses woefully by February elections. God bless the few Igbos with sense like Ken Nnamani, Soludo, Okonjo Iweala, Arthur Eze and the rest of them. Death to all IPOB terrorists.

You be f**ker guy, nah here i read reach i just dey laugh like say u be Sabinus.

Abeg taunt those fools abeg. We are Unknown Gunmen and we are IPOB Basta*dsss abeg taunt their shallow and worthless lifes

Jennyclay:
Men are hypocrites!

Why would men sleep around, feel no remorse for their acts but expect ladies to bear a bigger "curse" for doing the same thing? and who even put such wrong ideas into the head of men that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to men?

JennyClay how far? How your 60 Year Old Men dey treat you? Leave young guys to find a virgin Wife, your 60 years Old Men will manage you as you come, don't worry.

ThEGodBRoThEr2:
I don't think so given that their organs were harvested.

This is a familiar crime among my people of southwest

If a well renowed Man in Osun who owns a University will be a ritualist.

On a low all Yoruba's are ritualist, there belief in doibg sacrifice to make things better and do n9t want to think how to make things better most times.

Wawelexy:
Lol.... Are you an idiot?

Funny enough, some schools here in Nigeria are already following this pattern... some private school pupils see their teachers as trash, imagine a male student in senior school 2 trying to woo a teacher and the school authorities doing nothing to reprimand such pupil..

Nigeria and their copycat syndrome...

Talk all you want, but i will never have a school where students will be flogged, never. I will sack and sue the ass of the teacher who dares it

Jennyclay:
Nigerian policemen are animalistic in nature.

The police man should also be sentenced to death by shooting. Heartless and wicked beast everywhere!

Rip to the departed soul.

Must there be allowed to carry asualt riffle everywhere in this country, we know some places are more safe for security agents than others.

Why have the govt. not put an end to our police officers welding high calibre guns in peaceful areas.

This must stop, we can not continue like this

EvilRampage:
This girl came over for business, after all done and dusted, she still hang around to charge her phone till 7pm when she decided to go. After 10min she came back that she couldn't get a bike, that she'd be staying till the next morning.
Free bj and banging. Ok no wahala.
Later aunty enter kitchen, carry food, siddon dey watch movie. I told her that i have arranged for a ride for her as early as 7am, she said okay.

This morning, aunty don change dress wear my one of my shirt dey watch music video.
Won't you go back? The ride is on the way. She said i should cancel it that she'd stay till monday and she wont bill me.
Abi this one dey whine me ni. Na your papa huz?

Come dey go. No.

Come dey go. No

For her front i call like five niggas if dem go bang free pvssy and mouth for 2days. Na aunty hissed carry her ataya and before she left, i made sure she wash the plate she used.

I no get time for nonsense.

You no get joy oooo

Racoon:
https://punchng.com/nigerias-enemies-behind-yoruba-nation-agitation-says-akeredolu/?utm_term=Autofeed&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Twitter#Echobox=1671853908

We shall continue to celebrate our Armed Forces and know only one Country, no matter how much of an infraction led to its creation

Zonefree:
Yes, men can copy bad things and women can copy good things.


Abeg, make una copy how to close legs and marry as a virgin.

This guy bad gon. Why you blast this girl like dis

Blessedmercy8:
Wife of Bright Okpocha aka Basketmouth speaks about what to look out for before getting married.

Nothing is worst than a fallout after love, so Aunty you mean say you no get sense for 12+ courtship.

Who no fear Woman, no fit understand this life

OurTruth:
I'm not. Just that I don't think women deserve the amount of time and energy men devote to them.

Besides my instinctive attraction to womens bodies, which I would remove if I had the power to do so, there is no way I'll take them seriously. This is my own opinion.

Women are very shallow creatures and operate exclusively on instinct, not logic, even if they espouse logic through speech, their actions always deviate to instinct. I've done my research in this subject and I have my own personal experiences, so I'm very confident in what I'm saying.

You are blessed beyond the measure of an ordinary mind bro.

You are different

WannaHowzit:
That time Nigeria is the proud open defecation capital of the world.

Sit down housenigga, you have nothing to offer. Go count white people in the pictures above, that's all you're good at when not drowning in the Mediterranean.

Remember to collect the poop below to go decorate Aso Rock trees this festive season.

Thanks for giving my fellow Nigerian hot hot.

Mumu just want talk nonsesnse. I will prefer to live and build my generation in SA as it stands cause Nigerians are so uncivilised.

Understand from the post, the lighrs have been lit uo since Late November and let it sink in your skull my fellow Nigerian fool

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/MASSOB-knocks-FG-over-eastern-railway-project-cancellation

Abeg wetin dey worry Igbo people and marginalization talk

gasparpisciotta:
Konga is a fraud, I just had a not so good experience with them.

I will never recommend Konga for anyone henceforth

I haven't bought anything from Konga but with this type of review i do not think i want to try, but its neighbour Jumia which have patronize is even worst, you don't wanna go there. Shop from Abroad and have peace of mind

socialmediaman:
You guys are still using propaganda style of 2015.

I don't know if you noticed, but Peter Obi gained additional 2% based on the recent [b]ANAP polls.[/b]

It shows that your propaganda isn't working. Make una go learn work lol

Please before you speak further ask yourself what is the full meaning of ANAP, all this worthless political statistics that have never brought about any important stats in this country will wait for election time and start deceiving some politicians. Prior to 2023 election how many stats have ANAP brought out abeg. When 2023 comes we will show you guys the correct statistics

lhordspy:
Hmm.

Watch how the hypocritical beings will feed on this and bask in sheer delight.

The topic reads Afghanistan not Islam . Every country is entitle to its policy. The western countries signed gay marriage into law. The western media was quiet. Now the country they so much hate, the US worst nightmare. The Aghanistan taliban they couldnt defeat for 20years plus made a policy(which is not even confirm to be true yet). Every tom, d!ck and harry is now looking for spoon to dive in.


I hate and condemn clampdown on women right in any form. - BUT a country just made a policy, a temporary one, maybe due to security issues, or to wade off western influence. The country has the right to make policy for it citizens in the best interest of the country or what they consider so.

The question is what the fvck is anybody going to do about it? Ask the evil western power to invade the country again for the third time?

Here we go again. Are you really sure you hate clamp down on girls and women rights? Am not so sure with the inner meaning of your words. The Topic reads Islam not Afganistan, lets not forget how it started in the first place.

babasolution:
Have seen several threads and comments were lokoja is described as the worst capital in Nigeria and the most underdeveloped.

But is this really true given the situation of kogi.

Kogi state is composed of minority tribes who do not have strong representatives at the federal. How many strong kogi ministers have there been since 1999.

The federal investments in kogi such as the ajoakuta steel are moribund.The state investments like the dangote cement factory are doing relatively well but it's not enough.

Kogi population is relatively low with different tribes who stay more in their localities than in the capital, that's why I think lokoja is small.

Most kogi people either reside in Abuja or in their hometowns not in lokoja.

Have been in kogi before like over ten years back,I think the state is cool and quite organised. It just needs work on the roads which are particularly bad and clean up.

Lokoja is not bad as people paint it,most people that travel through lokoja only see the outskirts and assume that's how the whole town is.

Lokoja is a small town but not as bad as painted given the situation of the state itself

Thats far from the truth, when we have some Northern states you don't even remember their capital how will Lokoja with its closeness to Abuja be so bad when compared to what we have elsewhere

God1000:
But it wasn't this bad then, there was culture of shame which no longer exist


Hook up has become a walk of life for many young women in our society.

It has always been so bad, sex as a transaction did not start today, imagine if your wife ask you fpr something and you do not give her she stops giving you sex that was what our Mothers were used to.

We Men have to put an end to it and stop the menace, but here comes SIMPS who always want to please a worn our kitten rush to provide their endless needs at his own detriment. I will never bend for any woman. Philosophy before Science, if you can't think properly you will be at the receiving end of this rubbish

Ttalk:
When you tell them about the role played by Tinubu, they will downplay it and say it doesn't matter.

They said raising IGR is nothing but hogwash, to them, IGR means nothing and should not be used as a yardstick to measure the performance of a governor.

This makes me wonder why everyman including Tinubus critics strives to grow their income. Every worker wants a pay rise, and a businessman wants a higher profit, but Tinubus critics say IGR doesn't reflect in the standard or the people.

How do you raise your standard of living if you can't generate enough income to meet your needs?

They are so delusional and fancies the feeding bottle arrangement where every state depends on the FG to meet its needs. No wonder their forefathers were the ones that truncated regional autonomy while the children keep maintaining it.

How do you rationalize people that are against the state's collection of VAT?

Now we are seeing the wonders that a high IGR can do for a state. Today, Lagos is setting another record in sub-Saharan Africa by modernizing its transport system.

Let other states increase their IGR so they can embark on transformation projects, I'm sick and tired of people defending mediocre when they should be talking, a state like Anambra should be on the course if the foundation laid by Chris Ngige to generate income for the state have been kept by the subsequent governors, today, Anambra has dropped on that ladder and it would take the state 7years budget to do what Lagos will do in a year with its budget of 1.7 trillion.

Let's all charge our state governors to perform and stop celebrating mediocrity.

If Tinubu has done it in Lagos, he will do it again at the federal level.

Vote Bola Ahmed Tinubu,

Tinubu is already the President of Nigeria, whether Adeboye or Oyedepo or all the Churches like it or not and FYI am not a Moslem. What is holding his Presidency is February 2023 once that day comes he will win flawlessly

Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks

Free kitten kill you there you don see wetin Konji don do you abi. What you did was very mean knowing she is a dependant

Deltafirstson:
Bishop Idowu-Fearon was reacting to a statement credited to the General Overseer of Living Faith Church, Bishop David Oyedepo, ‘the number of people who vote for APC in 2023 will determine the number of mad people in Nigeria’.

To me, Bishop David Oyedepo is 100% correct.

You and your bishop Oyedepo will cry us a river when Tinubu wins the 2023 election.

He can relocate his Church to anywhere in the World for we gain nothing as a nation from that Church

SLAP44:
Actually, the only thing keeping the Monday sit at home going is the government's refusal to obey a court order and release Nnamdi Kanu. Nothing else.

The people of rhe South east are coping with it, if you notice, the OP of this thread and almost all those lamenting below me are northerners, who wants to see the south east hurt.

A region that survived a 3 year old war, cannot be afraid of resting every Mondays.

Vote for Peter Obi.

Keep on maiming and kilkjng your people and taking your region to post civil war days, while the rest of Nigeria move ahead.

Nnamdi Kanu's case is not yet over we await the appeal from the federal govt. and wait for the court judgement from such appeal.

He is a flight risk and a security threat hence the govr have qll the right to keep him in prison till 2031