justyhere: I just discovered the shock of my life. My friend is about to get married in a month’s time to this wealthy fine man, she's a few weeks pregnant and looks pretty happy.
Last week, I was with her and her fiancee came around, it was all fun and we took several pictures and I needed to get them so the guy just handed me his phone to send the pictures to my phone.
They are a very clingy couple and they left to the bedroom to go do their thing, maybe to keep me company or maybe he forgot or for whatever reason, but he didn't get his phone. I was done with the transfer and was just going through his photos randomly, I saw a folder and there are pictures and videos of him doing sexual things with different female corpses. I was so terrified, I returned the phone to home Page, cleared the recently used apps and I left immediately, I have not been in contact with my friend for days now, she keeps calling, I can't bring myself to speak to her.
But I feel guilty and angry, angry that he would do such and even record them and keep them, guilty that I am letting my best friend into a trap of a marriage.
What do I do in this case? I'm so confused and worried.
I won't tell you to mind your business or report to your friend, but what I will say to you is be aware your life is already in danger the moment you speak out, cause your friend will confront him and he might deny and she will tell him you told her.
Your life is more important than a marriage that can fail and what if she is aware already?
All I will say to you is first think of your life and the life of your loved ones.
Your life is more important than someone who jumps into marriage with someone who they cannot vouche for 100%
Privatepart00: What a waste you are She still took you for granted? Despite all your quotations What an irony of life Start crying and begging her if you want your marriage . Let me stretch leg laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The mugu think say Women are weaker vessel and needs pampering. A Woman must be corrected but I don't subscribe in beating up, fisting and punching a woman. Correctional slaps sometimes is highly needed and drawing the line with her so she knows when u either walk away or correct her verbally or mildly physically
Any Man that cannot vent anger at a woman is a weak man. Always let them know how much there hurt you and if you see no changes, kindly walk away and be a bigger Man for yourself. No woman I repeat no woman is worth taking you to jail, causing u mental health issues and you been a SIMP for her, no matter her beauty, let her be a goddes she is not worth it.
Humans and Women were created with some imperfection, Excretion faeces, Menstruation, Ageing and Fading, Farting Even Rihanna dey Pollute Fart and other imperfections in characters and ways of life, so once I remember humans are not spotless and no one is, I know even the so called big head white racist and any woman is nothing more than imperfection and worthlessness
Infolenka: This election period has opened my eyes. I don't use Twitter often but I've been following election proceedings on Twitter and I've come across lots of wife materials. I'm talking about beautiful, intelligent working class women. Omo they choke.
Forget Instagram and Tiktok, that one na olosho base. Forget Nairaland, most girls here are ugly or men behind female moniker. Twitter is where you will see beautiful smart and educated working class women.
See this beautiful smart working class lady I met yesterday. Omo.
That's so true, cause over at Twitter you see who have high level of intellectual reasoning quicker more than any other social platform
Tboy222: Bishop FEYI PROPHECY in which he prophesied about this elections might actually come to pass,l I don't listen or believe any prophecy about elections,but stumbling on his prophetic insights concerning the 2023 elections gave me goosebumps,why? I have never seen a prophecy so detailed in my life.
He said the elections would be rigged in favour of BAT,due to an agreement with someone up there,he said BAT would do a kizz daniel buga dance to celebrate his victory. Which will trend on social Media.
Then somehow words would leak that the result was rigged,and a revolution greater than endsars would reverberate round the nation.
Yemi Osinbajo would be appointed as an interim president, then on the day of inauguration with green white green littering everywhere tinubu would then be arrested by soilders,peter obi would also be arrested after initially going to court.
The arrest of peter obi would increase the level of violence in the whole nation. They would then both be released,the supreme court would then give the mandate to Peter Obi after enough evidence proving he was robbed.
We are going to have two presidential inaugurations one on the 29th of May and another on a later date,the first would be for Bola Ahmed Tinubu which would be disrupted by the army,the second would give peter Obi back his denied .....
SUFFERInSMILIIN: I have heard a lot of guys in the country say that women from other African countries are much better that there home women. Most of the young guys and now dreaming of Mary and African woman from outside the Country. I have also seen it in UK Switzerland and Brazil most Nigerian guys there did African women but not the Nigerian one.
One of the Nigerian guys in Nigeria which came back from Mozambique narrate how the women are. If you hear the way this guy talks about mozambican women you will be shocked. If you just see how old of this guy is which came back for Christmas from some other African countries are talking about the girls their your head will go 360. One of these guys for Malawi told me whatever you have the girls do not care they will still love you
Please do not shoot the messenger I want some honest answers
An average Nigerian Woman is worthless and knows no love. Full of deceit and thinks the world revolves around their yansh
NwaIdeato: The bastard came with thugs to disrupt voters at one of the polling units and the crowd resisted, a clash erupted and boys downed one of the pigs, the left took off...tension everywhere now and security operatives have been deployed
Very sad, fake news.
This guy posted here is someone who died in Kogi state, am from Kogi State and I know people who posted this picture about his death.
APC will win and all you online activist will lick your sore
GeorgWashinton: Depression for what? When I earn 200k/ month and she can't manage it like a sane woman would do. Even people earning 50k look better than my family.
Ohh that's part of the problem, she manages your finances and once she feels it cannot guarantee the kind of life she wants she flirts around and nake life unbearable.
What ďoes she do for living, Do not say she is a petty trader/house wife. Once you make wring marital decision it will haunt you for eternity
Prettygirl200: That your number 1 is what all the broke brainless redpillers here do preach, I don't want a broke bitch, I don't want a liability who can offer me only pussy blah blah blah, but you all with your small senses refused to understand that u can't eat your cake and have it. First of all a woman wasn't created to shoulder any responsibility or whatsoever a man was created for that. A woman was created as an help mate( to support) but this generation of children in form of men want a woman that they can be splitting bills with in everything, after splitting bills with her,
U expect her to give u 100% loyalty, cook for u, do the house chores all alone, raise your kids for you, go to work, come back and still give u sex all in one body? U guys must be MAD!!! 😡 I have always said this and I will say it again, if u want an independent woman that will be splitting bills with you, be rest assured that she will have a say in whatever decision u make, she will detect in that house and u have no right whatsoever to tell her not to.
Any man that wants an independent woman should be ready to do everything 50/50 with her, simple as ABC.
A Woman splitting bills and taking responsibility in a Family is the normal thing for any and all Men to do, except your favorite meals "SIMPS", if you can't handle shouldering responsibility you are not an adult, and please for your mental and psychological growth, understand that Women are not made to be lazy and helpers or help mates as you call them, but are created to be responsible and pay lots and lots of bills. Life should not be easy for any Woman and it has never been for any.
Stop this ranting it won't help you in anyway cause your future husband will just suffer you when he knows you detest taking part and sacrificing for your own Family.
"A Woman is not suppose to split bills my foot" unah go suffer.
Happy am leaving my baby Mama for a whole year to take care of the responsibility of her Child and for her to learn to respect herself not me, I don't care for any child who will still not be responsible and listen to his father after been spoilt and breed by all these hateful Women of our generation.
It takes a wise child to Love his/her father truly, there only love you for what you can provide, but if you are dead there will survive, So Men learn to live your life's and let Women suffer
triple996: And some people argued with me that cultist only kill fellow cultist Diz idiots have no positive impact in d society. benue state have cultist bt NA to run dem sabi whenever dem site herdsmen ...only to deal with innocent students later
Kill them all, why is our government so lenient with this cultist.
GeorgWashinton: My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.
I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.
Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.
My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.
I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.
Hope you are alive first and not contemplating of committing suicide.... let her go, you will be fine trust me. It will be hard but it's better to allow her go since that's all she wants.
Afodot0022: Good day nairalanders. Its good to meet the family again and happy new year. I know majority of people here will be familiar with my story base on my previous trends. If you are unaware, you can go to my previous trends to get better perspective. Family, another one don happen again o. You all know i told you that i caught my wife cheating with a guy some times ago. I forgave her and gave her a second chance, but it seems that word that a cheat will always be a cheat is damn true. After all the issues that have happened between myself and i, another issue of unfaithfulness was unraveled today. I noticed my wife was chatting with someone on whatsapp and when i got closer to her, she became uncomfortable and this made me to request for her phone to know whatsup. I noticed there is this guy she was chatting with and in that chat, it was obvious that she deleted the previous conversation she had with the guy. In holding the phone, a chat from this guy entered and reads... PLS MAKE SURE YOU DELETE THIS CHAT O. I DON'T WANT WAHALA. When i saw this chat, i was shocked and also marvelled that what could make the guy send such message to my wife if they have not been have something in common. I acted as if it was my wife that was chatting and start wining the guy to know better. The guy was saying things that look like she has something to do with my wife. One of the chat was that, he knows that he is safe cos he is sure he is always in a safe hand with her. I was angry and furious when i saw all this. I asked her what was going on between the both but you know women, she denied and started crying that there is nothing going on between she and the guy. But my people is it possible for a guy to send such kinda message to a married woman if there is nothing attached. Pls am just tired of this woman called my wife cos i decided to give her a second chance because of my two daughters but it seems she is just ready to use her own hand to destroy her marriage. Even though there is nothing going on with the both, how do i believe her this time with the previous experience have had with her. How will a married woman be so stupid and foolish and never learnt from her mistake. Pls i know you guys will abuse and insult me for accepting her back but honestly i am also regretting aswell and am ready to send her back to her family. I have had enough of all of this. God marriage is not easy atall.
Sorry you will cry for eternity and another 365 days.
DonOG: Good morning guys, an incident happened over the weekend which I would love to share with you guys so you can help judge the case because some of my friends are insisting I handled it wrongly.
A couple of my military friends, a navy officer and a soldier came into town last week and proposed to take my girlfriend out so we proceeded to her to pick her up from school. On our way we stopped by a fueling station to get fuel so I gave them a location to go wait for me while I take a bike to pick her up since the queue was a bit much. On our way out of school we came across two guys on the walk way, they exchanged glances and asked each other "what", one of the guys happened to be her coursemate that she already told me about sometime ago.
According to her, the guy used to be an errand boy for a notorious cult guy that used to ask her out during her first year, so the said guy was the one always coming to deliver messages to her. she didn't want to get involved with cultists so she would normally leave the guy hanging around without giving him a response to the messages. After the guy asking her out left the school the guy somehow started nursing a grudge against her.
While we stood at the school gate waiting for a bike the guy showed up again, this time with five guys with him and accosted my babe. He demanded to know why she talked to him rudely, before she could say jack he landed a jaw shattering slap on her cheek that nearly sent her sprawling to the ground. I was embarrassed but had to apply wisdom because the area wasn't my territory coupled with the fact that I was obviously out numbered. I held the guy's hand when he proceeded to slap her again and asked him why he would embarrass me by hitting a lady that was with me. Meanwhile my girlfriend was behind my back hurling insults at the guy saying stuff like he had the gut to hit her because he has started moving with cultists and other stuff I don't recall.
While I was trying to placate the situation, I noticed more guys closing in on us and knew I would be in danger if I didn't leave the place. I somehow managed to get a bike and took her away. My military friends were furious when they heard what happened insisted we go back to the school. I told them to die the matter because even if they are military guys we were still out numbered and we might get seriously injured before their backup comes.
They insisted on going back to the school, we went and as expected didn't meet any of the guys. They made a report to the school security and promised to come back the next day. On our way back they kept making calls and arranging a squad that would pick up the guy the next day while I kept trying to make them see reasons why it was going to be a bad move.
Firstly they can't possibly apprehend all the cultists in the school so arresting the guy will simply make the girl a moving target for the rest of the members and I wasn't willing to take that risk for someone that has just a couple of months to graduate. We might go and display power in the school and go back home while the girl will be all alone in the school without any form of protection, its not like they are going to assign a personal bodyguard to her. What if matters go south and a life or even lives get lost, it would be embarrassing to hear that it was all because of a girl that will move on to the next guy in a matter of weeks if anything happens to me. I was finally able to convince them and make them stand down.
The following day I brokered a peace meeting between my girlfriend and the guy through the cult guy's cousin that was also her friend though I didn't show up at the location. I even asked her to apologize to the guy for insulting him just to massage his ego so the matter could die down. My girlfriend recorded everything while the guy kept threatening her that she wasn't going to graduate for insulting him because she was with a guy. He went on to say that I was the target of the attack because they thought I would react to the assault on her and maybe fight back. They were even laughing at her that she's dating a coward that couldn't defend her in an attack, I just smiled.
My girlfriend was upset that she had to apologize to someone that hit her, but I told her that sometimes we have to choose our fights wisely. You don't go into a fight with someone that doesn't have anything to lose. Some of my friends feel I am a coward but I still feel I handled it the best way. What do you guys think??.....sorry for the epistle or any errors.
You handled it the best way for sure. Nice to have kept your cool when she was slapped.
lazynairalander1: Last week I had an interview for a data analyst teaching job, after series of interview process which includes. Analyzing data with Excel and BI Extracting and cleaning data with Python &SQL Modeling, analyzing and visualization with R. Though my Python prowess wasn't that good but I was told that what they needed is a data analyst who can handle R very well and I really impressed in that aspect.
I showed my data analysis projects on the above software excluding Python. Then we went to oral interview which led to the salary part. I was asked to name my price. I told them to give me a breakdown on how many days I will be coming to work because I learnt it will be part time teaching job, the interviewer agreed to mail me my schedule.
I was hoping it will be weekend (like Friday evening, Saturday & Sunday) only for me to realized it will be Mon-Thur (that's not part time, I told the manager or so). The worst part is that they are willing to pay me 10k/week for the job and I will be paid each week I come to work which means it's only the weeks the students avail themselves that I will teach and be paid.
Those tech pay such ridiculous amount or am just unlucky? What am I expected to do with 10k weekly? Transport? Data? Food? Electricity? What exactly?
I was furious though and I am still furious.
Say no to slavery, you will surely get something better and a place that will appreciate your skill. Leave that people if u want to make something out of 2023
gozmok1: Northners will vote for LP and PDP in presidential election mark my word.
Christians will not vote for APC.... look at what is happening in kaduna MUZLEM/MUZLEM REGIME
No student will vote for APC....our future in danger should APC govt continue in Power after what they did to Nigerians we will never forget...
Lekki MASSACRE 😭😭😭😭😭 Still fresh in our mind.
APC may win slightly in Southwest.
last presidential election APC was controlling the six states in south west but the results of the presidential election was too close to call, PDP even won Oyo and Ondo with seating APC governors. See data below:
The people that are making noise, thinking a certain party is administering the state, will give an edge. I just pity them. The performance of APC had not even helped them but they are convenient to make noise on state election matter. For years now, APGA had been winning Anambra Governorship election but at the Presidential level, PDP had been carrying the day.
No doubt, Tinubu will want to win big in south west, then throw around dollars and naira but I doubt he will get pass 55% of the votes with his money because people are angry because of hunger.
Last election and this election is not same. Atiku and Obi will nor get 2Million votes in the whole of South West this time around.
What is left to fight for is the North and please never underate TINUBU/JAGABAN, never do that, when 25th comes you will be shocked how TINUBU will win this coming g election. It is his time, and nothing will stop it. Emi Lokan, learn to say it too when it is your time, so your destiny will not be delayed. TINUBU is your next President, get use to it
Malory: Kunle my friend told me how they were threatened by Tinubu and Sanwo Olu to rally for them hence the reason why they are here.
Are your normal bro. Threaten by who abeg. Stop spreading fake news. No one can threaten that organizational and we won't even get a voice note of the threat. Bleep off u Arrow
Jennyclay: Broke men are the most shameless people living on earth. I'm allergic to broke and wretched men. I hate broke men like Kilode!
How can you sue a lady because of ordinary 3k transport . Shame!! Big shame!!
I was jejely on my own, when one broke wretched man wanted to send me 5k, biko what can I do with 5k ? I just told him to hold his nonsense 5k to himself, then I blocked him immediately.
Broke men everywhere!
Jennyclay, what about your 60 Years old Men that treats you like Clay... Why worry about broke Young Men, we are surely not your type.
Good judgement against worthless bitchess for sure, swallow the pills and if u do the same, deceit from it henceforth
stephenduru: In the early hours of this day Sunday 15th January 2023, the Rectory (Fathers’ House) of Saints Peter and Paul Catholic Church, Kafin Koro was fiercely attacked by bandits and Rev. Fr Isaac Achi was shot dead and burnt beyond recognition while his assistant Fr Colins Omeh sustained severe bullet wounds.
Very Rev. Fr Isaac Achi was a Senior Priest of the Catholic Diocese of Minna, Niger State, Nigeria. He was also the parish priest of SS Peter and Paul Catholic Church, Kafin Koro in Niger State and the Dean of Kafin Koro Deanery.
Pray for the Church in Nigeria. Pray for the Christian communities. RIP Father Isaac Achi
Bandits abi Islamic terrorists. There should point out the difference cause this does not look like the work of bandits but hard-line Jihaddist BASTARDS THAT WILL PERISH WITH THEIR WORTHLESS GOD IN HEAVEN OR IN HELL
In your dreams your Excellency. He will remain in Prison for all his treasonable acts. We do not need a surety when we have the criminal in our grasps. Biafra APOLOGIST
Why people dey claim to be blind to this fact. Buhari saved Nigeria from near collapse and place us in the part of progress. One day we will all celebrated this Man
If what is in this report is even half truth, Emefiele needs to be arrested and questioned. No one is above the law of the land. He should submit himself for questioning
Romance › Re: Should I Tell My Bestfriend That Her Boyfriend/fiancee Sleeps With Dead Bodies? by JohnOkolo: 9:45pm On Mar 01, 2023
...only to deal with innocent students later 
