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Themilkboy:
No it's not HIV and I don't feel hot inside.

Please feel hot inside small naa

Ibtxxo:
I am really sad.
I just packed in new and ant has spoiled my soup and stew that is supposed to last me one week.
How do I stop this madness

Fry the Ants naa!!! Just add small grounded pepper. Protein booster

BlackfyreRebell:
Please advice me
My ex husband and I are divorced 2 years ago. He recently acquired an European citizenship, he also wants to extend the citizenship to our son. Though I thought it a good idea but I can't shake the feeling that he is trying to use that to take him away from me.
He told me our son will need to come over there to finish the process of his citizenship. But when I went to submit the "application" what I saw on it is different from what he told me. The paper read that I am consenting to my son to go and reunite with his father. Or is that the way they process it?
Please those that have gone through same should please come to my aid, this is my only child and I can't afford to lose my child this way.

I just sincerely hope you will be able to explain better to "your son" how he ended up in this shithole years later, how quick you forget the boy is also his son and he wants the best for him just the same way you do. He is trying to be a responsible dad to his son. I really hope you alone can afford him that or else, he will grow up to hate you more for it if things go south. I understand you are trying to protect your son, but you also need to help him maximize every opportunity life throws at him and help him manage it going forward. Take that shot for him and pray it works out well. It is worth it, if you need legal advice, please take one. And for the nay-sayers, ignore them as they will kill for such opportunity for their own children.

If you do, you will not cast the update. Na urgent 2k you dey find

haffaze777:
Yoruba to the world.we ain't anybody's mate.

And your family name is what again??

Just be his BROTHER... that's your damn job!!!

It entails a lot. Only with love brother...

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

Is it that you do not know that you are a fool to contemplate marrying such a girl or you want a second opinion to state the obvious to you that if you mistakenly impregnate her or marry her, you are finished. That day she called her ex to come pick her should have been the deal breaker for you. As little as it sounds, it has grave consequences if she is your wife. May God give you the needful to do right for yourself.

Clone007:
Want to know what these are?

Wetin be this

etrouble:
Name one person in your generation that is up to Wike

Leave generation alone, who is your own father?? wike ass licker

GUNITGuy:
Ss/See way of doing Politics.... I don't know what they define as courage to be betrayal unloyal and fight unnecessary in an attempt to prove they're in charge....
This one barely spend 3weeks already doing what they are known for

But you would rather let him siphon and pay the resources and revenue of Rivers state as homage to his oga at the top who feels he is entitled to a percentage of a whole state's income to keep his personal structure in place, just one man's ambition o and put the lives of millions of its residents in jeopardy.

I have said it that many nigerians are very and incredibly stewpid sehh..... Loyalty to a man against the livelihood of millions of people.. Haa, ogbeni, you have successfully become h.opeless.. Your base mentality is appalling.

Curse777:
Law makers?! Did he function without an assembly

Bee re lowo Ori ee... Agbadorian and cassava man.. When the matter no favor them, they run to check the constitution.

You are had my attention for good five minutes.. Weldone

07066282201.. Please add me for some serious tutorial

Igboland:
What he said is true small time your foolish tribesmen will claim they developed the place now but we no see una papa anywhere near it development now but we know the impact n initiator of the Eko Atlantic.

It remains Bola Ahmed Tinubu that you love to hate with his Yoruba tribesmen but na in that hate of the superior Yoruba tribe you n your household go perish.

Funny enough, your own father is an ogogoro drinker pissing on himself every night. Bola Ahmed tinubu Everytime, tell me, who is your father

Johnweeked12:
Please don't reveal it to me. Start with your siblings, your extended family, community in that respective ordee

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Please don't reveal it to me. Start with your siblings, your extended family, community in that respective order

Maks27:
a few days ago, I noticed a thin black line on right side of my iPhone XR's screen, and I also saw recently that the line is longer than before. I tried to take a screenshot, but it does not appear in the photo. I tried to restart the phone and had my software update, but it's still there. What seems to be the problem?
This problem started when I changed the charger could that be the issue

It is Gone

popweezy:
She just called me and told me she has been missing her period for the past few days

I'm damn depressed rytnow

Pls what is the next thing?? I'm not ready to be a father

Normal level now.... Just find labourer work to start saving towards delivery naa.. No fear joo,. Take two seaman sachets for my head, i go pay

spirul77:
nobody is judging you, My intention in highlighting the need for compassion wasn't to judge differing opinions but to advocate for empathy in the face of challenges.We all have unique viewpoints shaped by our experiences and beliefs.

My aim wasn't to claim any moral superiority but rather to emphasize the importance of understanding and compassion. In a world where differences often lead to division, I believe it's essential to foster empathy, especially when someone is facing difficulties.

And finally, if you are a fornicators, adulterer, arm robber or liar you are not better than the said j boogy

Can you actually listen to yourself ?? Like are you even normal should be a question you ask yourself each morning... What are you actually justifying here... Haaaa, if hypocrisy is a person, please look into the mirror. What sense are you trying to makeup here baffles me. That a full grown man with two scrotum in-between his legs will voluntarily with a full dosage of pride turn himself into a woman overnight, spite and curse whoever has an opposing view to what he is into, then operation slay mama goes wrong, he now has the guts to ask for help when people who actually needs it has no hope in sight... Let me ask you, why dont you empty your bank account for his worthy course if you are that concerned... You are a hypocrite and it still baffles me... Tuehhh...

MidasTouch15:
I've just created the group but nairaland is messing up the link. Just drop your numbers to be added

Add me pls 07066282201

HenryThegreat1:
Who else got this email.

Yeah, i did. Guess we should wait for further update soon

ehikwe22:
You well so?

With all protocols duly observed .... I don't think so sir!!!

Ayodeoba:
Hello Nairaland, pls I seek for your opinions about this isssue affecting our marriage life.
We re young couple, we just got married.
My wife had always been shouting of pain whenever we re having sex, I believe sex is meant to be enjoyed btw two party.
Any one with remedies or medication to use. Kindly help

Buy Joy soap 🧼..... Lobatan

Slimzzy00:
I met this babe last 2 months on tinder. We had a great connection and from there we started dating.

The energy she gives is 100% much more than I've ever gotten in my life. She texts first, calls first. This kinda made more attached and I fell in love with her. All these while it was online relationship.

We made a plan to meet up last week Saturday and then she stopped replying my text. I tried to reach out to her but it was all in vain. Then I deleted her number in frustration. That was the moment she now reached out to me that she had an electricity problem in her school that was the reason she's not been stable online.

Then she started throwing tantrums about me deleting her number. I was trying to explain to I deleted her number cos she was ignoring me in the first place before I knew it, she blocked me. I tried reaching out to on Instagram and I was blocked too. I'm so heartbroken right now. I'm a guy who has suffered when it comes to love and when I thought I found the right person I was wrong again.

Sniper is just 2300

Sheistoopretty:
Men just can't take back what dey give,,,,, u want to cheat and expect ur woman to go pray for u right? No she must cheat back.... F©©ls

Nigeri@n M€n are just Uzeless..... All of them

That Your pap.a with bald head follow

progressb4andno:
Keep encouraging them, he's a scammer beggar

If e easy, do your own..... Ode

You don't have to do that. If you cannot help, don't spoil

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nairalandkachy1:
Around 1,500 bodies of Hamas militants have been found in Israel around the Gaza Strip, the army said Tuesday, as it pummelled the Palestinian enclave with air strikes.

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Tetraozonaitera:
Even the mad man under the bridge of Lagos is smarter than you. Go up and see the scores since 2008.
See who lose pass.
As I don see say your head no correct.

Upon all the data up there, you still dey Yan stupidity for mouth.

All is pointing to the state of your sanity.
You go get well at last.

Naa you still dey give am hope oooo. This one don already pass be 🚨