Hi......,

Three years ago, I was in school, my final year. I had a close friend who’s mother was ill with kidney problem. So, she had to move out of the hostel to stay with her mother to care for her since she is the only girl out of four children. It was hard for her to also combine her courses in school, so I used to help her copy her notes, do her assignment and during exam time, I used to go to her house to read with her so she can catch up.

Her family became like mine. The boys were working and some schooling so while I assisted my friend with her studies, she assisted her mom who also had a nurse that comes to see her few times in a week. As things got worse, with their mother’s health, things got really tough for the family as they watched their mother gradually slip away.

One day, my friend asked me to help her take food to her dad’s office …. that the father was not eating properly and its slowly beginning to affect his health. I agreed and took the food to her father. When I got to the father’s office, he is a Barrister. The office was empty. I think he was not able to handle cases because of his wife’s state of health. I met only the security man who told me oga is in his office.

When I got inside, I kept calling him….daddy where are you, etc….eventually…he answered and said, who is that…I answered is chichi…he asked me to come in. When I got in, he seemed very happy to see me. I told him I brought food for him cos his daughter was worried he has not eaten. He asked me to dish the food which I did. He asked me to wait and eat with him. I told him no cos the food wont be enough for both of us. He was very happy and asked me to always come around to visit him in the office cos I made him happy .

To me, I just wanted him to be happy same way I wanted my friend to be happy. They were all going through this situation very hard. So, the next time my friend asked me to take food to her dad, I gladly went. This time the secretary was there but soon as I came, he sent her on an errand and asked me to come into his office. He ate his food. We were gisting as he was eating.

After eating, he asked me to share his meat at least, if I will not eat with him…he asked me to come and take the meat from his plate, I got up and went to take the meat…as I did…he pulled me close and I was shocked…he was pleading with me…that he has not had s3x since his wife fell ill for over 2 years. That he has fallen in love with me cos I made him happy.

Truthfully, I was confused but he said I am like an angel God sent to comfort his family and he really needs my comfort too…that he is tired of acting so strong…that he needs someone to hug him and show him love. That made me feel like I needed to be there for him. So, I allowed him…he kissed me and began to squeeze my breasts…he made love to me.

After that, he was so happy and asked me to forgive him, that it will never happen again. He asked me if I was on any contraceptive, I said no, so he gave me money to buy postinor. After that day, I started to avoid him. He noticed and kept sending me texts to forgive him, that he was very weak that day. I said ok…no problem but I will not let it happen again cos that is like betraying my friend and his sick wife. He agreed.

After like eight months later, his wife......

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Ofunaofu:


You mean this

Hi,

My marriage of 10 years is going through what I consider the biggest challenge right now, and I do not know how to whether this storm. I have prayed and prayed to God for his divine intervention. It seems God is silent. Its seems my marriage will not survive this. Oh my darling husband has shattered my heart into million pieces….yet, he says he has done nothing wrong. That is why it hurts so bad.

Its a long story but I will try to make its short. So, around February this year, I overheard my husband and one of his best friend’s wife on the phone. They were talking for more than one hour. I was worried. Folake, is TJ’s wife. TJ is my husband’s friend from University. When I heard them talking that day, I knew something was wrong. All my husband was saying that I could hear was him telling him to calm down and take it easy.

So, after the call, my husband told me that TJ and Folake are having marital issues and that Folake has moved out of their house. I was so worried cos they are good friends to us. What my husband told me was that TJ has been sleeping with their maids and Folake could no longer take it anymore and she has left their house. I was dumbfounded cos I never knew TJ to be such a man who could cheat on his wife with a domestic help.

Well, after that, I thought my husband intervened and spoke to his friend. At least, man to man. I did not think it was necessary to intervene, after all…its not me the wife spoke to…she spoke to my husband and my husband should talk to his friend. Then in March which was TJ’s birthday, I sent him a happy birthday message and he blocked ne after that. I became worried.

So I called my husband told him what happened. My husband warned me not to talk to TJ or his wife again. That they have been cut off from our lives. I asked why and all he said was, are you going to trust my judgment as your husband or are you going to question my actions? That was when I knew something was wrong. In my head, maybe my husband tried to intervene and him and TJ maybe fell out and he decided to cut them off. I felt bad for Folake but I had to obey my husband. I cut them off.

Then in June, it was TJ and Folake’s wedding anniversary. Usually, I celebrate both of them on their anniversary but now that they are separated and we are no longer in talking terms, I did not want to send her any message. But strangely, Folake sent me a message ….a very long one….she cursed me and my husband in that message in that message. She accused us of destroying her marriage and cursed us that our own marriage will never work either.

Very confused, I picked up the phone and called her. She did not pick but after calling her several times, she eventually picked up. I asked her why she was cursing my family and she said because we deserve it. I said I do not know what she is talking about. That was when she told me what really went down. Folake told me that last December, my husband was at their house visiting and they were all having a good time.

Their kids had gone to their grand parents for Christmas and they were just chilling and catching up. They were talking about how free they felt without the kids being around and that they were having the best s3x,etc. Then, my husband was like, there is nothing like best s3x with the same woman after many years of marriage cos there is nothing new to explore when you are with the same woman for years.

They were like what do you mean, my husband was like, couples should strive to bring excitement into their marriage. My husband went to suggest to TJ and Folake that they are other ways to make a marriage exciting by....

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I feel like sharing my story....maybe to lighten the burden I am feeling or maybe to help someone out there to learn from my mistakes. And maybe the love of my life can find it in his heart to forgive my errors, perhaps if he reads my confession and apology. I came across lively stones few months ago. I have seen how the house responds to peoples relationship stories and mistakes. I am not here to justify anything...neither am I here to receive insults...I want to unburden myself.

Please pardon the long write up. Four years ago, I met the most amazing man. We met in a night bus going to Enugu from Lagos. I was going to visit my family and spend my first annual leave with them. We bonded over the trip and chatted for several weeks. Gabriel (not real name) is a business man with several branches. He was going for a business meeting in Enugu, his flight was cancelled and thank God for that cos that was how we met.

After I returned to Lagos, Gabriel came looking for me. He wanted a relationship that would lead to marriage. I loved him for that. I love a man who does not beat about the bush. Within five months of dating, he had proposed and arranged to meet my parents. My parents were a bit skeptical cos Gabriel is none Igbo. Igbo parents want their daughters to marry an Igbo. But Gabriel proved...


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True talk my bros

dawnomike:
The man is so inconsiderate... He was just looking for validation for his side chic -Nothing more.

And I huess the side chic does not even have a job to start with ...

Hi.......,

According to the lady, her husband demanded for pepper soup at an odd hour and she felt so tired to prepare it at the time because she just got back from work.

Her husband then called his sidechick in her presence who agreed to do the cooking.
In her words:
“My husband just came back from work by 7, had his bath. I served him his food, he rejected it and told me that he wanted to eat fish pepper soup by that time and I also just came back from work. I told him that it was not possible that he should wait for tomorrow. Fish pepper soup is something I have to plan and it takes time.

He got upset and called me lazy. In my presence he.....

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The Lost City is a recently released American action, adventure, and comedy film. The film was directed by the Nee brothers. They co-wrote the screenplay with Oren Uziel and Dana Fox, from a story conceived by Seth Gordon.

The film talked about a novelist and her cover model, Sandra Bullock and Channing Tatum, respectively, who must escape a billionaire, Daniel Radcliffe, and find the lost ancient city depicted in one of her books. Da’Vine Joy Randolph and Brad Pitt also star in the film.

The project was made public in October 2020, with Bullock joining as producer and star and Tatum joining in December of the same year The rest of the cast was announced to the public the following year.


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Loretta Sage is a reclusive middle-aged author who writes romance-adventure novels centered around a fictional hero named Dash McMahon, who is portrayed by cover model Alan Caprison. Her publicist, Beth Hatten, insists that she must embark on a book tour with Alan to promote her latest work.

After a disastrous start, mostly due to.......

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Hide my name and number please. I am a 40 year old man. I have been married for 8 years with 3 beautiful children and a lovely wife. Our marriage has been a beautiful one for the most part. I love my wife but we both have demanding careers. Sometimes, we had to bring in relatives to the house to help take care of our children but it began to bring about over familiarity, so we decided against our initial plan to get house maid.

We hear horrible stories of how maids treat children so we may sure that screen our maids and get proper background checks for them before we bring them into our home. We also installed camera in most parts of our house including her room. We got a 20 year old maid, someone who wants to learn a trade after working to get some money after a while.

Grace our maid is extremely modest and godly. Our children like her and the house chores are being done accurately. No issues with her. Sometimes, my wife goes through the camera footage but in recent times, shes been very busy, so am the one that goes through the footage. Its sometimes tiring just watching footages but I have to make the sacrifice cos we cant afford a surprise.

It was then I watched a footage of this seemly godly girl, Grace masturbating in her room one day. Come and see how this girl that ties her head all through the day, was shaking as she was fingering herself, she was moaning and shaking. Her nipples became so tensed. I was shocked and immediately.....


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My elder brother needs advice. Leke is our first son but he is last to marry out of four siblings. Everyone has been on his case to find someone and settle down but he has never been quite successful in relationships. So you can imagine the family's joy when he told us he was getting married to Kate, that he had dated for seven months prior.

Leke is already 41 years old. Very intelligent and one of the reasons, his career has taken him several places that he never really settled down. Some of the girls he even dated in the past were not good for him. But Kate seemed like a very good girl, very homely and kind. Everyone loved her and Leke loved her alot too.

But in October 2021, which was supposed to be their wedding day, on their wedding day....Kate broke my brother's heart. Kate abandoned my...

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You maybe right...But we would always twist story such that our clients privacy are protected. Alot of people can add two n two and they will guest the op of the story

thesicilian:
Sorry o, I have nothing to say. Sometimes I think these stories are just concocted to drive traffic to websites

Please keep me anonymous. I truly need advice because I think I may have made one mistake in my marriage and I may soon make another mistake if I don't get proper counsel. I got married five years ago. I really wanted to get married at age 25, so I got pregnant to hook my boyfriend to marry me. I am sorry I did that, I wish I knew better but I was avoiding the same my elder sister has, she is over 35 and not yet married but all my brothers are married.

So, we got married but my husband was not buoyant. When the twins were born, things were really tough for us financially. I eventually had to look for a job as secretary. My boss is a Muslim and a very randy one. He kept pursuing me and I eventually yielded because he promised to take care of me financially which was something I was finding hard. Imagine when the twins are not feeling fine, even to buy drugs for them was hard.

So, I did it for the money, I started sleeping with my boss until my husband found out and chased me out of our house. I begged and begged him but he was so furious and sent me packing without my children. My maid has been the one taking care of my children, though I visit them once every week.

My boss got me a place and he was happy because now, he had full access to me. Since then, my boss has been asking me to marry him and be his second wife. This man likes women too much, he has many side chicks so I just maintain and tell him.........


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I have been married for the last 7 years. My marriage is something I hold very dearly but I think I need a divorce. My story is long but I will try and summarize. I met my wife after she separated from her husband after 5 years of marriage with no children. I have a son from a previous relationship . My wife told me she and her ex separated because of domestic violence but I later found out it was because of the childlessness.

Going into this marriage, I was not bothered about having a child or not cos I am someone who believes that it is God that gives children. I also had it at the back on my mind that if my wife cannot have children, then we can adopt or do surrogacy.  I am very much in my son’s life, ensuring that I raise him well.


When I met my wife, I told her about my son. That he lives with my mother and sometimes his mother. She accepted. Since we got married, we have been trying to have a child but God has not blessed us yet. I know the pressure from family and society but the pressure is more from my wife’s family.

It was around the third year of marriage. My wife’s mother started asking what was delaying. I always told them that God will do it and I am not in any form of hurry. Anytime I said that, my wife takes it to mean because I already have a child from my past relationship, that I am not making it compulsory.

Several times, I have told my wife that I want to have kids with her but she should relax cos her anxiety may be the reason that we have not been pregnant. We have done all kinds of tests.....taken and still taking fertility drugs which are affected my wife….



https://livelystones.ng/2022/04/19/true-life-story-revelation-my-wife-cannot-bear-children-for-me-unless/

Note: This story is coming from a place of a hurt person, please be kind in your words and advice. 


Good Afternoon......

Is it possible to fall out of love with one's spouse? I think it has happened to me. I feel angry at myself for the poor decision in choosing him and not listening to my mum when she told me not to marry him. Where do I even start from?

How can one be married to a Man for eight years and he cannot even provide, protect not be a priest in his own home. He has no money yet he's very quarrelsome, keeping malice up and down.

Despite all my efforts to assist him so that he can start contributing financially nothing good has come out of any of them because he will run everything down, when one is trying to correct him he won’t take until he finally runs it down. I’m exhausted. Go and get a job he cannot even write a CV. So many sacrifices I’ve made. Now he has started the habit of stealing my money and telling lies.

I’m at my sister’s place for Omugwo and I see the way her husband is in control of the home and his family and I’m so envious. I’ve tried to express myself to my husband some things that he’s doing that I can’t stand but he ends up talking back at me or just ignoring what I’ve said.

So, I’m 100% responsible for taking care of myself, my new born son and my home plus incapacitated husband yet he stresses me, he’s not grateful and he’s so quarrelsome, keeping malice up and down. He’s home now while I’m in another state with my sister for Omugwo and he’s begging me to give him money to buy fuel. I’m ignoring him.

So if he cannot provide, he’s not grateful when I fit into his.....

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Hello.....

My name is Sunny (not real name). I am 38 years old, former Trailer driver until two years ago when I got sick with stroke. At first, we were using othordox medicine but spending all our money on hospitals and physiotherapy without any results, I had to go the traditional way. My wife who used to be a house wife, did not need to work because my job was paying very well. But now, she had to start working to sustain the family.


My wife’s work could not afford her time to take care of me. I needed a nurse to attend to me, bathe me and help me with the traditional therapy I was doing. My mother got me a traditional nurse from my village to come and help. This lady is quite good with some experience. With her help and massage, I can say I really improved over time.

I could still not walk but I felt my lower body area become active. I told my wife that I was active again and would like for us to engage in intimacy once in a while but she either is always busy with work or very tired when she comes back. I begged her to consider and she would flare up to say, is s3x the most important thing now because she has to work hard to take care of the family. Sometimes, I felt like she saw me as smelly or ashamed of me.

My nurse, when she would massage me, would notice how I get erection and she would.....


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I want to remain anonymous. I know some people will curse me for this, its ok but please also don't forget to advise me. To err is human.

Some months ago, I met a very attractive girl at a job interview. We both came for the interview in a mortgage bank. She was interviewed first and she waited for me. We left together to my place and had s3x.

After that, I didn't hear from her again. Like a week later, she called me that she got called to come and pick up her employment letter. I was happy for her but told her I was not called.

After she resumed, I think someone was fired or they resigned. So they called me back like almost 3 weeks after. The very week I resumed, my supervisor at work, told me she likes me and asked if I had a girlfriend, I said no...she asked me to hang out with her after work.

Thats how we started seeing each other. To my amazement, the..


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Please I need your help. I am a 27 year old woman. I got married to my husband four years ago. I am an NCE holder. I was in the village when my husband's people came to tell my father that their son in Lagos is 42 years old and he has refused to marry. So, they want to find him a wife and they came to my father for my hand in marriage.

They told my people that their son is a worker in Lagos and that he will even help me further my education. That is how I left my Village four years ago after my husband came for the wedding a month after. We travelled down to Lagos and got there in the Night. I was surprised at the area my husband was living. To me, it looked more dirty than our village.

My husband explained that Lagos life is all about hustling. I promised to work hard to support him. On getting home that night, my husband was living in a one room face me I face you apartment. We slept cos it was late, there was no light too. Around 4am, my husband woke me up for s3x. That night he broke my virginity. I was in s much pain but my mother already told me it might hurt.

Around 6am, a knock came on the door. My husband welcomed a lady he introduced to me as his Aunty and benefactor in Lagos. That the woman works as a nurse and she went for night shift. That she is staying in the room but that she does not disturb us cos she works in the night and sleeps in the day.

That day, I cleaned the room cos my husband went to work. I later found out he is a dispatch rider. After cleaning the house, I cooked and got ready for my husband. This woman slept till 5pm…she had her bath and later started dressing up. She did not dress as a nurse but she looked like a prostitute. Hmm…that is how I discovered that she was not really a nurse but a prostitute.

And that was how our life was. Even when I got pregnant, this woman was still our co-tenant, coming in the morning and leaving in the night. One night, we were sleeping, my husband woke me up, I was five months pregnant then. He told me that the woman, Nonye wants to work at home that night, so we have to sleep on the floor. That night, Nonye brought 4 men to sleep with her one by one. Me and my husband stayed on the floor.

I did not know how to find the courage to ask my husband why we have to live with this woman…why cant she find her own place. People were looking at me in the compound like a fool. But after that night, I told my husband that I cannot live in the same house with a prostitute….to sleep on the floor with pregnancy while she is on the bed f*cking different men.

Some men even be shouting as they are f*cking. I am very sure the whole neighborhood heard them. My husband now told me that he earns......

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Hello,

Please help me judge this matter. I am upset with my wife for what I considered as sacrilegious behavior. You know, I met her when I was working in my former company two years ago. She was a sales girl. It was love at first sight. I liked how she carried herself and she was such a pretty girl, any man would be lucky to have her.

We took to each other. She told me she was involved with someone but I told her I liked her alot. She later asked me if I want her to leave her lover for me. I told her I would be very happy if she can do that. I told her my intentions towards her is for marriage but being the first son of my family, I have responsibilities to my parents and younger ones so my target is to get married in the next 2 to 3 years but not immediately.

Jumoke (not real name) did not seem to mind. She later told me she broke up with her lover. She would spend time alot with me in my apartment. Later, out of curiosity, I asked her why she really left a lover that seemed better well to do than me to follow me. Truthfully, she opened up that the lover was a married man. That she was with him cos he was sponsoring her through part time school.
Jumoke left her married sugar daddy for me and decided to manage with me.

I really felt she loved me that much. After a year, she moved in with me. It was easier for both of us cos of our work. I got a job elsewhere but she was still with that company as a sales girl. Jumoke got pregnant a few months after she moved in with me.
Her parents insisted that I have to come do introduction before she gives birth even though I am not financially ready for a wedding. We had our introduction.

Since then, we have been working towards the traditional marriage and wedding. Eight months after my son was born, my wife’s father passed on. It was a very hard blow for her being the first child of the man.
The man’s burial was fixed for the next month but due to financial challenges, we asked for extension of the burial so that we can plan for the burial. My wife was very upset that I could not ...


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Keep my identity anonymous. I am battling with guilt right now, I am a 36 year old woman with 2 children. My husband is a medical doctor based in Saudi Arabia. We got married five years ago when he just started his plans to travel out of the country for better opportunities since Naija does not offer anything tangible for medical doctors.

The plan was for him to relocate to UK or US but the process was disappointing. After spending so much money and failed attempts, he was advised to try Ukraine or Saudi Arabia and maybe from there, find his way to UK or US. By that time, my second baby was almost 1 year old.
My husband felt it was not necessary for me and the children to join him cos Saudi is a temporary arrangement. Plus, the country has many strict rules. So, my husband left last year. He has not been able to visit us since but he sends money and calls regularly on vide call.

To maintain intimacy, we sometimes have phone s3x. But its definitely not the same. I never thought I would crave s3x so much. I told my husband that he has to try and come at least once in 3 or 6 months cos I am having difficulties being Hot and not being able to do anything about it.

My husband then bought me some s3x toys and even watched me use......


https://livelystones.ng/2022/03/14/true-life-story-my-husband-got-me-into-this-mess-but-things-have-become-very-messy/

My story is long but I will try to summarize it. I stayed with my aunt and my cousins from two hundred level at the university. My aunt is a single mother. Her husband sent her packing after he could no longer deal with her several cheating scandals. There were rumors that her last born was not fathered by her husband.

When I got admission into Uniben (not real name of school), I really did not want to stay with my aunt who also lives in Benin but I did not get accommodation in school and I could not afford to pay for off campus accommodation. I squatted with a friend in year one but by year two, my Aunt convinced me to come stay with her, at least for weekends.

It was during those times that I went to visit my Aunt that I met her boyfriend, Chuks (not real name).

Chuks is a business man, managing chain of businesses in the city. He was like 4 years younger than my Aunt but he seemed to like her alot. Yes, my aunt is very beautiful and attractive.

From what I observed, even though Chuks was caring for my Aunt, she was still messing around with other men and Chuks was not aware. Sometimes, I felt bad and ashamed.

Chuks, nice guy, always giving me and my cousins money. I felt bad for Chuks because he was planning to.....


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Hi.....,

I need your advice. My wife is not talking to me. I hurt her badly. I fear she will leave me but I do not know what to do. I am 38 years old, I married my wife  years ago, we have two children.

My wife is a caterer, she is into food business an supplies. Last year, I lost my job, so my wife suggested I join her in the food business, so we can grow the business together and maybe own our restaurant in the future.


I joined my wife to become the manager and accountant. I also helped in marketing her. You need to see the way women were flirting with me anyhow. My wife was not bothered because she trusts me.

I used to gist her what some women did behind her back when she was not watching.  Some would slip their no in a wad of cash to me, some would touch me inappropriately. I tried to fend them off without offending them cos they are customers.

That is how we met madam Uche. This lady owns a beauty salons. She would order food from us. Sometimes, I would deliver, sometimes my wife would deliver. She became friendly to me. I told my wife that madam Uche was after something else. My wife just advised me t be careful because the woman is one of her big customers.

We catered for one of her many big parties. Unfortunately, some of the food got bad in the process. Madam Uche was upset and asked us to refund her money. We had spent so much preparing this order. We even borrowed 1M from someone else to carry out the work. What it would cost us to refund her money was up to 800k. There was no way we could refund her.

My wife begged and begged. She threatened to get police involved but asked me to come and see her. I suspected she wanted to make a move at me. My wife and I discussed it. My wife was like, I should go and play along but make sure it does not result in having s3x with her.

I met madam Uche at her office, she gave me drinks and weed to smoke. She made sure I......


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Hello.....,

I am heartbroken and in serious pain. I do not know what t do. I am ashamed to tell anyone my problem because it is just too early in my marriage to be dealing with this kind of issue. I am 26 years old, yesterday made it six weeks since I got married to someone I believed was God’s sent to me.

Akin (not real name) is my husband whom I dated for 2 years before we got married in January of this year. I have always known Akin to be s3xually active. When we first started to date, he told me that. Akin is a very nice man, God fearing and prayerful. He treats me like a queen in short.

However, when it comes to s3x, he told me he loves s3x alot and it was really difficult for him not to have s3x with me even though, I lived far from him. I was in Abeokuta, while he was in Lagos. So, every weekend, he would come visiting and the s3x was very plenty whenever he came.

Akin used to say he cannot wait to get married so we can be having s3x everyday. I would then laugh and say don’t kill me with s3x o. A few months to our wedding, I got a job in Lagos, in a private Clinic. I am a nurse. When I moved to Lagos, I noticed that Akin’s neighbor is quite friendly to him and they also welcomed me as Akin’s incoming wife.

This neighbor is a businessman who has shops that he runs with his wife and his and his wife’s siblings. So, There are 3 siblings living with them. Two young guys and one girl of about 21 years. The girl is the wife’s sister. They come to Akin’s flat and Akin goes to their flat too to eat and play and just be friendly neighbors.

When we finally got married, I discovered Akin was......

https://livelystones.ng/2022/03/03/true-life-story-our-marriage-is-just-six-weeks-but-i-can-no-longer-manage-my-husbands-constant-erection/

Lets even agree we fake the stories, which one have you written miss perfect? Good at criticizing others. Keep it up babe, your award waiting for you

doggedfighter:



Definitely not your kind with a flair for writing nonsensical stories that never happened

If you are truly a lady. Wonder who will marry you!

doggedfighter:

jojo23, you are mad.

Hello.....,

I need your help. I think I have a spiritual problem after reading that man's story about how he tried to break up with his girlfriend after sleeping with her but he failed.(Click here for that story).

My problem started last December when I travelled to Edo state my home town for the celebration of my house completion and opening.

By the grace of God, I was able to finish the completion of my house project in my home town after Is started building it seven years ago.

December was the grand opening but my wife could not travel with me because she travelled to the US for her mother’s 70th birthday celebration which her entire family was also attending from every part of the world.

So, it was me and my siblings that did the celebration back home. Everyone came and we were having a good time. My ex girlfriend texted me saying she heard I was in town, she congratulated me on the successful completion of the house project. I know she intentionally did that because she wanted me to feel bad. That is because, the land I built that house on, she supported me with 120k to buy the land about 11 years ago.

Then she was my girlfriend. The land cost about 650k and I had only like 450k. She gave me 120k and I raised the remaining from a loan. So, I really felt somehow that I was celebrating the house and we are not together. So, I called her, we chatted. I found out she...

https://livelystones.ng/2022/03/05/true-life-story-i-went-to-apologize-to-my-ex-girlfriend-but-ended-up-loosing-my-erection/

Good day,

Please I have these issues bothering me and feel if its enough to cause a bother, I should seek help. Its about my husband. He got into a building project that has gotten him into a lot of debts. We presently stay in a house bequeathed to me by my Father (late) , I am so grateful that my Father did that for me and also got me a good job before he departed this world.


I try to see to the maintenance of the building and also encourage him to but after sometime we both agreed we would leave (I understand its not easy for a man to do this and I am sincerely grateful he agreed we live there for these 6 years, at least we don't bother about house rent  in this expensive rent  city we live) , we agreed to find a land and build a house of our own in our names. It has been a prayer point and I went as far as......

https://livelystones.ng/2022/03/01/true-life-story-where-did-i-go-wrong-to-receive-such-abuse-in-my-marriage/

Hi........,

Where do I even begin from. I am going through alot in my marriage. I need your help and counsel. My name is Mary (not real name). I am 37 years old, married with two children. My husband and I have been married for six years now. When we first got married, things were very rough for us. I had an Admin job that paid barely 55k per month.

My husband worked as a marketer and his earning was largely based on commission. During my maternity leave for my second child, I got introduced to forex trading and other forms of making money online. I focused on the training and after a year, I began to make money from forex trading.

Within a year, I was making money in millions. Fortune smiled on us. Our life began to change for good. I was making real money. We moved into a bigger apartment. I invested some money too into some property and Agriculture. I am a very industrious woman, my mother was an entrepreneur back in the day. I was not going to remain poor eve though I married poor.



It got to a point that we were making profit of nothing less than 2M in a month. I called my husband, I told him to stop working and go back to finish his master since I was making more than enough for us to live by. I wanted him to get his masters and also help watch the children while I work and also trade forex.

My husband agreed. It was a good plan, he was happy having enough to read for his masters and take care of the children since we didn’t want a house help anymore. All was going well until the problems started. That was two years after. I just realized that my husband seemed to be getting lazier by the day. He would.....

https://livelystones.ng/2022/02/25/true-life-story-my-husband-is-obese-lazy-in-the-bedroom-pls-advise/

Critics are people with low self esteem with a poor mindset. They dont add value always finding fault with solutions

immortalcrown:
Bloggers using fiction to grow traffic.

My name is Naomi. Of course its not my real name. I am 27 years old and I am a s3x and relationship therapist. I found out about Lively Stones recently and I wanted to collaborate because I think your readers would love to read my stories.

I did not set out to be a therapist but two years ago, I had a life changing experience that made me become a relationship therapist. And yes, I am single. So, how did it happen? Hahaha…I will tell you.

Years ago, I was married, yes married to the love of my life…we were inseparable….it was young love and we both were thriving in our careers. I was a social media influencer, he was into IT media and entertainment.

We were so in love but so young and foolish. The attention from other s3x was also insane. My husband was getting immense pressure from girls left and right and me too, I was getting the same. We both found it hard to stay faithful so we decided to see a relationship therapist.

Dr. Mooshood was highly recommended. We signed up to his therapy sessions. Its a long story but the therapy helped us realize that we got married too young and we were both choking each other and not allowing each other to grow and attain our highest potentials. We had to break up even though it was hard.

When we divorced, I was 22 and my ex was 22 too. I was still visiting Dr. Moshood for therapy post divorce and we both f*cked one time when things became too real, vulnerable and steamy. Dr. M was devastated. He had never slept with a patient before. He was sorry but I was not. I loved it…it was erotic to sleep with my doctor. (One day, I will tell you how me and Dr. M started our relationship and how he inspired me to become a therapist).

From then, I wanted to be a therapist…lol…I took an online course and became a certified s3x therapist a year later. Well, I discovered what I wanted to do in life. I wanted to help couples live their best life. I have alot of experience from my failed marriage and relationship with my therapist.

So, today, I meet alot of people and they cannot believe that a s3xy 27 year old single girl is a relationship therapist. I have been doing this for two years alongside my influencer job and this is really fun for me. Its like a hobby for me, so don’t get too serious with me. I get to meet alot of interesting people. I solve couples s3xual issues and sometimes, my clients hit on me sometimes.

One time, a couple wanted to have a party with me….lol….don’t mind me. I am very professional but I also love having fun. I want to share some of my fun experiences with Lively Stones readers. The idea is to show case the funny part of going through the experience of relationship therapy.


I will not be revealing the identities of the characters, I just want you to read and laugh and maybe learn a thing or two from my experience which I guarantee you is more interesting that big brother naija….lolzzzzz.

Maybe one day, I will write a book or even a movie from my experience but for now, settle in, once or twice a week, I will bring you fun and spicy stories from my therapy sessions. Some content may be real or fiction. I just love to write and really have fun. I hope you will enjoy and interact with my content and give me your honest feedback.

Omo, holier than thou readers,…you too are welcome but do not be too quick to condemn o..cos its gonna be sesssssssyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and spicyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. And you cant tell if its real or fiction but you will learn a thing or two or not…but iyalaya anybody is free to express themselves with my content ok?

Now, help me spread the word that a crazy girl has come to Lively Stones and she is about to share some crazy tales that will keep you either laughing or learning or cursing or whatever. hahahaha.

Ladies and gents….this is strictly 18+ and with this I say….welcome to Naomi’s diary, the adventures of a fun loving therapist.

Love,

Naomi.

https://livelystones.ng/2022/02/24/true-life-story-introducing-naomis-dairy-the-adventures-of-a-fun-loving-therapist/

I'm deeply hurt and I need your pieces of advise.

I'm a military officer on peace-keeping mission so I have been away from the country for some months now.

There is this lady I'm in a relationship with since December 2019 and she is an ACTIVE MEMBER of this group which she gives advice to people who try to bring their problems here for advice. i must confess I met her on one of our escort duties with my junior rank officers in a town in the volta region(I'm also a voltarian) so we started from there.

Before I left the country some months ago, we plan to settle down this year wen I return so i allow her to take monies from my bank account to start buying the necessary things for herself for the engagement and wedding.
Last week, I asked her to withdraw some money and buy a new TV for my mum becos she complained that her tv is spoilt. My GF sent the tv to her and then my old lady noticed my GF is pregnant.so she sat her down and asked her and she....


https://livelystones.ng/2022/02/17/true-story-the-woman-i-want-to-marry-this-year-is-already-pregnant-and-my-mom-discovered-it/

Hi guys,

I need your readers objective advice on this. I want to know if I am being objective or paranoid. I met Vera (not real name) and we have been dating since 2019. Vera is a nice girl gorgeous and smart.

I was surprised she was a virgin and I would love to marry her except for the reasons I am about to explain.

Everything is fine with our relationship except that Vera is living in an unreal romantic world. She is constantly expecting some 'romantic' things from me and I am trying my best but it never seems like my best is good enough for her.

I know women love romance but that is why most of them are gullible and fall into the hands of the wrong guy.

From the time we met, I have never pretended to be who I am not. I am not a mushy person. I love you does not mean I have to do only the things that you like.

Yes, she likes romantic dates, flowers and all that sh*t. I am someone who believes in....



https://livelystones.ng/2022/02/16/true-story-my-girlfriend-broke-up-with-me-because-i-didnt-propose-on-valentines-day/

Hi....,

Please keep my identity private. I am very upset with my wife and her sister who live with us.

My wife and I have been married for three years now. We have a son who is almost two years now. My wife's younger sister came to stay with us while awaiting her youth service and also help us look after our son cos we both work on the Island.

My wife's sister is engaged, her husband to be, is my childhood friend, based in Europe. He was around last December for a visit and marriage introductions. They are planning to marry after her service year and she will join him in Europe.

When we moved into apartment last year, I noticed the neighbor in the other flat is a single guy who lives a flashy lifestyle. From what I suspect, he is a yahoo boy. He has three cars in the compound: Benz, Lexus and Range.

I never talk to him except if we...

https://livelystones.ng/2022/02/15/true-story-how-my-wife-sister-in-law-befriended-a-yahoo-boy-because-of-valentine/

Hello,

This is a huge confession for me, I pray no one recognizes me from this but I have to confess what I did because I feel like, it has come back to haunt me and I am about to loose my mind.

I am a 45 year old woman, married for 19 years. My marriage has not been without challenges, in fact, there has been many challenges. I had a mid life crises last year and it resulted in a short fling with a young employee.

About five years ago, I decided to turn my life around because my children were now grown, my husband no longer finds me attractive because I was fat from having children and I was a full time house wife for 10 years.

So, I trained and opened a beauty Centre (hair styling, make up, body cream,nails,unis3x barbing salon and a gym). My business was very successful under 2 years.

Then I decided to get my body done. I had a BBL and tummy tuck. My body became banging. I became very attractive and my self confidence was restored.

To keep in shapes, I worked out alot in the gym. Being desired again...


https://livelystones.ng/2022/02/12/true-story-i-ended-a-short-fling-with-my-employee-but-he-is-still-trying-to-seduce-me/