I will love to see a tented female pop star that just perform without dressing half naked. They don't have talent so they have to dress like stripper

Seek God first and all other things will be added

shizzle11: For you to offer to pay for the dinner you both had, that speaks well of you. Your type may not necessarily be a burden or a parasite, we don't get to see such gestures so often, very very rare.

Well for the guy, he is just trying to form Mr nice and caring guy. You know when you're in the early stages of a r/ ship, as a guy, you'll like to impress the girl and make her feel loved. But that was unnecessary, since you offered to pay, he should have just it be.

But again, he may have though that you were trying to 'test' him to see what his reaction would be cos some girls are known to always come up with some really crazy and silly tactics.

Exactly, I felt bad because he always paid when we go out. He should have simply accepted the offer , but he went on about the amt of money he made which was unnecessary . Money does not impress me, character us very important to me.

Men are dogs, they will sleep with these hookers why they have their beautiful wives at hone.

There is this guy that likes me , and I had lunch with him three times ,so we had dinner last week ,and I offer to paid for the meal because I don't feel comfortable with him always paying . It was like I insulted the guy , he said why did i spoil good time we were having by offering to pay. He gave a list for all the reason why he should pay . He said its was biblical that he pays because he made more money than me, He asked me out so he should pay, he the guy... I was upset & shocked by his actions. He apologized and said that he knows I meant well , but he will pay the bill because he is the guy , and he did. What are your opinions on this guy ? Huge ego ? Who should pay for dinner on a date?

Prob fake like usual, they are a lovely couple. she have been with him since she was 18 and he is older than her 12 years.

Ladies , Base on your experience with African guys. Which African Country would you say have the best boyfriends /husband material ,and which countries have the worst Boyfriends/ husbands?

They are so similar , they look alike and have similar accent ,yet both countries can't get along.

Leave him , fast. Did you not see the warning sign before you marry him?

uj_sizzle: If you're going to give him a chance then you need to open your heart to him and you'll eventually grow to love him. Don't go into a relationship out of pity, or simply because he's a christian..you'll have to find other qualities he posesses too.
Physical attraction may fail over time, Flamimg passion may soon burn out, but a relationship based first on respect and love which grows over time lasts a long while.
I like the sound of this man and you two are already good friends, so if you think you can build something concrete with him then by all means do so.
If you can't then please hurt his feelings today and save him misery tomorrow.

Thanks for your advise, he possess great qualities besides being a Christian that are important to me.

Acidosis: Ladies and their qualities...


Which one is "highly educated" again?

Is he a Profesor?

no, he is a physician.

She can do so much better than Jim. What happen to the soccer star she was dating?

Go and work for you own money, and stop depending on men for money.

I don't know if you are in the US or Africa but I say put restraining order on the guy so he can leave u alone. Africa , tell your family , mom , Dad, big brother or uncle so they can deal with him.

some of them are nice and they love Afircan culture.

Brains, eyes and Smile. I love intelligent guys and of course a gorgeous eyes and million dollar smile.

Ladies, Can you date or marry an African American guy ? What will your parents say? I asked the questions because for some reason AA guys like me ,which is wired cause their women say they can't find good black man.I can't date an AA guy because I want to be with a guy who share my culture and values.Another reason why i can't date AA men is because they are not leaders of their homes, providers, suppoters, family oriented and they lack ambition unlike African men. It is hard to be with a guy who is not from your culture,a few of my cousins are married to AA guys. My one cousin husband is so nice ,humble he loves African culture, music, movies ,and he even know how to cook African food.He can't wait to visit Africa.I always compliment him and tease her that she trained him well. My parents have already warned me not to bring AA home. LOL

WOW, why can't these gals be happy with their beautiful chocolate skin. They look horrible just like Nickii Manaji . African gals have being brainwash.

So cute, natural beauty.

Trust ,how honest is the guy. Guys will tell you anything ,so we have to be careful. I have to know the person first before i decide to date them.

Good for you girl,can't stand agrrogant guys. If you do decide to see him again which u should not let him take you shopping and spend his money .

I can't date a non Christian guy,
A lazy guy, mama boy , unemployed ,
A rude,abuser, smoke,play video game, not intelligent , bad teeth,
no sense of humor,proud , dirty , controling ,arrogant,liar.....

She looks great with any hair ,my fav is the brown hair and the short cut.

I think that it is indeed harder for a man and woman to find a good Godly christian partner in today society were immorality, lack of values and living in sin is the new normal.

WOW, African actors now are getting very hollywood. Getting divorce after being married for few years, hooking up with co-worker

Why are some christian guys so afraid to approach a woman?

Most of the guys in my church are so shy and quiet, they are so afraid to talk to women,and they give all of the signs that they like a girl, but they lack the confidence to come up to her and talk to her.

On the other hand , guys who are not in church have confidence an Swag. They don't care about rejection if they like a girl they will come up to her and talk to her. Guys why do you do this and Ladies have you experience this in the church ?

Why are guys so afraid of friend zone. I think teh best way to start a relationship is through friendship, you get to form a bond with that person which is so important in a relationship.

mondi_cheeks: Maybe its her eloquence of mind that make her attractive

yes ,she is intelligent and sophisticated. I keep telling her that girls are dying to be with professional guys and she should give these guys a chance.