Nuzo':
“Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.” - Oscar Wilde

Nuzo':
“Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.” - Oscar Wilde

Br3nd4: so like ure gäy or sumfin

alaric saltzman:
She's really a rare gf...some gals, mayb cos of fear of mistaking intent or pride don't ask what guys want frm them...she ends up friendzonin d guy whereas d guy cos of fear of rejection loves d gal but can't ask 4 anyfin more and ends up comin 2 NL 2 seek 4 advice...I believe communication matas btw the pple involved...
Now...does ur rare gf av any rare female friends??

ypzilanti:

You are welcome. The knowledge did not come easy. Every man that knows anything about women knows that getting stuck in 'friendzone' is the worst thing that can happen to a man who is looking for an intimate relationship with a woman. What men do not understand is that once you are stuck in 'friendzone' the woman can't even imagine being nakkked around you. The thought of kissing you is like 'eeewww'. It's like kissing her brother.

Ask yourself: can you genuinely be REAL friends with a woman that you are plotting to sleep with or date? Is the definition of friendship not honesty? I have many female friends and I am not interested in dating any of them. Those that i intend to date, I tell early and get accepted or screened out early enough. True friendship comes naturally without either party hoping for anything other than the others company. If a friendship starts naturally and develops to something else, then it's ok. But you do not go into a 'friendship' with the baggage of hoping to fulfill dating ambitions. Its a recipe for disaster. You will sit there listening to her relationship issues with other guys. In fact you may be there for years as other guys come and go while you are the shoulder that is cried on. Good luck with that. Many guys found themselves in this 'friendzone' unknowingly. Do not EVER walk into that zone with eyes open. It can be a slow death.

Solozzo:

Perhaps that's what she wanted from you too! She may not recognize you today.

prettydiva: i have this friend and hes been in the friend zone for 5 yrs now, i have given in every green light for us to take it to the next level and hes not catching it , don't know how to go about it and encourage him its okay to go to the next level

prettydiva: i have this friend and hes been in the friend zone for 5 yrs now, i have given in every green light for us to take it to the next level and hes not catching it , don't know how to go about it and encourage him its okay to go to the next level

prettydiva: i have this friend and he's been in the friend zone for 5 yrs now, i have given him every green light for us to take it to the next level and he's not catching it , don't know how to go about it and encourage him its okay to go to the next level

prettydiva: i have this friend and hes been in the friend zone for 5 yrs now, i have given in every green light for us to take it to the next level and hes not catching it , don't know how to go about it and encourage him its okay to go to the next level

prettydiva: i have this friend and hes been in the friend zone for 5 yrs now, i have given in every green light for us to take it to the next level and hes not catching it , don't know how to go about it and encourage him its okay to go to the next level

ypzilanti:

Hate to burst your bubble, but the guy is probably not interested. Most men need only very little encouragement to make a move.

But to satisfy your curiosity and lay the matter to rest, have a good female friend pick his brain and psych him up that you like him. Let's see his reaction then. She should say something like :'you two are such good friend...I think both of you should date'. Then she should scold him and ask him why he has not asked you out. In fact, she should embarrass him and say it right there in front of you both. An older and less attractive woman than you, that won't go at the back and bleep him in the process... cause some girls eye dey chook,oh! When you do this, come back to nairaland and tell us what happened.

ypzilanti:

Hate to burst your bubble, but the guy is probably not interested. Most men need only very little encouragement to make a move.

But to satisfy your curiosity and lay the matter to rest, have a good female friend pick his brain and psych him up that you like him. Let's see his reaction then. She should say something like :'you two are such good friend...I think both of you should date'. Then she should scold him and ask him why he has not asked you out. In fact, she should embarrass him and say it right there in front of you both. An older and less attractive woman than you, that won't go at the back and bleep him in the process... cause some girls eye dey chook,oh! When you do this, come back to nairaland and tell us what happened.

donroxy: So many dudes have lost their dream girl cuz of Friendship zone ......


Romance = Love and Friendship

while Friendship and love may not equals Romance .........!!!

Therefore, if u wanto engage in romantic relationship with a gal, u berra declare urself from onset before other dudes carry ur dreamGirl away @ ur watch........!!!

Walexz02: What type of silly friendship are you guyz talking about? You want to lay a gurl and you wanna start with friendship? I guess you ain't gonna tell a gurl you meet 2day that you love her?
Its simple, know her,her name, get her number and say what is in you mind asap! Or else na friendship things o. I dnt knw of other guyz here, but I sometimes meet new ladies just for friendship and I will let them knw that its friendshp o. Fakat!

alaric saltzman:
She's really a rare gf...some gals, mayb cos of fear of mistaking intent or pride don't ask what guys want frm them...she ends up friendzonin d guy whereas d guy cos of fear of rejection loves d gal but can't ask 4 anyfin more and ends up comin 2 NL 2 seek 4 advice...I believe communication matas btw the pple involved...
Now...does ur rare gf av any rare female friends??

DSB:


hahaha...this kind of gurls come once in a blue moon. I am definitely taking her to the altar. Concerning your request, all her rare friends are taken sorry meeehhhn

Kgdavid: its a big mistake to declare your intentions from them start. in fact its a mistake to have intentions from the start... you should merely be trying to know each other at that stage and to achieve some level of friendship. the key is being able to recognize when the "handshake has passed the elbow". its almost impossible to smoothly progress to a stable long term relationship when you declare your intentions from the start. why? cuz the girl will naturally develop inhibitions towards you and the forming and all that formal process sets it and even if she likes yu too and says yes immediately the relationship is likely to crash cuz its built on no foundation at all...however when you get to know each other and develop a liking for each other(liking has nothing to do with attraction or passion) you can then declare your intention to take it further. another mistake is allowing liking to develop into fondness. so yur best bet is to make haste slowly... be patient until the time is right and then strike with all the expediency of lightening.